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If you're a woman in your feelings, in your growth, or just in your
bag trying to figure life out — Let Me Just Say This was made for you.
Hosted by Ny, LMJST is a weekly podcast covering personal growth,
self-improvement, life and relationship advice, and honest societal
commentary from a Black woman's perspective. From navigating
relationships and setting boundaries, to chasing dreams, processing
self-doubt, and speaking on what's happening in the world — we get
into all of it.
Think of it as a conversation with your most honest, most encouraging
friend. New episodes drop every week.
Subscribe, settle in, and let's grow together. ✨
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The Christian Influencer Pipeline | Patriarchy, Purity Culture & Seeking God for the Wrong Reasons
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Apr 14, 2026 |
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People Pleasing, Childhood Trauma & Why It Never Gets You What You Want!
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Apr 02, 2026 |
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Big Dreams, Little Pockets | How to Keep Going When the Bag Hasn't Caught Up
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Mar 24, 2026 |
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Women Are Outpacing Men.. | Feminism, Agency & Letting the Girls Girl!
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Mar 10, 2026 |
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The World Is On Fire!! | Protect Your Peace Without Ignoring Reality
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Mar 05, 2026 |
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Girl, Go Touch Some Grass! | Obsessive Para-social Relationships & The SAVE Act
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Feb 17, 2026 |
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Love is in the Air & Relationships are Hard AF! | Valentine's Day Reflection On Choosing Love Over and Over Again
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Feb 10, 2026 |
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Season 7 Premiere: Woke Up Black AGAIN!! | Black Joy, Activism & 6 Months of January
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Feb 03, 2026 |
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We Did It Joe!!! | Lessons From 2025 & The Self-Aware Era Season Finale
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Dec 31, 2025 |
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Listen to Your Heart… But Keep Your Eyes Open | The Head vs Heart Battle
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Dec 17, 2025 |
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Sis, You're Not Lazy... You're Depressed. | Black Women & Mental Health
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Dec 10, 2025 |
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ATL PLEASE—Not My Car! | The Candied Yam Wars & B. Simone’s Rebrand (again)
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Dec 04, 2025 |
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The Answer Is Always You | Outgrowing Who I Was, LA Epiphanies, & Lessons From October
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Nov 18, 2025 |
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Everything’s Fine (Kind Of) | The Reality of Betting On Myself
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Nov 12, 2025 |
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You’re Not Pretty, You’re Just Light Skin | Colorism, Pretty Privilege & the Black Experience
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Oct 16, 2025 |
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“I’m a Nice Guy” = Manipulation? | Love Is Blind Season 9
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Oct 08, 2025 |
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Bonus! Unrelatable Dating Advice | The Dangers of Dating While Attractive
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Sep 27, 2025 |
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Starting Over at 27! | Trusting God & Embracing Life Shifts
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Sep 24, 2025 |
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The Cost of “My Man Energy” | Lessons from Mariah & Thug
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Sep 10, 2025 |
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The Dating Pool Is In The SEWER!! | Coffee Dates & Complaints
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Sep 03, 2025 |
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Leave When You're Ready! | Teyana Taylor, Sagittarius Energy & Self-Aware Love
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Aug 20, 2025 |
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Stop Playing Yourself Small! | Fighting Self-Doubt With Faith
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Aug 13, 2025 |
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Tall, Dark & Trump-Supporting?! | MAGA Cop Storytime
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Aug 10, 2025 |
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Decentering Your Parents | Sometimes the Price of Peace Is Grief
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Aug 06, 2025 |
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Hot, Healed & Happily Single! | The Waiting Season
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Jul 23, 2025 |
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Dating Blind Spots | Charlotte Date Storytime | A Letter To My Future Lover
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Jul 15, 2025 |
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Bible Thumpin For Bae? | Ashanti’s Married Single Mother Era? | The Big Brutal Bill
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Jul 08, 2025 |
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Peace Over Potential | Dating Down & Bad Friendships
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Jul 01, 2025 |
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Minding Our Black Business Isn’t Enough | Pushing Trans People Out of the Military
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Mar 14, 2025 |
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America Has A Problem! | DEI, Black History Month, & Black Resilience
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Feb 07, 2025 |
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My Second Quarter-life Crisis! | Letting Go, Trusting God, and Healing Anxiety at 26
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Dec 04, 2024 |
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Hurricane Helene Beat My A**! | Storytime & Thoughts On Diddy
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Oct 09, 2024 |
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Auntie Not Mad, Auntie Just Tired! | Protecting Your Energy in the Social Media Era
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Sep 26, 2024 |
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Don't Be A Broke Baddie! | Money Management Lessons I've Learned In My 20s
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Sep 06, 2024 |
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"Women Need Better Discernment!" | 5 Dating Tips to Protect Your Peace & Avoid Heartbreak
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Aug 14, 2024 |
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Love Bombing & Baby Momming! | Thoughts on Arnell Armon & Single Motherhood
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Aug 09, 2024 |
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The Wildest Dating Show Yet! | Pop The Balloon or Find Love?
