Your Listener

By John Cuturilo

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John Cuturilo, the counsellor of Your Listener Counselling in Melbourne, Australia, is the host of the Your Listener podcast. Discussing psychological topics including mental health, critical thinking, and social matters, he presents unique insights. Rather than lecturing coercively on what to believe, filling his discussions with provocative language or quotes from famous people, or political rhetoric, John explains how our minds work and the impact of this on how we operate individually and socially. He often helps his audience to realise that what we assume are truths are often ideas resulting from errors in thinking — to which all of us may fall subject. Through this, John encourages critical thinking, accepting responsibility for our flaws, the separation of criticising ideas from judging people, exercising our minds, and finding ways to live in harmony with and learn from each other rather than avoiding those who think differently. He also believes in helping his audience to develop more detailed, complex knowledge, rather than overly simplifying concepts to the extent that they become empty slogans. He maintains that while the quest for truth may never be completed, we should still strive to learn of it as only by doing this will we be the most independent and astute possible thinkers.


If you have an idea for an episode, or would like to appear as a guest or collaborate, contact John to introduce yourself! John welcomes people of a broad range of backgrounds for discussion. John especially values the opportunity to discuss perspectives which differ from his.


Learn more about John and contact him via his website:


www.yourlistener.com.au


John gladly provides his content free of charge on an ethical basis. If you enjoy his content, please consider making a donation of whatever you can afford to show your appreciation:


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Please remember that all content on this platform consists only of the opinions of John and his guests. It is not professional advice and should not be taken as such.


