Master Your Marriage

By Sharla and Robert Snow

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 May 8, 2023

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The average couple waits 6 years to get help in their marriage. That's 6 years of pain, hurt, frustration and lost opportunity. This podcast is designed to help you NOT become a part of that statistic. Hosted by Dr. Robert and Sharla Snow — themselves married for 31 years — The Master Your Marriage show is here with straight-talking guidance on how to fill your marriage with fun, friendship and love, without it ever feeling like "hard work." No matter how long you've been struggling with your marriage, or how long it's been since you've felt that "spark," we promise you, there is hope! Your MASTERFUL marriage starts here.

Episode Date
Why Therapy Often Falls Short (Even When It’s Good Therapy)
Jun 24, 2026
Don’t Run From Tension – Stephen Curry’s Marriage Wisdom
Jun 18, 2026
BONUS EPISODE: Ho’oponopono Forgiveness Meditation - Release Resentment and Free Yourself
Jun 12, 2026
When Is It Okay Not to Forgive? (And When It’s Not)
Jun 10, 2026
Making Repairs In The Moment (Conflict Strategies)
Jun 03, 2026
The Apology That Actually Heals
May 27, 2026
It’s Not Conflict That Ends Relationships, It’s Lack of Repair
May 14, 2026
How Withdrawal Slowly Ends Marriages
May 06, 2026
The Half-In, Half-Out Marriage
Apr 29, 2026
Defensiveness Is Blocking Real Intimacy
Apr 23, 2026
The Hidden Cost of Keeping the Peace in Marriage
Apr 15, 2026
Retaliation in Marriage: Why ‘You Hurt Me First’ Never Works
Apr 08, 2026
Needing to Be Right: Just Because You Think You're Right, Doesn’t Mean You Get to Prove It!
Apr 01, 2026
Controlling Your Partner: Just Because You Want Them to Change, Doesn't Mean You Get to Control Them (And Push Them Away)
Mar 26, 2026
Unbridled Expression: Just Because You Think It, Doesn't Mean You Get to Say It (And Hurt Your Spouse)
Mar 18, 2026
Saving Your Marriage Solo: Transforming Your Relationship Without Your Spouse's Help with Casey and Meygan Caston
Mar 12, 2026
Why You Can’t Get Out of Bed (It’s Not Laziness or Depression); The Nervous System Science Behind Shutdown
Mar 04, 2026
Soothing Each Other's Triggers - Secure Relationships Part 5
Feb 25, 2026
Power Struggles Killing Your Marriage? How to Govern Your Relationship Like Equals (Part 4 of the Secure-Relationship Series)
Feb 18, 2026
“I Don’t Feel Safe” – What It Really Means and How the Couple Bubble Fixes It (Part 3 of the Secure-Relationship Series)
Feb 11, 2026
The Attachment Style Quiz Your Therapist Would Give You (Part 2 Secure-Relationship Series)
Feb 04, 2026
Why Secure Functioning Relationships Are a Necessity (Part One Secure-Relationship Series)
Jan 28, 2026
National Quitter’s Day: Why Your Relationship Goals Fail (And 3 Tweaks to Make Them Stick)
Jan 14, 2026
What Needs to Die in Your Marriage? Bold Questions for a New Year
Jan 08, 2026
Declutter Your Marriage: 14 Toxic Beliefs to Trash in 2026
Dec 30, 2025
Tolerating Discomfort: The Muscle Behind True Relationship Intimacy
Dec 12, 2025
Gratitude in Marriage + A New Ritual
Dec 02, 2025
Special Announcement: 50% Off Exclusive for Listeners – Annual Marriage Values Summit This Weekend!