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Jul 18, 2024 |
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When Will It Be My Turn Jesus?! | Delayed Gratification, Embracing Patience, and Celebrating Others' Success
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Jul 02, 2024 |
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Looks Do Matter! | The Importance Of Self-Care
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Jun 27, 2024 |
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Bad Friends & Botched BBLs! | My Built-In Bestie Is Here!
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Jun 14, 2024 |
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The Gurls Are Scamming! Should You?? | Managing Finances In My 20s & In Relationships
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Jun 06, 2024 |
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Bumble's Fumble! | Your Soulmate Is Not On A Dating App!
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May 23, 2024 |
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I Ain't Choose Celibacy.. Celibacy Chose Me! | Being Intentionally Single
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May 16, 2024 |
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Baddie Burn Out! | It's Ok To Change Your Mind
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May 16, 2024 |
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The Woes Of A Big Sister! | Chit Chat w/ My Mini-Me
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Mar 20, 2024 |
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Love Is Blind? Or Love Is Delusional? | In Love With Potential
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Mar 13, 2024 |
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Chile.. "Who TF Did I Marry?!" | Are Black Men Harder To Date? | Decentering Men
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Mar 06, 2024 |
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Society Is Keeping You Single! | Happy Valentine's Day 😊
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Feb 14, 2024 |
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Bestie, You Have To Trust Yourself! | Emotions After A Breakup
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Feb 07, 2024 |
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It's Ok To Not Be Perfect! | Giving Yourself Grace
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Jan 31, 2024 |
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It's Ok To Get Closure! | The Make-up To Break-up Cycle
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Jan 24, 2024 |
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It's Time To Invest In Yourself! | The Szn of Solitude
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Jan 17, 2024 |
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2023 Rocked The Girls! Affirmations and Motivation For 2024 — Season 2 Finale
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Jan 03, 2024 |
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Better, Stronger, Wiser — Ashanti, KeKe, Cassie, & The Girls Getting It Back In Blood!
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Dec 13, 2023 |
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An Audio Hug For When You Need Some Love | Bonus Episode
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Dec 13, 2023 |
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The First Date Hit List, Planning Dates For Dummies. — Dating Preferences & Shenans!
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Nov 01, 2023 |
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Cuffin’ Szn Is Upon Us, Don’t Settle Just For Matching Pajamas! — Managing Sznal Depression & Loneliness
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Oct 18, 2023 |
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The Random Man In Atlanta, Slow Kids & Even Slower Parents, Girl, Boy, & Black Math! — Social Media Commentary
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Oct 04, 2023 |
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Breaking Up Is Hard To Do.. — Dos and Don’ts for a Healthy Healing Process
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Sep 20, 2023 |
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You Shouldn’t Have To Beg For Love! — Analyzing Couples From The Ultimatum!
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Sep 06, 2023 |
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Lover Boy All Call, 17 Years A Girlfriend, & The Woes Of A Sneaky Link— Responding To Instagram Comments!
