The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast

By Dom Sub Living | BDSM & Kink Relationships

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Welcome to the Dom Sub Living Podcast, your go-to kinky resource, so you can get out of the vanilla rut, become the best Dominant or submissive you can be, and make BDSM a lifestyle.  Explore the many facets of the Dom/sub lifestyle and gain practical insights and tips to enhance your journey.

Your host, Alesandra Madison, is a renowned BDSM educator, empowering individuals and couples to embrace their sensual selves. As the creator of Domsubliving.com, Alesandra promotes sex education, healthy power dynamics, and open communication. With a commitment to inclusivity, she helps kinksters create authentic and fulfilling intimate experiences.

Whether you're seeking guidance, desiring to deepen your understanding of the lifestyle, or simply looking for entertainment and connection, the Dom Sub Living Podcast is your trusted companion. You’ll learn about BDSM, kink, power exchange, Daddy Dom/little girl relationships (DDlg), D/s, sexual wellness, bondage, and more.  Each episode features engaging discussions, expert interviews, and heartfelt stories, ensuring a diverse and enriching listening experience you're not going to want to miss. Hit subscribe, and get ready to transform your life and relationship.


Episode Date
How to Be More Dominant Without Being a Jerk
Jun 15, 2026
The Secret Queer History of Kink Nobody Talks About
Jun 08, 2026
5 Easy Dom/sub Protocols You Can Start Using Today
Jun 01, 2026
What Should a Submissive Actually Be Doing in 24/7 D/s?
May 25, 2026
5 Stages of Subspace (And How to Get There Faster)
May 18, 2026
How to Make Your Kink Life Kinkier
May 11, 2026
5 BDSM Mistakes That Keep You Stuck as a Dom or Sub
May 04, 2026
What Is a Pleasure Dom? (And Why Subs Crave Them)
Apr 27, 2026
8 Ways to Get Better at BDSM
Apr 20, 2026
2 Things Every BDSM Scene Needs (Most People Miss One)
Apr 13, 2026
Ask the Audience: Submissive Pet Peeves (Sorry, Doms)
Apr 06, 2026
Why Stressed Doms Pull Back (and What to Do About It)
Mar 30, 2026
5 Power Exchange Mistakes That Are Killing Your D/s Dynamic
Mar 23, 2026
Is It Kink or Is It Abuse? How to Know the Difference
Mar 19, 2026
How to Create D/s Protocols That Work in Real Life
Mar 16, 2026
10 Dom/sub Questions to Deepen Your Dynamic Tonight
Mar 09, 2026
Why Your D/s Relationship Keeps Failing (Fix This)
Mar 02, 2026
5 Edgeplay Ideas Only Experienced Kinksters Try
Feb 23, 2026
6 Training Ideas to Take Your D/s Beyond the Bedroom
Feb 16, 2026
4 Ways to Find a Dom/Sub Partner (That Actually Work)
Feb 09, 2026
What Kind of Dom Are You Really? How to Find Your True Style
Feb 02, 2026
What Real Dom/Sub Relationships Actually Look Like
Jan 26, 2026
My Dungeon Night Debrief: New Year’s Eve at a BDSM Club
Jan 19, 2026
How to Get Started With BDSM in 2026
Jan 12, 2026
From Bedroom Kink to Living 24/7 D/s
Jan 05, 2026
2025 Broke Me… But It Also Built Me
Dec 29, 2025
Kinky vs. Vanilla: Can Your Relationship Survive the Difference?
Dec 22, 2025
Dirty Talk, Punishment, Trust Issues—Let’s Talk D/s
Dec 15, 2025
Slave Training 101: The One Thing Most Doms Skip
Dec 08, 2025
Can a Submissive Still Be Feminist?
Dec 01, 2025
Bruises, Branding, and the Big Questions Around Marks in BDSM
Nov 24, 2025
10 Hidden Power Plays Only Experienced Doms Use
Nov 17, 2025
The Biggest Lies You’ve Been Told About BDSM & Kink
Nov 10, 2025