Nov 24, 2025
3 Conversations to Redesign Your Marriage: Don't End the Year Without These Talks
Nov 18, 2025
7 Powerful Rituals to Prevent Complacency and Reconnect with Your Spouse
Nov 09, 2025
Making Blended Families Work with Tarah and EJ Kerwin
Oct 29, 2025
4 Brain Hacks to Stay Madly in Love for Years (or Forever)
Oct 24, 2025
Defensiveness: An Enemy to Growth and Loving Relationships
Oct 16, 2025
The Science of Repair in Relationships
Oct 10, 2025
Navigating Stress As A Married Couple
Oct 06, 2025
Communication Part 5: Mastering Our Stories
Sep 25, 2025
Communication Part 4: Begin with the Mirror
Sep 18, 2025
Communication Part 3: The Assumptions That Destroy Communication
Sep 08, 2025
Communication Part 2: Three Goals for Better Communication in Your Marriage
Aug 28, 2025
Communication Part 1: What Happens When You Don’t Speak Up in a Relationship
Aug 14, 2025
Parenting Conflict Part 3: How to Unite as Parents and a Couple to Reduce Conflict
Aug 09, 2025
Breaking Generational Patterns in Relationships, with Leanna Hunt
Jul 31, 2025
Parenting Conflict Part 2: How to Fix Parenting Mismatches to Save Your Marriage (And Help Your Kids)
Jul 17, 2025
Parenting Conflict Part 1: Is a Mismatch in Parenting Killing Your Marriage (And Harming Your Kids Emotional Development)?
Jul 10, 2025
Fighting Well in Marriage: A Litmus Test for Emotional Maturity
Jul 03, 2025
Triangulation: A Toxic Relationship and Family Pattern
Jun 26, 2025
Coping with Loss Together: Strategies for Grieving as a Couple
Jun 18, 2025
Why Your Spouse May Not Be Motivated In Your Relationship
Jun 05, 2025
How to Cherish Your Spouse: The Key to a Joyful Marriage
May 30, 2025
Feeling Alone in Your Marriage? The Cry for Connection
May 22, 2025
How Trauma Hijacks Your Marriage (And How to Take It Back) Part 2
May 15, 2025
How Trauma Hijacks Your Marriage (And How to Take It Back)
May 08, 2025
Rewiring Your Brain for a Better Marriage: The Power of Neuroplasticity
Apr 30, 2025
Overcoming Power Struggles: The Art of Accepting Influence
Apr 22, 2025
Why Empathy Disappears in Marriage—And How to Get It Back
Apr 09, 2025
Resentment vs. Forgiveness: Which One Is Controlling Your Marriage?
Apr 02, 2025
Rebuilding Trust After Betrayal
Mar 26, 2025
Grandiosity: The Drug That’s Killing Your Marriage
Mar 19, 2025
Snapping, Shutting Down & Fighting? How to Spot and Stop Dysregulation in Your Marriage
Mar 10, 2025
Unlock a Calmer, Safer Marriage: Understanding the Window of Tolerance
Mar 01, 2025
1% Better Every Day: The Small Changes That Transform Your Marriage
Feb 20, 2025
Improving Communication Part 3: The Secret to Making Your Partner Feel Heard
Feb 06, 2025
Improving Communication Part 2: Speaking Wisely
Jan 30, 2025
Improving Communication Part 1: Preparing Yourself for Tough Conversations in Your Marriage
Jan 23, 2025
6 Signs You and Your Partner Have Strong Teamwork in Your Marriage
Jan 09, 2025
How to Create a Family Vision Statement for 2025
Jan 04, 2025
10 Powerful Ways to Improve Your Marriage and Recommit in 2025
Dec 26, 2024
Repair: The Most Important Relationship Skill You’ve Never Mastered (Part 4): What Happens After a Big Fight
Dec 19, 2024
Repair: The Most Important Relationship Skill You’ve Never Mastered (Part 3)
Dec 12, 2024
Repair: The Most Important Relationship Skill You’ve Never Mastered (Part 2)
Dec 05, 2024
