It's Not You, It's Them...But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain

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Lalalaletmeexplain is here to answer all YOUR questions around love, dating, sex, and relationships. Her unfiltered advice is not only candid and insightful, but she delivers you tough love when needed. Having swam the depths of the dating pool herself, Lala’s advice comes from a place of experience and expertise. On Mondays Lala will be addressing a hot topic of the week, whether it’s a discussion around female misogyny blowing up your timeline or the arguments around Sex Education in schools that’s splashed across the headlines. Wednesdays she’s tackling your issues and conundrums around love, sex and relationships and on Fridays Lala will be diving into your dating dilemmas, red flag alerts, instant ick reactions and sharing her weekend reminders. And twice a month she’ll be joined by a guest to deliberate your questions. Lala is the author of the best-selling dating guide Block, Delete, Move On, OK Mag’s resident agony aunt, a sexual health and relationship educator and she’s a social worker with over a decade of experience in child safeguarding and child protection. It's Not You, It's Them...But it Might Be You is the trustworthy, down to earth advice that you've been waiting for! A Sony Music Entertainment production. Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com To get in touch please DM Lala in instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain. And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column. https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/

Episode Date
Endings Make Way For New Beginnings
Jun 21, 2024
Where Can I Find A Life Partner?
Jun 19, 2024
Wokefish and Brocialists
Jun 17, 2024
Lala's Confession
Jun 14, 2024
Put Off By Pubes
Jun 12, 2024
The Other Side of Cosmetic Surgery
Jun 10, 2024
Ghosted so I put them on Grindr
Jun 07, 2024
Do Groomers Know They're Grooming?
Jun 05, 2024
WIll I Ever Have Sex Again? With Sofie Hagen
Jun 03, 2024
Menstrual Cup and Chilli in Yoga Pants confessions
May 31, 2024
Your Mum Texting Your Ex
May 29, 2024
Ask A Bloke Part 2
May 27, 2024
Ask a Bloke Part 1
May 24, 2024
Rate My D**k!
May 22, 2024
Danny Dyer's Toxic Masculinity Documentary
May 20, 2024
Sleeping With Two Brothers
May 17, 2024
Frightened of Forty
May 15, 2024
Valuing Different Views with Africa Brooke
May 13, 2024
Always Arguing with Sarah Jayne Dunn (Formally Mandy from Hollyoaks)
May 10, 2024
Help! He's Got A Breeding Kink...
May 08, 2024
Baby Reindeer
May 06, 2024
Stoned Sex Whilst Mum's Downstairs
May 03, 2024
Do My Tattoos Make Me Look Promiscuous?
May 01, 2024
Cosmetic Surgery And Judgement with Nip, Tuck
Apr 29, 2024
W**king On Work Time
Apr 26, 2024
Oniony Odour
Apr 24, 2024
STI's Aren't Just For Single People
Apr 22, 2024
Confessions: I Don't Want To Be a Step Mum
Apr 19, 2024
Tell Him How Many Times You've Had An Orgasm!
Apr 17, 2024
'Quiet On Set' and Recognising Child Abuse
Apr 15, 2024
Father Lala
Apr 12, 2024
The Curse of the Ex
Apr 10, 2024
Views on Nudes
Apr 08, 2024
Lala's Confession Box
Apr 05, 2024
Friendship Boundaries, Sex Talk & Flag Recognition
Apr 03, 2024
Agony Aunt Easter Special
Apr 01, 2024
Bidding Farewell to ICKs
Mar 29, 2024
One NO is enough
Mar 27, 2024
The Hampstead Heath Paedophile Hoax
Mar 25, 2024
Usher, Rap WhatsApps and Stump Icks 
Mar 22, 2024
Tate Debate & Sex Drive Discussion
Mar 20, 2024
Love Is Blind: Chelsea and Jimmy
Mar 18, 2024
Red Flags with Katie Price
Mar 15, 2024
Contraception, Condoms and Casual Sex
Mar 13, 2024
The Jury: Murder Trial - How Effective is our Justice system?
Mar 11, 2024
Why We Need International Women's Day
Mar 08, 2024
Is He The Red Flag, Or Is It Me? 
Mar 06, 2024
The World’s Biggest Single Social Experiment?
Mar 04, 2024
Stephanie Yeboah On The Pull A Pig Scandal and Finding Love
Mar 01, 2024
Taking Advantage, Taking Money & Taking the Piss!
