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A further play upon this podcast's former title, "Getting Real About Sex Addiction" is a discussion forum about matters relating to psychoanalysis, including matters of training, of old and new ideas pertaining to addiction, analytic situations and technique, contemporary events such as Covid and DEI initiatives. Graeme's latest book is entitled, An Analyst in Training: Psychoanalytic Candidacy Amid Covid and other Distractions
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Psychoanalysis and Addiction: a play upon truth and lies
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May 15, 2026 |
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Psychoanalysis and Addiction: "It" happened
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May 09, 2026 |
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Psychoanalysis and Addiction: Sparks and gasoline
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May 02, 2026 |
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Psychoanalysis and Addiction: Ever since I was a young boy...
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Apr 25, 2026 |
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Psychoanalysis and Addiction: a trip around informed consent and it's limits, or...what do you expect?
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Apr 11, 2026 |
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Psychoanalysis and Addiction: Portrait of an analyst as a youngish man
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Mar 29, 2026 |
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Psychoanalysis and Addiction: Ooo-Ah!
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Mar 17, 2026 |
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Psychoanalysis and Addictions: Two analysts talk about their training during Covid
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Feb 22, 2026 |
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Psychoanalysis and Addiction: big shot at the conference
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Feb 05, 2026 |
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Psychoanalysis and Addiction: about expertise and training
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Jan 27, 2026 |
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Psychoanalysis and Addiction: Skipping over the ball and chain
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Jan 14, 2026 |
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Psychoanalysis and Addiction: Training amid Covid and the DEI legacy
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Dec 23, 2025 |
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Psychoanalysis and Addiction: Transference and empathy
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Dec 09, 2025 |
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If a body catch a body: Holden Caulfield and Psychoanalysis
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Nov 28, 2025 |
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The rough scrubbing of the hair: psychoanalysis and adolescence
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Nov 19, 2025 |
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Psychoanalysis and Addiction: the currency of guilt
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Nov 08, 2025 |
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Psychoanalysis and Addiction: training and the discovery of professional home
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Oct 26, 2025 |
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Psychoanalysis and Addiction: stick out your neck against mother media
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Oct 20, 2025 |
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Treatment of a Recovering Alcoholic with Substitute Addictions (part two)
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Oct 11, 2025 |
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Treatment of a Recovering Alcoholic with Substitute Addictions
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Oct 02, 2025 |
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Psychoanalytic training: flexibility and not quite ending
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Sep 23, 2025 |
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A Psychoanalytic Idea of Guilt, part two
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Sep 15, 2025 |
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A Psychoanalytic Idea of Guilt (part one)
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Sep 08, 2025 |
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The trial about sex, child abuse, and the state's right to know about it!
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Sep 02, 2025 |
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Getting Real About Psychoanalysis 7: The "right to know" what happens in treatment
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Aug 23, 2025 |
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Getting Real About Psychoanalysis 6: Psychoanalysis spars with a sex addiction specialist
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Aug 17, 2025 |
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Getting Real About Psychoanalysis 5: An Analyst in Training
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Aug 09, 2025 |
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Getting Real about Psychoanalysis (4): On Kiss-Cams and Eagle-eyed Ge-jeans
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Aug 01, 2025 |
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Getting Real About Psychoanalysis (3): Broken Open in the Power Down
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Jul 21, 2025 |
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Getting Real About Psychoanalysis (2): Submission, surrender, masochism, and being eaten
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Jul 05, 2025 |
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Getting Real About Psychoanalysis: Sexualizing Asymmetric Time
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Jun 18, 2025 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction (bonus): Training and personality disorder, addiction, and...do I just hit pillows?
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May 23, 2025 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction (bonus episode): That trial's been delayed again!
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Apr 28, 2025 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S4 (21): Fecal missiles, Mother Earth, and God's warm hug
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Feb 09, 2025 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S4 (20): The problem of mandated treatment, or none at all
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Jan 29, 2025 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S4(19): Child abuse reporting law finally gets its court date
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Jan 13, 2025 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S4 (18): Who's the patient and what's the story?
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Jan 02, 2025 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S4 (17): Splits
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Dec 22, 2024 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S4 (16): Control behavior, not feeling, and don't try to converse with a tick
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Dec 16, 2024 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S4 (15): Where am I going with that?
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Dec 05, 2024 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S4 (14): Integrity disorder (part two)
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Nov 17, 2024 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S4(13): Integrity disorder
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Nov 11, 2024 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S4 (12): Born Small, Addicted to Guilt (part two)
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Oct 28, 2024 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S4 (11): Born Small, Addicted to Guilt (part one)
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Oct 15, 2024 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S4 (10): The unconscious of the Wolf Man
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Oct 01, 2024 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S4 (9): Deconstructing the sex positive
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Sep 17, 2024 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S4 (8): The Unconscious
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Sep 03, 2024 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S4 (7): A further reflection on women's infidelity
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Aug 20, 2024 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S4 (6): A discussion about women's infidelity with author Michelle Langley
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Aug 06, 2024 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S4 (5): the paradox of marked distress
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Jul 09, 2024 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S4 (4): Empathy, validation, and projective identification
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Jun 27, 2024 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S4 (3): Jails, Institutions, death, and hurt feelings
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Jun 18, 2024 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S4 (2): religious bias with a progressive nod
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Jun 10, 2024 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S4 (1): A positive review of the book!
