Breakup to Blessing

By Sylvia Suwan

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Episodes: 180

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Breakup to Blessing is a podcast about navigating breakups, emotional healing, and rebuilding yourself after a relationship ends—without losing who you are in the process. If you find yourself overthinking your ex, struggling to let go, or caught in cycles of anxiety and attachment, this podcast will help you understand what's really happening beneath the surface. Grounded in principles of Attachment Theory and Emotional Regulation, each episode explores the emotional and psychological patterns that keep you stuck after a breakup—like anxious attachment, rumination, and identity loss. This isn't about quick fixes, playing games, or trying to control the outcome. It's about: • understanding why it's so hard to move on • learning how to regulate your emotions • breaking unhealthy patterns • and becoming more secure within yourself Whether you're asking "Do they miss me?", "Why can't I move on?", or "How do I let go when I still love them?"—you'll find honest, grounded guidance here.

Episode Date
Should You Get Therapy After a Breakup? Ep. 179
May 10, 2026
The Truth About Closure: Why You're Still Not Over Your Breakup Ep. 178
May 04, 2026
When Your Attachment System Shows Up in Your Relationship Ep. 177
Apr 27, 2026
Why Do I Keep Self-Sabotaging in Relationships? Ep. 176
Apr 19, 2026
Why You Can't Move On Even When You Know Why the Relationship Ended Ep. 175
Apr 12, 2026
Why Breakups Feel So Overwhelming: Understanding Grief, Emotional Pain & How to Move Through It Ep. 174
Apr 05, 2026
Do They Even Miss Me? | Breakup Anxiety, Overthinking & How to Move On Ep. 173
Mar 29, 2026
If the Breakup Came From Out of Nowhere and How to Get Closure Ep. 172
Mar 22, 2026
Why You Feel Anxious Even in a Healthy Relationship Ep. 171
Mar 16, 2026
Turn Your Breakup Into a Blessing — The 5 Phase Method Ep. 170
Mar 08, 2026
If No-one Measures up to Your Ex Ep. 169
Mar 02, 2026
Breaking Unhealthy Patterns Ep. 168
Feb 23, 2026
Turning Your Breakup Into a Breakthrough Ep. 167
Feb 16, 2026
Still Not Over Your Ex? Watch This Before Valentine's Day Ep. 166
Feb 12, 2026
Why Letting Go Feels Impossible — How Attachment Keeps You Stuck After a Breakup Ep. 165
Feb 08, 2026
Will My Ex Come Back? The Truth About Getting Back Together Ep. 164
Feb 01, 2026
Rebuilding Self-Worth After a Breakup (When It's Always Come From Others) Ep. 163
Jan 25, 2026
Starting Over Doesn't Mean You've Failed Ep. 162
Jan 18, 2026
"Finding Yourself" again after Heartbreak Ep. 161
Jan 11, 2026
How to Set Goals After a Breakup: 9 Steps to Transform Your Life in 2026 Ep. 160
Jan 04, 2026
My Biggest Lessons from 2025 Ep. 159
Dec 28, 2025
Announcement: Free Masterclass - How to Move On and Make 2026 Your Breakthrough Year
Dec 22, 2025
Breakup Recovery During Holidays: Coping Strategies That Actually Work Ep. 157
Dec 21, 2025
No Contact Challenge Day 8 (FINALE): Moving Forward With Intention & Starting Your Next Chapter Ep. 156
Dec 14, 2025
No Contact Challenge Day 7: Are You Healed or Just Feeling Better? The 5 Signs You're Ready Ep. 155
Dec 10, 2025
No Contact Challenge Day 6: How to Rebuild Your Life After a Breakup Ep. 154
Dec 07, 2025
No Contact Challenge Day 5: The Relationship Identity Crisis - Rediscovering Who You Really Are Ep. 153
Dec 03, 2025
No Contact Challenge Day 4: The Pros and Cons of Breaking No-Contact Ep. 153
