Don't Force It: How to Get into College without Losing Yourself in the Process

By Sheila Akbar, PhD

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For all the stressed-out parents trying to help their teenagers navigate the complicated world of college admissions. 

Each episode offers insightful and in-depth conversations with admissions experts and professional educators with practical advice for getting through the process without losing sight of yourself, your kid, or your sanity. 

From building a strong academic and extracurricular profile, developing the college list, managing standardized tests, to crafting the perfect essay, we've got you covered. Whether you're a seasoned high school parent or a first-timer, join us for candid conversations and expert guidance on making it to, through, and beyond college.


Episode Date
Let’s Get Tactical: What do you need to know about the new ACT?
Oct 08, 2025
Your College Admissions Roadmap: Plan Ahead Now to Position Your Kid for Success
Sep 25, 2025
35 College Essays?! The Overlooked Prompts that Unlock Acceptance
Sep 11, 2025
The Complete Guide to College Transfer: Find Your Ideal School, Maximize Your Credits, and Earn Your Degree
Aug 28, 2025
Live Coaching: Why this school?
Aug 14, 2025
Protect Their College Options: What Rising Juniors Must Do Around Testing This Summer
Jul 03, 2025
Standout College Essay Secrets: What Parents Must Know by June of Junior Year
Jun 18, 2025
Elizabeth Hamblet: Seven Steps to College Success
Jun 05, 2025
Alison Slater on College Interviews
May 22, 2025
The Insider’s Guide to College Visits: What Parents Must Know
May 08, 2025
Surviving High School with a Teenage Son
Apr 24, 2025
All the Questions about Extracurriculars
Apr 10, 2025
More Testing Changes?! Decoding What Colleges Want in 2025
Mar 27, 2025
Anjalee Galion, MD: The Importance of Sleep for Teens
Mar 12, 2025
Live Coaching: Anxiety about the ACT
Feb 27, 2025
How to Help Middle Schoolers Prepare for High School and the College Process
Feb 13, 2025
Inside the Black Box: How College Apps are Evaluated in 2025
Jan 30, 2025
Mental Health for Asian American Students
Jan 16, 2025
Aliaa Remtilla - Following Your Heart’s Desire
Dec 19, 2024
Early Application Notifications and How to Handle Them!
Dec 12, 2024
You Need A College List
Dec 05, 2024
Jamie Beaton: Comparing Systems of Higher Education
Nov 21, 2024
Live Coaching: Using Early Apps to Prepare for Regular Decision
Nov 14, 2024
Stop the Shame Spiral
Nov 07, 2024
Get your Ducks in a Row
Oct 31, 2024
Rachel Leja: College Planning for Neurodiverse Students
Oct 25, 2024
Sachin Jain: Threading Values, Interests, and Expectations
Oct 16, 2024
Danny Tejada: College Access and the ROI of Higher Education
Oct 09, 2024
Hacking the Hidden Obstacles to Your Kid’s Best SAT/ACT Score — Even if They’re Bad at Test-Taking
Oct 03, 2024
Let’s Get Tactical: Early Application Alphabet Soup
Sep 18, 2024
Rick Weissbourd: Making Caring Common
Sep 12, 2024
High Performance in High School
Sep 05, 2024
Kelley Challen: Transitions for Kids with Learning Differences
Aug 29, 2024
Jay Bacrania: Skills for Sailing thru High School
Aug 22, 2024
Let’s Get Tactical: Supplemental Essays
Aug 15, 2024
Don McMillan: Boarding Schools
Aug 07, 2024
What Really Matters in College Admissions
Aug 01, 2024
Team Signet: The College Essay
Jun 26, 2024
Eric Endlich: Learning Differences & the College Process
Jun 20, 2024
David Hawkins and Tom Bear: Character in College Admissions
Jun 12, 2024
Chris Davis: Harvard Extension School