How to Use Appreciation to Break the Cycle of Negativity in Marriage
Nov 27, 2024
Repair: The Most Important Relationship Skill You’ve Never Mastered (Part 1)
Nov 20, 2024
10 Rules for Taking Breaks and Resetting During Arguments
Nov 14, 2024
Mastering Self-Regulation: Reduce Reactivity & Strengthen Your Marriage
Nov 07, 2024
Eliminating Toxic Relationship Patterns
Oct 31, 2024
Identifying Dysfunctional Patterns in Marriage: Mastering Intimacy Part 4
Oct 24, 2024
Strong Boundaries, Stronger Relationships: Mastering Intimacy Part 3
Oct 17, 2024
The Shame That Destroys Connection: Mastering Intimacy Part 2
Oct 09, 2024
Why We Lose It, Triggers & Regressive Behavior: Mastering Intimacy Part 1
Oct 02, 2024
Half In, Half Out: The Damage of Not Fully Choosing Your Partner
Sep 26, 2024
Withdrawal: Losing Relationship Strategies #7
Sep 19, 2024
Defensiveness: Losing Relationship Strategies #6
Sep 12, 2024
Resentful Accommodation: Losing Relationship Strategies #5
Sep 05, 2024
Retaliation or Punishment: Losing Relationship Strategies #4
Aug 28, 2024
Unbridled Self-Expression: Losing Relationship Strategies #3
Aug 21, 2024
Controlling Our Spouse: Losing Relationship Strategies #2
Aug 14, 2024
The Need To Be Right: Losing Relationship Strategies #1
Aug 07, 2024
The Courage to Look Within: Healing Our Marriage
Jul 31, 2024
The Power of Choice in Relationships
Jul 25, 2024
Why Treating Your Marriage Like a Business Could Save It
Jul 17, 2024
Sex Hormones, Emotional Resilience & Love Potions with Thomas Seager
Jul 10, 2024
Connecting Couples By Aligning Values
Jul 03, 2024
Understanding Male Hormones and Aging with Dr. Allen Holmes
Jun 26, 2024
Owning Our Sexual Desire Part 4 (Psychological Maturity)
Jun 20, 2024
Owning Our Sexual Desire Part 3 (Hormone Replacement) with Dr. Jenn Simmons
Jun 12, 2024
Owning Our Sexual Desire Part 2 (Changing Hormones)
Jun 05, 2024
Owning Our Sexual Desire Part 1 (Taking Responsibility)
May 29, 2024
From 'I' to 'We': Avoiding Power Struggles in Relationships
May 22, 2024
Prioritizing Physical Affection: Creating Rituals of Touch
May 15, 2024
Relationship Growth is a Journey of Learning
May 09, 2024
One Couple’s Struggle With Pornography in Their Marriage
May 01, 2024
Strengthening Connection and Intimacy through Empathy Part 2
Apr 24, 2024
Strengthening Connection and Intimacy through Empathy Part 1
Apr 17, 2024
Avoiding Miscommunications Traps in Marriage
Apr 10, 2024
Mastering Conflict: From Divorce Predictors to Win-Win Compromises
Apr 03, 2024
Communicating Needs in Relationships, Part 4 (The Art of Saying No)
Mar 27, 2024
Communicating Needs in Relationships, Part 3 (Asking Without Starting A Fight)
Mar 20, 2024
Communicating Needs in Relationships, Part 2 (Identifying Unmet Needs)
Mar 13, 2024
Communicating Needs in Relationships, Part 1 (What is Anger?)
Mar 08, 2024
The Secret To Happiness In Marriage
Feb 28, 2024
Dealing With The Silent Treatment in Relationships
Feb 21, 2024
Problematic In-Laws and Other Big Disagreements in Your Marriage
Feb 14, 2024
Parenting Stress on Couples & What To Do About It w/ Colleen O'Grady
Feb 07, 2024
The Power of Co-Regulation For Healing Your Relationship
Jan 31, 2024
The Neuroscience of Safety in Relationships
Jan 24, 2024
The Benefits of Physical Touch
Jan 17, 2024
Creating A Marriage Vision Statement
Jan 10, 2024
Are Sex, Desire, and Intimacy All the Same?
