The Conscious Love Show

By Shane Kohler

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Description

Most relationship advice will tell you what to do differently. This show will tell you why you keep doing what you do — and what it's actually costing you.

Every week Shane Kohler brings direct, unfiltered insight into the psychology of love, attraction, and commitment. No validation. No generic advice. Just honest conversations about the unconscious patterns driving your relationships and what it actually takes to change them.

This isn't a show about finding the right person. It's about becoming someone who can recognize them, choose them, and build something real with them.

New episodes every week. Take the Relational Blueprint Quiz at inspiredloveapproach.com/blueprint to find out which pattern has been quietly running your love life.


Episode Date
Why You Still Can't Let Go of The One Who Didn't Choose You
Sep 02, 2026
Should I Tell Him How I Feel? Wanting Commitment, Wrecking It, and Running From It
Aug 26, 2026
The 5 Ways Men Love — And the Only One That Actually Matters
Aug 19, 2026
Shane's Diary Entry #9: My Life Story Part 1
Aug 12, 2026
The 4 Childhood Experiences That Explain Why Men Don't Choose You
Aug 05, 2026
The Real Reason He Keeps Coming Back But Never Commits
Jul 29, 2026
How Not to Be A Doormat with Erin and Sara Foster
Jul 22, 2026
What Men Notice About a Woman Before She Even Says a Word
Jul 15, 2026
If He's Not Afraid of Commitment, Why Her and Not You
Jul 08, 2026
If You Act Like His Wife, He'll Treat You Like His Mother
Jul 01, 2026
How to Heal the Need to Have Him Choose You
Jun 24, 2026
The #1 Reason Men Leave (And the Thing That Makes Him Stay)
Jun 17, 2026
Four Months In and He Still Hasn't Told You What He Wants — Do This
Jun 10, 2026
The Silent Test Men Are Giving That Women Don't Even Know They're Taking
Jun 03, 2026
Most of Your "Standards" Have Nothing to Do With What You Actually Need — Here's 3 That Do...
May 27, 2026
Why High-Value Men Lose Interest in Women Who Are Too Available
May 20, 2026
The Essential Qualities of a Conscious Woman
May 13, 2026
The Essential Qualities of a Conscious Man
May 06, 2026
Why Men Commit to Some Women and Not Others (The 3 Things that Make the Difference)
Apr 29, 2026
They Want Men and Women to Hate Each Other (And It's Working)
Apr 22, 2026
Understanding Your Nervous System, Parts Work, and Inner Child Healing with Sarah Baldwin
Apr 15, 2026
Shane's Diary Entry #8: Why love doesn't satisfy us and no amount of achievement is ever enough
Apr 08, 2026
Why You Still Haven’t Broken the Self-Sabotage Pattern (And Why Your Ego Wants It That Way)
Apr 01, 2026
You Don't Understand the Power You Have Over Men — That’s Why You Don’t Use It
Mar 25, 2026
Why You Keep Ending Up in Situationships (Even When You Don’t Want One)
Mar 18, 2026
Men Are Falling Behind Women! Where are all the good men today?
Mar 11, 2026
Shane's Diary Entry #7: The Epstein Release, Trump Administration, and How to Stay Sane in Scary Times
Mar 04, 2026
Why He Loses Interest When You Stop Chasing
Feb 25, 2026
Why You Lower Your Value Around High-Value Men
Feb 18, 2026
Why He Pulls Away the Moment You Start to Care
Feb 11, 2026
Men Only Want Sex (At First) Here's What Makes Him Want More
Feb 04, 2026
Shane's Diary Entry #6: The 5 Relationships that Taught Me How to Love
Jan 28, 2026
Why You’re Attracted to the Men Who Don’t Want You
Jan 21, 2026
Why Men Don't Commit (And What Makes Him Change His Mind)
Jan 14, 2026
This Year, Stop Trying to Fix Yourself to Be Loved
Jan 07, 2026
Best of 2025 - How to Invite a Man to Step Up For You (in the ways that matter most...)
Dec 31, 2025
Best of 2025 - Situationships: How to let go of what no longer serves you
Dec 24, 2025
If the Love You Were Seeking Didn't Arrive This Year...
Dec 17, 2025
You Never Wanted Love — You Just Wanted to Be Chosen
Dec 10, 2025
The 7 Feminine Power Codes that Men Can't Resist
Dec 03, 2025
Shane's Diary Entry #5: A Course in Miracles, Spiritual Awakening, and the Holy Relationship
Nov 26, 2025
The 10 Things Men Say That Confuse Women (and What They Actually Mean)
Nov 19, 2025
Men Will Not Approach You in 2025: How to meet men in the wild...
Nov 12, 2025
How to Train a Man: The Feminine Formula for Lasting Devotion
