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Formerly titled 'Let's Talk People-Pleasing! with Charlotte Bailey' - She Is Here™ is a podcast for women who feel they're 'too much' too sensitive, too emotional, too dramatic....and never quite enough.
Maybe you’ve read the self-help books, listened to the personal development podcasts, or previously had therapy. You understand your patterns — but something still hasn’t shifted. You get it… but you don’t always feel it.
That’s because insight alone isn’t always enough.
Patterns like people-pleasing, overthinking, perfectionism, masking, anxiety, and self-doubt aren’t mindset failures. They’re intelligent survival responses shaped by trauma, attachment, conditioning, relationships, and the environments we’ve had to navigate.
I’m Charlotte Bailey, an accredited trauma-informed psychotherapist, speaker, and spoken-word poet. Through psychology, neuroscience, lived experience, and poetry, She Is Here™ explores the missing piece mainstream self-help often skips: safety - in your nervous system and in your world.
This isn’t about forcing confidence or becoming someone new. It’s about reconnecting with the parts of yourself that learned to shrink, hide or adapt, remembering who you were before you were taught to be less - and learning how to feel safe enough to be seen.
Come join me on instagram and feel free to DM me with any questions or subjects you'd like me to cover : https://www.instagram.com/charlotte_bailey_therapies/
Access free resources (People-Pleasing Quiz-Based Webinar & Video Visibility Confidence Toolkit) & find out more about me via my website: https://www.charlotte-bailey.com/
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Lonely in a Room Full of People: Why You Feel Alone Even When You’re Not
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Feb 17, 2026 |
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Why People Call You ‘Too Sensitive’ (and why they're wrong) - a spoken word poem
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Jan 27, 2026 |
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Why You Overthink Messages (and What It Says About Safety)
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Jan 20, 2026 |
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What I Actually Mean by ‘Safe Enough to Be Seen’ (and Why It’s Not About Confidence)
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Jan 13, 2026 |
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Why Insight Isn’t Enough: Why You Still Feel Anxious Even When You Understand It
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Jan 06, 2026 |
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Why January and New Year’s Resolutions Make You Feel Like You’re Failing
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Dec 30, 2025 |
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The Christmas You Carry
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Dec 24, 2025 |
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She Is Here: Remembering Who You Were Before You Were Taught to Be Less
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Dec 23, 2025 |
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When Your Body Makes You Stop And listen To What It Has To Say - It Might Just Surprise You | Ep 53
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Oct 28, 2025 |
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It’s Not a Rebrand — It’s a Remembering | Ep 52
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Oct 14, 2025 |
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How To Stop Feeling Guilty For Saying No | Ep 51
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Oct 07, 2025 |
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Why Do I Feel So Guilty for Saying No? (And What It Really Means) | Ep 50
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Sep 30, 2025 |
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As An Anxious People-Pleaser I Used To Think I Wasn’t Confident Enough — But It Was Never About Confidence | Ep 49
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Sep 23, 2025 |
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Why Shame Fuels People-Pleasing - and How to Break the Cycle | Ep 48
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Sep 09, 2025 |
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The People-Pleasing Path That Leads You Away From Yourself | Ep 47
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Sep 02, 2025 |
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From Overthinking People-Pleaser to Solo Festival Raver | Ep 47
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Aug 26, 2025 |
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Does My Writing Still Sound Like Me? On AI, Sameness, and Finding Our Human Voice | Ep 46
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Aug 19, 2025 |
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People-Pleasing in the Bedroom: Let’s Talk About Sex | Ep 45
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Aug 12, 2025 |
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I Thought I Was Being 'Professional'... But I Was Actually Avoiding Being Visible | Ep 44
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Aug 05, 2025 |
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What is People-Pleasing? and Why don't you realise you're a people-pleaser? | Ep 43
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Jul 29, 2025 |
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Is Your Teenager a People-Pleaser? Early Warning Signs and How to Help | Ep 42
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Jul 22, 2025 |
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What Another Therapist Posted Shocked Me into Speaking Up Online - And I Didn't Spiral! | Ep 41
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Jul 15, 2025 |
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People-Pleasing and the Postpartum Period | Ep. 40
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Jul 08, 2025 |
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How To Start Breaking Free From Imposter Syndrome | Ep 39
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Jul 01, 2025 |
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Why You Feel Like an Imposter and Out of Your Depth in Business—Even When You 'Know' You’re Credible | Ep 38
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Jun 24, 2025 |
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Why Is It So Hard To Say No? A People-Pleasing Therapist Explains. | Ep 37
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Jun 17, 2025 |
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The Little Girl Who Learned How To Mask | Ep 36
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Jun 10, 2025 |