Jan 03, 2024
Keeping Passion Alive In Your Marriage
Dec 27, 2023
11 Sexuality Myths That Harm Your Relationships
Dec 20, 2023
Emotional Incompatibility: Is it a Dealbreaker?
Dec 13, 2023
Unlock Secrets to a Happy & Lasting Marriage w/ Antonio Neves
Dec 06, 2023
All Couples Fight. Successful Couples Repair The Rupture
Nov 29, 2023
Needing vs. Wanting: Can You Choose To Love?
Nov 22, 2023
What You THINK About Your Marriage IS Your Marriage
Nov 15, 2023
Divorce, Separation, Crisis - How to Cope
Nov 08, 2023
Breaking the Chains of Resentment: The Astonishing Science of Forgiveness
Nov 01, 2023
Is Honesty REALLY The Best Policy? Tough Situations That Make Us Think Twice
Oct 25, 2023
Catch These Complacency Red Flags Before It’s Too Late
Oct 18, 2023
Repatterning the Nervous System with a Hug
Oct 11, 2023
Three Marriages with The Same Person
Oct 04, 2023
Are You Lacking Emotional Intelligence in Your Marriage?
Sep 27, 2023
How to Build a Marriage That Lasts: Insights From Our Conversation With Deevo
Sep 20, 2023
Love Without Losing Yourself: Why Differentiation Matters
Sep 13, 2023
Disconnect to Reconnect: Why Couples Need Alone Time Away
Sep 06, 2023
She Complains, He Ignores. How Accepting Influence Will Change That.
Aug 30, 2023
Unlocking Communication: From Gridlock To Compromise, Part 2
Aug 23, 2023
Unlocking Communication: From Gridlock To Compromise, Part 1
Aug 16, 2023
Developing Emotional Resilience and Coherence With Debra Heslin
Aug 09, 2023
Decoding Sexual Desire: Better Sex Through Self Awareness
Aug 02, 2023
Navigating Sex and Intimacy in Your Relationship
Jul 26, 2023
Breaking Free: Overcoming Defensiveness for Stronger Relationships
Jul 19, 2023
Building Love Maps in Relationships: Nurturing Lasting Connection and Intimacy
Jul 12, 2023
Transforming Thought Habits: Creating Peace in Relationships and Life
Jul 05, 2023
Coping With Stress as a Couple
Jun 28, 2023
Yes, Words Matter
Jun 21, 2023
Developing Emotional Safety In Relationships
Jun 14, 2023
What to Do When Fights Go From Bad to Worse?
Jun 07, 2023
Identifying Triggers That Derail Relationships
May 31, 2023
Understanding Emotional Baggage in Relationships
May 24, 2023
The Magic Hour: A Weekly Marriage Meeting
May 17, 2023
Kids or Marriage, Who Comes First?
May 10, 2023
How to Work Through a Past Fight
May 03, 2023
How Gratitude Strengthens Marriage
Apr 26, 2023
How Resentment Destroys Intimacy, and 3 Steps to Repair It
Apr 19, 2023
5 Ways To Better Intimacy
Apr 12, 2023
Stop Escalating Fights With This Secret Weapon: Repair Attempts
Apr 05, 2023
What's the #1 Relationship Poison?
Mar 29, 2023
Signs of a Failing Marriage (Criticism)
Mar 22, 2023
How To Stop The Cycle of Fighting In a Relationship
Mar 15, 2023
The Secret to Staying in Love
Mar 08, 2023
How Trust and Vulnerability Can Save Your Marriage
Mar 01, 2023
Redefining Codependency
Feb 22, 2023
Creating Connection Rituals
Feb 22, 2023
The Complacency Trap
Feb 22, 2023
Welcome to Master Your Marriage
Feb 03, 2023