The Crappy Childhood Fairy Podcast with Anna Runkle

By Anna Runkle

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I’m Anna Runkle, also known as the Crappy Childhood Fairy, and I teach people to recognize and heal the symptoms of Childhood PTSD. Welcome to my podcast!I’m not a doctor or therapist; I know about childhood trauma because I lived it, and I discovered a radical approach to healing that focuses first on calming neurological dysregulation, which is common in people who grew up with abuse and neglect. In my podcasts, I teach about dysregulation – how to know if you have it, what it can do to your body, your thinking and your relationships, and what to do to master re-regulation. When I learned this, everything in my life got suddenly easier. I’ll also be teaching you to heal the life problems that so often develop after years of living dysregulated – feeling tired, isolated and unfocused, finding yourself always drawn to unavailable and inappropriate partners, and falling WAY short of your professional potential, for example. The thing about me is, traditional therapies never seemed to help me. When I found techniques that did work, my whole life changed. Only in the past few years has the trauma research caught up to explain why – why the techniques I use worked, why therapy didn’t, and why my healing journey was so unnecessarily long. I’ve been teaching what I learned for more than 20 years now. It started with friends who had noticed the quick and dramatic change in me, and gradually grew by word of mouth. In 2016, I had so many people seeking instruction that I made my first online video, and then an online course, and this is how Crappy Childhood Fairy was born. My techniques and principles are practical yet powerful – an approach anyone can use, whether or not you have access to professional help. In this podcast, I’ll be talking about the master of self-regulation, and teach the tough-love life-lessons that you may not have learned at home – like how to date so that stable love finds you, how to get ahead at work, and how to calm the negative hamster-wheel thoughts that block your ability to connect with other people. Today, almost half a million people follow my work and participate in my training and coaching programs. My mission is to change the paradigm of what’s possible for people like us, and to help you free yourself from the oppression of trauma wounds, and to become your full, happy and real self. I’m glad you’re here! Watch new videos on my YouTube channel every Monday, Wednesday and Friday, and access my videos, courses and free tools at crappychildhoodfairy.com.

Episode Date
Childhood Neglect and the Attraction to People Who Don't Care About You
May 01, 2024
Hint: It's Not Because You "Want to Re-Create Your Childhood"
Apr 29, 2024
Change These Habits to Heal Damaging CPTSD Symptoms (4-Video Compilation)
Apr 28, 2024
Trauma Can Blind You to the Power YOU Have to Change
Apr 26, 2024
Limerence Flares Up When Life Feels Empty and Sad
Apr 24, 2024
Do This to Heal Broken Red-Flag Detector
Apr 22, 2024
This Trauma Symptom Hurts Others The Most (4-Video Compilation)
Apr 21, 2024
It’s When The Terror ENDS That Trauma Survivors Sometimes Break Down
Apr 19, 2024
Some People Are Not Wired to Experience Romantic Love
Apr 17, 2024
The Great Love You Crave Is Not a Fantasy
Apr 15, 2024
Early Trauma Can Make It Hard to Connect and Commit (4-Video Compilation)
Apr 14, 2024
Is It Cheating to Take a Job with Boundary-less Employer?