Episode Date
Should you just pretend to agree?
Jun 28, 2026
The place of energy healing in medicine with Terri-Ann Russell
Jun 20, 2026
The personal life of a therapist with Dr. Diana Harman
Jun 13, 2026
Opinions on sex and sex education with Erica Rivera
Jun 06, 2026
What is neurolinguistic programming? With Darcie Burtch
May 30, 2026
Being broken and beautiful with Tabitha Hart
May 23, 2026
The epistemology of religion with Valerie Flynn
May 16, 2026
How do Christianity and sex co-exist? With Angela Griffith.
May 09, 2026
Do we sometimes try to do too much?
May 02, 2026
Is division in politics good? With Jack Sezer.
Apr 27, 2026
Spirituality: Past lives, the soul, science, and more with Benjamin Shure
Apr 18, 2026
How faith can strengthen our relationships during hardship with Tony Martinez
Apr 11, 2026
Autism insights and misconceptions with Lindsay Malkinson
Apr 04, 2026
Family systems with Andreea Pojoga
Mar 28, 2026
Scientific issues with Kouta Hernandez: The replication crisis, file drawer effect, and more
Mar 21, 2026
Am I a controversial counsellor?
Mar 14, 2026
Being nice versus being righteous
Mar 07, 2026
Do I enjoy my job?
Feb 28, 2026
How A.I. can serve us rather than think for us, with Derek Crager
Feb 21, 2026
Socialism and capitalism: the psychology and caveats with The Wealthy Ironworker
Feb 14, 2026
Being a true disability ally with Daniel Hodges
Feb 07, 2026
The importance of Estuary, community, and learning from our differences with Valerie Flynn
Jan 31, 2026
The Society of Child Entrepreneurs: Children are more capable than you think
Jan 24, 2026
Our need for standards and seeking excellence
Jan 17, 2026
The questionable logic of law
Jan 10, 2026
The consequences of A.I. for cognition, with Dr. Katrina Andrews
Jan 03, 2026
How reification often masks the essence of human functioning
Dec 27, 2025
Authoritarianism, chaos, and why we should choose a third option
Dec 20, 2025
How children develop virtue with Susanne Gervay
Dec 13, 2025
Nihilism and hedonism: A tempting but dangerous partnership
Dec 06, 2025
The "both sides" argument settled: The actual psychology of politics
Nov 29, 2025
When others' beliefs make us uncomfortable, with Eleonora Formato
Nov 23, 2025
The future of Your Listener — August 2025
Aug 09, 2025
Stop saying "you're overthinking"!
Aug 02, 2025
Is "tough love" compassionate?
Jul 26, 2025
Is being a "kid at heart" ideal for role models?
Jul 19, 2025
The true secret to motivation
Jul 12, 2025
Can we "measure" psychology?
Jul 05, 2025
We should examine a person's entire context before judging them
Jun 28, 2025
The virtue of independence not often discussed
Jun 21, 2025
Am I wrong?
Jun 14, 2025
Is force in communication ever acceptable?
Jun 07, 2025
Intuition vs. empirical evidence — is it real if we can't observe it?
May 31, 2025
Conspiracy theories and trusting science — are we too judgemental?
May 24, 2025
Why the drug-free life is best
May 17, 2025
Your children's academic success, or your success?
May 10, 2025
Parents, take responsibility! Your children's emotions matter
May 03, 2025
Henry Kaiser and the importance of being yourself
Apr 26, 2025
Do we actually need rules?
Apr 19, 2025
Artificial intelligence: Removing humanity from humanity?
Apr 12, 2025
"Influencers" and "customer service stars": Have we really invented new ideas?
Apr 05, 2025
The desperately-needed conversation about parenting with Ebony Uamaki
Mar 31, 2025
Some thoughts on ethical business activity
Mar 22, 2025
Podcasthon 2025: Honouring Guide Dogs Australia with Ebony Uamaki
Mar 17, 2025
Unique housekeeping philosophies for a simpler life
Mar 08, 2025
Are quality mental health and disability services really accessible?
Mar 01, 2025
What is the "inner child"?
Feb 23, 2025
What do you truly deserve? With Amey Greenaway.
Feb 17, 2025
The "good old days" and "times are better" fallacies
Feb 08, 2025
The basic principles of respectful disagreement
Feb 01, 2025
A reflection on a local community conference
Jan 25, 2025
Extreme beliefs: valid grievances under layers of cognitive distortion
Jan 18, 2025
Am I harming you, or are you infringing my rights?
Jan 11, 2025
"What's in a name?" The real consequences of defining words
Jan 04, 2025
Is the economy or your spending the problem?
Dec 28, 2024
Principles of data backup and archiving which nobody knows...
Dec 21, 2024
Therapy is a myth, or myths about therapy?
Dec 14, 2024
Why does everyone hate corporations?
Dec 07, 2024
Collectivism, individualism, or both?
Nov 30, 2024
Is money really the desire at the root of evil?
Nov 23, 2024
The definitive lesson in politics
Nov 16, 2024
Your Listener Counselling, and the conversation on life coaching we need to have
Nov 10, 2024
Is advice always helpful?
Nov 02, 2024
"It's not a real mental illness?"
Oct 26, 2024
Why don't I like to "own things"?
Oct 19, 2024
Why don't I smile much?
Oct 12, 2024
Some business tips for helping professionals
Oct 05, 2024
Personal responsibility in mental illness management with Paris Le Maistre
Sep 28, 2024
Spirituality versus science: Are we so different? With Ebony Uamaki.
Sep 24, 2024
Intellectual honesty with Evan Shapiro
Sep 14, 2024
Can we choose to stop being obnoxious on the Internet already?
Sep 07, 2024
Mental illness – you're using the wrong words!
Aug 31, 2024
"John, you ask so many questions!"
Aug 24, 2024
Modern therapy blunders with Simon Rinne
Aug 17, 2024
Using humour to discuss mental health with Going Loco
Aug 10, 2024
Making choices in the dangerous game of life with Prue Sulicich
Aug 02, 2024
Life values: just how different are men and women? With Mitch Lowe
Jul 24, 2024
Selection bias: is the world your enemy, or are you seeking trouble?
Jul 21, 2024
How do you talk to people with different beliefs? With Damien Stewart
Jul 13, 2024
Mental illness, lived experience, and "perfect" therapists: in conversation with Mark Brosnan
Jul 09, 2024
There's no proxy for competence
Jun 29, 2024
The cognitively impaired aren't "behaving badly"
Jun 22, 2024
Facets of feelings with photographer Jasmine Bibby
Jun 15, 2024
Is academia too verbose?
Jun 09, 2024
Some finer points of communication
Jun 02, 2024
Cognitive-behavioural therapy: a brief critical analysis
May 26, 2024
The problem with theoretical frameworks
May 19, 2024
My podcast is not life coaching
May 13, 2024
When we resent the world...
May 05, 2024
Gender fluidity and dysphoria: let's forget the politics
Apr 28, 2024
Reality isn't subjective
Apr 22, 2024
We need to talk about work culture...
Apr 15, 2024
Free speech: let's forget the politics
Apr 07, 2024
The real power of words: will a bird make you racist?
Mar 31, 2024
Ghosting: there's not much to it
Mar 21, 2024
The debating lesson everyone needs!
Mar 12, 2024
The “you don’t have experience” retort
Mar 05, 2024
Why isn’t therapy working for me?
Feb 27, 2024
The “slippery slope” isn’t a fallacy
Feb 20, 2024
The challenge of saying what they need to hear
Feb 13, 2024
Mental illness: the real phenomenology
Feb 06, 2024
Debunking "positive self-talk"
Jan 31, 2024
What if all opinions are mistakes (and what can we do about it)?
Jan 29, 2024
Reification, mental illness, and the N.D.I.S.: what do the roles mean?
Jan 29, 2024
Reification: what psychology may miss about mental illness and health
Jan 29, 2024
Life coaching: what is it actually doing (and can it be different)?
Jan 29, 2024