What No One Admits About BDSM—But We Just Did
Nov 03, 2025
My 3 Must-Haves for Every BDSM Scene (True Story)
Oct 27, 2025
Spirituality and BDSM: What No One Talks About
Oct 20, 2025
How Doms Build Confidence Before and During a Scene
Oct 13, 2025
Chastity and Locktober: Everything You Need to Know
Oct 06, 2025
Why I Have a Hard Limit on Electroplay — True Story
Sep 29, 2025
Your First Dungeon Night or Munch? What to Expect
Sep 22, 2025
The Real Cost of Waiting to Start Your BDSM Journey
Sep 15, 2025
Inside Our BDSM Contract – What We Really Agreed To
Sep 08, 2025
The Future of Dom Sub Living and What’s Next for You
Sep 01, 2025
100 Episodes of Kink: What I Learned the Hard Way
Aug 25, 2025
DDLG 101: The Truth About Being a Babygirl
Aug 18, 2025
5 Dom/sub Punishment Ideas I Love (and Hate)
Aug 11, 2025
Dom/Sub Secrets No One Talks About (But We Will)
Aug 04, 2025
Every fake dom does this.
Jul 28, 2025
7 Hidden Habits That Keep D/s Relationships Strong
Jul 21, 2025
Most BDSM Teachers Get This Completely Wrong
Jul 14, 2025
Not Sure You’re a “Real” Dom or Sub? Listen to This
Jul 07, 2025
How to Explore BDSM WITHOUT a Partner
Jun 30, 2025
Is Fifty Shades of Grey Really that Bad?
Jun 23, 2025
How to Train Your Sub
Jun 16, 2025
A Look Inside Our Total Power Exchange Relationship
Jun 09, 2025
What People Get Wrong About Total Power Exchange
Jun 02, 2025
10 Taboo Kinks: Which Are Normal vs. Truly Dangerous?
May 26, 2025
Raw, Real, and Kinky: Life Behind the Power Exchange
May 22, 2025
BDSM for ADHD and Autism: Build a Dynamic That Fits
May 19, 2025
Soft Doms Are In—What Gentle Domination Looks Like
May 12, 2025
Why BDSM Works Better Than Therapy (For Some People)
May 05, 2025
5 BDSM Scene Ideas You’ll Want To Try Tonight
Apr 28, 2025
BDSM & Polyamory: Master Multiple Power Dynamics Without Drama
Apr 21, 2025
AI in BDSM: Can a Robot Really Be Your Sub?
Apr 14, 2025
Dominants vs. Submissives: Who Really Has It Harder?
Apr 07, 2025
How to Be a More Confident Dominant
Mar 31, 2025
50 Game-Changing BDSM Tips in 15 Minutes
Mar 24, 2025
Bondage for Beginners & Beyond: Ideas, Tips & Mistakes
Mar 17, 2025
10 Most Popular Kinks (Are Yours on the List?)
Mar 10, 2025
5 Sensation Play Tips for an Unforgettable Experience
Mar 03, 2025
3 BDSM Mistakes I Made (That Almost Ruined My Journey!)
Feb 24, 2025
Kink Beyond the Bedroom: What No One Tells You
Feb 20, 2025
Why BDSM Turns You On: The Psychology of Kink
Feb 17, 2025
Our 24/7 Total Power Exchange Relationship: How We Built It
Feb 10, 2025
Wearing a Collar 24/7 in My D/s Marriage: What It’s Really Like
Feb 03, 2025
Why Your D/s Dynamic Lost Its Spark (And How to Fix It)
Jan 27, 2025
BDSM in Real Life: A Dom/sub Married Couple Shares Their Journey
Jan 20, 2025
What Most People Get Wrong About BDSM Negotiation
Jan 13, 2025
5 BDSM Experts Reveal the #1 Thing They Wish They Knew Before Starting
Jan 06, 2025
BDSM Goals: The Kinkiest Bucket List You’ll Ever See
Dec 30, 2024
How to Handle Dom/sub Conflict Without Breaking the Dynamic
Dec 23, 2024
Q&A With a 24/7 Submissive - Ask Me Anything!
Dec 16, 2024
Impact Play 101: 5 Beginner-Friendly Ideas to Try Now
Dec 09, 2024
Exploring Your Kinky Identity: BDSM Roles Beyond Dom and Sub
Dec 02, 2024
Service-Oriented BDSM: Elevate Your Dom/sub Dynamic
Nov 25, 2024
10 Dom/sub Ideas for Public Spaces – No One Will Notice!
Nov 18, 2024
Dom Drop 101: Support Strategies Every Sub Should Know
Nov 11, 2024
Punishment or Play? How to Know the Difference in BDSM
Nov 04, 2024