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Aug 30, 2023 |
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Nobody Wants To Date A Bum! — Grace Over Grudges & Getting Back To Your Self-Worth
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Aug 16, 2023 |
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Sneaky Link, Turned FWB, Turned Another Failed Situationship? — Finding Your Anchor
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Aug 02, 2023 |
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Your Attachment Style Is Holding You Back! — What Are Your Red Flags?
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Jul 12, 2023 |
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The Fine Ass Rich Auntie! —Not Having Kids Until My 30s
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Jul 05, 2023 |
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Love and Marriage w/ Jay and Ashley — LMJST Szn 2 Ep 17
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Jun 28, 2023 |
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Sex Life After Marriage with Jay and Ashely— LMJST Szn 2 Ep 16
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Jun 21, 2023 |
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The Woes of a Lover Girl — Situationships, Dating Struggles, and Letting Go
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Jun 07, 2023 |
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Sugar Daddies, Close Friends’ Etiquette, and Picasso! — Getting Spicy & Spilling Tea w/ Austin
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May 31, 2023 |
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Black Women Deserve a Soft Life Too! — Soft Love
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May 24, 2023 |
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Platonic Friendships? Lonely Homegirls? Cheating?? - Relationship Ramble w/ Shon
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May 17, 2023 |
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I Keyed His Car!.. — Recognizing Triggers
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May 10, 2023 |
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It’s Okay To Take A Break! — Where Have I been..? Life Update!
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May 03, 2023 |
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Mixing Friend Groups?.. — Unpacking Friendship Dynamics w/ The Gang
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Mar 29, 2023 |
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I’m 10% Gay?! —Cutting Up With My Two Favorite Queers!
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Mar 23, 2023 |
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I Got Played?! — Back To The Streets...?
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Mar 15, 2023 |
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Imagine What You Want As If It Already Exists — Maintaining Hope While Behind Bars w/ Bo
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Mar 02, 2023 |
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The Perfect Family Does Not Exist! – One Step At A Time Pep Talk
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Feb 22, 2023 |
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Ready To Love Again? – Opening Up After Heartbreak
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Feb 08, 2023 |
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Your Bestie Is Not Your Therapist! – Friendship Challenges w/ the Gang
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Feb 01, 2023 |
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Plant The Roses Now – Grow w/ Love
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Jan 25, 2023 |
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Everything On My Terms! – Lessons from 2022
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Jan 18, 2023 |
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Back On The Dating Apps — Season Finale w/ The Gang!
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Nov 09, 2022 |
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What would you tell your younger self? — Lessons Learned Through Growth w/ Jay
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Oct 26, 2022 |
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Is Your Friend’s Crush Off Limits? — Guy Code v. Girl Code & The Friend Zone
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Oct 19, 2022 |
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Be Your Own Biggest Fan! — Emotional Availability & Vulnerability
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Oct 12, 2022 |
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Dating While Broke? — Deal Breakers Pickiness vs. Selectivity
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Oct 05, 2022 |
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Live Your Best Life! — Soft Life, Self-Love, & Luxury
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Sep 28, 2022 |
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Put You Up On This Game! — The Roster, Getting Your Things, & Cuffing SZN
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Sep 21, 2022 |
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Protect Your Energy! — Choosing Peace Above All else
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Sep 14, 2022 |
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Do You Really Want This? — Navigating Long Distance Relationships
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Aug 24, 2022 |
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Somebody Always Gets Hurt! — Lessons From My Situationship
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Aug 17, 2022 |
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Treat Me Like I Treat Me! — Self-Care Pep Talk
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Aug 10, 2022 |
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The Break-Up — 5 Stages of Grief
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Aug 03, 2022 |
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The Hoe-Phase — Healing While Dating
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Jul 27, 2022 |
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Building a Tribe — Nurturing Friendships As Adults
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Jul 27, 2022 |
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Adulting Is Ghetto Af! — Ending Relationships for Growth
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Jul 13, 2022 |
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I Promise I Won’t Disappoint! — The Introduction
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Jul 09, 2022 |