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Most people go through life on autopilot, repeating the same patterns they cannot name. They show up in relationships, in careers, in the decisions people make every single day. They do not know why they do what they do. And they definitely do not know why everyone else keeps doing what they do.
My name is Kelly M. Jefferson, PhD. I am a former DOJ and DEA Investigative Intelligence Analyst, trained at the FBI Academy in Quantico, where I spent years reading people in high-stakes environments. I worked wiretaps, overseas embassy operations, and investigations involving drug cartels. That experience gave me something most people never develop: the ability to see patterns in human behavior before others even know they exist.
Now I am a Behavioral Intelligence Strategist. I have proudly transposed that same skillset from the intelligence world into the coaching space and beyond. What I learned in law enforcement is simple but powerful: success is never accidental. It is always a result of patterns. The patterns people operate from determine the results they get. Most people do not see them. I do.
Every episode, I am breaking down a specific pattern. The ones that show up again and again in how people think, how they decide, and how they act. No fluff. No generic advice. Just the patterns, why they exist, and how to work with them instead of against them.
If you want to understand why people, including yourself, keep doing the things they do, this is your show.
Welcome to "Why Do They Keep Doing That".
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Episode #205: How to Coach a Stuck Client When Advice Isn’t Working
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Jul 31, 2026 |
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Episode #204: Will AI Replace Coaches? What Great Coaches Do That AI Can’t
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Jul 24, 2026 |
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Episode #203: The Reason Your Best Coaching Content Isn't Attracting Paid Clients
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Jul 17, 2026 |
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Episode #202: Interrupt the Pattern: How to Stop Carrying Yesterday Into Today
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Jul 03, 2026 |
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Episode #201: The Pattern Beneath Your Indecision: How to Finally Choose
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Jun 26, 2026 |
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Episode #200: The Hidden Reason You Feel Busy but Stuck (And How to Take Your Life Back)
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Jun 19, 2026 |
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Episode #199: The Pattern That Drains You Even When Life is Working
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Jun 12, 2026 |
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Episode #198: Decision Debt: How to Decode the Pattern Holding You Back
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Jun 05, 2026 |
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Episode #197: The Cost of Earning What You Already Have. Pattern 22.
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May 29, 2026 |
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Episode #196: How to Get Paid Clients FAST (Attracting Clients)
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Jan 08, 2026 |
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Episode #195: Wealth Advice That Has Nothing to Do With Money
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Nov 11, 2025 |
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Episode #194: You’re Not Overwhelmed. THIS Is The Real Issue. 😳
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Nov 10, 2025 |
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Episode #193: How To Build a Solid Coaching Foundation That Leaves a Legacy
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Sep 07, 2025 |
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Episode #192: Step One To ABUNDANCE & Overflow!
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Jul 07, 2025 |
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Episode #191: Are You Telling God YES or NO? 👀
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Jul 06, 2025 |
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Episode #190: Balancing Work & Side Biz: 3 Tips You Need NOW
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Jul 05, 2025 |
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Episode #189: STOP Doing This If You're An Entrepreneur - RAW & UNCUT
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Jul 04, 2025 |
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Episode #188: The Difference Between Entrepreneurs & Everyone Else
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Jul 03, 2025 |
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Episode #187: 3 Things I Wish I'd Known BEFORE Becoming a Coach
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Jul 02, 2025 |
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Episode #186: The REAL TRUTH About Successful People
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Jul 01, 2025 |
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Episode #185: Are YOU on the Struggle Bus?
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Jun 30, 2025 |
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Episode #184: You Won't Believe the Spiritual SEASON You're In Until You Watch This!
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Jun 29, 2025 |
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Episode #183: Can You Be Trusted To Multiply What God Has Given You? | Biblical Lessons on Wealth (Ep. 3)
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Jun 05, 2025 |
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Episode #182: Why You’re Not Winning Yet
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Jun 04, 2025 |
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Episode #181: Are You Hijacking God’s Promise?
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Jun 03, 2025 |
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Episode #180: Is God’s Promise Real?
