Trauma Free Relationship

By Dr. Tom Philp

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Join us as we explore the complexities of relational trauma and its profound effects on our attachment relationships. We'll delve into the science behind trauma, unravel its hidden patterns, and empower you with practical strategies for healing and building trauma-free relationships. If you are ready to break free from the patterns of your past and create loving, secure relationships, this podcast is for you. We will provide you with the tools and insights you need to heal from relationship trauma and build trauma-free connections that bring you joy, fulfillment, and lasting love.

Episode Date
Why It's Hard To Trust Your Partner When They Say "I'm Sorry"
May 21, 2026
The Psychology Behind 'Why' Couples Trigger Each Other
May 14, 2026
The 'Hidden Benefits' of Negative Cycles
May 07, 2026
Why "Good Communication Skills" Can't Fix Bad Cycles
Apr 30, 2026
What You're REALLY Feeling Underneath Anger
Apr 23, 2026
What to Say Instead of Getting Defensive
Apr 16, 2026
The One Sentence That De-escalates Almost Any Argument
Apr 09, 2026
Why Every Fight Feels The Same
Apr 02, 2026
Your Partner Is Not The Problem...The Cycle Is
Mar 26, 2026
You Don't Need Better Communication...You Need Better Regulation
Mar 19, 2026
What Is Intergenerational Trauma?
Mar 12, 2026
Finding Solid Ground: Building a Secure Sense of Self for Disorganized Attachment
Mar 05, 2026
Lost Connection: Self-Soothing for Anxious Attachment
Feb 26, 2026
Calming Together: Co-regulation for Avoidant Attachment
Feb 19, 2026
Listening Without Being Defensive
Feb 12, 2026
Moving Towards Secure Attachment as an Adult
Feb 05, 2026
Moving From Self-Blame to Self-Compassion
Jan 29, 2026
Why Healing Trauma Requires Relationships
Jan 22, 2026
Why Insight is Not Enough to Heal Trauma
Jan 15, 2026
Trauma vs. Incompatibility: How to Tell the Difference
Jan 08, 2026
How To Make Better Repair In Your Relationship
Jan 01, 2026
What Is Attachment Anxiety?
Dec 18, 2025
How Trauma Effects Communication Style
Dec 11, 2025
How To Change Your Partner
Dec 04, 2025
Trauma Bond Symptoms
Nov 27, 2025
Healing the Inner Child
Nov 20, 2025
Healing From Shame and Trauma
Nov 13, 2025
Mental Health & Trauma
Nov 06, 2025
How to Heal Trauma Through Mind Body Connection
Oct 30, 2025
How To Build Trust After Trauma
Oct 23, 2025
How To Be Vulnerable and Safe At The Same Time
Oct 16, 2025
10 Myths About Relational Trauma
Oct 09, 2025
Building Self-Trust
Oct 02, 2025
How To Overcome Self-Abandonment
Sep 25, 2025
Is It My Trauma, Or Is It The Relationship?
Sep 18, 2025
3 Words Trauma Survivors Struggle To Say In Relationships
Sep 11, 2025
How Not To Shut Down Emotionally In Your Relationship
Sep 04, 2025
5 Ways Relational Trauma Impacts Your Current Relationship
Aug 28, 2025
Stop Feeling Guilty For Setting Boundaries
Aug 21, 2025
How To Stop Choosing Emotionally Unsafe and Unavailable Partners
Aug 14, 2025
Trusting Yourself After Trauma
Jul 17, 2025
Seeing Ourselves: Attachment, Trauma, and Reflection
Jul 03, 2025
Misdirection in Communication, Or, How To Stay On Topic
Jun 19, 2025
Developing a Nurturing Internal Voice
Jun 05, 2025
How To Internalize the "Good Stuff" In Relationships
May 15, 2025
Emotionality Versus True Emotion in Anxious Attachment
May 01, 2025
Mindset of the Avoidantly Attached Partner
Apr 17, 2025
Mindset of the Anxiously Attached Partner
Apr 03, 2025
Is This Trauma, Or a Part of Me?
Mar 20, 2025
Healing Trauma Through Silence and Solitude
Mar 06, 2025
Healing Trauma: Top Down or Bottom Up
Feb 21, 2025
Healing Inner Conflict
Feb 06, 2025
4 Ways That Limit Healing Your Trauma
Jan 30, 2025
What Does Secure Attachment Look Like?
Jan 23, 2025
Helping My Partner Understand My Trauma
Jan 16, 2025
Supporting Your Partner's Attachment Style When Things Are Good
Jan 09, 2025
Couple Goal Setting
Jan 02, 2025
How To Manage A Flashback When It Is Happening
Dec 26, 2024
How Deescalating Cycles Rebuilds Trust
Dec 19, 2024
Resolving The Imaginary Fight
Dec 12, 2024
2 Obstacles In Affair Recovery
Dec 05, 2024
5 Ways To Cultivate Gratefulness
Nov 28, 2024
Surviving Versus Thriving In Your Relationship