Apr 12, 2024
Don’t Let Wounds of Neglect Trample Any Possibility of Love
Apr 10, 2024
Don't Let CPTSD Block You From Becoming Your Full and REAL SELF
Apr 08, 2024
You're Madly In Love But Pretend to Be "Just a Friend" (4-Video Compilation)
Apr 07, 2024
Childhood Trauma Corrupts Your Thinking and Pushes You Into Danger
Apr 05, 2024
Unhealed Trauma Compels You To Cling to Horrible People
Apr 03, 2024
Evidence Shows Only a Few Treatments Are Effective
Apr 01, 2024
Healing Trauma Changes Your Relationship to Money (4-Video Compilation)
Mar 31, 2024
Here's Why Excessively Focusing on Others Keeps You Alone
Mar 29, 2024
Religious Cults Produce Damaged People Who Don’t Know Who They Are
Mar 27, 2024
How to Free Yourself From Constant Doubt and Worry
Mar 25, 2024
These Skills Attract Great Friends to Your Life (4-Video Compilation)
Mar 24, 2024
Neglect in Childhood Pushes You to Expect Real Bonds Too Soon
Mar 22, 2024
CPTSD And the Urge to "Help" Those Who Hurt You
Mar 20, 2024
CPTSD Makes It Hard to Choose What's Best For You
Mar 18, 2024
Learn to Recognize Ashamed Feelings, and Get Free
Mar 17, 2024
Don't Let "Friends" String You Along with Confusing Possibility of Love
Mar 15, 2024
CPTSD and the Belief You Have to Hide Your Love
Mar 13, 2024
Here's Proof This Power to Heal From Trauma Is Already Yours
Mar 11, 2024
Surprising Changes That Help with CPTSD (4-Video Compilation)
Mar 10, 2024
The Icky Feeling When Someone is Limerent on YOU
Mar 08, 2024
How Trauma-Driven Thinking Pushes You Into TRAPS
Mar 06, 2024
Out-of-Control Childhood Can Lead to Controlling Behaviors Now
Mar 04, 2024
These Triggers Are Connected With Neglect in Childhood
Mar 03, 2024
Non-Romantic Maladaptive Attachment Can Fixate You on Anyone
Mar 01, 2024
Trauma Healing Requires ACTION
Feb 28, 2024
Remove These Common Roadblocks to Trauma Healing
Feb 26, 2024
Common Symptoms You Didn't Know Are Trauma-Related (4-Video Compilation)
Feb 25, 2024
Too Much, Too Soon Ruins Your Chance to Get to Know Someone
Feb 23, 2024
Childhood PTSD Makes You Confuse “Wants” With “Boundaries”
Feb 22, 2024
CPTSD and The Sense of Disconnection
Feb 19, 2024
Childhood Neglect and the Wound to Your Self-Esteem (4-Video Compilation)
Feb 18, 2024
To Experience REAL Love, Heal the Wounds From Parents You Couldn’t Save
Feb 16, 2024
Attachment to Married or Long-Distance People Keeps You Always Alone
Feb 14, 2024
CPTSD Triggers Set Off Three Types of Reactions: Here's What to Do
Feb 12, 2024
Emotional Neglect and the Lure of Unavailable People (4-Video Compilation)
Feb 11, 2024
Painful Romantic Obsession Means It’s Time for Damage Control
Feb 09, 2024
Trying to “Save” The People You Date Helps No One
Feb 07, 2024
Childhood Trauma Damaged Your Ability to Tell What's True
Feb 05, 2024
Obsessive Love Has Roots in Childhood Trauma (4 video-compilation)
Feb 04, 2024
Your Path to Success Opens When You Heal These Trauma Wounds
Feb 02, 2024
Raging, Blaming, & Justifying Your Behavior Won’t Heal Relationships
Jan 31, 2024
When You First Date Them, Look For These Signs
Jan 29, 2024
Neurological Dysregulation: The Hidden Trauma Symptom You MUST Heal First
Jan 28, 2024
UNFREEZE Your Nervous System To Get Stuff Done
Jan 26, 2024
Avoidant People Are Often Drawn to People They Can't Have
Jan 24, 2024
Socializing is Stressful for People with CPTSD; Is it Controlling Your Life?
