The Psychology of Depression and Anxiety - Dr. Scott Eilers

By Scott Eilers

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 Jan 4, 2025

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There are people who understand depression and anxiety on a personal level and there are people who understand depression and anxiety on a medical level. There are relatively few people who understand both, and I’m one of them. As a clinical psychologist I have a doctorate degree and thousands of hours of professional experience providing treatment for mood and anxiety disorders. I also have 39 years of personal experience managing mood and anxiety disorders as I myself deal with these struggles. This podcast is my attempt to synthesize my personal knowledge with my professional knowledge.

Episode Date
How to radically accept ridiculous things that you hate
Jun 09, 2026
Are you subconsciously sabotaging your mental health? Here’s 6 reasons why:
Jun 01, 2026
These 7 simple habits are utterly destroying your mental health
May 25, 2026
Depression That Never Ends - Persistent Depressive Disorder (Dysthymia)
May 18, 2026
Why are so many autistic people depressed and suicidal?
May 11, 2026
The Disturbing Links Between High Functioning Depression and Maladaptive Striving
May 04, 2026
No matter how hard I work, I never feel like I’m getting anywhere (bucket theory)
Apr 27, 2026
But, Why Exist?
Apr 20, 2026
People tell me I should talk to somebody, but no one wants to listen
Apr 13, 2026
2 strategies for managing the chronic exhaustion of being mentally ill
Apr 06, 2026
People living with chronic depression are fighting a daily multi-front war you cannot comprehend
Mar 30, 2026
Fix your black and white, all or nothing negative thoughts about yourself with one simple graph
Mar 23, 2026
If You Survived Early Childhood Neglect And Isolation And Your Adult Relationships Feel Empty
Mar 16, 2026
Refusing to accept a broken world does not make you a broken person. In fact, the opposite
Mar 09, 2026
How to stop thinking about the things that stress you out - a strategy for defeating rumination
Mar 06, 2026
5 normal habits that will destroy your mental health
Feb 27, 2026
This skill stopped my stupid brain from ruining my life
Feb 23, 2026
I Know You’re Horribly Depressed, But You Still Need To Wash Your Butt
Feb 20, 2026
The Person You Think You Are Doesn’t Exist (How To Correct Negative Self-Concept)
Feb 16, 2026
Why Your Happiness Never Lasts - Emotional Operating Systems Explained
Feb 13, 2026
Why you constantly need approval from other people (and how to stop)
Feb 09, 2026
Yes, You Deserve To Live, Even If Your Thoughts Say Otherwise
Feb 06, 2026
5 Types Of Anxiety That Are Completely Optional
Feb 02, 2026
No, You Aren’t The Only Common Denominator In All Of Your “Failed” Relationships
Jan 30, 2026
10 Ways To Get The Best Sleep Of Your Life In 2026
Jan 26, 2026
How To Have Healthy Relationships Even While Living With Depression
Jan 23, 2026
Are My Suicidal Urges My “True Self?”
Jan 19, 2026
14 Critical Mental Health Lessons I Learned in 2025
Jan 16, 2026
Why You Can Never Find A Therapy Skill That Actually Helps (Turning The Ship)
Jan 12, 2026
I Have Intense Mood Swings, But I Don’t Have Bipolar Disorder (Cyclothymia Explained)
Jan 09, 2026
The Antisocial Individual’s Guide To Functioning In Society
Jan 05, 2026
How To Survive This Life If You Weren’t Born Resilient
Jan 02, 2026
How To Appreciate What You Have In Life Before You Lose It
Dec 24, 2025
Empty Depression, Social Isolation, Addiction, Broken Systems, and Moments That Saved Me
Dec 22, 2025
14 Tips To Survive The Holidays With Sanity (Mostly) Intact - From A Psychologist
Dec 19, 2025
Psychologist’s 2026 Guide to PTSD and CPTSD
Dec 13, 2025
An Antidote To Suicide - Making A Violent Commitment To Living
Dec 08, 2025
The Light Between The Leaves Book Preview (The Lake/Envy Is Ignorance)
Dec 05, 2025
Navigating The Grief Of A Broken Life
Dec 01, 2025
This Powerful, Unpredictable Tool Has Ended Many Of My Depressive Episodes
Nov 24, 2025
The Future of Therapy and AI - with Jacob Ward
Nov 21, 2025
The Light Between The Leaves Book Preview (The Forest/Regrowth)
Nov 17, 2025
My Mind Is A Prison I Cannot Escape From
Nov 14, 2025
10 Daily Micro-Habits To Help You Feel Less Depressed
Nov 10, 2025
Somebody I Love Wants To Die - What Should I Do?
