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Addiction Makes Three The Podcast, with Amanda Lockyer is dedicated to shining a light and understanding the lesser talked about side of addiction. The real impact it has on the partners and families of those that struggle with addiction.
Are you struggling with a partners addiction and feel at a complete loss as to what to do?
You feel like you have no one to turn to and are worried you'll be judged or your partner will be judged. It can feel like no one understands what you are going through and no one could really imagine what this is really like.
We will cover what it is truly like to be on the other side of a loved one struggling with addiction or navigating recovery. We will also dive deep on tools, ideas and strategies that will really help you whether you are at the confusing beginning the messy middle or through the other side, including practical tips and ways that you can actually get back to living again, regardless of the path your partner chooses.
I will share my own lived experiences and expertise as an Addiction Relationship Coach and Wife of someone someone that struggled with addiction and we will have experts and guests that can share their expertise and experience in this space too so that you truly know you are not alone and know that there are things you can do to help you, your family and your partner - whether you choose to stay in the relationship, leave or leave for now.
For more information and support and to find out how you can work with me for 1:1 and group coaching, check out the website or find me on Instagram.
New episodes weekly.
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93 - How Survival Mode Slowly Becomes Your Personality
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May 21, 2026 |
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92 - Am I Overreacting? The Hidden Damage Addiction Causes
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May 19, 2026 |
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91 - The Hills I’ll Die On After Loving Someone With Addiction
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May 14, 2026 |
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90 - I Miss Who I Used To Be: How Survival Mode Slowly Changes You
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May 13, 2026 |
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89 - Mother’s Day, Addiction, and the Grief No One Talks About
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May 07, 2026 |
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88 - Why Learning More About Addiction Might Be Keeping You Stuck
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May 05, 2026 |
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87 - Why It’s Not Getting Better (Even Though You’re Doing Everything Right)
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May 01, 2026 |
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86 - I Can’t Keep Doing This: What Happens When You Reach Your Limit
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Apr 29, 2026 |
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85 - The Part No One Talks About Series: Sobriety Doesn’t Fix the Relationship
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Apr 26, 2026 |
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84 - The Part No One Talks About Series: When Sobriety Isn’t What You Expected
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Apr 23, 2026 |
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83 - The Part No One Talks About Series: You Look Fine… But You’re Not
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Apr 21, 2026 |
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82 - The Part No One Talks About Series: How it impacts your ability to parent
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Apr 16, 2026 |
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81 - A Personal Update: Grief, Losing My Voice, and Why I’m Here
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Apr 02, 2026 |
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80 - The Part No One Talks About Series: This Isn’t Just Stress. It’s the Impact of Addiction.
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Feb 20, 2026 |
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79 - "I Can’t Do Another Year Like This” When You’re Exhausted Living with Addiction
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Feb 18, 2026 |
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78 - Acknowledging the Year You’ve Survived
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Jan 14, 2026 |
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77 - Holiday Series: Why Your Christmas Doesn’t Depend on Their Sobriety
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Dec 11, 2025 |
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76 - Holiday Series: What I Wish Someone Told Me Before Every Christmas
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Dec 09, 2025 |
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75 - Holiday Series: Three Things You Can Control This Season
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Dec 08, 2025 |
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74 - Holiday Series: The Hidden Exhaustion of Loving Someone in Addiction
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Dec 07, 2025 |
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73 - Holiday Series: The Dread of Dr. Jekyll or Mr. Hyde
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Dec 06, 2025 |
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72 - Holiday Series: When Everyone Thinks You’re Fine - But You’re Not
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Dec 05, 2025 |
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71 - The Moment I Completely Lost It
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Nov 20, 2025 |
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70 - When You Don't Like Who You've Become In Their Addiction
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Nov 18, 2025 |
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69 - If Nothing Changes, Nothing Changes: How to Start Turning Your Life Around Now
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Nov 15, 2025 |
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68 - Why Waiting for Rock Bottom Is Dangerous
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Nov 11, 2025 |
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67 - How to Rebuild Trust Without Turning Into a Detective
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Nov 08, 2025 |
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66 - They Say They’re Sober… But You’re Still Not Sure
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Nov 07, 2025 |
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65 - What No One Warns You About When They Go To Rehab
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Oct 30, 2025 |
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64 - When You’re Worn Out: Giving Yourself Permission to Stop
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Oct 28, 2025 |
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63 - How Perimenopause Makes Addiction-Impacted Relationships Even Harder
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Oct 23, 2025 |
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62 - Rethinking Recovery and the Myths That Keep Us Stuck with Conrad Tracy
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Oct 21, 2025 |
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61 - When You Don’t Know Whether to Stay or Leave
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Oct 16, 2025 |
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60 - Grieving Someone in Addiction Who is Still Alive
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Oct 15, 2025 |
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59 - The Crazy Things I Did In My Husband's Addiction
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Oct 09, 2025 |
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58 - The High-Functioning Addiction Myth: When ‘Fine’ Isn’t Actually Fine
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Oct 07, 2025 |
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57 - Why Your Boundaries Aren’t Working (and What to Do About It)
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Oct 02, 2025 |
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56 - How to Spot the Early Signs of Addiction (Before It’s Too Late)
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Oct 01, 2025 |
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55 - 7 Late-Night Google Searches That Reveal Addiction Red Flags
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Sep 18, 2025 |
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54 - What Real Support Looks Like (Without the Shame of ‘Enabling’)
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Sep 11, 2025 |
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53 - Are You Gaslighting Yourself? The Quiet Habit Keeping You Stuck
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Sep 03, 2025 |
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52 - What If Waiting Is the Most Dangerous Choice?
