The Other Woman And The Wife
By Chelsea
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Episodes: 93
Description
Welcome to The Other Woman and The Wife, where we navigate the complex terrain of affairs with radical honesty, deep compassion, and zero judgment.
I'm Chelsea, and I've walked this path myself—from the shadows of secrecy to the light of self-discovery. After my own affair led me to divorce and ultimately to the love of my life, I realized that the narratives we're fed about infidelity are incomplete, shame-laden, and often harmful to the very people who need support most.
This podcast isn't about right or wrong, good or bad. It's about the messy, beautiful, heartbreaking reality of human connection and what happens when we find ourselves loving outside the lines. Whether you're currently in an affair, navigating its aftermath, or trying to understand your own capacity for love and desire, this is your safe space to explore without apology.
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#94 You Are Still You
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May 25, 2026 |
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#93 The Man Who Wanted to Be a Priest (And Got Married Three Times Instead)
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Mar 30, 2026 |
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#92 The Worst Questions You're Asking (And Why You Need to Stop)
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Mar 09, 2026 |
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#91 No Contact Culture Is Teaching You That You're Not Welcome
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Feb 23, 2026 |
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#90 The Jealousy Trap Inside Affairs
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Feb 09, 2026 |
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#89 Meet Julie: The Fairy Godmother Who Creates Space for Floodgates
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Jan 26, 2026 |
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#88 When Love and Dying Live in the Same House
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Jan 12, 2026 |
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#87 The Power of Words: How Your Internal Language Creates Your Reality
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Dec 08, 2025 |
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#86 When Control Destroys Connection: The Real Betrayal in Marriage - Carolina Vilalva
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Nov 20, 2025 |
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#85 Why Affair Sex Feels Better Than Marriage Sex - Dr. Diane Mueller
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Nov 06, 2025 |
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#84 Infidelity and It’s Overlap with High-Performance Relationship Coaching -Katarina Polonska
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Oct 23, 2025 |
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#83 The Truth About What Your Affair Is Really Seeking - Paul Keable
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Oct 09, 2025 |
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Summer Break Announcement: My Happily Ever After Includes Rest
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Jun 29, 2025 |
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#82 How to Distinguish Between a Red Flag and a Triggered Wound - Joshua Marable
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Jun 22, 2025 |
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#81 What Your Affair Is Really Telling You - Kara Nance
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Jun 15, 2025 |
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#80 From Trolling to Friendship: A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey Through Infidelity Pt. 2
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Jun 08, 2025 |
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#79 Complicated Women Have the Best Stories: Ann Marie Edition
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May 31, 2025 |
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#78 How Do You Break Free of the Victim or Villain Mindset? -Carolina Vilalva
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May 25, 2025 |
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#77 Story Time: Silence is Deafening, Delphine’s Ghosting Experience
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May 18, 2025 |
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#76 Infidelity & The Power Of Female Friendship -Kris Haraldsson
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May 11, 2025 |
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#75 Where in the World Are Chelsea and Ann Marie? TOWTW Retreat Edition
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May 04, 2025 |
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#74 Is Infidelity Hereditary? -Luke Shillings
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Apr 27, 2025 |
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Plot Twist: TOWTW Easter Pause
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Apr 20, 2025 |
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#73 Story Time: Let's Talk About Sex
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Apr 13, 2025 |
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#72 Story time: Widow Grieves Death of Affair Partner Re-Release
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Apr 06, 2025 |
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#71 Should You Stay Together For The Kids? - Carolina Vilalva
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Mar 30, 2025 |
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#70 Dear Listener, This One’s Just Between Us
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Mar 23, 2025 |
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#69 Spiritual Thought-Leader Rob Bell
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Mar 09, 2025 |
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#68 Can You Trust Yourself After Infidelity? Pt. 2 -Luke Shillings
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Mar 02, 2025 |
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#67 Can You Trust Love After Infidelity? Pt. 1
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Feb 23, 2025 |
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#66 How Is Your Shame Serving You? (Spoiler: It's Not) -Kris Haraldsson
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Feb 16, 2025 |
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#65 Is Your Need to Collaborate Keeping You Stuck?
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Feb 09, 2025 |
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#64 Beyond Stereotypes: How Gender Expectations Shape Affair Recovery -Luke Shillings
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Feb 02, 2025 |
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#63 Therapy vs. Coaching: Healing After Infidelity - Carolina Vilalva
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Jan 26, 2025 |
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#62 Debunking Betrayal Stereotypes - Luke Shillings
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Jan 19, 2025 |
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#61 Revisiting Hard Truths a Q&A: Did he use me? Is he having Sex with his wife?
