I Think I Like You

By Clara Artschwager

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A counterintuitive approach to navigating dating and building relationships in the digital age. This is for the woman who feels disenchanted by more common dating rhetoric and sometimes even questions if she wants a relationship at all. She already lives a rich, full life. She would like to share that with someone, but not at the expense of herself. What gives? That’s where we’re digging in.

Episode Date
We're Going on Summer Break (But I've Got You Covered)
Jul 01, 2026
The High-Achiever's Paradox: Self-Aware But Still Single
Jun 24, 2026
How to Meet People in Person When You’re Terrified to Meet People in Person
Jun 17, 2026
Why You Can't Meet People In Person (It's Not What You Think) | Ep 170
Jun 03, 2026
Your Permission Slip to Stop Dating (And What to Do Instead) | Ep 169
May 27, 2026
Choose your partner based on their flaws, not the qualities you love about them and so much more with Kerry Docherty | Ep 168
May 20, 2026
On life coming into bloom post-divorce with Melisa Russo | Ep 167
May 06, 2026
And one day, her husband just left (at the start of the pandemic). On Belle Burden's memoir "Strangers" | Ep 166
Apr 29, 2026
When you wanted kids — and the time passed. On life now, as a woman. | Ep 165
Apr 22, 2026
The friend zone isn't where someone put you. It's where you put yourself — and there's a very good reason why. | Ep 164
Apr 08, 2026
Oooooh ok this is how you ACTUALLY surrender, even when you still want something | Ep 163
Apr 01, 2026
On bringing back the genuine fun, whimsy and romance of dating (seriously) | Ep 162
Mar 25, 2026
I love my friends, but I’m also jealous that they’re married and have kids | Ep 161
Mar 18, 2026
When Everything Starts to Feel Like It Doesn’t Fit (and what to do about it) | Ep 160
Mar 05, 2026
The most capable woman in the room is often the loneliest, whether she's single or in a relationship | Ep 159
Feb 25, 2026
When your marriage starts to shift in your early 40s | Ep 158
Feb 19, 2026
On the ups and downs of dating, and now, a new, blooming relationship post-major breakup | Ep 157
Feb 11, 2026
On choosing your hard in life, the power of your ability to tolerate uncertainty and more with Megan Hellerer | Ep 156
Feb 04, 2026
On the comfort of being single (a fresh take) | Ep 155
Jan 28, 2026
How social media has bastardized the meaning of "blocks," a whole new way to look at codependency, and more with Bea Victoria Albina | Ep 154
Jan 21, 2026
On falling for colleagues and bosses who make us feel really 'seen.' | Ep 153
Jan 14, 2026
Here's what 2026 is asking of you with psychological astrologer Dani Beinstein | Ep 152
Jan 07, 2026
Two things I wish I'd done when past relationships, situation-ships, and flings came to an end | Ep 151
Dec 17, 2025
A former client of mine has a baby on her own, by choice, but still plans to "find love on her timeline." Here's her story. | Ep 150
Dec 10, 2025
Let your (dating) life hurt. Like really, really hurt.| Ep 149
Dec 03, 2025
How to mine your past or current (I do this in my marriage!) relationships for limiting patterns | Ep 148
Nov 26, 2025
The thing(s) we miss when we're stuck in feelings of "I'm behind..." | Ep 147
Nov 21, 2025
How taking everything on at work, ignoring the dissatisfaction in your job, and just going through the motions of life influences the quality of your relationships | Ep 146
Nov 19, 2025
On men being intimidated by your $$ career $$ and clients who make more money than their partners | Ep 145
Nov 05, 2025
Letting people go, pausing dating apps, saying 'no' — all ways of actually bringing *more* momentum to your pursuit of partnership | Ep 144
Oct 29, 2025
3 ways overachievers can remain chronically single or struggling in relationships | Ep 143
Oct 22, 2025
Preparing for a relationship is not about knowing what you want and need. Here's what is. | Ep 142
Oct 15, 2025
On going down ex boyfriend rabbit holes. And should I reach out? | Ep 141
Oct 09, 2025
Ep 140 | How I would meet someone if I were single, right now, at nearly 40, that I know would absolutely work.
Oct 01, 2025
2 on the surface helpful ways we can bypass the truth of our (romantic) lives | Ep 139
Sep 10, 2025
On being chronically single | Ep 138
Sep 03, 2025
Ep 137 | This is what healthy dating actually looks like (Pssst we're back!)