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Jun 02, 2025 |
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Episode #179: Biblical Blueprint for Success: Why Most People Fail
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Jun 01, 2025 |
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Episode #178: TRUE Obedience Leads to Your Destiny
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Apr 23, 2025 |
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Episode #177: Trust the Process Don’t Hijack the Promise
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Apr 22, 2025 |
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Episode #176: When Everyone Else Is Winning But You
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Apr 21, 2025 |
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Episode #175: Stop Playing Small and Start Multiplying What You Have
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Apr 14, 2025 |
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Episode #174: God Expects ROI | The Parable of the Talents | Biblical Lessons on Wealth (Ep. 2 of 3-Part Series)
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Apr 12, 2025 |
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Episode #173: Wealth Is Not a Sin—It's a Kingdom Strategy | Biblical Lessons on Wealth (Ep. 1)
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Apr 11, 2025 |
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Episode #172: WHY ARE YOU HERE? A Behind The Scenes Coaching Session.
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Apr 09, 2025 |
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Episode #171: Are You Afraid To Take The Leap From Therapist To Coach? WATCH THIS!
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Apr 08, 2025 |
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Episode #170: THIS is what it takes to WIN
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Nov 26, 2024 |
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Episode #169: You Won't Believe the Spiritual SEASON You're In Until You Watch This! #spirituality
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Nov 06, 2024 |
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Episode #168: I Tested 31 Days of Live Streaming and Here's What Worked!
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Nov 04, 2024 |
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Episode #167: Identity Shifting: The ONE thing that can change your life!
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Oct 31, 2024 |
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Episode #166: Are YOU on the Struggle Bus?
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Oct 30, 2024 |
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Episode #165: Two Must Read Books For ANY Entrepreneur
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Oct 29, 2024 |
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Episode #164: Client Enrollment Secrets You Must Know
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Oct 28, 2024 |
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Episode #163: CREATE The Life You Want….RAW & UNCUT
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Oct 25, 2024 |
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Episode #162: Success is not convenient
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Oct 22, 2024 |
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Episode #161: The REAL TRUTH About Successful People
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Oct 21, 2024 |
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Episode #160: The Stages of The Client Journey
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Oct 18, 2024 |
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Episode #159: 5 Things You Can Do When a Client Says NO On a Discovery Call
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Oct 17, 2024 |
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Episode #148: HOW to KNOW It's time to make your offer
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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Episode #149: Unlock Your Divine Assignment & Life Purpose (Act Now)
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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Episode #150: Consistency Tips You NEVER Knew
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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Episode #151: Balancing Work & Side Biz: 3 Tips You Need NOW
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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Episode #152: Wealth Advice That Has Nothing to Do With Money
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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Episode #153: STOP Leaving Money on the Table Without Recurring Revenue!
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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Episode #154: The Difference Between Entrepreneurs & Everyone Else
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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Episode #155: 3 Things I Wish I'd Known BEFORE Becoming a Coach
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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Episode #156: 6 Tips For Mompreneurs
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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Episode #157: The SHOCKING Truth About 51 Year Old Content Creators in 2024
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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Episode #158: The ONLY 2 Ways To Grow Your Brand
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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Episode #131: How to get comfortable with sharing your story on social media
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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Episode #132: From Corporate To Coach
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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Episode #133: How & Why I Use Visualization When Coaching Clients
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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Episode #134: From Employee to Entrepreneur: My Mindset Transformation
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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Episode #135: STOP Doing This If You're An Entrepreneur - RAW & UNCUT
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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Episode #136: Entrepreneur & Family Life: How I Make It Work
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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Episode #137: Selling Coaching Programs Faster Than Most: Here’s How I Do It
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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Episode #138: High-Ticket Closing Secrets: What the Pros Won’t Share
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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Episode #139: Corporate Job vs. Entrepreneurship: What’s the Real Difference?