Nov 21, 2024
Here It Comes Again: Dealing with Anniversary Dates
Nov 14, 2024
Mutual Influence in Relationships
Nov 07, 2024
Healing Abandonment Trauma
Oct 31, 2024
Best 3 Grounding Techniques for Emotion Regulation
Oct 24, 2024
A Better Me, Makes A Better We
Oct 17, 2024
Healing the Wounds of Shame
Oct 10, 2024
Feelings, Feelings, Feelings: Why Are Feelings So Important?
Oct 03, 2024
"Never Again:" What is an Attachment Injury?
Sep 26, 2024
How To Resolve Conflict With An Anxious Partner
Sep 19, 2024
The Importance of Play as a Couple
Sep 12, 2024
How To Resolve Conflict With An Avoidant Partner
Sep 05, 2024
How To Provide Your Partner A Corrective Emotional Experience
Aug 29, 2024
Trauma's Dilemma: Finding Your Way Back From Dissociation
Aug 22, 2024
Through the Looking Glass: How Trauma Shapes our Relationship Perceptions
Aug 15, 2024
Finding Your Zone: Understanding the Window of Tolerance
Aug 08, 2024
Woven Together: Emphasizing the Interconnectedness of Being Human
Aug 01, 2024
Beyond the Logic: Unlocking the Wisdom of Your Heart
Jul 25, 2024
The Trauma Effect: How Past Hurts Shape Your Present Love Life
Jul 18, 2024
Understanding Your Protectors: The Heroes Within
Jul 11, 2024
For A Healthy Relationship, Do This, Don't Do That
Jul 04, 2024
Tree of Life: Creating New Core Beliefs
Jun 27, 2024
The Zeigarnik Effect: Why Unresolved Issues Haunt Your Relationship
Jun 20, 2024
The Trust Toolbox: Practical Steps to Healing and Connection
Jun 13, 2024
The Anatomy of a Sincere Apology
Jun 06, 2024
The Cracks That Can't Be Filled: When Repairing Does More Harm
May 30, 2024
The Past in the Present: Exploring Transference and Attachment
May 23, 2024
The Taming of the Triggers: Understanding and Managing Your Emotional Response
May 16, 2024
You Defense is Talking: Messages Sent by Defensive Behavior
May 09, 2024
Close Enough to Cuddle, Far Enough to Breathe: Balancing Independence with Togetherness
May 02, 2024
Dim the Flame: Unmasking Gaslighting in Relationships
Apr 25, 2024
The Relationship Reflection: Exploring Present Process
Apr 18, 2024
How To Have Difficult Conversations
Apr 11, 2024
Can You Love Me In This Place?
Apr 04, 2024
What Does It Mean To Work On Yourself?
Mar 28, 2024
Behind the Mask: Understanding Narcissism in Relationships
Mar 21, 2024
Still Crazy After All These Years: Reflections on 23 Years of Marriage
Mar 14, 2024
The High Maintenance Relationship: Embracing the Drama (Together!)
Mar 07, 2024
Unscripted Love: How To Make Better Repair Statements
Feb 29, 2024
Validated & Alive: Fueling Your Relationship with Understanding
Feb 22, 2024
Get To The Root of The Problem
Feb 15, 2024
The Secret of Repairing Ruptures: Second Level Communication
Feb 08, 2024
Worlds of Meaning: When Couples Get Locked in Different Perspectives
Feb 01, 2024
Do you have emotional allergies?
Jan 25, 2024
What Happens When Both Partners Have Avoidant Attachment?
Jan 18, 2024
Rupture Repair Cycle: The #1 Issue for Couples
Jan 11, 2024
How To Live Happily Ever After: Goal Setting for Couples
Jan 04, 2024
How To Balance Different Attachment Needs
Dec 28, 2023
How To Recognize Your Attachment Needs
Dec 21, 2023
How To Protect Your Partner's Vulnerabilities
Dec 14, 2023
How To Build Trust After Trauma
Dec 07, 2023
How Couples Grow Together
Nov 30, 2023
Cultivating Gratitude at Thanksgiving
Nov 22, 2023
Am I Broken?
Nov 15, 2023
Navigating the Holidays with Trauma
Nov 07, 2023
Is it you, or is it me?
Nov 02, 2023
Avoidant Attachment Style
Oct 25, 2023
Anxious Attachment Style
Oct 19, 2023
Empathic Attunement: The Roots of Trust and Resilience
Oct 13, 2023
Trauma Triggers
Oct 06, 2023
Trauma Cycles
Sep 01, 2023
4 Common Questions for Relationships
Aug 25, 2023
4 Post Traumatic Growth Tools
Aug 18, 2023
Attachment Trauma
Jul 28, 2023
Anger Management
Jul 21, 2023
4 Ways to Ruin Your Relationship
Jul 14, 2023
This Equation Will Save Your Relationship
Jul 07, 2023
6 Signs of Unresolved Trauma
Jun 30, 2023
Attachment Theory
Jun 26, 2023
History of Trauma Research
Jun 16, 2023
Defining Trauma's Impact on Your Relationship
Jun 09, 2023
5 Ways Trauma Impacts Your Relationship
Jun 01, 2023
Progressive Relaxation Audio
Apr 12, 2023