Nov 30, 2025
Black Friday Sale: Transform Your Life in 10 Weeks
Nov 26, 2025
No Contact Challenge Day 3: Your Emergency Plan Ep. 151
Nov 23, 2025
No Contact Challenge Day 2: Reality vs. Fantasy & Why Grief Isn't Linear
Nov 19, 2025
No Contact Challenge Day 1: Why No Contact Works & What Your Brain Is Doing Right Now Ep. 149
Nov 16, 2025
The 28 Day No-Contact Challenge Ep. 148
Nov 09, 2025
Letting Go of Control: How to Stop Forcing Love and Start Trusting Ep. 147
Nov 03, 2025
How to be Yourself and Still Be Loved Ep. 146
Oct 26, 2025
How to Stop Feeling Anxious and Overthinking in Dating and Relationships Ep. 145
Oct 19, 2025
The Five Buckets of Love: Building the Foundation for a Healthy Relationship Ep. 144
Oct 12, 2025
Breakup Healing Mistakes: Why Gym, Journaling, and Retreats Aren't Enough Ep. 143
Oct 05, 2025
Why We Choose Emotionally Unavailable Partners Ep. 142
Sep 28, 2025
Why You Can't Get Over Your Ex: The Delusion Keeping You Stuck After a Breakup Ep. 140
Sep 21, 2025
Stop Chasing Outcomes: How to Actually Get Your Ex Back or Find Love Ep. 139
Sep 14, 2025
Encore: Why loneliness has nothing to do with being single (Being single vs being lonely) Ep. 138
Sep 07, 2025
You Are Not Defined by Your Ex: Healing Self-Worth After a Breakup Ep. 137
Aug 31, 2025
How the Decisions You Make After Heartbreak Define Your Future Ep. 136
Aug 25, 2025
5 Things For You to Do Immediately After a Breakup Ep. 135
Aug 17, 2025
How To Find The Parts of You That Need Healing Ep. 134
Aug 10, 2025
How to Fix Relationship Problems: Foundation First Approach Ep. 133
Aug 04, 2025
Why You're Still Stuck After Your Breakup (And How to Finally Move Forward) Ep. 132
Jul 27, 2025
Breakup Anxiety and Loneliness: What It Means and How to Cope Ep. 131
Jul 21, 2025
Why You Feel Like You're Not Enough Ep. 130
Jul 14, 2025
Will They Come Back? Ep. 129
Jul 06, 2025
Secure Attachment Ep. 128
Jun 29, 2025
Anxious Attachment Ep. 127
Jun 22, 2025
Avoidant Attachment Ep. 126
Jun 15, 2025
How Your Past Can Hold You Back From Being in a Healthy Relationship Ep. 125
Jun 08, 2025
If You Want More Peace, Start Here Ep. 124
Jun 01, 2025
When Life Doesn't Go to Plan Ep. 123
May 25, 2025
The #1 Reason You're Still Heartbroken (And How to Finally Heal) Ep. 122
May 18, 2025
Why We Choose the Wrong Partners (and How to Choose Better) Ep. 121
May 11, 2025
Replay: How to Let Go When You Don't Want to Let Go
May 02, 2025
When Your Mind Won't Let Go After a Breakup Ep. 119
Apr 25, 2025
What Parts of Me Are Asking To Be Healed? Ep. 118
Apr 18, 2025
When They Say They Don't Love You Anymore Ep. 117
Apr 06, 2025
Preparing For Your Next Relationship While You're Single Ep. 116
Mar 30, 2025
Second Chances: Do They Really Work? Ep. 115
Mar 23, 2025
Finding Yourself Again After Heartbreak Ep. 114
Mar 16, 2025
Are You Dating For Connection or Just The End Goal? Ep. 113
Mar 10, 2025
The Life You Want Is One Decision Away Ep. 112
Mar 02, 2025
Why Saying Goodbye Is Harder Than You Think Ep. 111
Feb 23, 2025
Bonus Valentine's Day Episode – Finding Strength & Joy No Matter Your Relationship Status Ep. 110
Feb 13, 2025
The #1 Reason Your Fights Keep Escalating (And How to Fix It) Ep. 109
Feb 09, 2025
How To Heal Faster - Bringing It Back To Basics Ep. 108
Feb 02, 2025
If You Feel Like You're Behind In Your Love Life Ep. 107
Jan 26, 2025
Letting Go Without Closure: Ambiguous Loss Explained Ep. 106
Jan 19, 2025
The 5 Powerful Mindset Shifts To Get Through Painful and Challenging Times Ep. 105
