Better Husband | Marriage, Divorce, Intimacy, Healthy Relationship, Arguments
By Angelo Santiago | Men's Marriage Coach, Better Husband Coach, Relational Life Therapy Coach
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Are you worried about losing your marriage and unsure what to do to save it?
Do you want to be a better husband, but keep getting defensive or shutting down when things get tense?
Have you tried to change, only to fall back into the same old habits?
Better Husband is the award-winning marriage podcast for men asking, “How can I be a better husband?”
You’ll get clear, practical steps you can use in everyday life to help you save your marriage, become a better husband, and become a better man.
Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Globally
2026 Signal Award Winner in Self-Improvement & Self-Help
2026 Signal Award Winner in Relationships, Love and Dating
Whether your marriage is at a breaking point or you want to strengthen the relationship you already have, you’ll learn how to build a strong marriage with more affection, understanding, and mutual support.
Hey, I’m Angelo Santiago, a husband, father, and men’s marriage and relationship coach.
My wife, Julie, and I have been together for 23 years and married for 13. But our relationship reached the brink of divorce. Rebuilding our marriage meant facing my contribution to our problems, getting support, and learning relationship skills I’d never been taught.
That experience became the foundation of my work helping men through retreats, online communities, and one-on-one coaching.
You want to feel close to your wife again, enjoy being together, and face life’s challenges knowing you can count on each other. Start putting what you learn into practice and work toward the marriage you want.
Press play. Let’s get to work!
Watch the free Better Husband Secrets workshop: https://www.betterhusbandsecrets.com
Learn more about working with me: https://www.angelosantiago.com
Questions or podcast inquiries: angelo@angelosantiago.com
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104|Rebuild Trust in Your Marriage Without Giving Up Healthy Boundaries
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Nov 03, 2026 |
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103|3 Ways to Love Your Wife When She Feels Distant
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Oct 27, 2026 |
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102|Your Wife Can't See What You Know. She Only Sees What You Do.
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Oct 20, 2026 |
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101|You Know What to Do. Why Can't You Do It With Her?
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Oct 13, 2026 |
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100|How to Listen to Your Wife Before You Argue or Shut Down
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Oct 06, 2026 |
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099|Your Wife Walked Out. Here's What to Do Before She's Ready to Talk
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Sep 29, 2026 |
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098|How to Build the Safety That Helps You Love and Know Your Wife
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Sep 22, 2026 |
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097|How to Invest in Your Marriage Before It Reaches a Crisis
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Sep 15, 2026 |
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096|Things Are Better in Your Marriage. Here's What to Do Next
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Sep 08, 2026 |
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095|Why You're So Hard on Yourself — And Why Your Wife Is Paying for It
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Sep 01, 2026 |
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094|How to Be a Strong Man and a Loving Husband — At the Same Time
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Aug 25, 2026 |
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093|What If Nothing About Your Wife Has to Change for This to Get Better?
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Aug 18, 2026 |
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092|Time Apart Isn't What's Hurting Your Marriage — Here's What Actually Is
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Aug 11, 2026 |
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091|3 Checks Every Marriage Needs — Daily, Weekly, and Monthly
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Aug 04, 2026 |
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090|Your Marriage Feels Over — But That Feeling May Be Lying to You
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Jul 28, 2026 |
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089|The Resentment You Feel Isn't About Your Marriage — Here's What It Really Is
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Jul 21, 2026 |
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088|You're Giving All You Can and It's Not Enough — What Does It Mean to "Hold Space"?
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Jul 14, 2026 |
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087|You Want the Fights to Stop — Here's Why Every Little Thing Turns Into One
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Jul 07, 2026 |
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086|You're Doing the Work — What If She Won't?
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Jun 30, 2026 |
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085|You're Going to Mess Up — And What You Do Next Is Everything
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Jun 23, 2026 |
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084|You'll Never Be the Perfect Husband — and That's Exactly Where the Wins Start
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Jun 16, 2026 |
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083|Happy Wife, Happy Life — But Not the Way You Think
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Jun 09, 2026 |
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082|How to Say Yes to Your Wife — And Actually Mean It
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Jun 02, 2026 |
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081|Your Wife Is Years Ahead of You in Growth — Now What?
