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Welcome to IADGAF (formerly known as The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast & The Love Atiya Experience) a sensual rebellion disguised as a podcast created as an unapologetic “f**k you” to the patriarchy.
This is the playground for every part of you that society attempted to tame! That means the too emotional, too loud, too sexual, too sensitive, too powerful parts if you get to come out, stretch, shake off the shame, and maybe even twerk a little under the moonlight (highly recommended.)
This is where we decolonize our minds, undomesticate our desires, decenter men, recenter ourselves, redefine what femininity looks like outside of the male gaze (eeeeyuck) and literally practice not giving a f*ck.
It’s time for us to step out of the cage the world built for you and walk barefoot into your own wildness.
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80. How To Date Again After Taking A Long A** Break (Part 1)
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Apr 25, 2026 |
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79. How To Become Less Accessible Without Giving A F*ck
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Mar 25, 2026 |
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78. IADGAF A PODCAST FOR PEOPLE WHO WANT TO GIVE LESS F*CKS
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Feb 20, 2026 |
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PATREON BONUS: So I Met Up With a Man IRL After a Year Of No Dating…
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Feb 13, 2026 |
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PATREON BONUS: Sometimes You Just Don’t Got It To Give… and That’s OKAY
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Feb 06, 2026 |
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77. Friendship Archetypes and Feeling More Pleasure With Friends (Part 2)
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Jan 30, 2026 |
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76. Solo Date Ideas & After Care Tips For Sexting
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Jan 09, 2026 |
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75. Should We Stop Trying To Connect With Men?
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Jan 02, 2026 |
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74. We Are Not Normal Human Beings | Turning 31 and Giving Less Fucks
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Dec 26, 2025 |
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73. Confession: My Desires For Platonic Intimacy & A Companion?
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Dec 19, 2025 |
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72. Misogyny in Queer Spaces & My Lesbian Updates
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Dec 05, 2025 |
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71. PATREON: He Said He Couldn’t Cuddle… Platonic Intimacy & Finding My People
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Nov 21, 2025 |
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PATREON BONUS: Everything You Want Is On The Other Side Of Fear
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Nov 12, 2025 |
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70. Creating A Pleasure Plan | Finding Pleasure During Grief
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Nov 07, 2025 |
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69. Decolonizing Pleasure Pt 2 | Gender & Sexuality Pre-Colonization
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Oct 24, 2025 |
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68. The Power Of The Indigenous People | Decolonizing Pleasure
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Sep 29, 2025 |
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67. Dual Stimulation, Energy Maintenance & Mind Blowing Orgasms
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Sep 12, 2025 |
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BONUS EPISODE: I Made An Oppsie
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Sep 12, 2025 |
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66. How To Pleasure Yourself To Your Higher Self | My Penetration Experiment
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Aug 26, 2025 |
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The Root Cause To The Negative Voices In My Head
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Aug 15, 2025 |
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65. The History & Hidden Truth Behind Porn (Are We Addicted Or Nah?)