Nov 07, 2025
You Ruin The Few Good Days You Have Every Time You Make This Mistake
Nov 03, 2025
How To Keep Going When You Feel Nothing
Oct 31, 2025
How To Stop Giving Up On Yourself So Easily
Oct 27, 2025
What Is Revenge Bedtime Procrastination And How Do I Stop It?
Oct 24, 2025
8 Simple Dietary Changes That Will Make You Less Depressed
Oct 20, 2025
Do I Have ADHD, Depression Or Both?
Oct 17, 2025
5 Coping Skills For Depression You (Probably) Aren’t Using - But Should Be!
Oct 13, 2025
Why Do We Hold On To Things That Hurt Us? (Sunk Cost Fallacy Explained)
Oct 10, 2025
Why You Can Never Force Yourself To Do Anything
Oct 06, 2025
Why Do So Many People With Depression Not Get Better In Therapy?
Sep 29, 2025
If You Don’t Know How To Stop Having Panic Attacks, Please Watch This Video
Sep 22, 2025
How To Operationalize Your Mental Health
Sep 15, 2025
13 Controversial Opinions About Therapy
Sep 08, 2025
Your Anxiety Routine Is Ruining Your Life - Here’s 6 Ways To Stop It
Sep 01, 2025
So You Ruined Your Life; Now What?
Aug 25, 2025
The 6 Lies The World Tells You And How To Talk Back To Them
Aug 18, 2025
15 Things You Should Never Do When You’re Depressed
Aug 11, 2025
Your brain is trolling you; here’s how to make it stop
Aug 04, 2025
10 Ways To Stay Physically Active When You’re Depressed
Jul 28, 2025
How To Eliminate All Meaningless Suffering From Your Life
Jul 21, 2025
I’m Kind Of Happy, But I kind Of Want To Die
Jul 14, 2025
If The Good Feelings Never Seem To Last, Listen to This
Jul 07, 2025
Why You Run Out Of Time Every Single Day
Jun 23, 2025
19 Questions To Ask Yourself During Depressive Episodes
Jun 16, 2025
Your Personality - Feature or Bug?
Jun 09, 2025
What You Can’t Do Because Of Your Depression
Jun 02, 2025
Hacking Anhedonia with Time and Resource Stacking
May 26, 2025
Sobriety, Fitness, Service and Faith (with Clint Lowery of Sevendust)
May 19, 2025
8 philosophies that had shocking impacts on my mental health
May 12, 2025
How Following Your Heart Can Destroy Your Life
May 05, 2025
12 Reasons You’re Always Tired Even Though You’re Getting Plenty Of Sleep (Manta Sleep Inclusion)
Apr 29, 2025
When Adult Trauma Unleashes Childhood Wounds; with Anna Runkle
Apr 22, 2025
What to do when working on yourself feels utterly pointless
Apr 14, 2025
Clinical Psychologist Reviews AI Therapists
Apr 07, 2025
7 types of anxiety that don’t get better with therapy or medication
Mar 31, 2025
21 minutes of mental health advice from a clinical psychologist living with depression
Mar 25, 2025
If You’re Losing The Will To Stay Alive, Please Watch This Video
Mar 17, 2025
A Psychologists’s Guide to Surviving The Loneliness Epidemic
Mar 10, 2025
Why You Self-Sabotage And How To Stop
Mar 03, 2025
Coping with severe depression, strong ambition, and high intellect
Feb 24, 2025
Practical psychological strategies for coping with pet loss
Feb 20, 2025
3 Quick Ways To Stop Overthinking
Feb 13, 2025
Why You Have To Face Your Fears
Feb 10, 2025
A day in the life of severe depression and anxiety recovery
Feb 06, 2025
Why bed rotting is bad for your mental health and 6 ways to stop
Feb 03, 2025
The Lies Your Mind Tells You About Shame And Failure
Jan 27, 2025
4 “Toxic” Behaviors That Improved My Mental Health
Jan 23, 2025
The One Thing Nobody Tells You About Mental Health Recovery
Jan 20, 2025
The Year I Gave Up On Life - And How I Came Back From It
Jan 16, 2025
The Counterintuitive Truth About Failure That Changed My Life
Jan 13, 2025
How Parenting Styles Create Maladaptive Behavior in Children
Jan 09, 2025
Why Your Past Always Seems Better Than Your Present