Jun 05, 2024
Jenny Meanwell: Using Intuition in Tutoring and in Life
May 30, 2024
Patricia Bannan: Burnout
May 22, 2024
Aneesh Raman: Finding the Thread
May 15, 2024
Let’s Get Tactical: Academic Excellence Without Burnout
May 09, 2024
Holly Schreiber: Watershed Parent Coaching
May 06, 2024
Let’s Get Tactical: What do you need to know about the digital SAT?
Apr 25, 2024
Joy Meserve: Leading with Joy
Apr 18, 2024
Let's Get Tactical: How to Navigate the Waitlist
Apr 11, 2024
Joanna Graham: Expertise, Authenticity, and Purpose
Apr 04, 2024
Shereem Herndon-Brown: The Black Family's Guide to College Admissions
Mar 28, 2024
Van Tran: Embracing the Pivot
Mar 21, 2024
Let’s Get Tactical: How to Build a College List
Mar 14, 2024
Emmaline Cook: Learning for the Sake of Learning
Mar 07, 2024
Evan Mandery: How Elite Colleges Divide Us
Feb 29, 2024
Ned Johnson: The Self-Driven Child
Feb 22, 2024
Dr. Neha Pathak and Dr. Joyce Varughese: Education and the Children of Immigrants
Feb 15, 2024
Andy Friedman: Word Nerd
Feb 08, 2024
Let’s get tactical: How to Plan your Summer
Feb 01, 2024
Samara Bay: Permission to Speak
Dec 21, 2023
Let’s Get Tactical: Early Results Are Coming Out
Dec 12, 2023
McKenzie Carver: What is a Co-Op program?
Dec 07, 2023
Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster: Supporting Parents of Complex Kids
Nov 30, 2023
Jay Rosner: Bias in Testing and College Admissions
Nov 16, 2023
Let's Get Tactical: Now That Early Apps Are Done
Nov 08, 2023
Chris LaTempa: Recruited Athletes & College Admissions
Nov 02, 2023
Jaime Smith: Transfer & Homeschool Admissions
Oct 25, 2023
Annie Tulkin: Accessible College
Oct 18, 2023
Don’t Force It: An Intentional Approach to College Admissions
Oct 12, 2023
Hanna Stotland: Educational Crisis Management & Admissions
Oct 05, 2023
Tag team: Holly and Sheila discuss applying to graduate school
Sep 27, 2023
Sharon Genicoff: Personal Branding in College Admissions
Sep 20, 2023
Alberto Naviera: STEM tutoring
Sep 13, 2023
Bob Schaeffer: Fairtest.org
Sep 06, 2023
Mai Moore and Yumi Ndhlovu: Navigating College Admissions as a Woman of Color
Aug 31, 2023
Dr. Arundhati Ghosh: Medicine as a Career Path
Aug 24, 2023
Let’s Get Tactical: Affirmative Action & How to Write a “Diversity” Essay
Aug 17, 2023
Holly Schrieber: Relating to Teens with ADHD as an Educator
Aug 10, 2023
Thoughts on the SCOTUS Decision
Jul 10, 2023
Urvashi Bhatnagar: Why Cross-Functional Learning is Essential for Success
Jun 29, 2023
Talia Kovacs: Building Resilience in Our Kids
Jun 22, 2023
Andrea West: The Power of Reflection in College Admissions
Jun 15, 2023
Signet Writing Experts on the College Essay
Jun 08, 2023
Let’s get Tactical: Standardized Testing for the class of 2024 and beyond
Jun 01, 2023
Marie Bigham: Equity and Access in College Admissions
May 25, 2023
Panel: Do Asians face a higher bar in College admissions?
May 17, 2023
Ellen Braaten: Bright Kids Who Couldn’t Care Less
May 10, 2023
Jay Bacrania: Skills for High School Success
May 03, 2023
Bonus Episode: Tools for Academic Skill-Building and Accountability
May 03, 2023
Blair Munhofen: The Counselor’s Role in College Admissions
Apr 26, 2023
Let's Get Tactical: How to Navigate the Waitlist
Apr 05, 2023
Akil Bello: Standardized Testing and its Discontents
Mar 30, 2023
Let's Get Tactical: How to Build a College List
Mar 30, 2023
Don't Force It - How to Get Into College Without Losing Yourself In the Process (Trailer)
Mar 27, 2023
Liz Mazzola: How to Achieve an Academic Turnaround
Mar 24, 2023