Dealing with a narcissist can be shattering to one's sense of identity, self-worth and self-confidence. Heck, not even knowing who you are. As a therapist, I've been working with narcissistic abuse survivors for over 7 years. As a trained registered social worker, I have seen firsthand the harm, confusion and devastation that my clients experience. I graduated with two degrees and was out to save the world. Little did I realize that I had lived through my own traumas, but thinking that everything I experienced was "normal," only to one day wake up and see that it was not. The rose-coloured glasses came off like a shattering glass. What I knew to be true was gone. Grief and loss set in, then the healing journey. Now I help my clients awaken, grieve, understand, and make choices one step at a time, to develop their identities, get in touch with their red-flag indicator, which always knew something was wrong, and guide them through whatever small steps they can take to reclaim themselves. Join me on a journey, both personal and professional, in understanding all the dynamics of this insidious and manipulative disorder. We can heal, but first we need to see them for who they are and who they are not! Nine years later, I have found my voice, and I want to share it with you.