Jan 06, 2025
25 Ways To Improve Your Mental Health In 2025
Jan 02, 2025
Sometimes “Laziness” Is Actually Depression
Dec 30, 2024
5 Stages of Mental Health Recovery
Dec 23, 2024
8 Signs You Have High Functioning Depression
Dec 19, 2024
The 5 Rules of Recovering From Trauma
Dec 16, 2024
2024 Holiday/Winter Survival Guide For Mentally Ill People
Dec 14, 2024
Your Relationship With Technology Can Ruin Your Mental Health
Dec 12, 2024
How To Make Healthier Choices In Life (DBT Wise Mind Tutorial)
Dec 09, 2024
Take Care Of Yourself As If Your Life Depended On It (Because It Does)
Dec 02, 2024
Everyone In Therapy Should Ask Their Therapist These 3 Questions
Nov 26, 2024
How To Cope With Feeling Under Appreciated And Invisible
Nov 21, 2024
6 Reasons Your Depression Isn’t Getting Better
Nov 18, 2024
Why Therapy Doesn’t Work For Mentally Ill People
Nov 14, 2024
What The Years You Lost To Mental Illness Say About You
Nov 11, 2024
It’s OK To Never Be OK
Nov 07, 2024
Fix Your Living Space, Fix Your Brain
Nov 04, 2024
Why Relaxation Techniques Don’t Work For You
Oct 30, 2024
How To Rejoin The World After Becoming Disconnected
Oct 28, 2024
Why Am I Sad When Nothing Is Wrong
Oct 23, 2024
Why Pushing Yourself Too Hard Makes You Shut Down
Oct 16, 2024
How To Fall Asleep Instead Of Passing Out (And Why It’s Better For You!)
Oct 09, 2024
How To Grieve For Someone Who Is Still Alive
Oct 02, 2024
Alternate Treatments for Severe Depression and Anxiety (TMS, Ketamine, ECT, Microdosing)
Sep 25, 2024
How To Stop Hating Yourself
Sep 18, 2024
6 Ways You’re Accidentally Making Your Anxiety Worse (& What To Do Instead)
Sep 11, 2024
A Way Out Of The Downward Spiral Of Worthlessness, Hopelessness, And Depression
Sep 05, 2024
Why The Changes You Make Never Seem To Last
Sep 02, 2024
7 Foundational Things That Will Improve Your Mental Health
Aug 29, 2024
8 Reasons Your Sleep Sucks (And How To Fix It)
Aug 26, 2024
8 Misconceptions about Passive Suicidal Ideation
Aug 22, 2024
Brutally Honest Advice To My Severely Mentally Ill Younger Self
Aug 19, 2024
6 Common Mental Mistakes Making You Miserable
Aug 15, 2024
How to annihilate your negative thoughts
Aug 12, 2024
How to Deal With Low Energy and Motivation from Depression
Aug 08, 2024
How To Be Alone Without Being Miserable
Aug 01, 2024
Why You Self-Sabotage And How To Stop
Jul 29, 2024
Sometimes You Have To Let It Hurt
Jul 25, 2024
Five One-Minute Activities to Reduce Symptoms of Depression
Jul 15, 2024
4 things people with mental illness do without thinking
Jul 11, 2024
Disentangling Your Thought Patterns Using FTP
Jul 08, 2024
You’re Doing A Better Job Than You Think
Jul 04, 2024
What To Do When Your Empathy Becomes A Disability
Jul 01, 2024
4 Ways To Stop Waking Up Too Early
Jun 27, 2024
8 Oddly Specific Symptoms of Depression
Jun 24, 2024
You Can’t Be Growing All The Time
Jun 20, 2024
Why You Do Amazing, Then Fall Apart Sometimes
Jun 17, 2024
How To Change The Channel In Your Mind
Jun 13, 2024
Please Let There Be A Purpose To All This Pain
Jun 10, 2024
The Person I Want To Be Doesn’t Exist
Jun 06, 2024
4 things you should never say to someone who is struggling (and what to say instead)
Jun 03, 2024
Why Smarter People Are More Depressed
May 30, 2024
6 Things I stopped doing to better manage my stress
May 27, 2024
What I Do When I’m Completely Shut Down By Stress (Psychological Minimalism)
May 20, 2024
10 Way To Use Your Smartphone To Improve Your Mental Health
May 16, 2024
How To Have Mostly Good Days (The Happiness Equation)
May 13, 2024
You’re Worth More Than You Think (Don’t Misuse The Transitive Property)