Feb 28, 2024
Killed Women - The Inadequate Justice System and How You Can Help
Feb 26, 2024
Unpicking ICKs - Snoring, Titties and Imitating Cats. MWEOH!
Feb 23, 2024
Addiction, Wastemen, Gaslighting and Clare's Law
Feb 21, 2024
Every woman needs to Hear This
Feb 19, 2024
Love Talk with Ashley James & Lala: Navigating Your Relationship Dilemmas
Feb 16, 2024
Humiliation Kinks, Casual Sex & Does BV Mean He Cheated?
Feb 14, 2024
Valentines... Schmalentines... What's The Big Deal?!
Feb 12, 2024
Panties, Pyramids and TikTok live icks!
Feb 09, 2024
Dumped After Two Dates, Creepy Cousins and Overprotective Parent Concerns
Feb 07, 2024
Are We Dating The Same Guy?: The Facebook Group We Should Be Careful Of
Feb 05, 2024
Megan Barton- Hanson Joins Lala To Answer Your Dating Dilemmas!
Feb 02, 2024
Coregasms, Getting Back On The Dating Horse, and Sex Education
Jan 31, 2024
Stephen Bear - Sex Offender, Narcissist and How The Justice System Fails Victims
Jan 29, 2024
Cowboy, Countdown and Cunnilingus icks!
Jan 26, 2024
My Fiancée Is On Bumble, Feeling Worthless After Casual Sex and My Ex-Husband Is Ruining Me
Jan 24, 2024
Failure is not an Ick.
Jan 24, 2024
Virtual Rape: Abusing Artificial Intelligence to Abuse Women
Jan 22, 2024
Insta Icks, Disney Icks and Can He Not Cross The Road Icks?
Jan 19, 2024
What Age Should I Date? Moving On From Abusive Sex and Does He Love Me?
Jan 17, 2024
The Dark Side Of Paedophile Hunters
Jan 15, 2024
Rugby Boot and Dressing Gown ICKS and He Stuffed What Inside What?!
Jan 12, 2024
Should I Date A Gambling Addict, Creepy Dad? and Getting Body Confidence Back
Jan 10, 2024
New Year..... Same You!
Jan 08, 2024
Trolley Coin, Adult Skateboarding Icks and Did He Literally Just Wave At Me?!
Jan 05, 2024
Why Didn't He Choose Me? Can I Call Her A Slut? Your Boner Problems Answered
Jan 03, 2024
Best of The Icks Part 2
Jan 01, 2024
Heartless Crew Join Lala For Your F**k Boy Replies
Dec 29, 2023
Casual Sex Regrets, Neighbour Troubles and How Do I Keep My Daughter Safe?
Dec 27, 2023
Best of The Icks Part 1
Dec 25, 2023
LIVE: Redhanded x LalalaLetMeExplain - Bad Boys for Life
Dec 22, 2023
Inappropriate Withheld Caller, Abusive Messages and Broken Girlcode Trust
Dec 20, 2023
Seasonal Dating Trends: Should We Be Listening?!
Dec 18, 2023
Reindeer Antlers, On All Fours and Football Reaction Icks
Dec 15, 2023
Cuddle Sessions, Opposing Views and Questionable Snapchats
Dec 13, 2023
The Law Of Attraction: Can It Help You?
Dec 11, 2023
He Called It What?! One Kebab Barry, and Animal Photo ICKS
Dec 08, 2023
My Friend Won't Listen To Me, Am I Enough?! and He Won't Date Me
Dec 06, 2023
The Pain Of Heartbreak: What NOT To Do
Dec 04, 2023
Karate Kicks, Wheelie Bin Ice Baths and Slow Cooker Icks
Dec 01, 2023
Happy Family Pretence, Boyfriend's Racist Family and Questionable Coke Binge
Nov 29, 2023
Understanding Limerence: From Infatuation to Obsession
Nov 27, 2023
Damn Right Dirty Tea, Horny 90s Sexing and Bad Ass Squirrel Icks
Nov 24, 2023
Deceitful Boys, He's Still Online and Out Right W*nkers!
Nov 22, 2023
He Just Wanted To Be Pampered: Vickys Dating Story
Nov 20, 2023
Kelechi Okafor Solves Your Dating Dillemas!
Nov 17, 2023
Overly Keen Dad, Faking It and Is It Me?
Nov 15, 2023
Ghosting: It's Really NOT You!