Jan 12, 2025
How To Attract The Relationship You Desire Ep. 104
Jan 05, 2025
Clarify Your Vision for 2025: 5 Steps to Achieving Your Best Year Ep. 103
Dec 29, 2024
Healing During The Holiday Season Ep. 102
Dec 22, 2024
Showing Up For Yourself Even On The Hardest Days Ep. 101
Dec 15, 2024
100 Episodes: My Top Relationship Lessons That Changed My Life
Dec 08, 2024
When Letting Go Feels Like Giving Up Ep. 99
Dec 01, 2024
Stop Believing Stories That Hold You Back Ep. 98
Nov 24, 2024
Leave The Past Behind And Reinvent Yourself Before The New Year Begins Ep. 97
Nov 17, 2024
Addressing the REAL PROBLEMS in Your Relationship Ep. 96
Nov 10, 2024
Why People Cheat and How to Move Forward Ep. 95
Nov 03, 2024
Breaking Unhealthy Relationship Patterns Ep. 94
Oct 27, 2024
Learning To Be Okay With Not Being Okay Ep. 93
Oct 20, 2024
How To Rebuild Your Life After Heartbreak Ep. 92
Oct 13, 2024
How to Shift Your Mindset and Take Control of Your Life Ep. 91
Oct 06, 2024
Heartbreak Hijack, Stress and How to Reduce Anxiety Ep. 90
Sep 29, 2024
Inserting Hope and Possibility Into Your Life Ep. 89
Sep 22, 2024
Moving On, One Small Step at a Time Ep. 88
Sep 16, 2024
When You're the One Who Messed Up: Rebuilding Trust After a Mistake Ep. 87
Sep 08, 2024
Why They Left - Inside The Mind of the One Who Ended It Ep. 86
Sep 01, 2024
How YOU Can Move On In 12 Weeks Ep. 85
Aug 25, 2024
When The Breakup Doesn't Make Any Sense Ep. 84
Aug 18, 2024
How To Let Go When You Don't Want To Let Go Ep. 83
Aug 12, 2024
If You're Anxious When Dating and in Your Relationships Ep. 82
Aug 05, 2024
8 Signs You Have Moved On From Your Ex Ep. 81
Jul 29, 2024
Setting Healing Intentions Ep. 80
Jul 28, 2024
Healing Vs Moving On Ep. 79
Jul 21, 2024
Pep Talk: "I Should Have" Thinking Ep. 78
Jul 18, 2024
If You've Ever Said "I Wasn't Good Enough" Ep. 77
Jul 14, 2024
Pep Talk: Overcoming Loneliness After Heartbreak Ep. 76
Jul 12, 2024
Handling Stress and Heightened Emotions Ep. 75
Jul 07, 2024
Pep Talk: If You Never Want To Get Hurt Again Ep. 74
Jul 06, 2024
Dealing With Anger Towards Your Ex Ep. 73
Jun 30, 2024
Pep Talk: Handling Social Media Triggers Ep. 72
Jun 27, 2024
Catastrophising: Why We Do It And How To Stop Ep. 71
Jun 23, 2024
Pep Talk: Overcoming Self-Doubt and Self-Worth Ep. 70
Jun 20, 2024
Do You Need Therapy After A Breakup? Ep. 69
Jun 16, 2024
Pep Talk: Your Feelings Are Valid Ep. 68
Jun 13, 2024
How Long Is TOO Long To Move On? Ep. 67
Jun 09, 2024
Pep Talk: If You Want To Break No-Contact Ep. 66
Jun 06, 2024
Being Single Vs Being Lonely Ep. 65
Jun 02, 2024
Building a New Routine: Creating Structure and Stability after a Breakup Ep. 64
May 30, 2024
Dating As A Single Mother Ep. 63
May 26, 2024
Part #5 Moving Forward With Courage Ep. 62
May 23, 2024
Divorce and Co-Parenting Ep. 61
May 19, 2024
Part #4 Self-Reflection and Insight Ep. 60
May 16, 2024
Can You Be Friends With Your Ex? Ep. 59
May 12, 2024
Part #3 Embracing Growth Ep. 58
May 09, 2024
Letting Go Of Expectations To Find Fulfilment In Your Relationships Ep. 57
May 05, 2024
Part #2: Finding Strength In Adversity Ep. 56
May 02, 2024
Overcoming Fear Of Rejection Ep. 55
Apr 28, 2024
Part #1: Building Resilience In Heartbreak Ep. 54
Apr 25, 2024
The 6 Stages Of Grief and Heartbreak Ep. 53
Apr 21, 2024
Self-Compassion vs Self-Pity Ep. 52
Apr 18, 2024
The 5 Stages Of Change Ep. 51
Apr 14, 2024
How Long Does It Take To Heal? Ep. 50
Apr 11, 2024
Coping When Your Ex Moves On Ep. 49