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Jan 12, 2025 |
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#60 The Affair That Rekindled Her Soul - Luke Shilling's
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Dec 22, 2024 |
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#59 Empower, Transform, Connect: Inside Our Upcoming Puerto Vallarta Retreat
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Dec 15, 2024 |
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#58 Mark's Affair Story Pt. 2 - Luke Shillings
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Dec 08, 2024 |
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#56 What Makes People Leave Their Marriage For An Affair? - Carolina Vilalva
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Nov 24, 2024 |
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#55 Ignorance is Bliss - Luke Shillings
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Nov 17, 2024 |
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#54 Mark's Affair Story Pt. 1 - Luke Shillings
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Nov 10, 2024 |
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#53 Divorce Attorney's Thoughts on Infidelity & Relationships -James Sexton
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Nov 03, 2024 |
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#52 Dangerous Liaisons
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Oct 27, 2024 |
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#51 From Infidelity to Empowerment: Forging New Communities for Men and Women
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Oct 20, 2024 |
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#49 Finding Home Outside My Marriage
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Oct 06, 2024 |
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#48 Welcoming Luke Shillings
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Sep 29, 2024 |
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#47 The Temptation To Cheat Again
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Jun 23, 2024 |
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#46 To Tell Or Not To Tell: Affair Disclosure v. Discovery
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Jun 16, 2024 |
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#45 Does Limerence Cause Affairs?
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Jun 09, 2024 |
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#44 Gangster Gate and Passion Driven Work
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Jun 02, 2024 |
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#43 Is Your Affair a Painkiller or a Refuge?
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May 26, 2024 |
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#42 The Affair That Resulted In a Decade-Long Marriage.
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May 19, 2024 |
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#41 Whose Happiness Comes First – Mothers or Children?
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May 12, 2024 |
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#40 How The 20 Year Affair with My Brother in Law Worked Out
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May 05, 2024 |
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#39 Why Do People Stay and Cheat Instead of Leave
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Apr 28, 2024 |
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#38 Does The World Change or Does How You View The World Change?
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Apr 21, 2024 |
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#37 Am I Giving Him an Ultimatum or Setting a Boundary?
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Apr 14, 2024 |
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#36 Chelsea Jubilee Reaction
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Apr 07, 2024 |
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#35 From Trolling to Dialogue: A Betrayed Spouse Shares His Journey
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Feb 25, 2024 |
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#34 On The Other Side Of Infidelity w/ Melanie
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Jan 21, 2024 |
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#33 Twin Flames, Validation & Real Love w/ Kristin
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Jan 14, 2024 |
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#32 Male Emotional Affair Gone Wrong w/ Marty
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Jan 07, 2024 |
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#31 Why He Won't Leave Her w/ Minister Jamie
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Dec 10, 2023 |
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#29 Growing Up in a Toxic Family Environment w/ Kaity
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Nov 19, 2023 |
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#28 From Shame to Growth: Therapist Talks Infidelity w/ Romi Cumes
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Nov 12, 2023 |
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#27 Former Pastor got Accused of Cheating w/ Dave Capozzi
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Nov 05, 2023 |
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#26 Exploring the Intersection of Religion and Infidelity w/ Bible School Black Sheep
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Oct 29, 2023 |
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#25 From Resentment to Healing: How a Betrayed Husband Overcame the Pain of Infidelity w/ Luke Shillings
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Oct 22, 2023 |
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#24 Q&A: Did he use me? Is he having Sex with his wife?
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Oct 08, 2023 |
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#23 How Money Influences your Relationship & Independence w/ Julie
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Oct 01, 2023 |
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#22 Betrayed Wife Stays in Marriage After Affair w/ Kayti
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Sep 24, 2023 |
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#21 Leaving Husband for Best Friend w/ Suzi
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Sep 17, 2023 |
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#20 How To Forgive Yourself After the Affair
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Sep 10, 2023 |
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#19 How to Reinvent Yourself After Divorce w/ Marissa Baker
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Sep 03, 2023 |
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#18 Lessons of 19 YEARS in an Affair w / Julie
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Aug 27, 2023 |
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#17 Leaving Unhappy Marriage For Her Best Friend w/ Kristin
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Aug 20, 2023 |
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#16 Should You Tell His Wife About The Affair?
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Aug 13, 2023 |
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#15 Who To Tell About Your Affair?
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Aug 06, 2023 |
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#14 Community, Throuple & Monogamy | 014
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Jul 30, 2023 |
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#13 How No Contact Hurts & Messes Up Your Life
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Jul 23, 2023 |
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#12 When Will He Leave His Wife? Can You Trust Him?
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Jul 16, 2023 |
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#11 Story time: Widow Grieves Death of Affair Partner
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Jul 09, 2023 |
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#010 How to NOT Fall Out of Love in your Relationship / Affair
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Jul 02, 2023 |
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#009 How Does Guilt & Shame Manifest in an Affair? w/ Luna
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Jun 25, 2023 |
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#008 Can Women Fall PREY to Cheating? w/ Luna
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Jun 18, 2023 |
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#007 Why Do Men Cheat?
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Jun 11, 2023 |
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#006 Can you Prevent Affairs?
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Jun 04, 2023 |
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#005 Betrayed Wife Shares Her Story on Being Cheated On w/ Nicole & Sarah
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May 28, 2023 |
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#004 Q&A How To End the Affair Without Breaking My Husband?
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May 21, 2023 |
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#003 Confronting Infidelity in Marriage w/ Greg
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May 14, 2023 |
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#002 Q&A: How Do You Get Over a Secret Long-term Affair
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May 07, 2023 |
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#001 Betrayed Wife Falls in Love with Someone Other Than Husband w/ Veronica
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Apr 30, 2023 |