May 09, 2024
3 Coping Skills For Insecurity That DON’T Work (And One That Does!)
May 06, 2024
Letting Go Of Shame And Regret From The Past
May 02, 2024
The Dangers of Self Diagnosis
Apr 29, 2024
How To Use The Most Misunderstood Coping Skills (Radical Acceptance & Pain Budgeting)
Apr 25, 2024
Why We Cannot Simply “Choose Happiness” (And What We CAN Choose!)
Apr 22, 2024
Why Doing Nothing Is Dangerous For Rumination (Default Mode Explained)
Apr 18, 2024
If You Have Failed Time And Time Again, Try This (Hard Reset Your Life)
Apr 15, 2024
How To Have A Healthy Relationship With Your Emotions
Apr 11, 2024
Please Don't Ever Give Up
Apr 10, 2024
How I Keep My Life Focused On My Mental Health
Apr 08, 2024
How I Keep Going In The Face Of Total Apathy And Anhedonia (Apathyception)
Apr 04, 2024
3 Reasons Why Getting Better Can Feel Worse
Apr 01, 2024
Stop Telling Yourself Stories That Hurt You
Mar 28, 2024
How to tell the difference between healthy and unhealthy social withdrawal
Mar 25, 2024
3 Things I Do When Existence Feels Like A Burden
Mar 21, 2024
What to do if you have no normal to return to
Mar 18, 2024
Loving yourself does NOT make you a narcissist - hating yourself DOES make you depressed
Mar 14, 2024
6 Ways To Stay (Semi) Functional During Depressive Episodes
Mar 13, 2024
2 Essential Truths and 3 Non-Negotiables Of Living With Mental Illness
Mar 07, 2024
How To Cut Off The Catastrophic Thoughts In Your Mind
Mar 04, 2024
What I Do When I Feel Like I Don’t Belong In This World
Feb 29, 2024
How To Stop Worrying Over Every Little Thing
Feb 26, 2024
Why Narcissism And Severe Insecurity Can Look The Same
Feb 22, 2024
How To Find A Good Therapist (It’s Simpler Than You Think!)
Feb 19, 2024
Self Care is a Scam
Feb 15, 2024
Why Every Day Is A Little Bit Harder
Feb 12, 2024
Three Steps To Rejoining The World (Bio Psycho Social Treatment Model)
Feb 08, 2024
6 Ways To Experience Genuine Gratitude
Feb 05, 2024
Why Do I Always Need To Do Two Things At Once, Why Is Driving So Stressful, Anxiety Or Excitement?