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Jun 03, 2024 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S3 (25): Shame
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May 08, 2024 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S3 (24): female sex addiction/women's infidelity (part two)
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Apr 23, 2024 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S3 (23): female sex addiction/women's infidelity
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Apr 23, 2024 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S3 (22): Short term treatment versus the in-depth long term
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Apr 15, 2024 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S3 (21): sexual integrity
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Apr 07, 2024 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S3 (20): instinct and personality, nature and nurture
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Mar 16, 2024 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S3 (19): That child abuse reporting law is going to trial!
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Mar 06, 2024 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S3 (18): Psychodynamics, sexual compulsivity and positive psychology
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Feb 21, 2024 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S3 (17): The splits of Madonna-Whore and Saint-Brute
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Feb 15, 2024 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S3 (16): All (or most) of what I have to say about SA
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Feb 02, 2024 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S3 (15): the illusion of action
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Jan 19, 2024 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S3 (14): addiction as pleasure-seeking, shame avoidance
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Jan 05, 2024 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S3 (13): on individual treatment versus couples therapy
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Dec 20, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S3 (12): Three therapists talk about sex addiction treatment
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Dec 12, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S3 (11): a review of "US"
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Nov 29, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S3 (10): The Heart of Addiction (a review)
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Nov 16, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S3 (9): addiction treatment as a team approach
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Oct 31, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S3 (8): Exposure, shame, and Axolotls
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Oct 18, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S3 (7): A case of impacted partner treatment revisited
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Oct 06, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S3 (6): What we have to say about SA (part two)
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Sep 22, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S3 (5): What we have to say about SA (part one)
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Sep 08, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S3 (4): Perversion, part two
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Aug 25, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S3 (3): Perversion
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Aug 11, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S3 (2): The Shadow of Esther Perel (part two)
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Jul 29, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S3 (1): Talking about Countertransference with sex addicts and their impacted partners
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Jul 17, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S2 (21): Talking about Psychoanalysis
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Jun 21, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S2 (20) The Shadow of Esther Perel
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Jun 14, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S2 (19): the psychic defense of projection
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Jun 07, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S2 (18): Freud and Klein theories of Oral and (the other one) sadistic impulses
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Jun 02, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S2 (17): Psychoanalysis and SA treatment amid Covid and related phenomena
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May 29, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S2 (16): The Group Behind the Group (part two)
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May 20, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S2 (15): The Group Behind the Group
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May 10, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S2 (14) You Have Been Lied To!
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Apr 30, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S2 (13): a commentary on verbal and non-verbal communication and addiction
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Apr 18, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S2(12): calling out the staples of psychotherapy
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Apr 12, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S2 (11): Flowers are (not) the solution
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Apr 04, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S2 (10): Schizoid personality type
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Mar 28, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S2 (9): listening to and reading about sex addiction
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Mar 22, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S2 (8): is sex addiction an excuse
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Mar 14, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S2 (7): Borderline Personality Disorder
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Mar 07, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S2 (6): Misogyny and Misandry
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Feb 25, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S2 (5): Excess drive and betrayal, the two benchmarks of SA
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Feb 18, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S2 (4): more on impacted partners, blaming, psychoanalytic and alternative approaches
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Feb 10, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S2 (3): Secrets keep you sick
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Jan 27, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S2 (2): case illustration of an impacted partner of sex addiction
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Jan 17, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction S2 (1): Review of season one ideas, preview of more to come
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Jan 03, 2023 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction 21: addiction, 12-step recovery, therapy and analysis
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Dec 20, 2022 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction 20: the roots of sex addiction, part two (feminist theories)
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Dec 09, 2022 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction 19: etiology, the theoretical roots of sex addiction
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Nov 26, 2022 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction 18: treating Narcissism alongside sex addiction
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Nov 12, 2022 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction 17: group therapy/group psychology and sex addiction
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Nov 04, 2022 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction 16: sex addiction, child abuse reporting, privacy laws
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Oct 20, 2022 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction: the sex addiction of Dr. Strangelove
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Oct 08, 2022 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction 14: Riding the high you're disgusted with
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Sep 25, 2022 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction 13: Co-authors Graeme and Joe, plus guest Don Mathews, discuss monogamy and polyamory in the context of sex addiction treatment
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Sep 12, 2022 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction 12: how an addict thinks (or doesn't)
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Sep 03, 2022 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction 11: case illustrations
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Aug 27, 2022 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction 10: Graeme & Joe talk sex addiction and personality issues
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Aug 21, 2022 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction 9: an analytic approach, how it looks and sounds (2)
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Jul 29, 2022 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction 8: an analytic approach, how it looks and sounds
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Jul 22, 2022 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction 7: gender bias in the treatment of male versus female sex addicts
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Jul 15, 2022 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction 6: Trauma model and the treatment of sex addicts and their partners
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Jul 09, 2022 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction 5: ethics and politics
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Jul 02, 2022 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction 4: ethics and politics
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Jun 24, 2022 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction 3
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Jun 17, 2022 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction 2
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Jun 10, 2022 |
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Getting Real About Sex Addiction Intro
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Jun 01, 2022 |