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Out Here Tryna Survive is a trauma-informed, reflective podcast centering the emotional lives, resilience, and humanity of Black women — especially those of us navigating midlife, healing, motherhood, and healing after survival.
Hosted by Grace Sandra — Mama, storyteller, advocate, and lifelong student of survival — this podcast explores what it feels like to live in a world that constantly demands our strength while offering little protection.
Through personal storytelling, cultural reflection, and nervous-system-aware conversations, each episode holds space for truth, grief, joy, rage, softness, and repair.
This is not a place for perfection or performance. It’s a place for us as Black women to exhale, feel seen, and remember ourselves.
We are braver than we believe ✨
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Epi 52: I Almost Quit My Dream Because I Was In A Hormonal Crash
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May 22, 2026 |
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Ep 51: Banish The Fantasy Of Male Protection
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Apr 30, 2026 |
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Ep 50: My 50 Best Lessons On Sex, Healing & Survival in my 50th Year!
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Apr 21, 2026 |
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Ep 49 Stop Calling Teen Girls (& Brandy) Fast. On Wanya Morris' Grooming.
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Apr 09, 2026 |
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Ep 48: Five Survival Mode Lies And The Journaling Practice That Breaks Them
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Apr 03, 2026 |
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Ep 47: Pretty Privilege Can Get You Chosen But Rarely Loved
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Mar 27, 2026 |
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Ep 46: I Feel For the Epi Survivors. On Anxiety And The Survivor's Need For Accountability
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Mar 13, 2026 |
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Ep 45: Is it Time For Black Women to Leave the Church? On Deconstruction.
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Mar 06, 2026 |
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Ep 44: How My Sexual Freedom & a GoFundMe TRIGGERED a Hater
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Feb 25, 2026 |
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Ep 43: Women Standards Hit Different in this Political Climate
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Feb 18, 2026 |
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Ep 42: I Quit My Job over Verbal Abuse | A Narc Boss | Panic Attacks & CHOOSING MY DAMB SELF!
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Feb 13, 2026 |
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Ep 41: Nikki Minaj & Why Trading Your Soul For Power Never Buys Peace
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Feb 06, 2026 |
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Ep 40: When AmeriKKKa has Narcissistic Personality Disorder, go NO CONTACT
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Jan 29, 2026 |
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Ep 39: When The State Spins A Story: Renee Good, Media Power, And Black Women’s Clarity
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Jan 23, 2026 |
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Ep 38: Rethinking Monogamy, Accountability, And Agency In Modern Relationships
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Jan 15, 2026 |
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Ep 37: Unlearning Purity Culture And Choosing Guilt-Free Pleasure! Please Use Your Cl1t0ris.
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Jan 08, 2026 |
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Ep 36: Quiet Wins That Made 2025. Let's Reflect!
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Dec 30, 2025 |
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Ep 35: Bias, Birth & the Burden of Being Believed
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Nov 26, 2025 |
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Ep 34: Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing OR Just Bad for your Aura?!
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Nov 05, 2025 |
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Ep 33: Losing SNAP but not Losing My Mind
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Oct 29, 2025 |
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Ep 32: How Choosing Myself Attracted my Dream Partner
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Oct 22, 2025 |
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Ep 31: Motherhood is Sacred in the Performance of Whiteness
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Oct 14, 2025 |
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Ep 30: Y'all not Finna Convince me to Mourn the Fashy; Charlie Kirk
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Sep 30, 2025 |
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Ep 29: The Soft Revolution: Finding Peace When You're Sick and Tired
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Jul 31, 2025 |
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Ep 28: An Unexpected Alliance: From Dating The Same Man To Girlfrans?!
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Jun 05, 2025 |
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Ep 27: Netflix's FOREVER -The parents we wished we had are the adults we can become.
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May 22, 2025 |
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Ep 26: Stop Victim Blaming Cassie
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May 22, 2025 |
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Ep 25: From Falling Asleep to Finding Myself: A Black Woman's Meditation Journey
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May 07, 2025 |
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Ep 24: I agree with Tracee Ellis Ross & Shannon Sharpe is WHY!
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May 01, 2025 |
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Ep 23: Healing Your Inner Child: My recent (cougaring) Dating Lesson!
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Apr 23, 2025 |
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Ep 22: Divesting from Evangelicalism to Law of Attraction 'Ish? Reversing the Influencer to Evangelical Pipeline
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Apr 16, 2025 |
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Ep 21: Thinking about Quiet Quitting America?
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Apr 09, 2025 |
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Ep 20: Is Meghan Markle Really a Narcissist?
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Mar 26, 2025 |
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Ep 19: What we can learn from The Duchess of Sussex
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Mar 19, 2025 |
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Ep 18: You're Not a Loser, You're a Survivor
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Mar 12, 2025 |
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Ep 17: Stop being mean to yourself. How Self-Compassion saved my life.
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Feb 19, 2025 |
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Ep 16: Chile. The 92% ARE TIRED.
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Feb 12, 2025 |
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Ep 15: Reclaim your voice & heal, Sis.
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Feb 05, 2025 |
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Ep 14: Why "Good Vibes Only" Won't Heal Your Wounds
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Jan 28, 2025 |
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Ep 13: Let's Set Intentions for this ENTIRE Year using ONE Word!
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Jan 22, 2025 |
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Ep 12: In defense of BUTCH bodies, summer flings & loving the sh11t outta ourselves this Summa!
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Jul 04, 2024 |
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Ep 11: There's a time to shed & a time to birth.
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Apr 19, 2024 |
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Ep 10: Am I an old lady leftover? On Starting over & Late Blooming.
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Mar 17, 2024 |
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Ep 9: Romanticize your life & embrace where you're at!
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Mar 08, 2024 |
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Ep 8: Codependent much? Is a Hip-Hop #MeToo Moment Coming?
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Dec 01, 2023 |
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Ep: 7: You Inner Child is Tryna Tell you Something.
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Nov 13, 2023 |
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Ep 6: The Need to End Toxic Friendships. Jonah Hill's "boundaries," & more!
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Jul 27, 2023 |
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Ep 5: What I Wish I Knew Before Meeting a Narcissist: How to Protect Yourself
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Jun 05, 2023 |
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Ep 4: How to Survive Yourself! Should we get married again? & Dating Shenanigans
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May 10, 2023 |
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Ep 3: How to cope with losing parents, becoming an orphan & dating old men
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Apr 16, 2023 |
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Ep 2: Perimenopause Prollems! Sex drive woes, unaliving ideations & more!
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Apr 07, 2023 |
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Ep 1: Welcome! A Brief Intro Epi!
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Mar 29, 2023 |