Jan 22, 2024
Why You Cling The Most to People Who Treat You You The Worst
Jan 21, 2024
The Cost of Making Other People the Center of Your Life
Jan 19, 2024
CPTSD Healing Requires Freedom From Others’ Agenda
Jan 17, 2024
What I Learned in 25 Years of Recovery
Jan 15, 2024
CPTSD and the Urge to Cling To Bad Relationships (4-Video Compilation)
Jan 14, 2024
If It Leaves You Sad and Empty, it May Be Time to Let Them Go
Jan 12, 2024
To Heal Trauma, Stop Fitting Yourself to Unacceptable People and Situations
Jan 10, 2024
Heal Dysregulation To Bring Calm To Your Emotions and Your Nervous System
Jan 08, 2024
What to Do When You're Not Getting Better
Jan 07, 2024
This Trauma Wound Makes You Crave Love, Then Run Away
Jan 05, 2024
CPTSD Can Cause You to "Go Unconscious" In Hard Relationships
Jan 03, 2024
CPTSD is a Wound That Makes It So Hard to Connect
Dec 29, 2023
How to Build The Life You Want (Even Though They Didn't Tell You HOW)
Dec 27, 2023
The Number One Reason Traumatized People Pull Away
Dec 25, 2023
The Real Reason The World Needs You To Heal From Trauma
Dec 24, 2023
CPTD Makes You Fill Your Life with Half-Relationships
Dec 22, 2023
Childhood Neglect and The High Cost of Trying to Be “Good Enough”
Dec 20, 2023
To Be a Light in Hard Times, Ask Yourself This (and Take Action on the Answers)
Dec 18, 2023
Overcoming Trauma is a Step by Step Process (4-Video Compilation)
Dec 17, 2023
CPTSD Blinds You to Signs They Are TAKING From You But Don't Care
Dec 15, 2023
CPTSD Wounds Can Make You Worry Constantly, Even When Things Are Fine
Dec 13, 2023
This Form of Writing Is Effective For Healing Trauma & Physical/Mental Health
Dec 11, 2023
Putting All Your Focus On Another Person's Problems Robs You of a Happy Life
Dec 10, 2023
No, You're Not Obliged to Lend an Ear to Troubled "Friends"
Dec 08, 2023
Neglectful Parents Condition You to Love Unavailable People
Dec 06, 2023
When Past Trauma Has You Stuck, Do This
Dec 04, 2023
FIRST Get The Trauma Out Of Your Life, THEN Help Others
Dec 01, 2023
How To Break Your Obsession With Winning Impossible Love
Nov 29, 2023
After Terrible Things Have Happened, Here's How to Build A HAPPY LIFE
Nov 19, 2023
Stop Reactivating Trauma Wounds With "Partners" You Never See
Nov 13, 2023
Staying Stuck in Bad Jobs, Bad Relationships FEELs Like The Safe Choice: Here's Why
Nov 10, 2023
What to Say to Doctors Who Don't Understand Childhood Trauma
Nov 08, 2023
How Good Boundaries Set You Free to Enjoy Your Relationships
Nov 06, 2023
Their Behavior Generates Insecurity And Obsession In YOU
Nov 03, 2023
Neglect In Childhood Primes You to Eroticize Abandonment
Nov 02, 2023
Some People Feel Betrayed When YOU Heal Your Trauma
Oct 30, 2023
Childhood Neglect And The Feeling That You Can Never Belong
Oct 27, 2023
If You "Throw" Love At Unavailable People, It Could Be From Wounds of Neglect
Oct 25, 2023
How to Set Boundaries When They're Obsessed With Their Next Love Object
Oct 19, 2023
When Too Many Bad Things Happen At Once, DO THIS To Hold On, Stay Strong
Oct 16, 2023
Why You Didn't See The Red Flags
Oct 15, 2023
Why You Fall For Unavailable People
Oct 11, 2023
When You Can't Understand Why You KEEP Making Similar, Destructive Choices
Oct 06, 2023
The Real Story of Why I Quit Talk Therapy
Oct 02, 2023
Neglect in Childhood Taught You to FIT Yourself to Unacceptable People
Oct 01, 2023
How to Take Space From Difficult People FOR NOW (While You Decide If It's Forever)
Sep 29, 2023
Expecting New Partners to "Meet Your Needs" Will Push Them Away
