"Girl, I've been thinking"

By Monica Cotolan

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Category: Self-Improvement

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Girl, I’ve been thinking…


This podcast is for the woman who feels awake — but restless. Who’s tired of performing healing and ready to be honest instead.


Hosted by Monica Cotolan, Girl, I’ve Been Thinking is an intimate, unfiltered podcast about identity, emotional patterns, self-betrayal, and becoming the person your life is asking for.


No motivation. No fluff.

Just conversations that feel like a mirror.


If you’re ready to stop circling your potential and actually meet yourself, press play.



Episode Date
The Toxic Side of ‘Healing’ No One Talks About
Apr 30, 2026
How to Move On After a Breakup or Ghosting (When You Didn’t Get Closure)
Apr 09, 2026
he was cute until he wasn’t
Mar 26, 2026
What If You’re the Red Flag ?… And You Don’t Know It?
Mar 19, 2026
Why Some People Move On So Fast After a Breakup
Mar 12, 2026
Why Being Replaced Hurts So Much
Mar 06, 2026
You’re Not Hard to Love. You’re Performing for It.
Feb 26, 2026
You’re Not the Same Person Anymore — And That’s the Problem
Feb 19, 2026
Why People Fear Your Reflection (And How to Stay Unshaken)
Jun 18, 2025
From Gaslight to Glow Up: Reclaiming Your Power After Narcissistic Abuse
Apr 27, 2025
Why Your Emotions Are the Hidden Code They Don’t Want You to Crack (Unlock Your True Self)
Apr 02, 2025
Fearless You: Mastering Self-Confidence
Mar 05, 2025
Navigating the Inner Landscape: Love, Fear, and Happiness with Marius Kapp
Feb 23, 2025
Falling in love with life again
Feb 16, 2025
Dare to detach
Feb 20, 2024
Breaking the Cycle: Recognizing and Overcoming Toxic Traits
Feb 12, 2024
Dark feminine energy |how to tap into it&embrace it
Feb 06, 2024
How to become a high value woman | traits to avoid | dating tips | high value from a man POV
Jan 30, 2024
The key to progress ✨
Jan 23, 2024
Girls talk: 2024 resolution ,being rational,dating,dm’s,important values
Jan 16, 2024
The 4 Attachment Styles & Why a Toxic Attachment Style can Affect your Relationships
Dec 12, 2023
Making decisions and taking risks,what stops you and how to not get stuck 🤍
Dec 05, 2023
Being intentional with your life✨
Nov 28, 2023
Outgrowing situations
Nov 21, 2023
The pressure of being someone
Nov 14, 2023
The power of vulnerability
Nov 07, 2023
Why are you keep attracting situationships let’s talk about it
Oct 24, 2023
Manipulation tactics and red flags 🚩
Oct 17, 2023
Keep the focus on you
Oct 10, 2023
Not everyone is for you
Oct 02, 2023
Love languages and the importance of them
Sep 12, 2023
It’s okay to feel sad ,it’s part of your transformation
Sep 05, 2023
Let s talk about dark side and shadow work
Aug 29, 2023
Maybe your final stage of healing is telling them to fu*k off
Aug 22, 2023
Dating in the social media era
Aug 15, 2023
The art of not forcing anything
Aug 07, 2023
Childhood traumas
Jul 31, 2023
Authenticity and the importance of it
Jul 25, 2023
Start Here.
Jul 21, 2023
Do you like yourself?
Jul 21, 2023