Time to Lean
By Laura Danger and Crystal Britt
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On the Time to Lean podcast with Laura Danger and Crystal Britt, we dig into the often-overlooked realities of domestic labor, care work, and household inequity. Through sharp cultural critiques and discussions on trending topics, we explore the systemic issues that shape our homes and lives. In each weekly episode, we tackle the topics that impact our lives, challenge the status quo, and uncover the hidden dynamics that influence how we live and work. Join us as we make time to lean into these crucial conversations and advocate for the value of the work that truly keeps the world turning.
Laura, @thatdarnchat, is an educator and advocate. Crystal Britt, @itscrystalbritt, is a coach and licensed therapist in California. Find us on IG or join us on Patreon @ timetoleanpod for Ad-Free episodes, resources, book clubs, weekly virtual meet-ups and so much more!
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what can we learn when we revisit couples therapy classics?
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Apr 10, 2026 |
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when does teasing turn toxic?
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Jan 14, 2026 |
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when does modeling better balance become capitalizing on the issue of inequity?
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Nov 26, 2025 |
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what if men were tricked into going to therapy?
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Oct 08, 2025 |
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if i have to ask you to invite me, is it REALLY an invitation?
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Sep 24, 2025 |
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i asked for two, but he got me one—am i supposed to be okay with less... everyday... for the rest of my life?
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Sep 10, 2025 |
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is it funny to have to be begged to do the dishes?
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Aug 13, 2025 |
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was 'marriage story' cis-het propaganda?
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Aug 06, 2025 |
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would you leave someone on read for being too available?
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Jul 30, 2025 |
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can an unfinished painting cause you to question everything?
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Jul 23, 2025 |
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is it fair to feel upset if i ask for help and your response isn't eager?
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Jul 16, 2025 |
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what happens if they ask how they can help, then don't like my answer?
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Jul 10, 2025 |
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if i step back, let him “rise” to leadership, and comment HUBBY on this post, will my partner finally make his own damn list?
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Jul 02, 2025 |
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am i the a-hole for making us late when i was doing all the housework?
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Jun 25, 2025 |
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what if i know you're going to mess it up?
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Jun 18, 2025 |
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what if we went to couples therapy?
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Jun 12, 2025 |
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is instagram ruining your relationship?
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Jun 04, 2025 |
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is corporate culture co-opting care?
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May 28, 2025 |
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both parents forgot the diapers, so why is it called a "mom fail"?
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May 21, 2025 |
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will the power moms save us?
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May 14, 2025 |
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did hbo just cover emotional labor?
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May 07, 2025 |
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can you get out of the "nag paradox"?
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Apr 23, 2025 |
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what makes an "unfit parent"? with author jessica slice
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Apr 16, 2025 |
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his kidney, his choice?
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Apr 09, 2025 |
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am i the a-hole for calling him a piece of sh*t?
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Apr 02, 2025 |
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why do married men work more?
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Mar 26, 2025 |
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who takes care of the caregivers?
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Mar 19, 2025 |
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how heavy is a household task?
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Mar 12, 2025 |
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is elon musk a bad dad?
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Mar 05, 2025 |
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is it time to focus on men's health?
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Feb 26, 2025 |
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is dating dehumanizing?
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Feb 19, 2025 |
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when is weaponized incompetence emotional abuse?
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Feb 12, 2025 |
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what if they're trying but i need MORE?
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Feb 05, 2025 |
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is it true that if he wanted to, he would?
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Jan 29, 2025 |
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if it's a joke, why aren't we laughing?
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Jan 21, 2025 |
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Three year olds are fine on their own, right?
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Jan 15, 2025 |
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is this mother-in-law the a-hole?
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Jan 08, 2025 |
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is it ball-busting to ask you to clean on the weekends?
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Dec 18, 2024 |
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is it queer to like your wife?
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Dec 11, 2024 |
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RE-RELEASE: what's going down at Ballerina Farm?
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Dec 04, 2024 |
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am I the a-hole for wanting time alone?
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Nov 27, 2024 |
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am i the a-hole for not helping when my partner says they're overwhelmed?
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Nov 22, 2024 |
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if you're so tired, shouldn't you be laying down instead of washing the walls?
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Nov 13, 2024 |
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what if my partner voted against my best interest?
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Nov 08, 2024 |
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what are signs the relationship is over?
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Oct 30, 2024 |
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am I the a-hole for being upset he forgot my 40th birthday?
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Oct 23, 2024 |
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am i wrong for freaking out over a looming natural disaster?
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Oct 16, 2024 |
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how can we build a village in a nuclear-family-obsessed culture?
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Oct 09, 2024 |
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i'm considering divorce - am i overreacting?
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Oct 02, 2024 |
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i'm fine, so why are you mad? - REPLAY
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Sep 25, 2024 |
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am i asking too much for them to follow through on their word?
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Sep 18, 2024 |
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am i the a-hole for refusing to wake him up?
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Sep 11, 2024 |
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am I the a-hole for divorcing over tightened lids?
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Sep 04, 2024 |
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how is care the highest form of capitalism? an interview with Toi Smith
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Aug 28, 2024 |
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will an equitable chore split save us?
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Aug 21, 2024 |
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how do you decide who should decide?
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Aug 14, 2024 |
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what is the back-to-school mental load?
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Aug 07, 2024 |
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what's going on down at Ballerina Farm?
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Jul 31, 2024 |
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how should we handle finances? with Ellyce Fulmore
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Jul 24, 2024 |
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do they get to complain if they didn't help plan?