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May 26, 2026 |
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080|The Conversation That Will Make or Break Your Marriage
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May 19, 2026 |
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079|Your Marriage Can Change This Week — Five Small Things to Start Doing
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May 12, 2026 |
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078|Why Your Marriage Gets Harder When You Finally Start Trying
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May 05, 2026 |
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077|She's Not Criticizing You — Here's What She's Actually Saying
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Apr 28, 2026 |
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076|Stop Saying Yes to Everything She Asks — Do This Instead
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Apr 21, 2026 |
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075|Why It’s Hard to Name What You Feel — And How to Start
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Apr 14, 2026 |
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074|Your Marriage Needs Something You’ve Been Avoiding
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Apr 07, 2026 |
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073|AI Won't Save Your Marriage But It Can Do This
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Mar 31, 2026 |
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072|How to Create Connection When You’re Both Tired
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Mar 24, 2026 |
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071|Why You Can’t See Your Own Progress — And Who Helps You Find It
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Mar 17, 2026 |
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070|You Want a Peaceful Marriage—But You Won’t Get It Until You Do This
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Mar 10, 2026 |
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069|You Make Progress—Then You Lose It Again. Here’s Why.
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Mar 03, 2026 |
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068|What If There’s No Affection in Your Marriage? Here’s What the Research Says
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Feb 24, 2026 |
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067|You Keep Trying to Fix Her Problems — Here's Why It’s Backfiring
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Feb 17, 2026 |
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066|Why Pursuing Your Wife Feels So Hard—and What Actually Works
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Feb 10, 2026 |
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065|When Your Wife Loves Something You Don’t—Now What?
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Feb 03, 2026 |
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064|The Marriage You Want Comes Down to These Three Steps
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Jan 27, 2026 |
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063|Why Your Next Big Move Might Be a Mistake for Your Marriage
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Jan 20, 2026 |
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062|You’re Being Honest—But It’s Still Pushing Her Away
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Jan 13, 2026 |
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061|Your Wife Isn’t Asking You to Do More—She’s Asking for This
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Jan 06, 2026 |
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060|What This Year Taught Me About Being a Better Husband
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Dec 30, 2025 |
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059|Create the Marriage You Want in the New Year: Choosing a Direction
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Dec 23, 2025 |
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058|Why You Go From ‘I’ve Got This’ to ‘Forget It, I’m Done’
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Dec 16, 2025 |
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057|How to Protect Your Marriage from Outside Opinions — And Why It's Important
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Dec 09, 2025 |
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056|Your Situation Is Unique — And the Work Is Still the Same
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Dec 02, 2025 |
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055|How to Bring Something Up Without Starting a Fight
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Nov 25, 2025 |
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054|You’re Changing — But She Still Can’t Trust It Yet
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Nov 18, 2025 |
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053|Your Phone Is Stealing the One Thing Your Marriage Needs Most
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Nov 11, 2025 |
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052|You Stopped Dating Your Wife—and It Shows
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Nov 04, 2025 |
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051|You Keep Hearing Complaints—Here’s What She’s Really Trying to Tell You
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Oct 28, 2025 |
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050|How You Start Your Day Determines How You Show Up as a Husband
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Oct 21, 2025 |
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049|Why the Man You Were Taught to Be Isn’t the One Your Marriage Needs
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Oct 14, 2025 |
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048|Micro Repairs: The Small, Daily Habit That Will Hold Your Marriage Together
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Oct 07, 2025 |
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047|From Better Husband to Better Human: Practicing Full Respect Living Everywhere
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Sep 23, 2025 |
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046|You Can’t Save the Marriage Alone: How to Respond When She Won’t Change
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Sep 16, 2025 |
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045|The Cycle That’s Destroying Your Marriage: The Stance–Stance–Dance
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Sep 09, 2025 |
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044|The Harshest Voice in Your Marriage Might Be Your Own—and Why That’s a Problem
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Sep 02, 2025 |
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043|Connected and Protected: How Healthy Boundaries Strengthen Your Marriage
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Aug 26, 2025 |
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042|The Hidden Danger of Settling for ‘Good Enough’—And How to Keep Growing Together
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Aug 19, 2025 |
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041|Love Avoidant? Attachment Styles? Enmeshment? Here’s What It All Means—And What to Do About It
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Aug 12, 2025 |
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040|You Messed Up... Again—Here’s How to Recover and Come Back Stronger
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Aug 05, 2025 |