Apr 07, 2024
5 Important Affirmations For Heartbreak Ep. 48
Apr 04, 2024
How To Deal With Being Ghosted Ep. 47
Apr 01, 2024
Dealing With Challenging Times In Your Life Ep. 46
Mar 28, 2024
How To Get Closure From A Breakup Ep. 45
Mar 25, 2024
Will My Ex Come Back? Ep. 44
Mar 22, 2024
7 Most Common Reasons Relationships Fail Ep. 43
Mar 17, 2024
Pep Talk For The Weekend
Mar 14, 2024
The ONLY 2 Things You Need To Work On To Heal Your Heartbreak Ep. 41
Mar 10, 2024
How To Let Go And Move On Ep. 40
Mar 07, 2024
When Is Too Soon To Start Dating After A Breakup? 5 Questions To Ask Yourself Before You Start Dating Again Ep 39
Mar 03, 2024
How To Become More Securely Attached Part 2 Ep. 38
Feb 29, 2024
What Attachment Style Are You? Pt 1 Ep. 37
Feb 25, 2024
The Truth About Vulnerability You Don't Want To Know Ep. 36
Feb 22, 2024
If You Feel Like You've Lost Yourself After A Breakup Ep. 35
Feb 18, 2024
5 Things You Can't Avoid After Heartbreak Ep. 34
Feb 15, 2024
Bonus Episode: Valentines Day Special for Singles Ep. 33
Feb 13, 2024
The No-Contact Rule: Why You're Doing It Wrong And The Right Way To Do It Ep. 32
Feb 11, 2024
The #1 Key To Enjoying Your Weekends Again Ep. 31
Feb 09, 2024
How Trauma Shows Up in Your Relationships: Interview with Joelle Maletis Ep. 30
Feb 05, 2024
Is Forgiveness Really Necessary? Ep. 29
Feb 01, 2024
Important Reminders When Everyday Is A Struggle Ep. 28
Jan 28, 2024
Heartfelt Gratitude: A Prescription for Healing Ep. 27
Jan 26, 2024
6 Signs You Are Not Ready For A Relationship Ep. 26
Jan 21, 2024
Healing After Heartbreak: Prioritising Habits, Health, and Guidance in 2024 Ep. 25
Jan 18, 2024
When You've Tried Everything But Still Can't Move On Ep. 24
Jan 14, 2024
The Simple But Powerful Technique to Heal From Heartbreak Faster Ep. 23
Jan 11, 2024
5 Common Myths Holding You Back From Moving On Ep. 22
Jan 07, 2024
How To Be Single On Purpose - Bitesize Friday Ep. 21
Jan 04, 2024
New Year, New You: Break Out Of Unhealthy Relationships AND Make 2024 Your Best Year Yet Ep. 20
Dec 31, 2023
2024 Kickstart: Breakups, Breakthroughs, and Building Future You Ep. 19
Dec 28, 2023
A Christmas Day Special on Growth and Creating New Traditions Ep. 18
Dec 24, 2023
Letting Go of Expectations: A Journey to Liberation Ep. 17
Dec 21, 2023
The 7 Biggest Breakup Mistakes And Why You Should Avoid Making Them Ep. 16
Dec 17, 2023
4 Powerful Mindset Changes for Healing This Holiday Season Ep. 15
Dec 15, 2023
What Is Healing And How To Measure Your Own Healing Progress Ep. 14
Dec 10, 2023
Living Your Best Single Life: Making The Most Of The Present Ep. 13
Dec 07, 2023
Reflections And How To Make Next Year Better Ep. 12
Dec 03, 2023
Turn Your Pain into Progress: An End of Year Challenge Ep. 11
Nov 30, 2023
Why You Can't Move On From Your Ex Ep. 10
Nov 26, 2023
Weekend Empowerment: Rewrite Your Story Ep. 9
Nov 23, 2023
Rebuilding Self-Worth After Heartbreak Ep. 8
Nov 19, 2023
Weekend Wisdom for Healing Ep. 7
Nov 16, 2023
Finding Your Purpose During Heartbreak and Why Its Important Ep. 6
Nov 14, 2023
Why Distractions Don't Work And What To Do Instead Ep. 5
Oct 31, 2023
Love Addiction: Understanding the Neuroscience of Heartbreak Ep. 4
Oct 28, 2023
Stalking Your Ex On Social Media And How To Resist The Temptation Ep. 3
Oct 26, 2023
The 7 Most Common Breakup Questions Ep. 2
Oct 25, 2023
Turning Breakups into Breakthroughs: A Journey of Healing and Transformation Ep. 1
Oct 24, 2023
Welcome to Breakup to Blessing
Oct 08, 2023