Nov 13, 2023
Cheesy Potatoes, Confusing Spooning and Olympic W*nker Icks
Nov 10, 2023
Too Much Too Soon, Mismatched Sex Drives, and No Labels Fuck Boys
Nov 08, 2023
Embarrassing Clownery: Why Do We Do It?!
Nov 06, 2023
Kathy Burke Tackles Your Dating Dilemmas
Nov 03, 2023
Herpes Revelations, Settling For Non-Feminists and Taking Advantage Of Sex Workers
Nov 01, 2023
Let's Normalize Not Having Children
Oct 30, 2023
Period Drama Dramas, Dodgy Doggy, and Long Green Vegetable Icks
Oct 27, 2023
Love-Bombing, Genital Warts and Teenage Dating Worries
Oct 25, 2023
Tinder Select: The People Who Are Paying To Slide Into Your DMs
Oct 23, 2023
Genital Fruit Bowls, Midweek Biscoff Lattes, and Your Holiday is Not a Movie Icks
Oct 20, 2023
Abusive Father-In-Law, Office Lust and Schoolgirl Fantasies
Oct 18, 2023
Married At First Sight: Recognising and Escaping Narcissistic Abuse and Spiritual F**kboys
Oct 16, 2023
Daisy May Cooper Takes On Your Dating Dilemmas
Oct 13, 2023
It was 4 Inches not 12, Anonymous Only Fans and Is My Friend’s Partner a Predator?
Oct 11, 2023
Why We Need To Talk About Tate
Oct 09, 2023
Apathy for Asthmatics, Perspiration Peeves and Titty Tuesday Icks
Oct 06, 2023
Casual Sex, Body Count Bias and a Situationship Gone Wrong
Oct 04, 2023
When Age Gaps Become Problematic
Oct 02, 2023
Bed Making, D**k Slapping and Second Date Icks
Sep 29, 2023
More BJ’s, Anxious Attachment and A Case of Limerence
Sep 27, 2023
Why The Love Languages Aren't So Lovely
Sep 25, 2023
Videoing Consent, Exes Nudes and Original Source on the Balls with Sharon Gaffka
Sep 22, 2023
How The Russell Brand Allegations Have Revealed Social Media Misogyny
Sep 20, 2023
Track Your Cycle to Change Your Life
Sep 18, 2023
Polyamory Red Flag and The Power Of Forest Gump
Sep 15, 2023
Lost in Translation, Love Bombing and Navigating Infidelity
Sep 13, 2023
'Slut Shaming' Her To Get To Him – Logan Paul vs Dillon Danis
Sep 11, 2023
Untamed Bush and Bringing Lube To a First Date
Sep 08, 2023
Feeld, Female Misogynist and an Overly Familiar Ex
Sep 06, 2023
Two Banana’s, A Blood Bath And a Trip to A&E
Sep 04, 2023
The Lighthouse Family Ick, Misogynist Red Flags and The Lasagne Virgin
Sep 01, 2023
Is Porn Making Men Bad in Bed?
Aug 30, 2023
Navigating Life with ADHD
Aug 28, 2023
Water Sports and Dating Your Friends’ Old Flames With Grace Campbell
Aug 25, 2023
Girl Code and the Disappearing Willy Washer
Aug 23, 2023
Body Counts - Why People Who Use Them Against Women Are Idiots
Aug 21, 2023
Lord Coldimort Icks, Naked Panic and a Failed Housewarming
Aug 18, 2023
Bisexual Boyfriends and X Rated Over Sharing
Aug 16, 2023
Not Guilty Doesn't Mean Innocent: A Discussion About the Justice System and Rape with Grace Campbell
Aug 14, 2023
Narcissism, Stag Woes and Finding Out He's Married
Aug 09, 2023
Understanding Limerence: From Infatuation to Obsession
Aug 07, 2023
F**kboy Replies, Welcome Breeze Icks, and a Big Update
Aug 04, 2023
One Night Stands, Fancying Colleagues and Dating as a Mum
Aug 02, 2023
What About Men?
Jul 31, 2023
Negging Trolls, Needing Space and a Mail Order Bride?
Jul 26, 2023
The Problem With Female Misogynist Grifters
Jul 24, 2023
The OG of Ick Stories
Jul 21, 2023
Squirting, Sleeping With Brothers and Labia Woes
Jul 19, 2023
Is sex education controversial?
Jul 17, 2023
Introducing: It's Not You, It's Them...But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain
Jul 10, 2023