Frightening Fantasies: Exploring Darker Desires in BDSM
Oct 28, 2024
How Politics Are Affecting Your BDSM Lifestyle
Oct 21, 2024
Submissive Training Secrets: Mastering Your Role in the BDSM Lifestyle
Oct 14, 2024
How to Build BDSM Protocols to Deepen Your D/s Relationship
Oct 07, 2024
Is BDSM Compatible with Christianity? The Surprising Truth
Sep 30, 2024
BDSM Scene Structure 101: Step-by-Step from Start to Finish
Sep 23, 2024
Feeling Lost in Kink? Here’s How to Find Your Unique BDSM Path
Sep 16, 2024
Vetting a Submissive? Avoid These 5 Red Flags Before You Commit
Sep 09, 2024
Topping from the Bottom? Stop Sabotaging Your D/s Dynamic Now!
Sep 02, 2024
How to Vet a Dominant: Key Questions and Red Flags to Look For
Aug 26, 2024
Understanding Brats in BDSM: Embrace the Fun and Challenge!
Aug 19, 2024
Maintenance Spankings: 5 Things You Need to Know
Aug 12, 2024
The BDSM Olympics: Top 10 Kinky Skills Revealed
Aug 05, 2024
4 Ways to Build Trust in a Dom/sub Relationship
Jul 29, 2024
From BDSM Newbie to Expert: Navigating the Stages of Your D/s Journey
Jul 22, 2024
How to Balance a 24/7 BDSM Dynamic with Vanilla Life
Jul 15, 2024
3 Ways Perfectionism Is Ruining Your D/s Dynamic
Jul 08, 2024
5 Ways to Fully Enjoy BDSM with a Disability
Jul 01, 2024
BDSM Degradation & Humiliation Kink: Ideas & Tips
Jun 24, 2024
Kink and Kids: DOs and DON'Ts for D/s Parents
Jun 17, 2024
5 BDSM Questions You’ve Been Afraid to Ask
Jun 10, 2024
Bisexual Submissive in a BDSM Dynamic: My Story
Jun 03, 2024
Are You Using the Wrong BDSM "Rules"?
May 27, 2024
BDSM in your 40s, 50s, and Beyond!
May 20, 2024
The Truth About Age Gap Relationships in BDSM
May 13, 2024
BDSM's Role in My Mental Health Journey
May 06, 2024
Exploring the Depths of BDSM with Just Press Foreplay
Apr 29, 2024
4 Ways to Be a Better Submissive
Apr 22, 2024
The Secret to Leveling Up Your D/s Dynamic Faster
Apr 15, 2024
Where to Find Your Kink Community (No Matter Where You Live)
Apr 08, 2024
Foolproof BDSM Advice
Apr 01, 2024
What No One Tells You About Dom/Sub Relationships
Mar 25, 2024
Surprising Signs You Might Be a Switch
Mar 18, 2024
4 Ways to Be a Better Dominant
Mar 11, 2024
The Truth about BDSM Tradwives
Mar 04, 2024
Unlock Daily Consistency in Your BDSM Relationship with These Tricks
Feb 26, 2024
5 Newbie Mistakes I Didn't Expect in My BDSM Journey
Feb 19, 2024
Helping Your Partner Embrace the BDSM Lifestyle
Feb 12, 2024
Finding Kinky Love: How to Find a D/s Partner
Feb 05, 2024
Overcoming Dom/sub Mindset Struggles with Leann Herron
Jan 29, 2024
The Fastest Way to Level Up Your D/s Dynamic
Jan 22, 2024
5 Ways to Master Long-Distance D/s Relationships
Jan 15, 2024
New BDSM Trends and Predictions for 2024
Jan 08, 2024
The Good, Bad, and Ugly of my 2023
Jan 01, 2024
What's Coming in 2024 for the Podcast and Dom Sub Living
Dec 25, 2023
5 Kinksters Answer: “What I Wish I Knew Before Getting into BDSM” 
Dec 18, 2023
3 Reasons Why Your D/s Relationship Keeps Failing
Dec 11, 2023
How We Built a 24/7 Total Power Exchange Relationship, Step-by-Step
Dec 04, 2023
Meet my Dom! Advice and Tips for Dominants
Nov 27, 2023
How to Create Meaningful Traditions for your D/s Dynamic
Nov 20, 2023
3 Big Myths About BDSM That Are Holding You Back
Nov 13, 2023
Why Now is the Best Time to Start Your BDSM Journey
Nov 03, 2023
Why I Quit My Vanilla Relationship to Become a Full-Time Submissive
Oct 29, 2023
5 Reasons Why You Need BDSM in Your Life
Oct 29, 2023
My Unfiltered Story About Why I Started This Podcast
Oct 29, 2023