Sep 27, 2023
Hiding Others' Abusive Acts Desensitizes You: That's What They Want
Sep 26, 2023
Neglect in Your Childhood Trained You to Pretend You're OK
Sep 24, 2023
Feeling Manipulated & Discarded Is Your Sign to Get Away
Sep 22, 2023
"Fawning" Is A Trauma Response That Leaves You Vulnerable to BAD TREATMENT
Sep 20, 2023
When You Heal These Behaviors Everything Gets Better
Sep 18, 2023
Life FEELS Chaotic To People with Childhood PTSD, But Control Isn't The Answer
Sep 17, 2023
Your Attractiveness Grows When You Heal Your Unmet Childhood Needs
Sep 15, 2023
How a Lack of Boundaries Makes You Invisible and Alone
Sep 13, 2023
Your Career Advances Quickly When You Heal These Trauma Symptoms
Aug 27, 2023
My Response to PESSIMISTS and MORE Answers to Great Questions from the Comment Section
Aug 25, 2023
Limerence Confuses Your Ability to Tell What's REAL
Aug 23, 2023
How to Tell If Your Relationship is Suffering Because ONE of You Is Codependent
Aug 22, 2023
Learn My Top Tips for Healing Past Trauma and Changing Your Life
Aug 06, 2023
Working Harder Than Most Other People COULD Be Over-Functioning
Aug 04, 2023
If Others' Success Fills You With Pain, Here's What to Do
Aug 02, 2023
These Five Phases Show You Where You've Healed CPTSD and What's Next
Jul 31, 2023
Why It's So Hard to Tell When Someone Else Is The Problem (and When It's Just You)
Jul 30, 2023
Attachment Wounds Rob You Of The Feeling of “Home”
Jul 28, 2023
How Abandonment Wounds Trick You Into Staying With People Who Mistreat You
Jul 26, 2023
The Limerent Flip: Facing Rejection Becomes So Unbearable You Stay Obsessed
Jul 21, 2023
People Neglected in Childhood Can't See BIG HOLES In New Relationships
Jul 19, 2023
Signs You Weren't Listened to As a Child
Jul 17, 2023
Why fantasy hurts your ability to form REAL relationships
Jul 16, 2023
Hyper-Intense Reactions to Stress Damages Relationships; Here's What to Do
Jul 16, 2023
LIMERENCE: Major Losses Trigger Obsessive Love
Jul 14, 2023
Drama-Free Strategies to Keep Family Members From Ruining Your Day
Jul 12, 2023
Friendship Skills For People Who Didn't Learn This At Home
Jul 10, 2023
How to Heal Your Trauma-Driven Thinking So You Can Make Better Decisions
Jul 09, 2023
Why Traumatized People Struggle With Friendships (and How You Can Heal)
Jul 07, 2023
Sometimes Your Strength is The Reason They Turn On You
Jul 05, 2023
Emotional Dysregulation Ruins Even The Best Relationships
Jul 03, 2023
Demoralization: How to Resuscitate The GOOD In You & Recover Faith In The Future
Jul 02, 2023
Crisis-Stage Codependency: How You Know It's Happening
Jun 29, 2023
Anxious Attachment Style: Overcome Your Urge to MERGE and CLING in Early Relationships
Jun 26, 2023
Narcissistic Traits vs. 'REAL' Narcissism
Jun 23, 2023
Heal Your Avoidant Attachment Style Before It Drains Your Life of Love and Meaning
Jun 22, 2023
Heal Chaos and Overwhelm: DECLUTTER Every Part of Your Life
Jun 16, 2023
The EMPTINESS You Feel Is Trying to TELL YOU Something
Jun 09, 2023
Brain Dysregulation: How to Know If It's Happening (and What to Do About It)
Jun 06, 2023
Trauma Wounds FLARE UP When You Begin Dating (Especially When They're Wonderful)
Jun 02, 2023
Trauma Is a Multiplier for Isolation & Loneliness: Here's What to Do
May 30, 2023
Do You Procrastinate MORE Than Most People? Here's What to Do
May 26, 2023
These Triggers Are “The Tell” That You were Neglected and Ostracized As a Child
May 23, 2023
Once Paralyzed By Fear, It's time to Reactivate Your REAL SELF Now!
