Date Yourself Instead

By Lyss Boss

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You’ve made it to Date Yourself Instead, a podcast intended to inspire you to become the best version of yourself. In 2021, social media personality Lyss started a self-love series on TikTok which amassed over 100+ million views on her videos and counting. In this podcast, she gets candid about her relationship experiences, and touches on other topics including business, beauty, wellness, and so much more. Welcome to the #dateyourselfinstead movement. Episodes every Monday.

Episode Date
You’re not “crazy” - why trusting your gut is SO powerful
00:35:46

I pride myself on my sense of intuition, but those gut feelings can be easy to ignore especially if you’re like me and like giving people the benefit of the doubt. In this episode I share a story where gaslighting and red flags were ignored until my gut was screaming at me. Sometimes we get too in our heads to listen to that built-in accuracy radar but know that feelings of insecurity are normal, and the right person will work through those feelings with you.

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Jan 30, 2023
How to manifest your dream life in 2023
00:28:04

With the fresh start 2023 is giving us, it’s the perfect time to start attracting abundance and transforming into your best self. I share the stories of the power of manifesting in my own life and how you can harness your own power and manifest your dream life too! Have you heard about this lucky girl syndrome trend? I’m going to experiment with this over the next few months. I love hearing from you guys so if you want to do it with me, lets DM!

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Jan 23, 2023
30 things I learned before my 30th birthday
00:27:18

It’s a big thing to be turning 30 and a lot has happened in the past couple of years to make me who I am today. This week I am talking about 30 things I learned before turning 30. I also wanted to say a belated Happy New Year and I’m so excited about getting listeners involved in the future of the podcast; bringing on guests and incorporating your topic suggestions!  

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Jan 16, 2023
Proving people wrong is fun
00:29:48

I’ve had a lot of hate over the years in my career and I have learned that I don’t need to prove myself to anyone. All of the energy I put into listening to what other people thought of me never helped me get anywhere. In this episode, I share some of these pivotal moments and tips I use to harness that energy to create an amazing life for myself. Pursue your passions and block out the noise – you are amazing!

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Jan 09, 2023
How to detach, let go, and REALLY move on
00:22:43

Detaching is an art that can be very emotionally challenging. Becoming aware of what is NOT serving your growth then letting go of it can make you MAGNETIC. This episode lays out the steps to detach in a healthy way and how I have applied them to relationships in my life. If this is a part of your journey, go easy on yourself. Detaching can be such a beautiful thing!

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Jan 02, 2023
Stop being impressed by the BARE MINIMUM
00:22:56

Today we talk about the many reasons why you should raise your dating standards but what does it ACTUALLY mean to claim your power? You are not somebody’s backup plan! I share what I do to remember my worth and the shift that can happen when you learn how to show up for yourself and not tolerate shitty behavior. Once you love yourself so fucking much, you’ll attract someone that matches your love!

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Dec 26, 2022
Let’s talk situationships
00:29:09

One of the questions I get in my DM’s regularly is: Am I doing the right thing by staying in this situationship? As always, no pressure to jump out of a situationship if you’re loving where you’re at but if you want to address the pros and cons, we are talking expectations, standards, communication and genuine happiness. If your happiness is being compromised right now, remember that you deserve unconditional love and you are amazing! Thanks for listening!

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Dec 19, 2022
Falling in love with a narcissist
00:26:13

If you’re dating a person based on a conceptualized version of them vs. the person they are consistently showing you that they are, I’ve been there. Today I am sharing my challenging experience with a narcissist and what I learned from it. Once you understand narcissistic personalities then start to turn inward to examine your worth, your transformation can begin!

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Dec 12, 2022
Why are female friendships so hard?
00:26:01

I got a DM that hit hard: How do you make friends to easily in NYC? Just like other relationships, female friendships can be toxic. If you always gravitate toward masculine energy, maybe you can relate to this. A lot of what I have experienced in the social media space has been superficial, but in this episode you’ll hear about how I balance surrounding myself with genuine, empowering people and wondering, am I the problem?

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Dec 05, 2022
How to manifest your soulmate
00:30:43

If you’re ready to receive someone into your life, this story may inspire you manifest it. Once, after listening to a podcast suggesting manifesting a love by writing a letter, I immediately met a new person. It’s easy to match someone’s energy for too long and lose yourself. Instead, you can use your positive thoughts to manifest someone that you can be your true self with.

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Nov 28, 2022
Feeling lonely on the holidays
00:26:03

Feeling cozy and celebrating the holidays with a significant other is such a great feeling but when I realized that I will likely be alone for the holidays this year... the anxiety spiral began. If you’re feeling left out during the holiday season, I share some tips what can shift your perspective. You’re welcome to feel your feelings but if you’re ready to embrace this season in a new way, focusing on being alone can be a super positive experience!