Nov 05, 2025
Shane's Diary Entry #4: Reclaiming My Masculinity in a Culture that Wants Men to Be Like Women
Oct 29, 2025
How to Know a Man is Ready for Commitment (He's Not Afraid—He's Just Not Ready for You)
Oct 22, 2025
The Secret Every High Value Woman Knows About Masculine Energy
Oct 15, 2025
Why Men Stop Seeing You as High Value (Even When You Are)
Oct 08, 2025
Shane's Diary Entry #3: My journey to love, that path to healing and finding my wife
Oct 01, 2025
Your Attachment Style is a Lie: The truth about anxious women and avoidant men...
Sep 24, 2025
How to Heal the Subconscious Attraction to Avoidant Men
Sep 17, 2025
The Spiritual Nature of Attachment
Sep 10, 2025
Shane's Diary Entry #2: Spiritual Narcissism, Toxic Positivity, and Learning to Embrace the Shadow
Sep 03, 2025
“How could you leave me?” Why Love Would Never Ask This Question…
Aug 27, 2025
A Woman's Greatest Wound: The Need to Be Chosen
Aug 20, 2025
The Truth About Men in 2025
Aug 13, 2025
Shane's Diary; Entry #1: Reflections on becoming a father, relationship to my parents, addiction, and love
Aug 06, 2025
Beyond Charm and Chemistry: Attracting a Partner Who is Truly Emotionally Available
Jul 30, 2025
Choosing the Right Partner Part 2: Individual Aspects of Compatibility
Jul 23, 2025
QUESTION - What to Do When He Goes Dark for Days?
Jul 18, 2025
Choosing the Right Partner, Part 1: Universal Aspects of Compatibility
Jul 16, 2025
QUESTION - How To Stop My Anxiety From Ruining a Relationship?
Jul 11, 2025
The #1 Way We Sabotage a Relationship Before It Even Has a Chance to Grow
Jul 09, 2025
QUESTION - How to Stand Out in Modern Dating and Dating Apps?
Jul 04, 2025
Is He Worth the Wait… or Are You Wasting Time?
Jul 02, 2025
QUESTION - How Long Should I Wait for Him to Choose Me?
Jun 27, 2025
Why am I still Attracting This? When you thought you outgrew it—but the pattern shows up again…
Jun 25, 2025
QUESTION - Is My Independence Keeping Me Single?
Jun 20, 2025
Why He’s Not Committing (Even If He Loves You)
Jun 18, 2025
QUESTION - What if Someone Aligns with What I Want but I'm Not Physically Attracted to Them?
Jun 13, 2025
When Being Happy and Single Becomes a Barrier to Love: 7 Secret Stories That Keep You Safe (and Alone)
Jun 11, 2025
QUESTION - How Can I Want Love and Still Be Happy Without It?
Jun 06, 2025
Are You Punishing Yourself for Not Finding Love Yet?
Jun 04, 2025
QUESTION-How do I Share Body Insecurity with a Partner?
May 30, 2025
Healing the Shame You Carry Around Your Body (and learning to feel comfortable in your own skin)
May 28, 2025
QUESTION - Is Being Busy a Valid Reason for Distance?
May 23, 2025
He’s Pulling Away, Do You Reach Out—Or Is That Chasing?
May 21, 2025
QUESTION - Why Does Safe Masculine Energy Feel So Boring?
May 16, 2025
Why You’ve Done So Much Work—But Still Don’t Feel Free
May 14, 2025
QUESTION - What If He Wants Me Sexually—But Not Emotionally?
May 09, 2025
What It Really Means to Be in Your Feminine (and Why You’re Afraid to Go There)
May 06, 2025
QUESTION-Why Can’t I Leave Someone Who Won’t Choose Me?
May 02, 2025
QUESTION - Can You Ever Really Let Go of a Trauma Bond?
Apr 25, 2025
QUESTION - How to Attract a Truly Aligned Relationship?
Apr 18, 2025
The Core Feminine Needs and Why Men Struggle to Meet Them
Apr 16, 2025
QUESTION-Can Two Wounded People Really Have a Conscious Relationship?
Apr 11, 2025
Where Are All the Good Men? The truth about men today...
Apr 08, 2025
QUESTION- Is This My Gut Talking or My Avoidance?
Apr 04, 2025
Why Anxious Women Push Love Away
Apr 02, 2025
Attraction vs. Addiction: Are You Drawn to Wounding or Love?
Mar 25, 2025
QUESTION- How to Challenge Him
Mar 21, 2025
How Do I Finally Let Go when a Relationship is Breaking Me?
Mar 19, 2025
QUESTION- How to Tell if Someone is Avoidant or Secure
Mar 14, 2025
Stop Waiting for a Commitment; It’s Lowering Your Value
Mar 12, 2025
QUESTION - How to Use Discernment When Anxiety is High
Mar 07, 2025
Transform Anxious Attachment into a Secure Fulfilling Relationship with Trevor Hanson
Mar 05, 2025
QUESTION - Should I Prioritize Sex or Emotional Connection?
Feb 28, 2025
He Likes You but He Doesn't Love You Enough to Choose You...
Feb 26, 2025
QUESTION: Should I Just Leave an Avoidant?
Feb 21, 2025
The 10 unique Types of Attraction: What's Pulling You In?
Feb 19, 2025