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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Episode #140: STOP Wasting Time on These 5 Things and Hit Five-Figure Months
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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Episode #141: 6 Steps To Better Time Management For Entrepreneurs
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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Episode #142: Ditch Those Limiting Beliefs And Unlock A Life Of ABUNDANCE
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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Episode #143: Turn Followers into PAYING Clients with These 5 Proven Strategies
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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Episode #144: Turn Followers into PAYING Clients with These 5 Proven Strategies
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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Episode #145: 7 Signs That a Prospect is a Good Fit for Your Coaching Business
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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Episode #146: Educator To Coach - Mock Coaching Session
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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Episode #147: 3 Powerful Ways to Stand Out as a Coach in a Crowded Market
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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Episode #129: "How To Create 5-Figure Launches On Demand" audio book
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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Episode #130: Hot Seat Coaching With Coach Kelly J
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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Episode #128: The Sweet Tea Podcast with Coach Kelly J ft. Dr. Tonya
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Apr 29, 2024 |
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Episode #127: The Sweet Tea Podcast with Coach Kelly J ft. Tiffany Haynes
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Apr 26, 2024 |
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Episode #126: How is a Corporate Job Different Than Being An Entrepreneur
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Apr 19, 2024 |
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Episode #125: How I Went From An Employee Mindset To An Entrepreneur Mindset
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Apr 15, 2024 |
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Episode #124: How I balance Home Life & Entrepreneurship
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Apr 12, 2024 |
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Episode #123: Unlock Success: The Simple Path to Enroll More Clients
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Apr 08, 2024 |
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Episode #122: The Secret to High Ticket Closing That Most Entrepreneurs Won't Tell You
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Apr 01, 2024 |
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Episode #121: 5 Things to Stop Doing if you want to reach Five Figure Months as an Entrepreneur
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Mar 22, 2024 |
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Episode #120: 7 Ways To Know if a Prospect is a Good Fit as a Client
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Mar 18, 2024 |
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Episode #119: The Pension Dilemma: What Are You Sacrificing?
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Mar 15, 2024 |
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Episode #118: 10-Day Marketing Campaign For Online Businesses
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Mar 11, 2024 |
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Episode #117: How To Build a Solid Coaching Foundation
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Mar 08, 2024 |
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Episode #116: 5 Tips on Turning Followers Into Clients in 2024
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Mar 04, 2024 |
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Episode #115: Coaching secrets: Standing out in a crowded market
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Mar 01, 2024 |
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Episode #114: Discover the 5 Essential Identities of a Top-Notch Coach!
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Feb 26, 2024 |
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Episode #113: Love & Laughter - Black Family Spends Christmas in Mexico
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Feb 23, 2024 |
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Episode 112: The Importance of Choosing The Right Mate As an Entrepreneur
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Feb 19, 2024 |
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Episode #111: Raising Rich Kids_ Part Three - The Role of Privilege & Responsibility
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Feb 16, 2024 |
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Episode #110: Real Coaches, Real Success_ LIVE Success Story with Kelli Poole
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Feb 12, 2024 |
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Episode #109: Raising RICH KIDS_ Part Two - Financial Literacy For Kids
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Feb 09, 2024 |
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Episode #108: Conquer self-doubt_ Overcoming imposter syndrome for coaches
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Feb 05, 2024 |
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Episode #107: Raising RICH KIDS_ Part One_ Wealth & Values
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Feb 02, 2024 |
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Episode #106: WATCH THIS BEFORE Going Into High Ticket Coaching or Consulting!
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Jan 29, 2024 |
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Episode #105: 7 Biggest Mistakes Coaches Make When Starting Their Business
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Jan 26, 2024 |
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Episode #104: Discover Mindfulness through Guided Meditation on the Five Senses
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Jan 22, 2024 |
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Episode #103: Dishonest pricing...don't do it!
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Jan 19, 2024 |
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Episode #102: Breaking the pattern_ Redefining the value of relatives advice
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Jan 15, 2024 |
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Episode #101: Should Coaches Build a Personal Brand
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Jan 12, 2024 |
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Episode #100: How do you know when its Gods voice
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Jan 08, 2024 |
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Episode #99: How To Skyrocket Your Coaching Career
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Jan 05, 2024 |
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Episode #98: Random thoughts on raising ‘rich kids’
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Jan 01, 2024 |
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Episode #97: THIS Is The First Thing To Learn When You Hire A Mentor
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Dec 29, 2023 |
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Episode #96: How to increase the show up rate on free webinars - Part 2
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Dec 25, 2023 |
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Episode #95: How to increase the show up rate on free webinars - Part One
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Dec 22, 2023 |
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Episode #94: How to start a life coaching business - The 6 Key Areas To Focus On
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Dec 18, 2023 |
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Episode #93: Coaching Fails_ Learn from These 3 Common Mistakes
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Dec 15, 2023 |
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Episode #92: How long does it take to start getting paid as a life coach_
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Dec 11, 2023 |
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Episode #91: Coach Kelly J is live in Jamaica
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Dec 08, 2023 |
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Episode #90: The Surprising Truth About Guaranteeing Results to Clients
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Dec 04, 2023 |
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Episode #89: The Unexpected Path to Finding Love_ Embracing Your Authenticity
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Dec 01, 2023 |
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Episode #88: The FIRST thing to consider when planning a client conference or retreat
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Nov 27, 2023 |
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Episode #87: Beyond Yourself: Unleashing the True Potential of Your Divine Assignment
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Nov 20, 2023 |
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Episode #86: Transforming Your Life: Embrace the Next Season of EXPANSION
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Nov 17, 2023 |
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Episode #85: 10 Tips to Consider for An International Client Retreat
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Nov 15, 2023 |
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Episode #84: The Power of Asking Questions as a Coach
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Oct 23, 2023 |
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Episode #83: Hot Seat Coaching: What Do You Do If Your Clients Don’t Get The Results From Your Program?