Aug 27, 2025
The practitioner that healed my gut, but really, changed the trajectory of my life | Ep 135
May 12, 2025
How to know when it's time to take a break...from dating, hanging with a certain friend, or running a podcast | Ep 136
May 12, 2025
The exact advice you need when you're tired, frustrated and feel like nothing is advancing in your life | Ep 134
Apr 15, 2025
An argument for swiping left more. Yes, more. | Ep 133
Apr 08, 2025
The season in life where I thought "Maybe I just don't want a relationship" | Ep 132
Feb 25, 2025
This is where the feeling "I'm never going to meet someone" comes from | Ep 131
Feb 18, 2025
If you want something new (the new job, the new partner), you're going to have to let something go| Ep 130
Feb 11, 2025
This might be my go to marriage + dating advice for all of 2025 | Ep 129
Feb 04, 2025
I've been in therapy for years but I'm still single. What gives? | Ep 128
Jan 28, 2025
Why you don't need to (and shouldn't) go on a million dates to meet someone in 2025 | Ep 127
Jan 21, 2025
Embracing a slow start to 2025 and my first few weeks as a mom | Ep 126
Jan 14, 2025
Why is sex with the people who are so wrong for us so good w/ therapist, Julia Zwerin | Ep 125
Nov 21, 2024
How overachievers shoot themselves in the foot with their careers, and what we can do about it | Ep 124
Oct 25, 2024
*Podcast Update* What's coming, where I've been, new courses, my maternity leave, etc.
Oct 14, 2024
How do we sit with the desire for a relationship while also not knowing when it will happen? | Ep 123
Sep 20, 2024
We don't necessarily need our partners to come fully therapized, our confusion around settling, and the emotional labor necessary for us all in relationships w/ Kara Loewentheil | Ep 122
Sep 13, 2024
Do you believe yourself to be desirable? Do you expect to be asked out? A sneaky way you could be self sabotaging your dating life | Ep 121
Aug 23, 2024
Part III: How our drive to be good, to be high achievers, to put other people's needs before our own keeps us single or stuck in unhealthy relationships | Ep 120
Aug 16, 2024
Part II: Why eldest daughters/hero children can remain chronically single or just have so much resistance to dating | Ep 119
Aug 09, 2024
Why do women who don’t do the work, who are are just as messed up as the rest of us, find great people? Why does it just never happen for me?
Aug 05, 2024
Part I: How Eldest Daughters/Hero Children Struggle in Relationships | Ep 118
Aug 02, 2024
Go ahead, be hopeless. You don't need hope for your dating life.
Jul 31, 2024
How do we know if we're settling? How did I know my husband was the one? Should I do a prenup? And more in this Q+A Episode |Ep 117
Jul 26, 2024
My ultimate goal with clients isn't marriage | Ep 116
Jul 12, 2024
Dealing with MONEY in relationships | Ep 115
Jul 04, 2024
On Making, Maintaining and Letting Go Of Friends In Our 30s and 40s | Ep 114
Jun 28, 2024
On trusting the (divine) timing of our lives + What's behind *feeling* behind | Ep 113
Jun 24, 2024
The career conversation I'm having with all my 38ish friends | Ep 112
Jun 12, 2024
On being resistant to ease in your dating life — and life in general | Ep 111
Jun 06, 2024
You're going to have to f*ck up a lot in your dating + relationship life | Ep 110
May 30, 2024
How much is enough? In life, money, career, love, etc. w/ Catherine Zack | Ep 109
May 24, 2024
A Transparent Look at My Journey Into Pregnancy (1st Trimester) | Ep 108
May 22, 2024
On being the girl who never got asked out and *now* desiring a relationship | Ep 107
May 14, 2024
When You Just Need to Put Everything Down | Ep 106
May 10, 2024
How did you know you wanted to marry your husband? (Slash how I called in my husband) | Ep 105
Apr 23, 2024
When you're not getting any matches on dating apps | Ep 104
Apr 16, 2024
What do I do when I like someone and I'm not sure if they like me back? | Ep 103
Apr 09, 2024
How making a list of all the things you want in a partner is working against you, not for you | Ep 102
Apr 02, 2024
Why we need to rethink our attachment styles (especially if we're anxious) | Ep 101
Mar 26, 2024
My fertility journey is feeling like my dating journey — wildly unpredictable | Ep 100
Mar 19, 2024
What are the "best" places to meet people? | Ep 99
Mar 12, 2024
What if my job/ travel schedule/lifestyle makes it *impossible* to date? | Ep 98
Mar 05, 2024
The over-therapized nature of social media + how it’s effing with our expectations of life and relationships | Ep 97
Feb 27, 2024
"I don't want to waste time dating" --> How that goal is working against you | Ep 96