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Aug 08, 2025 |
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What If Everything Wasn't a Punishment
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Aug 01, 2025 |
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The Root Cause To The Voices In My Head
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Jul 25, 2025 |
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64. Matriarchal Animals & How I Dating The Wrong Friend
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Jul 18, 2025 |
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You Are Perfect, Just As You Are | No Lessons Just Practice
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Jul 11, 2025 |
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63. My Social Experiment | Meeting Partner(s) Who Actually Care About Pleasure
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Jul 04, 2025 |
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The People Pleaser’s Guide to Losing Yourself (and How I’m Finding Me Again)
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Jun 27, 2025 |
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62. The Arousal Episode Part 2 | Solo Dates & Sexual Temptation
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Jun 20, 2025 |
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How To Become Yourself | My Sparkly, Slightly Messy New Beginning
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Jun 13, 2025 |
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PATREON BONUS: Reconnecting With My First Lesbian Lover & My PMDD Diagnosis
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Jun 09, 2025 |
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61. How To Feel More Arousal | Math Dyslexia and Pelvic Floor Dysfunction
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Jun 06, 2025 |
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60. PROJECT PLEASURE: I Asked 11 People About Their Pleasure & What An Orgasm Feels Like
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May 30, 2025 |
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59. How To Have A Self Pleasure Ceremony | The Friend I Wanna F*ck
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May 16, 2025 |
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58. How To Feel Less Shame About Self Pleasure
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May 02, 2025 |
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PATREON BONUS: New Voicenote Series | Self Care & Boundaries
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Apr 30, 2025 |
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57. Processing Grief & Finding Pleasure Without Sex
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Apr 18, 2025 |
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PATREON BONUS: Friends, How Many Of Us Have Them? Not Me Apparently
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Apr 07, 2025 |
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56. I Had Sex With a Hotep | PMDD & Being a Highly Sensitive Person
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Apr 04, 2025 |
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55. Nipple Orgasm Tips, Reparenting & Giving Our Parents Grace
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Mar 16, 2025 |
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54. The Pleasure Guide | How To Get Your Partner To Please You
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Mar 01, 2025 |
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PATREON BONUS CONTENT: My New View Of Relationships In 2025
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Feb 14, 2025 |
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53. Me & My P*ssy are TIRED | How To Advocate For Your Vulva To Your OBGYN
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Feb 01, 2025 |
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52. It Hurts When I C*m
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Jan 01, 2025 |
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51. My P*ssy Is Grieving With Kiana Founder Of Souley Gazing
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Dec 08, 2024 |
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50. An Episode For Those Who Are Also Disgusted By Men…
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Nov 17, 2024 |
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49. Bye Bye Hinge, Hello Streets + Autism & Emetophobia Update
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Nov 01, 2024 |
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48. An Orgasm For Your Ears Feat Cornelia From Xounds
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Oct 06, 2024 |
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47. Why I Hate You Hetero Hoes
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Sep 22, 2024 |
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45. Sex After 2 Years Of Celibacy & Sex Tips For Survivors
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Sep 01, 2024 |
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44. Is This My Voice Or My Ex’s | Healing From Negative Thoughts / Negative Self Talk
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Aug 22, 2024 |
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43. Planning Your Sex Featuring Crystal Creator Of The Sex Planner
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Jul 28, 2024 |
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42. What An Orgasm Feels Like with Polina from Nympho Life
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Jul 14, 2024 |
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41. Dating With An Open Heart & Falling In Love With Nigel Marcellus Part 2
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Jun 03, 2024 |
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40. My Mom Brought Me My First Vibrator At 16 | Sex Ed At Home Feat My Mommy
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May 25, 2024 |
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39. Becoming Besties With My Vagina | More Tips For Vulva Health
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Apr 28, 2024 |
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38. Things I’m Doing To Connect With My Vagina | Am I Poly & Is There A Straight Agenda?
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Apr 09, 2024 |
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37. Doing Porn & Healing From Sexual Trauma With The Gross Demon Alex Monroe Part 2
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Apr 05, 2024 |
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36. Cuckholding & Learning How To Squirt With My Favorite Sex Toys
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Mar 10, 2024 |
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34. Sober Sex & Healthy Dating Tips With Nadine From The Sober Butterfly Podcast
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Feb 11, 2024 |
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33. Dating With An Open Heart & Falling In Love With Nigel Marcellus
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Jan 28, 2024 |
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32. Doing Porn & Healing From Sexual Trauma With The Gross Demon Alex Monroe Part 1
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Jan 18, 2024 |
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31. Are You Beyonce?! | Navigating Unhealthy Relationships & Adult Friendships
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Jan 01, 2024 |
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To My Love Bugs: More Bonus Content, Diary Entires & More
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Dec 25, 2023 |
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30: I’m Horny But I’m Not | Anal Tips With Atiti | Tips For "Hypersexuality"
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Dec 17, 2023 |
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29. If Your Boo Doesn’t Turn Your Body On | What Is Reactive Abuse | Celibacy Tips
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Dec 03, 2023 |
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28. The Time I Had a Condom Stuck Inside Me | Demonic Sperm | FAQ About Sex
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Nov 19, 2023 |
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27. Vomit Phobias & Hot Semen | 70 Sex Questions For Your Lover (Or Yourself)
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Nov 06, 2023 |