Addiction Makes Three

By Amanda Lockyer

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Addiction Makes Three The Podcast, with Amanda Lockyer is dedicated to shining a light and understanding the lesser talked about side of addiction. The real impact it has on the partners and families of those that struggle with addiction.


Are you struggling with a partners addiction and feel at a complete loss as to what to do?

You feel like you have no one to turn to and are worried you'll be judged or your partner will be judged. It can feel like no one understands what you are going through and no one could really imagine what this is really like.


We will cover what it is truly like to be on the other side of a loved one struggling with addiction or navigating recovery. We will also dive deep on tools, ideas and strategies that will really help you whether you are at the confusing beginning the messy middle or through the other side, including practical tips and ways that you can actually get back to living again, regardless of the path your partner chooses.


I will share my own lived experiences and expertise as an Addiction Relationship Coach and Wife of someone someone that struggled with addiction and we will have experts and guests that can share their expertise and experience in this space too so that you truly know you are not alone and know that there are things you can do to help you, your family and your partner - whether you choose to stay in the relationship, leave or leave for now.


For more information and support and to find out how you can work with me for 1:1 and group coaching, check out the website or find me on Instagram.


New episodes weekly.

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Episode Date
93 - How Survival Mode Slowly Becomes Your Personality
May 21, 2026
92 - Am I Overreacting? The Hidden Damage Addiction Causes
May 19, 2026
91 - The Hills I’ll Die On After Loving Someone With Addiction
May 14, 2026
90 - I Miss Who I Used To Be: How Survival Mode Slowly Changes You
May 13, 2026
89 - Mother’s Day, Addiction, and the Grief No One Talks About
May 07, 2026
88 - Why Learning More About Addiction Might Be Keeping You Stuck
May 05, 2026
87 - Why It’s Not Getting Better (Even Though You’re Doing Everything Right)
May 01, 2026
86 - I Can’t Keep Doing This: What Happens When You Reach Your Limit
Apr 29, 2026
85 - The Part No One Talks About Series: Sobriety Doesn’t Fix the Relationship
Apr 26, 2026
84 - The Part No One Talks About Series: When Sobriety Isn’t What You Expected
Apr 23, 2026
83 - The Part No One Talks About Series: You Look Fine… But You’re Not
Apr 21, 2026
82 - The Part No One Talks About Series: How it impacts your ability to parent
Apr 16, 2026
81 - A Personal Update: Grief, Losing My Voice, and Why I’m Here
Apr 02, 2026
80 - The Part No One Talks About Series: This Isn’t Just Stress. It’s the Impact of Addiction.
Feb 20, 2026
79 - "I Can’t Do Another Year Like This” When You’re Exhausted Living with Addiction
Feb 18, 2026
78 - Acknowledging the Year You’ve Survived
Jan 14, 2026
77 - Holiday Series: Why Your Christmas Doesn’t Depend on Their Sobriety
Dec 11, 2025
76 - Holiday Series: What I Wish Someone Told Me Before Every Christmas
Dec 09, 2025
75 - Holiday Series: Three Things You Can Control This Season
Dec 08, 2025
74 - Holiday Series: The Hidden Exhaustion of Loving Someone in Addiction
Dec 07, 2025
73 - Holiday Series: The Dread of Dr. Jekyll or Mr. Hyde
Dec 06, 2025
72 - Holiday Series: When Everyone Thinks You’re Fine - But You’re Not
Dec 05, 2025
71 - The Moment I Completely Lost It
Nov 20, 2025
70 - When You Don't Like Who You've Become In Their Addiction
Nov 18, 2025
69 - If Nothing Changes, Nothing Changes: How to Start Turning Your Life Around Now
Nov 15, 2025
68 - Why Waiting for Rock Bottom Is Dangerous
Nov 11, 2025
67 - How to Rebuild Trust Without Turning Into a Detective
Nov 08, 2025
66 - They Say They’re Sober… But You’re Still Not Sure
Nov 07, 2025
65 - What No One Warns You About When They Go To Rehab
Oct 30, 2025
64 - When You’re Worn Out: Giving Yourself Permission to Stop
Oct 28, 2025
63 - How Perimenopause Makes Addiction-Impacted Relationships Even Harder
Oct 23, 2025