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Sep 04, 2023 |
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Episode #82: Hot Seat Coaching - "How Do I Stop Spending So Much Time With Clients Individually?"
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Aug 29, 2023 |
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Episode #81: Should Coaches Have an Application To Work With Them?
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Jul 31, 2023 |
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Episode #80: The Real Reasons WHY Coaches Have a Hard Time Raising Their Prices!
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Jul 24, 2023 |
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Episode #79: How to Generate Revenue With Your Creativity!
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Jul 17, 2023 |
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Episode #78: Let's Talk About Boundaries! (Stress, Breaking Generational Cycles, Getting Help)
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Jul 10, 2023 |
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Episode #77: Should Coaches Have an Application To Work With Them?
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Jul 03, 2023 |
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Episode #76: 7 BIG Mistakes Seasoned Coaches Make
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Jun 27, 2023 |
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Episode #75: How to Discover Your Purpose as a Coach
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Feb 26, 2023 |
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Episode #74: 5 Ways To Know You Are Living Out Of Alignment
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Feb 25, 2023 |
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Episode #73: The REAL Reason Most People Are Not Successful
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Feb 24, 2023 |
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Episode #72: 5 Ways to Scale ANY Coaching Business
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Feb 23, 2023 |
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Episode #71: 10 Things That Keep Coaches and Consultants From 7+ Figures
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Feb 21, 2023 |
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Episode #70: Things Every New Life Coach Should Know
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Feb 20, 2023 |
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Episode #69: Last Year In Your 40? Listen Up...
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Feb 19, 2023 |
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Episode #68: 5 Things I Learned In A One-Day Mastermind
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Feb 18, 2023 |
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Episode #67: The REAL Reasons That Are Keeping You From Your Next Level
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Feb 17, 2023 |
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Episode #66: Why Make Yourself Choose? Living in a BOTH Mentality.
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Feb 16, 2023 |
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Episode #65: The Truth about Building your Legacy
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Feb 15, 2023 |
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Episode #64: How to Become an Authority Figure as a Coach
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Feb 13, 2023 |
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Episode #63: Are you Nervous about Switching up your Coaching Niche?
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Feb 12, 2023 |
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Episode #62: 7 Ways Group Coaching CHANGED MY LIFE!
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Feb 11, 2023 |
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Episode #61: 3 Quick Ways to Make Money as a Coach
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Feb 09, 2023 |
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Episode #60: Overcoming the Doubt of Group Coaching
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Feb 08, 2023 |
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Episode #59: One-on-One Coaching vs. Group Coaching
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Feb 07, 2023 |
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Episode #58: Normalize Expecting More for Yourself
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Feb 06, 2023 |
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Episode #57: My Prospect to Finding Soulmate Clients
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Feb 05, 2023 |
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Episode #56: The Mindset of a Life Coach
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Feb 04, 2023 |
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Episode #55: Making Your Mark on the World
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Feb 03, 2023 |
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Episode #54: Investing in Yourself
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Feb 02, 2023 |
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Episode #53: I Made 100k in 1 Day and You Can Too!
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Feb 01, 2023 |
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Episode #52: Are you Making Waves in Your Career?
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Jan 31, 2023 |
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Episode #51: What Does it Mean to be a Coach?
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Jan 30, 2023 |
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Episode #50: The 7 Key Factors to Client Attraction
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Jan 29, 2023 |
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Episode #49: You're a Sales Person even if you Don't Know It
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Jan 26, 2023 |
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Episode #48: Are You Searching for Purpose...
