The Happya Life with Clare Deacon

By Clare Deacon | Trauma-Informed Therapist, Positive Psychology Coach & Author of Blooming Happya

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What if thriving isn’t about having it all together but finally feeling at home in your own skin?


Welcome to The Happya Life with Clare Deacon, the podcast for women ready to move from survival mode to self-worth, nervous system healing, and emotional freedom.


If you feel stuck in people-pleasing, overwhelmed by self-doubt, or burned out from always doing more, you’re not alone. And you’re in the right place.


💬 We talk boundaries, burnout, emotional regulation, trauma recovery, nervous system work, and creating a life that actually feels good (not just looks good).


I’m Clare Deacon, trauma-informed therapist, positive psychology coach, and Amazon #1 bestselling author of Blooming Happya. I combine science, soul, and strategy to help women stop performing and start becoming.


In each episode, you’ll get:

  • Practical tools and nervous system insights
  • Real talk on trauma, boundaries, and rebuilding your self-worth
  • Coaching grounded in neuroscience, embodiment, and positive psychology


This is where self-help meets self-connection.


🎧 Ready to heal the patterns holding you back and start living from your truth?

Press play. This is where your transformation begins.


Episode Date
You Finally Have Time. So Why Are You Still Putting Yourself Last?
Jul 22, 2026
Grief Isn't Just Sadness
Jul 15, 2026
The Career That Defined You Doesn't Feel Like You Anymore
Jul 08, 2026
You Feel Drained Even When Nothing Is Happening
Jul 01, 2026
Your Patience Is Lower Than It's Ever Been. Here's Why.
Jun 24, 2026
You Feel Overwhelmed Even When Life Looks Fine
Jun 17, 2026
No One Warns You How Quiet This Stage of Life Feels
Jun 10, 2026
Who Are You After Losing Someone Central to Your Life
Jun 03, 2026
Work Is Draining You More Than You Realise
May 27, 2026
You Know It's Right So Why Is It So Hard to Let Go
May 20, 2026
Your Emotions Feel Out of Control But There's a Reason
May 13, 2026
You Don't Feel Like Yourself Anymore But Nothing's Wrong
May 06, 2026
Series Special Happya Ever After: Living Forward After Loss
May 01, 2026
Series Special Happya Ever After: Finding Meaning After the Death of a Partner
Apr 24, 2026
Series Special Happya Ever After: Post-Traumatic Growth After Grief
Apr 17, 2026
Series Special Happya Ever After: When Survival Stops Working
Apr 10, 2026
Series Special Happya Ever After: Therapy After Loss: What Actually Helps
Apr 03, 2026
Series Special Happya Ever After: Comparison and Judgement in Grief
Mar 27, 2026
Series Special Happya Ever After: Other's Reactions to Grief
Mar 20, 2026
Series Special Happya Ever After: Who Am I Now? Identity After Loss
Mar 13, 2026
Series Special Happya Ever After: Why You Feel Stuck After Grief
Mar 06, 2026
Series Special Happya Ever After: What Grief Does to Your Nervous System
Feb 27, 2026
Series Special Happya Ever After: Guilt After Loss: Wanting More From Life
Feb 20, 2026
When the Old Version of You Doesn’t Fit: Outgrowing Who the World Expects You to Be
Feb 18, 2026
Series Special Happya Ever After: Loneliness After the Death of a Partner
Feb 13, 2026
Series Special Happya Ever After: Life After Loss: When the World Moves On
Feb 06, 2026
Rebuilding a Sense of Self: When You Don’t Know Where to Start
Feb 04, 2026
Series Special Happya Ever After: My Story: From Survival to Happya Finding a Way Forward After Losing My Husband
Jan 30, 2026
Wellbeing Without the Wellness Industry
Jan 28, 2026
Who Am I Without the Role I Used to Play?
Jan 21, 2026
The Hidden Cost of Always Holding It All Together
Jan 14, 2026
If You’re Waiting for Permission to Choose Yourself… Here It Is
Jan 07, 2026
Beyond Survival A Hopeful Reflection for the Holidays
Dec 31, 2025
Surviving the Holidays Without Losing Yourself
Dec 24, 2025
Calm in the Chaos: Nervous System Tools for the Festive Season
Dec 17, 2025
The Unexpected Gifts of Rock Bottom (And How to Rise Differently)
Dec 10, 2025
Imposter Syndrome After Trauma: What No One Tells You
Dec 03, 2025
The Guilt That Shows Up When You Say No (And Why It’s Actually a Good Sign)
Nov 26, 2025
Overthinking, Overfeeling: Finding Calm in the Chaos
Nov 19, 2025
Why Your Nervous System Won’t Let You Relax (And How to Work With It, Not Against It)
Nov 12, 2025
What Is Post-Traumatic Growth (And Could You Be In It Already?)
Nov 05, 2025
Lost Yourself? How to Rebuild Who You Really Are
Oct 29, 2025
Are you Boundaried or Just Avoiding? How to Tell the Difference
Oct 22, 2025