Feb 20, 2024
On feeling like you're in a dating coma and wishing for a jumpstart | Ep 95
Feb 13, 2024
I think this is such a cool thing to put in your dating profile. | Ep 94
Feb 09, 2024
A way to approach dating when you feel like you're never doing "enough." | Ep 93
Feb 06, 2024
What to do with all the feelings of, "I'm behind in life. I'm never going to meet someone." And so forth. | Ep 92
Jan 30, 2024
Dani Beinstein is back with thoughts on the state of the world + what's coming with 2024 | Ep 91
Jan 26, 2024
My husband and I talk about our exes all the time, and here's why | Ep 90
Jan 16, 2024
The 3 concepts that are guiding my work, my marriage, and my overall life in 2024 | Ep 89
Jan 08, 2024
Should I stop dating this person? How do I know? (Plus a SUPER exciting announcement!) | Ep 88
Dec 12, 2023
2 clients recently entered relationships — here's what they did that did NOT involve dating that made all the difference | Ep 87
Dec 05, 2023
I'm finally ready to talk about my wedding | Ep 86
Nov 28, 2023
The holidays are effing hard, a casual chat w/ my husband James | Ep 85
Nov 19, 2023
Why is friendship so hard + weird right now? | Ep 84
Nov 15, 2023
On the fear of driving someone away by saying how you feel | Ep 83
Nov 09, 2023
The importance of rupture and repair — a client's story on how they broke up and did the necessary work to get back together| Ep 82
Nov 03, 2023
Why it's so damn hard to build confidence + self trust in dating, relationships + sex (and how we actually go about doing it) | Ep 81
Nov 01, 2023
On not getting asked to the dance + how it's showing up in your love life now | Ep 80
Oct 20, 2023
This is how I coach my clients to use the dating apps + what does and doesn't matter | Ep 79
Oct 10, 2023
It’s not your fault. It’s nearly impossible to leave a situation-ship. | Ep 78
Oct 03, 2023
On stepping into marriage and motherhood in your 40s | Ep 77
Sep 26, 2023
Most dating advice is doing a bang up job of making us feel like we're not doing enough | Ep 76
Sep 04, 2023
My husband and I chat about our childhoods, how those experiences show up in our marriage now, and how we navigate the differences | Ep 75
Sep 04, 2023
*Fall Teaser* Here's what's coming in Sept! 🍁🍁🍁
Sep 01, 2023
When you *know* there's something standing in the way of your growth but you can't put your finger on it | Ep 74
Aug 16, 2023
Kris Wylder on Navigating Relationships + Motherhood Not Looking Like What You Thought It Would | Ep 73
Aug 09, 2023
4 Common Pitfalls in Dating Where I See People Getting Stuck | Ep 72
Aug 03, 2023
The unique struggles overachievers face in dating + relationships | Ep 71
Jul 25, 2023
The practice that is *actually* helping w/ my sex life (and so much more) w/ Ishtara Founder, Tracy Harward | Ep 70
Jul 18, 2023
Nancy Levin drops the knowledge on relationships for overachievers | Ep 69
Jul 12, 2023
A dating Q+A w/ Amy Nobile | Ep 68
Jul 04, 2023
Everyone is IN it and here's the deal w/ Psychological Astrologer Dani Beinstein | Episode 67
Jun 28, 2023
3 clients who have found flow in their dating lives | Episode 66
Jun 20, 2023
Episode 65: Should I settle for this? How do I know?
Jun 14, 2023
Episode 64: How to meet met who actually want to commit.
Jun 06, 2023
Episode 63: How I drastically mitigated my anxious attachment style.
May 30, 2023
Episode 62: On the crushes we just can't quit.
May 24, 2023
Episode 61 (Bonus!) *Special Announcement*
May 21, 2023
Episode 60: What your adolescent + teen identity have to do with your dating + relationship life NOW.
May 16, 2023
Episode 59: How social stalking is hurting more than helping (and what your tendencies say about YOU).
May 12, 2023
Episode 58: What our mom's careers have to do with our dating lives.
Apr 30, 2023
Episode: 57: On letting go of the ones who can't give you all you need.
Apr 25, 2023
Episode 56: I Never Had a Honeymoon Phase & Busting Other Myths About Marriage
Apr 18, 2023
Episode 55: My journey with emotionally unavailable men.
Apr 11, 2023
Episode 54: Dani Beinstein on what we desire versus what we actually need.
Apr 04, 2023
Episode 53: How achievement does not lead to fulfillment and so much more w/ Megan Hellerer
Mar 28, 2023
Episode 52: Three of the most consistent practices I use with my clients + myself.
Mar 21, 2023
Episode 51: When you feel utterly and completely stuck (3 things to do)
Mar 14, 2023
Episode 50: What a real sexual journey looks like (opening up about mine).
Feb 28, 2023
Episode 49: We all just want to meet the one person that will deliver us from our shame and pain.