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Jul 17, 2024 |
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what if every conversation we have is a competition?
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Jul 10, 2024 |
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am I the a-hole not cancelling the cleaner when my partner asked me to?
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Jul 03, 2024 |
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how can we get the whole family to see the work?
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Jun 26, 2024 |
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is it "over-packing" or is it making sure we have a good time?
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Jun 19, 2024 |
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RE-RELEASE: someone on the internet said screens were BAD, is that true? with the Gamer Educator!
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Jun 12, 2024 |
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what if my needs are making him want to crawl out of his skin?
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Jun 05, 2024 |
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isn't that just called being a mom?
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May 29, 2024 |
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is the diabolical lie that we can work or stay home?
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May 22, 2024 |
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are "boy rooms" really all that messy?
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May 15, 2024 |
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the best part about being a dad is not being a mom.
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May 08, 2024 |
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why is knowing everything MY job?
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May 01, 2024 |
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am i the a-hole for choosing the bride over my friend?
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Apr 17, 2024 |
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what if i sacrificed my identity to serve my family?
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Apr 10, 2024 |
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is it a case for older men or is it a case for girl bossing?
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Mar 31, 2024 |
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what if he's trying, but it still isn't working?
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Mar 27, 2024 |
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i'm fine, so why are you mad?
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Mar 13, 2024 |
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Is Love truly Blind??
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Mar 06, 2024 |
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but what if they're doing it the wrong way?
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Feb 28, 2024 |
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wait, what is the internet for?
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Feb 21, 2024 |
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shouldn't i just be grateful?
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Feb 14, 2024 |
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what if your values don't align?
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Feb 07, 2024 |
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why are love languages so insidious?
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Jan 31, 2024 |
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what if love languages are bulls**t?
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Jan 17, 2024 |
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what does a woman drive you to do?
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Jan 10, 2024 |
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what happens when your partner lets you down?
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Jan 03, 2024 |
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Can a situational hostage ever really win?
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Dec 27, 2023 |
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Should you lie about who's giving you gifts?
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Dec 20, 2023 |
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Do You Have Oldest Daughter Syndrome?
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Dec 13, 2023 |
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Is it funny to joke about domestic violence?
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Dec 07, 2023 |
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Introducing: Time to Lean
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Dec 06, 2023 |
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I have anxiety and he has ADHD! Now what?
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Nov 30, 2023 |
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Do you HAVE to have sex?
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Nov 22, 2023 |
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Am I a Bad Wife, Bad Mom, Bad Feminist BAD BAD BAD?
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Nov 16, 2023 |
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What if my life changed and theirs stayed the same?
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Nov 09, 2023 |
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What's Your Tolerable Level of Permanent Unhappiness?
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Nov 02, 2023 |
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Men Get to "Opt Out" of Childcare?
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Oct 26, 2023 |
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Who Gets a Sick Day?
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Oct 25, 2023 |
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What would you do if your partner kept something BIG from you?
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Oct 19, 2023 |
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Are you hiding out in the bathroom right now?
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Oct 11, 2023 |
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What if I can't leave?--Building Community
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Sep 28, 2023 |
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Dealing with a father-in-law
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Sep 21, 2023 |
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Why are we obsessed with Joe Jonas and Sophie Turner?
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Sep 13, 2023 |
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Does capitalism ruin everything?
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Sep 07, 2023 |
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When is it okay to "blast them" on the internet?
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Aug 31, 2023 |
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All Moms Work: Debunking the Scams of Motherhood with Raena Boston
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Aug 23, 2023 |
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Is housework skilled work that's worth learning?
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Aug 16, 2023 |
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Are your standards a "you problem"?
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Aug 10, 2023 |
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If it's so hard, why don't you work and I'LL stay home??
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Jul 26, 2023 |
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Mommy FB Groups and Daddy Dumb-Dumbs
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Jul 19, 2023 |
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What if he says this isn't fair?
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Jul 12, 2023 |
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It's All Made Up - A Shiny Happy Breakdown Part 2
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Jul 05, 2023 |
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Married Single Motherhood?
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Jun 28, 2023 |
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Redefining Hope - A Shiny Happy Breakdown Part 1
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Jun 21, 2023 |
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Someone on the internet said screens are BAD. Is that true? with The Gamer Educator!
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Jun 14, 2023 |
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Is patriarchy stopping men from dressing themselves?
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Jun 07, 2023 |
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The gift of curiosity with worldshaker
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May 31, 2023 |
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Are these the worst vows you've ever heard?
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May 24, 2023 |
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Getting Momfluenced with Sara Peterson
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May 17, 2023 |
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Platonic & Pleasurable with Dr. Julie Bruene
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May 10, 2023 |
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AITA? My husband travels without me!
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May 03, 2023 |
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Are you parenting a Spicy One? - with Mary Van Geffen!
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Apr 26, 2023 |
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Therapy Disasters Part 2
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Apr 19, 2023 |
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Therapy Disasters Part 1
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Apr 12, 2023 |
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Patriarchy from the Pulpit
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Apr 05, 2023 |
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Do your kids see you as a Mad Mommy?
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Mar 29, 2023 |
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How much grace do you need?!
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Mar 22, 2023 |
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What's the sick protocol?
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Mar 15, 2023 |
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"Take me home": when it goes too far
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Mar 08, 2023 |
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Picking up the slack
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Mar 01, 2023 |
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If I don't commit, I'll never let you down!
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Feb 22, 2023 |
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Parenting Pinterest Boards
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Feb 15, 2023 |