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Aug 21, 2025 |
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51 - The Hidden Cost of Staying Quiet About Addiction (Your Silence Is Not Strength)
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Aug 14, 2025 |
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50 - Why You Can’t Find Peace Without Discomfort
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Aug 08, 2025 |
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49 - Are You Still Getting It All Done But Falling Apart Inside?
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Jul 31, 2025 |
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48 - Why Sobriety Isn’t the Finish Line: The Truth About Addiction & Relationships
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Jul 24, 2025 |
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47 - 11 Subtle Signs Your Partner’s Addiction Is Controlling Your Life
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Jul 16, 2025 |
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46 - Is this addiction or am I overreacting?
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Jul 10, 2025 |
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45 - How to Support Your Kids When Their Other Parent Is Struggling With Addiction
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Jul 03, 2025 |
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44 - Why Holidays Feel Harder When You’re Living With Addiction
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Jul 01, 2025 |
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43 - Why Advice About Addiction Rarely Helps (and What to Do Instead)
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Jun 26, 2025 |
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42 - How many chances is too many?
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Jun 24, 2025 |
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41 - The One Question Not to Ask Someone Struggling With Addiction
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Jun 19, 2025 |
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40 - Why Capable, Smart Women Still Feel Stuck in a Loved One’s Addiction
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Jun 16, 2025 |
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39 - What Actually Helps a Loved One Get (and Stay) Sober
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Jun 12, 2025 |
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38 - What It Really Takes to Change (with Jack from Real Drug Talk)
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Jun 10, 2025 |
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37 - Why You Can’t Say the Right Thing? (Especially When It Matters Most)
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Jun 03, 2025 |
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36 - From Chaos to Courage: Carol’s Story of Choosing Peace
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May 29, 2025 |
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35 - When You’re Scared to Set the Boundary… Start Here
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May 27, 2025 |
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34 - “Thoughts and Prayers” Won’t fix this
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May 08, 2025 |
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33 - You’re not their rehab
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Mar 13, 2025 |
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32 - What cyclones teach us about a loved ones addiction
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Mar 06, 2025 |
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31- Why we need to rethink the word ‘Addict'
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Mar 04, 2025 |
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30 - Why boundaries matter way more than we think
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Feb 28, 2025 |
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29 - Loving someone in addiction is like living two lives
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Feb 25, 2025 |
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28 - Your unexpected resentment in Their recovery
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Feb 20, 2025 |
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27 - Should You Leave or Stay? Why That’s Not the Only Question
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Feb 18, 2025 |
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26 - Why waiting for them to get sober is going to be too late
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Feb 13, 2025 |
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25 - Compassion over Clickbait: How we talk about addiction matters
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Feb 07, 2025 |
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24 - Why you need to shift the focus for better outcomes
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Nov 05, 2024 |
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23 - How to get through a relapse without losing hope
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Oct 29, 2024 |
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22 - Are you on Addiction Autopilot?
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Oct 23, 2024 |
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21 - Is your loved ones addiction or problematic behaviour a problem?
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Oct 14, 2024 |
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20 - You’ll achieve more in 1 year focusing on your own wellbeing...
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Sep 23, 2024 |
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19 - Debunking the myth of enabling in addiction
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Jul 24, 2024 |
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18: Rehab from the other side - Part 3
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Jun 21, 2024 |
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17: Rehab from the other side Part 2
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Apr 15, 2024 |
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16: Rehab from the other side - Part 1
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Mar 28, 2024 |
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15: What got you here won't get you there
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Mar 18, 2024 |
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14: The Power of the Pause
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Feb 06, 2024 |
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13: Why language matters
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Jan 29, 2024 |
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12: Words from "The Long Neck Kid" and The Poem [2020]
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Jan 18, 2024 |
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11: Why this year will be the same as last year
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Jan 16, 2024 |
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10: I stumbled and had a lapse of my own
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Jan 09, 2024 |
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9: The invisible battle with special guest Andy Quin - Part 2
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Dec 19, 2023 |
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8 - The invisible battle with special guest Andy Quin - Part 1
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Nov 28, 2023 |
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7 - Happy-ish Holidays
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Nov 21, 2023 |
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6 - Painful thought #1 - Why are they choosing a substance over me?
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Nov 14, 2023 |
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5 - What About Us
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Nov 07, 2023 |
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4 - An honest talk with Gary Fahey
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Oct 31, 2023 |
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3: Where is my lasagne?
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Oct 24, 2023 |
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2 - The Blurry Beginning: How to Spot the Early Signs of Addiction without blaming yourself
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Oct 17, 2023 |
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1 - Introducing Me and Addiction Makes Three
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Oct 07, 2023 |
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Trailer - Addiction Makes Three
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Sep 28, 2023 |