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Jan 25, 2023 |
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Episode #47: The ONE Things Coaches Need to Know about Fulfillment
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Jan 24, 2023 |
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Episode #46: My Highest Grossing Revenue Year
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Jan 23, 2023 |
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Episode #45: Full Circle Moments
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Jan 22, 2023 |
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Episode #44: The Things I Love the Most About Group Coaching
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Jan 21, 2023 |
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Episode #43: Let's Talk about All Things Coaching..,
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Jan 20, 2023 |
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Episode #42: The ONE BIG Thing You Can Do to Increase Client Enrollment
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Dec 07, 2021 |
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Episode #40: The Real Reason for NO or LOW Enrollments in your Coaching Program
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Dec 03, 2021 |
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Episode #41: 8 Steps to DECIDE which of your talents to start with to launch your coaching business
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Dec 03, 2021 |
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Episode #39: 3 Mistakes Coaches Make and How to Prevent Them
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Sep 17, 2021 |
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Episode #38: 5 Things that Prevent Coaches from Going to Their Next Level
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Sep 16, 2021 |
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Episode #36: 7 Ways to Know if Life Coaching is Ideal for You
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Jul 09, 2021 |
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Episode #37: 10 Ways YOU can take the leap into entrepreneurship with a full time career
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Jul 09, 2021 |
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Episode #34: 10 Tips EVERY New Coach Should Know
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May 15, 2021 |
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Episode #35: 10 Things Every Coach Should Know
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May 15, 2021 |
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Episode #33: Lets Talk About Choices...
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May 12, 2021 |
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Episode #32: The Choices We Make Lead To The Lives We Live
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May 12, 2021 |
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Episode #29: First Steps to Becoming a Coach
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May 11, 2021 |
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Episode #30: Becoming a Life Coach
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May 11, 2021 |
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Episode #31: 3 Ways to Become an Asset
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May 11, 2021 |
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Episode #28: 3 'Must Know' Myths In The Coaching Industry
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Apr 22, 2021 |
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Episode #27: The Easiest Way to 5-Figure Launches
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Apr 20, 2021 |
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Episode #26: The REAL Thing that Moves the Needle in your Business as a Personal Brand
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Apr 15, 2021 |
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Episode #22: The 6 KEY areas of a Solid Coaching Business
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Apr 14, 2021 |
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Episode #23: How to Start an Online Group to Grow your Business
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Apr 14, 2021 |
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Episode #24: The 3 Reasons your Coaching Program is NOT Selling
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Apr 14, 2021 |
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Episode #25: How to Seal the Deal on your Discovery Call
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Apr 14, 2021 |
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Episode #21: How to Set Yourself Apart from the Competition
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Feb 23, 2021 |
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Episode #20: The 3 Reasons your Coaching Program is NOT getting Enrollments
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Feb 17, 2021 |
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Episode #19: 5 Quick Tips for Overcoming Fear
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Feb 16, 2021 |
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Episode #18: 10 Things Coaches Need To Scale Their Business
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Feb 02, 2021 |
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Episode #13: Online Course Creation
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Dec 29, 2020 |
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Episode #14: The Structure you NEED to Scale your Coaching Business
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Dec 29, 2020 |
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Episode #15: Are WE Culturally More Afraid to take Risks?
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Dec 29, 2020 |
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Episode #16: The Role 'Social Currency' Plays in Your Business
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Dec 29, 2020 |
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Episode #17: The 3 Secrets To Creating an Awesome Coaching Program
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Dec 29, 2020 |
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Episode #12: 5 Ways to get More Clients without Working more Hours
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Dec 29, 2020 |
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Episode #11: Is your Business Selling a REAL Transformation ?
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Dec 01, 2020 |
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Episode #10: Where to start as a Coach
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Nov 17, 2020 |
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Episode #9: Did you know...Your skillset matters less than you think?
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Oct 27, 2020 |
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Episode #8: Did You Know Your Skillset Matters Less than You Think?
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Oct 26, 2020 |
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Episode #7: 5 Steps To Build Your Coaching Business
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Oct 26, 2020 |
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Episode #6: How to Find the Perfect Clients
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Sep 29, 2020 |
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Episode #5: The Thing You MUST Do Before Creating a Website
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Sep 20, 2020 |
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Episode #4: 8 Powerful Questions You Can Ask During a Laser Coaching Session
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Sep 03, 2020 |
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Episode #3: Listen to THIS if You're Thinking About Switching your Coaching Niche
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Sep 02, 2020 |
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Episode #2: The BIG DILEMMA of a New Life Coach!
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Apr 20, 2020 |
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Episode #1: Finding your purpose and exactly HOW to do it.
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Sep 14, 2019 |