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039|Why the Need to "Be Right" Is Destroying Your Marriage. Here’s What to Do Instead
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Jul 29, 2025 |
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038|How to Bring Pleasure, Play, and Joy Back into Your Marriage
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Jul 22, 2025 |
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037|The Better Husband’s Guide to Listening: A 3-Step Practice
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Jul 15, 2025 |
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036|100 Ways to Love Your Wife—And Why None of Them Will Work Until You Do This
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Jul 08, 2025 |
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035|Be the Piece That Moves: How to Lead When Your Marriage Is on the Edge
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Jul 01, 2025 |
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034|You Can Feel Her Pulling Away. Here’s How to Respond Before It’s Too Late
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Jun 24, 2025 |
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033|Why the Greatest Men in the World Keep Failing at Marriage
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Jun 17, 2025 |
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032|Not an Emotional Guy? Good. Here’s How to Show Up Anyway
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Jun 10, 2025 |
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031|Why You’re Great with Clients, Co-Workers, and Strangers—but Struggle with Your Wife
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Jun 03, 2025 |
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030|The Daily Habits That Saved My Marriage (And Still Keep It Strong Today)
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May 27, 2025 |
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029|You’re Making Progress—Here’s How to Make It Actually Feel Like It’s Working
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May 20, 2025 |
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[BONUS] Better Husband Academy Is Open—Here’s What It Is And Why It Matters
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May 15, 2025 |
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028|She’s Upset. You React. And Now It’s Worse. (Here’s What to Do Instead)
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May 13, 2025 |
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027|Most Marriages Struggle in Silence—Here’s What Happens When You Don’t
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May 06, 2025 |
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026|“I Can Fix This On My Own”—The Lie That’s Costing Men Their Marriage
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Apr 29, 2025 |
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025|The First Move Every Better Husband Makes: Full Ownership
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Apr 22, 2025 |
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024|When You Feel More Like Roommates Than Lovers—How to Rebuild Connection in Your Marriage
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Apr 15, 2025 |
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023|Staying Quiet Isn’t Helping—Here’s What She Actually Needs From You
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Apr 08, 2025 |
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022|Why “I’m Sorry” Isn’t Working — And the 4 Steps to Real Repair
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Apr 01, 2025 |
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021|Your Self-Esteem Is Hurting Your Marriage: 3 Faulty Beliefs That Keep Men Stuck
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Mar 25, 2025 |
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020|How to Build a Championship Marriage: 5 Winning Strategies
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Mar 18, 2025 |
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019|Why Most Men Don’t Prioritize Their Marriage (Until It’s Too Late)
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Mar 11, 2025 |
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018|Why Your Arguments Never Get Resolved—And What to Do Instead
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Mar 04, 2025 |
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017|Defensiveness Is Ruining Your Marriage—Here’s How to Fix It
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Feb 25, 2025 |
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016|How 10 Minutes a Day Can Transform Your Marriage
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Feb 18, 2025 |
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015|The Secret to Handling Your Wife’s Emotions Without Feeling Overwhelmed
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Feb 11, 2025 |
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014|How to Use Valentine’s Day to Build a Stronger, More Connected Marriage
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Feb 04, 2025 |
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013|Choosing Comfort Over Connection is Sabotaging Your Marriage
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Jan 28, 2025 |
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012|Navigating Sexual Frustration in Marriage—And How to Fix It
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Jan 23, 2025 |
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011|The Secret to Ending Arguments in Your Marriage: Yield, Don’t Defend
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Jan 14, 2025 |
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010|Rebuild Trust in Your Marriage: 5 Essential Steps After Breaking It
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Jan 07, 2025 |
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009|Create the Marriage You Want in 2025: 8 Powerful Questions for Husbands
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Dec 31, 2024 |
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008|What Every Husband Should Know About Forgiveness and Trust with Dr. Bruce Chalmer
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Dec 24, 2024 |
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007|How to Avoid Conflict in Your Marriage By Asking This One Question First
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Dec 17, 2024 |
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006|Why Men Struggle to Seek Help in Marriage with Dr. Dean Sunseri
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Dec 10, 2024 |
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005|Why Gratitude Could Save Your Marriage
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Dec 03, 2024 |
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004|How Your Attachment Style is Impacting Your Marriage with Bev Mitelman
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Nov 26, 2024 |
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003|How to Get More of What You Want in Your Marriage
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Nov 19, 2024 |
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002|How To Be a S.T.R.O.N.G. Husband With Kristal DeSantis
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Nov 12, 2024 |
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001|Overcoming Defensiveness: Improving Communication in Marriage
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Nov 05, 2024 |
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Welcome to Better Husband
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Oct 31, 2024 |