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Formerly A Grown Up's Gap Year.
How To Run Away (& Other Handy Hints for Your Next Bit) is a podcast about the next bit of life: health, long marriages, ageing parents, young adult children (kidults), friendship, community, travel, purpose, and how midlife women stay properly engaged with it all.
Hosted by bestselling Australian author, clinical nutritionist and wellbeing coach Monique van Tulder, the show explores the emotional logistics of adult life: mental load, caregiving, solo travel, brain health, longevity, healthspan, perimenopause and menopause, financial wellbeing, long-term relationships, healthy ageing, empty nest, reinvigoration, and what the next decades might actually look like.
Through expert interviews, storytelling, cultural observation, and useful conversations, Monique asks:
What kind of woman do we want to become, how would we like her to age, and how do we start designing her life now?
The 90-year-old version of you? She is watching.
Part conversation. Part perspective shift. Part useful nudge.
There will occasionally be hotels (Monique loves a hotel stay), golf (happy place for her and The Bloke), emotional admin, hearing aids, resentment, cold-water swims, and discussions about wearing the good dress on a Tuesday.
Nothing is off the table if it means our epitaph will never read, "F**k, I forgot to live my life."
New episodes weekly. For midlife women, sandwich generation carers, and anyone asking what comes next.
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How Busy Midlife Women Find Time to Travel
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Apr 27, 2026 |
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Solo Travel Over 50: How To Take Guilt-Free Time Out
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Apr 20, 2026 |
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Hiroko Yoda on Eight Million Ways to Happiness: Finding Hidden Meaning in Everyday Life the Japanese Way
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Apr 13, 2026 |
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Why Community Is A Healthy Ageing Strategy
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Apr 06, 2026 |
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Your 2nd Act: Saying “Why Not Me?” in Mid-life with Michelle Parsonage (Host of Your 2nd Act)
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Mar 30, 2026 |
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If You Have Stopped Acting On Your Dreams In Mid-Life: These Ideas Will Help You
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Mar 23, 2026 |
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How to Turn Your Big Ideas Into a Visible Personal Brand with Michelle B. Griffin
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Mar 16, 2026 |
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How to Plan Your Next Chapter When You Know What You DON'T Want (But Have No Idea What Comes Next)
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Mar 09, 2026 |
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Overwhelmed and Over It: How to Simplify One Part of Your Life This Week
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Mar 02, 2026 |
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Life After Menopause: Strong, Supported & Informed with Dr Joanna Bruce Womens Health Expert
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Feb 23, 2026 |
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The Anti-Guilt Calculator: From Mental Load to Real Time-Out and Space for You
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Feb 16, 2026 |
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A Grown Up’s Gap Year, From “I Can’t” to “Of Course I Can": My Year of Choosing Yes
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Feb 09, 2026 |
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Ask Why Not You: How Values Become Your North Star
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Jan 26, 2026 |
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Empty Nest in Midlife: Daily Resets That Stick, with Prue Francis
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Jan 19, 2026 |
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Why More Women Over 50 Are Travelling Solo: And Loving It
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Jan 12, 2026 |
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Treat Yourself Like a Project: How Small Actions Lead to Big Clarity
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Jan 05, 2026 |
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A Grown Up’s Gap Year, From “I Can’t” to “Of Course I Can": My Year of Choosing Yes
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Dec 29, 2025 |
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Ditch the “New Year, New You” Resolutions: Pick Up a Notebook, Not a 75-Day Challenge
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Dec 22, 2025 |
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Mid-Life Maintenance Mojo: Just Wear the Bikini & Other Handy Hints
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Dec 15, 2025 |
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Happyish Holidays: Festive Season Boundaries & What Feels Like Home
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Dec 08, 2025 |
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Dreaming of Your Own Greek Island House? A Chic Local Shares Her Mid-Life Reset on Hydra
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Dec 01, 2025 |
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Mental Load in Midlife: Boundaries, the Bloke Spreadsheet, and Your Anti-Guilt Calculator
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Nov 24, 2025 |
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Decluttering in Midlife: How to Create SPACE for the Life You Actually Want
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Nov 17, 2025 |
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Your Two Minute Travel Prescription Reset: Find Space in Mid-life
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Nov 10, 2025 |
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Reinvention With Monique van Tulder and Michelle Cox on One Question Podcast
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Nov 03, 2025 |
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From Shirley Valentine to Solo Adventure: Lessons from a Grown Up's Gap Year
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Oct 27, 2025 |
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Breaking the Midlife Mold: Secrets of Australia’s Most Relentless PR Student
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Oct 20, 2025 |
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I Did a Shirley Valentine: Took a Gap Year and Found Myself
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Oct 13, 2025 |
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Living As If: A Mid-Life Reinvigoration Idea To Start Now
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Oct 06, 2025 |
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Seasons and Japanese Rituals: In conversation with Six Senses Kyoto’s Director of Wellness
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Sep 29, 2025 |
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Why I'm A Fan Of Best Practice Retreats: Wellness Travel Done Well
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Sep 22, 2025 |
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Saying Yes in Mid-life: A Camino Pilgrimage with Anna Manlulo
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Sep 15, 2025 |
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Why More Women Over 50 Are Travelling Solo: And Why It Works
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Sep 08, 2025 |
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Emptier Nest And Everyday Resets That Work: with Prue Francis
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Sep 01, 2025 |
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Finding Your Values in Midlife: The Litmus Test for What Comes Next
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Aug 25, 2025 |
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The Rewrite: Letting Go to Begin Again with Melinda Louise Hutchings
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Aug 18, 2025 |
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Your Grown Up’s Gap Year Starts Here: And It May Not Be Where You Thought
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Aug 11, 2025 |
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Is a Grown Up's Gap Year for You? Handy Hints for Midlife Women
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Aug 04, 2025 |
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Treat Yourself Like a Project: How Small Actions Lead to Big Clarity
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Jul 28, 2025 |
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Welcome to How To Run Away: Formerly A Grown Up's Gap Year
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Jul 22, 2025 |