May 19, 2023
If You Struggle To Maintain Good Relationships, THIS Is why
May 16, 2023
Healing Past Trauma Is How You End the Evil Cycle & Shine GOODNESS On All
May 12, 2023
Fantasy Love & Under-Earning = ESCAPE Reactions to Early Trauma
May 09, 2023
Here's How to Communicate What YOU Want So People Respect You
May 05, 2023
Burned Out, Resentful, and Busy All The Time? You Might Be an OVERFUNCTIONER
May 02, 2023
You Think You're Helping, But You're Actually Pushing Your Friend Away
Apr 28, 2023
These Trauma Reactions Trigger Self-Defeating Behaviors
Apr 25, 2023
The Real Reason Your Friends Bail When You Need Them
Apr 21, 2023
Succeeding at Work You Love is a Powerful Part of Trauma Healing
Apr 18, 2023
Stop Giving Away The INNER POWER You Need to Heal Your Trauma
Apr 14, 2023
Past Trauma Could Be Why You Struggle to Get Things Done
Apr 11, 2023
No More Fitting Yourself to Unacceptable People And Situations!
Apr 07, 2023
How to Hold Boundaries Kindly, Without Apology
Apr 04, 2023
Do You Procrastinate MORE Than Most People? Here's What to Do
Mar 31, 2023
Facing Your Shame Lets You Heal It or Change It
Mar 28, 2023
The Destructive Attraction to Unavailable People: How to Heal
Mar 24, 2023
Casual Sex Culture Is Toxic For People Who Were Neglected/Abandoned In Childhood
Mar 21, 2023
The Trauma Won't Stop Until YOU Break the Cycle
Mar 17, 2023
If You Are Struggling To Connect With REAL Friends, You're Probably Doing THIS!
Mar 14, 2023
10 Ways People With Childhood PTSD Self-Sabotage
Mar 10, 2023
Trauma Wounds Flare When You Try To Be Part of Groups? Here's How to Heal.
Mar 07, 2023
Stop Playing Small: How to Recognize Partners Who Can Love You
Mar 03, 2023
LIMERENCE: Obsessing on Unavailable People Is an Escape from Your Own Life
Feb 28, 2023
LIMERENCE & Lost Love: What Happens When Your Ex Comes BACK?
Feb 24, 2023
Accept Them or Leave, But Stop Fighting Loved Ones Who Refuse to Change
Feb 21, 2023
How You Unconsciously Signal to Others You're Not Partner Material
Feb 17, 2023
Do This To Get The Most Important Things DONE Now
Feb 14, 2023
How To Know What You Really WANT
Feb 10, 2023
How to Break the Spell of Trauma Bond Relationships
Feb 07, 2023
Healthy People Look for These Characteristics in YOU
Feb 03, 2023
CPTSD: Why You Cling to People Who Mistreat You
Jan 31, 2023
CPTSD & Attachment Styles: Partners Who Trigger Abandonment Wounds
Jan 27, 2023
Codependents THINK They're Just Being Nice But Here's the Brutal Reality
Jan 24, 2023
What to Do When They Don't Respect Your Wishes About Drugs and Alcohol
Jan 20, 2023
When Your Trust Is Broken, Past Trauma Flares (Here's What to Do)
Jan 17, 2023
Codependents THINK They're Just Being Nice But Here's the Brutal Reality
Jan 13, 2023
Here's What It FEELS LIKE When Your Nervous System Is Dysregulated
Jan 10, 2023
How to Radically Change Your Life In Just a Year
Jan 04, 2023