How to Stop Reacting and Start Responding (Even When You’re Triggered)
Oct 15, 2025
Anxious in Overdrive? Calm Your Nervous System in 5 Minutes
Oct 08, 2025
The Burnout You Didn’t See Coming (Until It Knocked You Flat)
Oct 01, 2025
Trusting Yourself Again (Even After You’ve Broken Your Own Promises)
Sep 24, 2025
The Invisible Load That’s Draining You (And Why You Can’t Keep Carrying It)
Sep 17, 2025
Boundaries That Don’t Backfire: Protecting Yourself With Heart
Sep 10, 2025
Unlearning Survival Mode: The Courage to Live Differently
Sep 03, 2025
When You’re Everything to Everyone… But Nothing to Yourself
Aug 27, 2025
Why Your Trauma Doesn’t Define You (Even If It Feels Like It Does)
Aug 20, 2025
You’re Allowed to Change: Letting Go of Old Versions of You
Aug 13, 2025
The Biggest Myths About Trauma Recovery That Keep You Stuck
Aug 06, 2025
The Freeze Response: When You Feel Stuck and Can’t Move Forward
Jul 30, 2025
Manifesting Your Future: The Power of Intentional Action
Jul 23, 2025
The Loneliness of Healing: How to Find the Right People
Jul 16, 2025
Why You're Stuck in Survival Mode (And How to Break Free)
Jul 09, 2025
Love After Trauma: Healing, Trust, and Relationships
Jul 02, 2025
Healing While Holding It All Together: How to Cope
Jun 25, 2025
Why Rest is the Most Underrated Productivity Hack
Jun 18, 2025
From Self-Doubt to Self-Belief: The Road to Confidence
Jun 11, 2025
How to Stop People-Pleasing Without Feeling Guilty
Jun 04, 2025
Thriving in Relationships: How to Maintain Healthy Connections
May 28, 2025
Setting Boundaries That Actually Work (Without Feeling Like a Bad Person)
May 21, 2025
How to Find Motivation When You’re Mentally Exhausted
May 14, 2025
The Secret to Long-Term Healing: How to Keep Growing
May 07, 2025
Beyond Survival: How to Start Rebuilding Your Life
Apr 23, 2025
When Self-Care Feels Impossible: How to Start Small
Apr 16, 2025
How to Stay True to Yourself in a World That Wants You to Conform
Apr 09, 2025
Who Are You Now? Reclaiming Your Identity After Trauma
Apr 02, 2025
Are You Wearing a Mask? The Cost of Hiding Your True Self
Mar 26, 2025
What Thriving Actually Looks Like (Hint: It’s Not Perfection)
Mar 19, 2025
Why You Feel Guilty for Being Happy (And How to Let That Go)
Mar 12, 2025
Not Feeling Good Enough? Let’s Rewrite That Story
Mar 05, 2025
How to Trust Yourself Again (After Years of Doubt)
Feb 27, 2025
Self-Sabotage: Why You Keep Holding Yourself Back
Feb 19, 2025
Feeling Emotionally Overwhelmed? Here’s What to Do First
Feb 12, 2025
Writing the Next Chapter of Your Happya Life
Feb 05, 2025
A - Activate Your Life: Taking Bold Steps Forward
Feb 04, 2025
Y - Yes to Your Dreams: Envisioning the Life You Deserve
Feb 03, 2025
P - Process and Release: Letting Go of What No Longer Serves You
Feb 02, 2025
P - Preserve Your Space: Building Boundaries That Heal
Feb 01, 2025
A - Acknowledge Your Emotions: Embracing Your Inner Voice
Jan 31, 2025
H - Harmonise Your Authenticity: Aligning with Your True Self
Jan 30, 2025
Celebrating One Year of Growing, Flourishing and Thriving
Jan 29, 2025
Small Steps, Big Shifts - Focus on Gentle Progress
Jan 22, 2025
Permission to Pause: Self-Care as a Lifeline
Jan 15, 2025
Stabilising the Storm: Rest, Ground, and Reset
Jan 08, 2025
Reflect, Reset, and Thrive Crafting a Purposeful 2025
Jan 01, 2025
Finding Your Life's Purpose: Discover Your Why
Aug 15, 2024
Overcoming Guilt and Shame: Healing Emotional Wounds
Aug 08, 2024
Mindfulness for Everyday Life: Staying Present in the Moment
Aug 01, 2024
Building Resilience: Strength In Adversity
Jul 25, 2024
The Power of Positive Psychology Tools for a Happya Life
Jul 18, 2024
Navigating Life’s Transitions Coping with Change
Jul 11, 2024
Embracing Authenticity Be True to Yourself
Jul 04, 2024
Breaking Free from Survival Mode From Coping to Thriving
Jun 27, 2024
Thriving Through Anxiety: Strategies for Inner Peace
May 16, 2024
The UK's Wellbeing Wake-Up Call and the Happya Solution
Mar 14, 2024
Interview with Odette Mould: Beyond Surivival Supporting Children with Bereavement
Feb 14, 2024
Free your Mind: Release Anxiety and Worry
Feb 16, 2023
The Power of Self Love: Building a strong foundation for happiness
Feb 09, 2023
New Year, Same Story: Why we fail at keeping resolutions
Jan 26, 2023
Festive Anxiety
Dec 01, 2022
Self Care at Christmas
Nov 24, 2022
Enhance your Wellbeing
Nov 10, 2022
Who's Opinion Matters?
Nov 03, 2022
Mind the Gap
Oct 27, 2022
I should myself!
Oct 20, 2022
Showing up for your mental health
Oct 13, 2022
I am enough and may even be a little too much!
Oct 06, 2022
The Road to Happya
Sep 29, 2022
Trailer The Happya Life Podcast
Jul 21, 2022