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Nov 21, 2022
Do all men come back?
00:28:40

I am constantly flooded with this question: Do all men come back? If you’re in a waiting period right now, this episode validates all of the feelings that come along with that. Sharing from my personal experience in situationships and relationships, I talk about how to assess if this is a connection worth exploring and if it is, how to become a magnet. Either way, know that you deserve a healthy and amazing love and that the universe has got you!

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Nov 14, 2022
how to take your POWER back after a breakup
00:33:25

This episode is probably my favorite one yet, because it’s going to teach you how to TAKE YOUR POWER BACK after a bad breakup. It’s so easy to lose yourself in a toxic relationship, and this episode covers everything you need to know about claiming who you are again and focusing on healthy ways to heal. You know you’re unstoppable and you have all the power you need within yourself; it’s just about finding it again. I’ve got you covered.

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Nov 07, 2022
A Halloween storytime and my best manifestation tips
00:21:00

HAPPY HALLOWEEN! For all of you fellow witches out there, I know this day is very special to you because it is to me. This episode is going to be different. I’m diving into a crazy story about how my mom was almost murdered while she was pregnant with me. I’ll also be covering my best manifestation tips and practices for this spooky season. PS - if you have any fun Halloween plans, DM me on instagram @Lyss. I would love to hear what you’re up to tonight. 👻

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Oct 31, 2022
Stop Comparing Yourself To Everyone Else
00:27:31

Today's episode is going to talk about COMPARISON and why there is no point in ever comparing yourself to anyone else. In the world of social media, it is so difficult sometimes to pull yourself away from what everyone else is doing. The truth is, most of what you see isn't real. I also talk about my personal experiences dealing with social media and the reality of what I've been through. Let's dive into this together.

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Oct 24, 2022
it’s okay to be depressed
00:15:45

It’s okay to allow yourself to feel your feelings. Lyss tells the story of entering therapy and the lows she had to let herself fully experience in order to get to the root of her issues. The only way out is through and Lyss talks about the loss and shock she felt before finding her purpose and reinventing herself. Don’t put off moving your body, trust the process & lean into what make you feel alive.

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Oct 17, 2022
My Red Flags When Dating
00:19:01

Have you ever been love bombed or felt underwhelmed by the texting character shown by the person you’re talking to? This week Lyss shares her personal experience with red flags while dating. When no effort is put in to making plans and excuses start to stack up, follow your intuition. Stay tuned for part two!

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Oct 17, 2022
So he ghosted you…now what?
00:20:06

Ok so he ghosted you, now what are you supposed to do? In this episode, I take it step by step on what to do when someone ghosts you. Because we all know getting ghosted can be a shitty feeling. Don’t worry, I’ve got you covered.

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Oct 10, 2022
How I Attracted My Ex Back with The Law of Attraction
00:19:53

If you’re skeptical about the Law of Attraction, the stories in this episode will convince you otherwise. Lyss was in a loose relationship that ended brutally when months later a symbolic necklace pulled his energy back into her space. Lyss also followed her intuition in a different relationship which built a connection that was a crucial part of her personal development.

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Oct 03, 2022
Free Girl Fall, F*ck Boy Fall (And A Dating Story Time)
00:21:39

Lyss is kicking off the fall season in a positive and inspirational way. Join her mental freedom journey as she explains the new routines she’s putting in place to set the tone for the rest of the year. Life is short so Lyss is focusing on fueling her passions + she ends this episode with a classic f*ck boy fall dating story that is to be continued.

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Sep 26, 2022
How to Heal from a Heartbreak
00:29:16

Today Lyss speaks on a highly requested topic: Heartbreak. She relives one of the most painful breakups she has ever experienced and covers all of the very relatable insecurities that come post-breakup. This episode is full of practical steps Lyss took to begin the healing process and the inspiration that came after the healing began.

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Sep 19, 2022
Trusting Your Intuition and Inner Voice
00:19:14

Today Lyss shares takeaways from past dating experience on valuing herself, trusting her intuition + the amazing things that she has attracted when she wasn’t mirroring a toxic partner. Lyss also had a new experience with a psychic this week and is feeling the pressure of being at a crossroads at work.

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Sep 12, 2022
Welcome to Date Yourself Instead
00:01:08

You’ve made it to Date Yourself Instead, a podcast intended to inspire you to become the best version of yourself. In 2021, social media personality Lyss started a self-love series on TikTok which amassed over 100+ million views on her videos and counting. In this podcast, she gets candid about her relationship experiences, and touches on other topics including business, beauty, wellness, and so much more. Welcome to the #dateyourselfinstead movement. Episodes every Monday.

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Sep 09, 2022