Demystifying Child's Play | Play Schemas

By Ruth Vercoe

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Kia ora, Hello! I’m Ruth Vercoe, a teacher-turned-mum, here on a mission to demystify Child’s Play through understanding play schemas.

If you’ve ever found yourself asking,
'Why is my child doing that?'—whether it’s throwing their soft toys, hiding stones around the house, or lining up their crayons —then you’re in the right place, and certainly not alone.


Here, we’ll explore the magic of play through the lens of play schemas—those hidden repeated patterns in your child’s behaviour that hold the key to unlocking more meaningful play and connection.


Join me each week as we dive into playful insights that will help you bring more joy, connection and understanding into your parenting journey. 

Get in contact at
Email Ruth@Playschemas.com
Facebook and Instagram @Play_Schemas



Episode Date
055 Less Stuff, More Play: Creating a Connected Christmas
Dec 10, 2025
054 The Secret Language of Play: How to Read What Your Child Is Telling You
Dec 03, 2025
053 Water Play + Play Schemas: 10 Ways Kids Learn Through Splashing, Pouring & Play
Nov 26, 2025
052 A Playful Christmas: Understanding Your Child’s Play for Calm, Joyful Holidays
Nov 19, 2025
051 Nourishing Nutrition for Mums: Preconception to Postpartum with Hannah Eriksen
Nov 12, 2025
050 Create a Connected, Calm, and Joy-Filled Christmas with Your Child
Nov 05, 2025
049 Connect Before You Correct: Parenting Neurodiverse Kids with Compassion
Oct 29, 2025
048 Dinovember, Dinosaurs & Play Schemas: Turning Toddler Chaos into Connection
Oct 22, 2025
047 Why Knowing Your “Normal” Could Save Your Life
Oct 15, 2025
046 How Play Builds Language: The Secret Link Every Parent Should Know
Oct 08, 2025
045 Everyday Moments Matter: Turning Daily Routines Into Language-Rich Opportunities
Oct 01, 2025
044 From Mess to Meaning: Baking and Child Development with Play Schemas
Sep 24, 2025
043 Baking with Kids Made Easy: Create Memories, Not Stress
Sep 17, 2025
042 Five things I wish I knew about Birth and Postpartum with Jade from Your Mama Journey
Sep 10, 2025
041 Do Twins Really Need to Share Everything? 5 Insights for Twin Parents
Sep 03, 2025
040 5 Messy Play Tips Every Parent Needs with Sam from Messy Mates
Aug 27, 2025
039 New Baby, New Balance: How to Care for Yourself While Caring for Your Baby
Aug 20, 2025
038 Welcoming a New Baby? Help Your Toddler Adjust with Less Stress & More Connection
Aug 13, 2025
037 Sibling Conflict & Play Schemas: A Guide for Parents of Toddlers
Aug 07, 2025
036 You Can Always Make More Memories, But You Can’t Make More Time
Jul 31, 2025
035 Throwback Episode: The Magic Behind Repetitive Play | Episode 002
Jul 23, 2025
034 Why Is My Toddler Always Throwing Things? Understanding the Trajectory Schema
Jul 17, 2025
033 Getting Outside as a Family with Guest Adiva
Jul 10, 2025
032 Strengthen Your Pelvic Floor Now & Play Freely With Your Kids | Guest Caren
Jul 02, 2025
031 “I Can’t Play With My Kids”: Why It Feels So Hard and What Actually Helps
Jun 25, 2025
030 Play, Not Pressure: How Everyday Play Builds Your Child’s Literacy Foundation with Alex Weehuizen
Jun 18, 2025
029 Why Play Builds Connection With Your Child
Jun 11, 2025
028 Unlock Your Child's Learning Through Play: Join 'The Play Schemas Collective' BETA
Jun 04, 2025
027 Why I Still Say “Be Careful” Even Though I Love Risky Play
May 28, 2025
026 Why Imperfection Matters in Parenting - with Sophie Moskowitz
May 21, 2025
025 Parenting Hacks: Master ‘When’ & ‘Then’ Magic!
May 14, 2025
024 Part 1 - Self Care through the Schemas with Hannah Sadlier
May 07, 2025
024 Part 2 - Self Care through the Schemas with Hannah Sadlier
May 07, 2025
023 Why Your Toddler Isn’t Listening — And What to Do About It with Heather Schalk
Apr 30, 2025
022 Growing Curiosity: How Gardening Supports Play Schemas & Child Development
Apr 23, 2025
021 Easter Play Ideas for Toddlers that Support Play Schemas
Apr 16, 2025
020 Keeping Kids Safe: Practical Tips for Parents with Victoria Barendsen
Apr 09, 2025
019 Understanding Play Schemas & Love Languages in Parenting
Apr 02, 2025
018 Acts of Service = Love in Action!
Mar 26, 2025
017 Loving your child through gifts and play
Mar 19, 2025
016 Make Memories: Play & Quality Time Tips!
Mar 12, 2025
015 Why Your Words Matter: Affirmation in Play
Mar 06, 2025
014 Play Schemas & The Love Language of Physical Touch | Understanding Your Child’s Needs
Feb 26, 2025
013 Play Schemas and Love Languages - a Match Made in Heaven
Feb 19, 2025
012 Engage your little helpers at home through Play!
Feb 12, 2025
011 Playing Together – How Adults Can Join the Fun Without Taking Over
Feb 05, 2025
010 Play Schemas and Siblings – How to Make Schemas Work for (Not Against!) You
Jan 31, 2025
009 The Power of Independent Play – Nurturing Confident and Creative Kids
Jan 22, 2025
008 Kickstart 2025 with Play: Unlock Joyful Parenting Through Play Schemas!
Jan 15, 2025
007 Christmas Play Schemas: Tips & Scenarios
Dec 18, 2024
006 Experience the magic of nature with Play Schemas
Dec 11, 2024
005 The Origins of Play Schemas
Dec 04, 2024
004 Unlocking Your Toddler’s World: A Deep Dive into the 10 Most Common Play Schemas
Nov 28, 2024
003 Reducing Frustration through understanding Play Schemas
Nov 20, 2024
002 Unlocking Play Schemas: Understand & Support Playful Learning
Nov 13, 2024
001 Play Schemas: Demystifying Childs Play
Nov 08, 2024