Feb 02, 2024
The Day I Almost Gave Up
Feb 01, 2024
Living Well With Borderline Personality Disorder with The Truth Doctor (Dr. Courtney Tracy)
Jan 29, 2024
How To Stop Dissociation, Why You Can't Cry, Parenting With Depression, Polyvagal Theory
Jan 26, 2024
Sometimes The Best You Can Do Is To Just Survive
Jan 25, 2024
13 + 1 Ways to Fix Your Mental Health in 2024
Jan 22, 2024
How to talk to depressed people, getting good results from therapy, and how to recover good memories
Jan 19, 2024
Make Your Negative Thoughts Your Worst Enemy
Jan 18, 2024
5 Ways To Heal Your Relationship With Yourself
Jan 15, 2024
How to Avoid Traumatizing Your Children, Anxiety vs Excitement, and Why I Started a Podcast
Jan 12, 2024
7 Tips To Survive A Depressive Episode
Jan 11, 2024
Prolonged Grief Disorder
Jan 08, 2024
Why Your Anxiety Never Goes Away
Jan 04, 2024
8 Truths That Changed My Life
Jan 02, 2024
Fix Your Broken Sleep
Dec 28, 2023
7 Costs Of Spending Excess Time In Fantasy Worlds
Dec 26, 2023
Managing Catastrophic Thinking
Dec 21, 2023
How to handle the 4 different types of anxiety
Dec 17, 2023
I Can’t Let Good Things In
Dec 14, 2023
6 Things I stopped Doing To Fix My Anxiety
Dec 11, 2023
How to stop the solar system of pain
Dec 07, 2023
Do horrible thoughts make you a horrible person?
Dec 04, 2023
How to stop being so afraid of everything
Nov 30, 2023
I just don’t care what happens to me
Nov 27, 2023
The Thing You’re Most Ashamed Of May Have Saved You
Nov 24, 2023
How to rebuild after a depressive episode
Nov 20, 2023
What is learned helplessness?
Nov 16, 2023
Existence is Traumatic
Nov 13, 2023
6 Things I stopped doing to fix my depression
Nov 09, 2023
No one else knows how it feels to be you
Nov 06, 2023
Self-harm is not about what you think
Nov 02, 2023
When stress becomes overwhelming
Oct 30, 2023
When you've lost the will to do what you need to do
Oct 25, 2023
What to do when your dreams die
Oct 18, 2023
Why You Shut Down Sometimes
Oct 11, 2023
Stop Pessimistic Thinking With Mindfulness
Oct 04, 2023
How to Destroy Imposter Syndrome
Sep 27, 2023
4 Ways To Overcome Passive Suicidal Ideation
Sep 20, 2023
My Anti-Anhedonia Morning Routine
Sep 13, 2023
Staying Hopeful In Times Of Darkness
Sep 06, 2023
Can We Please Stop Over-Complicating Treatment?
Aug 30, 2023
Depression Spirals and Opportunity Cost
Aug 23, 2023
Anxiety and Sound Sensitivity (Misophonia)
Aug 16, 2023
The Most Important Question To Ask Yourself
Aug 09, 2023
The Most Effective Treatment for Mood and Anxiety Disorders
Aug 02, 2023
5 Things to Know About Passive Suicidal Ideation
Jul 26, 2023
Why Happiness Always Escapes You
Jul 19, 2023
Change a little, change a lot
Jul 12, 2023
Keep your boundaries no matter what!
Jul 05, 2023
How To Deal With Anger
Jun 28, 2023
Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) - With Alex Reynolds
Jun 15, 2023
Challenging Negativity Bias With The Values Pie Chart
Jun 07, 2023
Dealing with guilt and shame
May 31, 2023
Procrastination, Executive Functioning, and Nervous System Regulation (with Sasa Harper)
May 24, 2023
Psychosis, derealization, depersonalization, and dissociation with depression and anxiety
May 17, 2023
Trying to live after trying to die - with ValiantFate
May 10, 2023
Getting Tested For Depression
May 03, 2023
Depression or Bipolar Disorder?
Apr 26, 2023
Can depression and anxiety make you sick?
Apr 19, 2023
Getting things done when you’re depressed and anxious
Apr 10, 2023
Anhedonia (Why you feel empty sometimes)
Mar 29, 2023
Challenging the lies that can ruin your life
Mar 22, 2023
Unofficial symptoms of anxiety
Mar 17, 2023
Anxiety Explained
Mar 12, 2023
All About Depression
Mar 05, 2023
Why Nothing Ever Changes
Feb 25, 2023
When Therapy Goes Wrong
Feb 19, 2023
When life is good, but it doesn’t feel that way
Feb 13, 2023
Nobody is hopeless (no matter what you’ve been told)
Feb 06, 2023
Trauma and Forgiveness (Episode 3)
Jan 30, 2023
Stop procrastinating and start today!
Jan 23, 2023
Life can be beautiful
Jan 16, 2023