These 10 Truths Clear Up Trauma-Driven Thinking and Empower You to Heal
Jan 03, 2023
Before You Ruin Another Friendship, Listen to THIS
Dec 30, 2022
The REAL Reasons People Keep Breaking Up With You
Dec 27, 2022
Why It Feels Like The Person YOU CAN’T HAVE Can Make You Happy
Dec 23, 2022
Don't Argue or Fight With a NARCISSIST - Do This Instead To WIN EVERY TIME
Dec 20, 2022
Loneliness & Trauma Make You CLING To New (and Unhealthy) Relationships At ANY Cost
Dec 16, 2022
He's Not In Love With You Yet: Here Are Signs to Give It More Time
Dec 13, 2022
"Waking Up" Out of Romantic Obsession: How to Heal
Dec 09, 2022
You Long For A Great And Real Love Because You Are Meant to Have It
Dec 06, 2022
Narcissistic Abuse: These Characteristics Make You Vulnerable
Dec 02, 2022
CPTSD and The Aversion to Decent People Who Treat You Well
Nov 29, 2022
Emotional Intoxication vs Emotional Sobriety: How to Heal A Little Each Day
Nov 25, 2022
How to Apologize Beautifully
Nov 22, 2022
CPTSD & The Toxic Love of Unavailable Partners: How to Get Free
Nov 18, 2022
Childhood PTSD Makes It Hard to Discern Good Partners: Here Are Some Signs
Nov 15, 2022
These CPTSD Treatments Don't Work. Here's What Does
Nov 11, 2022
Why I Quit Therapy
Nov 08, 2022
CPTSD Therapists - Here's What To Look For
Nov 03, 2022
LIMERENCE: To Heal Obsession, Heal Wounds of Neglect
Nov 01, 2022
Magical Thinking Saved Your Childhood (But NOW It's Ruining Your Life)
Oct 28, 2022
LIMERENCE: Abandonment Wounds Cue Partners to Discard You
Oct 21, 2022
12 Common Symptoms of CPTSD from Childhood
Oct 18, 2022
Why Hurrying is a Major Trigger for People with Childhood PTSD
Oct 15, 2022
Trauma Causes Emotional Dysregulation: Here's How to Heal It
Oct 14, 2022
Accepting Crumbs in Relationships is a Survival Strategy from Childhood
Oct 09, 2022
These Dating Red Flags Mean STOP
Oct 06, 2022
12 Signs That Someone Could Be a Great Partner For You
Sep 28, 2022
Do People TRIGGER You? CPTSD and Why We ISOLATE
Jul 27, 2022
Magical Thinking Saved Your Childhood (But NOW It's Ruining Your Life)
Jul 27, 2022
CPTSD Blinds You To Relationship RED FLAGS
Jul 27, 2022
Childhood PTSD and Loneliness -- How to Begin Healing
Jul 27, 2022
LIMERENCE: Abandonment Wounds Cue Partners to Discard You
Jul 27, 2022
Are You RE-Traumatizing Yourself? 16 Self-Defeating Behaviors Common with Childhood PTSD.
Jul 27, 2022
LIMERENCE: To Heal Obsession, Heal Wounds of Neglect
Jul 27, 2022
How COVERT AVOIDANCE Makes Your Life EMPTY
Jul 27, 2022
Most CPTSD Treatments Don't Work. Here's What Does.
Jul 27, 2022
Five Steps to Protect Yourself from Opinion Bullies
Jul 06, 2022
CPTSD and Visiting Family: Ten Tips for Self Care
Jul 06, 2022
Some People Don't Want You to Heal from Your Childhood Trauma
Jul 06, 2022
Your Red Flag Detector is Broken
Jul 06, 2022
Get Out of Brain Fog
Jul 05, 2022
Three CPTSD Behaviors that Push People Away
May 27, 2022