Feb 21, 2023
Episode 48: What's the difference between coaching and therapy? How do we feel about matchmakers? And more.
Feb 14, 2023
Episode 47: How your relationship with your job impacts the state of your romantic life.
Feb 05, 2023
Sunday Stories II: Dating Without Texting is the Absolute Best
Feb 05, 2023
Episode 46: How alignment in career connects to depth of partnership, and confronting the ongoing stress of a long term relationship w/ Catherine Zack
Jan 31, 2023
Episode 45: Your marriage and the Enneagram (among other things...)
Jan 24, 2023
Sunday Stories: Volume I
Jan 22, 2023
Episode 44: A deeper dive on life timelines— what's at the root of feeling "behind."
Jan 17, 2023
Episode 43: On healing from cheating and coming home to ourselves.
Jan 10, 2023
Episode 42: If I were starting the year single, here's the approach I would take.
Jan 03, 2023
Episode 41: A look back at 2022 and a look into 2023 with psychological astrologer Sofia Adler.
Dec 27, 2022
Episode 40: When you feel like you've "done all the work," and the relationship still hasn't happened.
Dec 20, 2022
Episode 39: The correlation between love, money and receiving (w/ my personal coach!)
Dec 13, 2022
Episode 38: If you moved to another place, would is be easier to meet someone?
Dec 09, 2022
Episode 37: When, deep down, you don't believe a relationship is ever going to happen for you.
Dec 06, 2022
Episode 36: A quick thought on ghosting (i.e. what do when someone does it)
Dec 04, 2022
Episode 35: The holidays are hard as sh*t. Let's talk about that.
Dec 02, 2022
Episode 34: On dating intuitively (but for real).
Nov 22, 2022
Episode 33: How Googling when to text back or polling our friends around whether or not we should entertain a second date is doing more harm than good.
Nov 15, 2022
Episode 32: Jealousy towards ex-partners, anxious attachment style, the core issue around common dating advice, and more.
Nov 08, 2022
Episode 31: On meeting in your 30s vs your 20s. Is it *that* different?
Nov 01, 2022
Episode 30: The breakup that isn't a breakup. When they just ghost.
Oct 11, 2022
Episode 29: On the tendency to mute ourselves when we're around someone we like.
Oct 04, 2022
Episode 28: On being the martyr in my own relationship.
Sep 27, 2022
Episode 27: What does your gut imbalance have to do with the state of your relationships?
Sep 23, 2022
Episode 26: What if he says he's not sure about kids?
Sep 20, 2022
Episode 25: On falling in love with women when you've historically only been with men.
Sep 16, 2022
Episode 24: It's comfortable being single. Is dating worth disrupting my life?
Sep 13, 2022
A psychological astrologer on the purpose of our relationships.
Sep 05, 2022
Episode 22: How to survive the grey area of dating.
Aug 23, 2022
Episode 21: An exercise for getting back into alignment with yourself and your work.
Aug 19, 2022
Episode 20: A get to know you with my fiancé James + the story of how we met.
Aug 16, 2022
Episode 19. Why we *think* dating is a number's game—but why it actually ISN'T.
Aug 09, 2022
Episode 18: Am I *actually* feeling this in my gut? Or is this just old conditioning?
Aug 02, 2022
Episode 17: On our obsession with healing.
Jul 27, 2022
Episode 16: What I'm Working on Within Myself + Wedding Planning Conundrums
Jul 19, 2022
Episode 15: Your breakup Qs answered.
Jul 15, 2022
Episode 14: On the way you miss someone post-breakup (and what to do with those feelings).
Jul 12, 2022
Episode 13: Are we really dating right now?
Jul 06, 2022
Episode 12: Dating isn't something to be "figured out." But what do we do when it feels that way?
Jun 28, 2022
Episode 11: On the comfort of being single.
Jun 21, 2022
Episode 10: How sibling dynamics impact our romantic relationships.
Jun 14, 2022
Episode 9: It *is* possible to meet people in person. It's just time to shift your beliefs.
Jun 07, 2022
Episode 8: The pain of female friendship.
May 31, 2022
Episode 7: When all your friends are getting married and it's just you that's single (and other later bloomer, woes).
May 24, 2022
Episode 6: What dating (and relationships) looked like for me 18 months before getting engaged.
May 17, 2022
Episode 5: The relationship that broke me in all the ways I needed to be broken.
May 10, 2022
Episode 4: What if going on the date wasn't always the actual goal?
May 03, 2022
Episode 3: Dating Apps Makes Me Wanna #%$FCBJKH&@!
Apr 26, 2022
Episode 2: You don't need to be good at flirting.
Apr 19, 2022
Episode 1: You're....a dating coach?
Apr 19, 2022
I Think I Like You: The Trailer
Apr 01, 2022