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You’re Self-Aware… But Are You Sure You’re Seeing Things Clearly? | Ep 35
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May 27, 2025 |
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Don't Miss These Signs | Ep 34
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May 20, 2025 |
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Why You Cringe at Putting Yourself Out There | Ep 33
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May 13, 2025 |
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From Burnout and Breakdown to Finding You Again with Vicki Gilby | Ep 32
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May 06, 2025 |
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How Personal Style and Mindset Can Transform Your Business Confidence | Ep 31
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Apr 29, 2025 |
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How to Feel Comfortable Being Photographed: Overcoming Self-Doubt and People-Pleasing | Ep 30
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Apr 22, 2025 |
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Are You As Kind As You Think? The Truth About People-Pleasing vs Kindness | Ep 29
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Apr 15, 2025 |
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How to Recognise if You're An Overcomitting People-Pleaser (and how to stop the cycle) | Ep 28
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Apr 08, 2025 |
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The Hidden Problem with the ‘Let Them' Theory | Ep 27
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Apr 01, 2025 |
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Do you really like that as much as you say you do? The Chameleon Pleaser - a chat with Hannah McLachlan | Ep 26
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Mar 25, 2025 |
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Breaking the Cycle of Over-giving & Finding Your Worth Beyond Your Actions - with Nicola Jayne | Ep 25
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Mar 11, 2025 |
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Living Life by Others’ Expectations vs. Living in Line with Your Values - with Natasha Scullane | Ep 24
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Mar 04, 2025 |
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From People-Pleasing to Living Life on Your Own Terms - with Matt Hassan | Ep 23
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Feb 25, 2025 |
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Why You Often Feel Like You Don't Have a Choice | Ep 22
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Feb 18, 2025 |
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Juggling Life Without the Overwhelm: The Power of Boundaries with Eve Cale | Ep 21
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Feb 11, 2025 |
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Why You Flip Between Feeling 'You're Too Much' and 'Not Enough' | Ep 20
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Feb 04, 2025 |
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From People-Pleaser to Confidently Authentic: What I Learned in 2024 and What’s Next | Ep 19
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Jan 07, 2025 |
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Things Aren’t Bad Enough for Therapy? Myths, Benefits, and How It Can Transform Your Life | Ep 18
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Dec 31, 2024 |
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12 Practical Ways to Start Tackling Day-to-Day People-Pleasing Habits | Ep 17
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Dec 24, 2024 |
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Is People-Pleasing Sabotaging your Career? | Ep 16
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Dec 17, 2024 |
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Why Boundaries Are Good For Your Health - with Sheena, The Pain Therapist | Ep 15
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Dec 10, 2024 |
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Is Parentification Behind Your People-Pleasing? | Ep 14
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Dec 03, 2024 |
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Here's A Sneaky Way Good-Girl Conditioning Might Be Showing Up For You! | Ep 13
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Nov 26, 2024 |
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People-Pleasing & Setting Boundaries At Christmas | Ep 12
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Nov 19, 2024 |
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When You’re Growing and They’re Not: Navigating the Disconnect | Ep 11
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Nov 12, 2024 |
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Why You Say You’re OK With What Your Partner Does (Even When You’re Not) | Ep 10
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Nov 05, 2024 |
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Sorry Seems to Be the Hardest Word... for People-Pleasers to Stop Saying | Ep 9
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Oct 29, 2024 |
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How People-Pleasing Is Making You Ill | Ep 8
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Oct 22, 2024 |
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'You're Such A Knob!' - Ways To Tackle Self-Doubt & Anxiety | Ep 7
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Oct 15, 2024 |
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ADHD and People-Pleasing | Ep 6
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Oct 08, 2024 |
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When Confrontation Makes Your Body Feel Like It's Going Into Battle! | Ep 5
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Oct 01, 2024 |
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Stressing When It Comes To Getting Ready and Choosing What To Wear? This one's for you | Ep 4
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Sep 25, 2024 |
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A 4-Year-Old's Life Changing Lesson | Ep 3
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Sep 21, 2024 |
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Why That Person Makes You Feel So Anxious | Ep 2
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Sep 20, 2024 |
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5 Things You Think Are Normal But Are Probably People-Pleasing (and what to do about it) | Ep 1
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Sep 13, 2024 |
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Welcome to Let's Talk People-Pleasing! | Trailer / Introduction
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Sep 13, 2024 |