62 - Rethinking Recovery and the Myths That Keep Us Stuck with Conrad Tracy
Oct 21, 2025
61 - When You Don’t Know Whether to Stay or Leave
Oct 16, 2025
60 - Grieving Someone in Addiction Who is Still Alive
Oct 15, 2025
59 - The Crazy Things I Did In My Husband's Addiction
Oct 09, 2025
58 - The High-Functioning Addiction Myth: When ‘Fine’ Isn’t Actually Fine
Oct 07, 2025
57 - Why Your Boundaries Aren’t Working (and What to Do About It)
Oct 02, 2025
56 - How to Spot the Early Signs of Addiction (Before It’s Too Late)
Oct 01, 2025
55 - 7 Late-Night Google Searches That Reveal Addiction Red Flags
Sep 18, 2025
54 - What Real Support Looks Like (Without the Shame of ‘Enabling’)
Sep 11, 2025
53 - Are You Gaslighting Yourself? The Quiet Habit Keeping You Stuck
Sep 03, 2025
52 - What If Waiting Is the Most Dangerous Choice?
Aug 21, 2025
51 - The Hidden Cost of Staying Quiet About Addiction (Your Silence Is Not Strength)
Aug 14, 2025
50 - Why You Can’t Find Peace Without Discomfort
Aug 08, 2025
49 - Are You Still Getting It All Done But Falling Apart Inside?
Jul 31, 2025
48 - Why Sobriety Isn’t the Finish Line: The Truth About Addiction & Relationships
Jul 24, 2025
47 - 11 Subtle Signs Your Partner’s Addiction Is Controlling Your Life
Jul 16, 2025
46 - Is this addiction or am I overreacting?
Jul 10, 2025
45 - How to Support Your Kids When Their Other Parent Is Struggling With Addiction
Jul 03, 2025
44 - Why Holidays Feel Harder When You’re Living With Addiction
Jul 01, 2025
43 - Why Advice About Addiction Rarely Helps (and What to Do Instead)
Jun 26, 2025
42 - How many chances is too many?
Jun 24, 2025
41 - The One Question Not to Ask Someone Struggling With Addiction
Jun 19, 2025
40 - Why Capable, Smart Women Still Feel Stuck in a Loved One’s Addiction
Jun 16, 2025
39 - What Actually Helps a Loved One Get (and Stay) Sober
Jun 12, 2025
38 - What It Really Takes to Change (with Jack from Real Drug Talk)
Jun 10, 2025
37 - Why You Can’t Say the Right Thing? (Especially When It Matters Most)
Jun 03, 2025
36 - From Chaos to Courage: Carol’s Story of Choosing Peace
May 29, 2025
35 - When You’re Scared to Set the Boundary… Start Here
May 27, 2025
34 - “Thoughts and Prayers” Won’t fix this
May 08, 2025
33 - You’re not their rehab
Mar 13, 2025
32 - What cyclones teach us about a loved ones addiction
Mar 06, 2025
31- Why we need to rethink the word ‘Addict'
Mar 04, 2025
30 - Why boundaries matter way more than we think
Feb 28, 2025
29 - Loving someone in addiction is like living two lives
Feb 25, 2025
28 - Your unexpected resentment in Their recovery
Feb 20, 2025
27 - Should You Leave or Stay? Why That’s Not the Only Question
Feb 18, 2025
26 - Why waiting for them to get sober is going to be too late
Feb 13, 2025
25 - Compassion over Clickbait: How we talk about addiction matters
Feb 07, 2025
24 - Why you need to shift the focus for better outcomes
Nov 05, 2024
23 - How to get through a relapse without losing hope
Oct 29, 2024
22 - Are you on Addiction Autopilot?
Oct 23, 2024
21 - Is your loved ones addiction or problematic behaviour a problem?
Oct 14, 2024
20 - You’ll achieve more in 1 year focusing on your own wellbeing...
Sep 23, 2024
19 - Debunking the myth of enabling in addiction
Jul 24, 2024
18: Rehab from the other side - Part 3
Jun 21, 2024
17: Rehab from the other side Part 2
Apr 15, 2024
16: Rehab from the other side - Part 1
Mar 28, 2024
15: What got you here won't get you there
Mar 18, 2024
14: The Power of the Pause
Feb 06, 2024
13: Why language matters
Jan 29, 2024
12: Words from "The Long Neck Kid" and The Poem [2020]
Jan 18, 2024
11: Why this year will be the same as last year
Jan 16, 2024
10: I stumbled and had a lapse of my own
Jan 09, 2024
9: The invisible battle with special guest Andy Quin - Part 2
Dec 19, 2023
8 - The invisible battle with special guest Andy Quin - Part 1
Nov 28, 2023
7 - Happy-ish Holidays
Nov 21, 2023
6 - Painful thought #1 - Why are they choosing a substance over me?
Nov 14, 2023
5 - What About Us
Nov 07, 2023
4 - An honest talk with Gary Fahey
Oct 31, 2023
3: Where is my lasagne?
Oct 24, 2023
2 - The Blurry Beginning: How to Spot the Early Signs of Addiction without blaming yourself
Oct 17, 2023
1 - Introducing Me and Addiction Makes Three
Oct 07, 2023
Trailer - Addiction Makes Three
Sep 28, 2023