When Depression is in Your Bed℠

By Trish Sanders, LCSW

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Episodes: 93

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When Depression Is in Your Bed℠ is a podcast about what happens when life gets hard and how we find our way back to connection.


Hosted by Trish Sanders, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Advanced Imago Relationship Therapist and Relationship Coach, each episode explores the complex relationship between our nervous systems, our relationships, and our emotional well-being.


Through a blend of personal stories, professional insights, and practical tools, Trish tackles topics such as depression, communication, perfectionism, neurodivergence, self-trust, conflict, repair, empathy, boundaries, attachment, nervous system regulation, and relational healing.


With honesty, warmth, and a deep belief in people's capacity to grow, Trish helps listeners understand not only why they get stuck, but how meaningful change becomes possible.


Whether you're struggling with depression, feeling disconnected from yourself or your partner, or simply trying to navigate life with more awareness and compassion, this podcast offers a roadmap back to connection, again and again.


Episode Date
#92 Here We Go Again: Looking Closer When It Feels Like Nothing Has Changed
Oct 28, 2026
#91 Conversations That Connect: Creating Emotional & Sexual Intimacy
Oct 21, 2026
#90 The Grief in Growth: When Mourning the Past Comes With Moving Forward
Oct 14, 2026
#89 When You're So Focused on What's Next That You Miss What's Now Actually Living in Your Life
Oct 07, 2026
#88 You Know Better, But Can't Always Do Better: What Makes Change Possible
Sep 30, 2026
#87 Getting Knocked Down and Finding Your Way Back Up: What Nervous System Flexibility Looks Like
Sep 23, 2026
#86 Counting Every Step Along the Way: Receiving Growth Before You've Fully Arrived
Sep 16, 2026
#85 The Real Trajectory of Growth When It Feels Like You're Back Where You Started
Sep 09, 2026
#84 You Don't Have to Take My Word for It: Revising Old Stories and Building Trust
Sep 02, 2026
#83 Capacity Discrepancy: When "I Would" Becomes "You Should"
Aug 26, 2026
#82 When the Backslide Doesn't Scare You Trusting the Way Back
Aug 19, 2026
#81 Expanded Capacity: When Life Doesn't Feel as Hard as It Used To
Aug 12, 2026
#80 When Trying Harder Isn't Working: How Your Best Becomes Better
Aug 05, 2026
#79 When Caring Feels Like Criticism: How Fear Changes the Conversation
Jul 29, 2026
#78 The Road to Growth: How Relationships Change Our Expectations
Jul 22, 2026
#77 Prediction as Protection: When Disappointment Clouds the Bright Spots
Jul 15, 2026
#76 Connecting Through Struggle: Why It Felt Safe and Kept Me Stuck
Jul 09, 2026
#75 Staying the Course: When Disappointment Doesn't Have to Become Dysregulation
Jul 02, 2026
#74 Finding My People: The Connection Paradox and the Search for Belonging
Jun 24, 2026
#73 When Your Person Doesn't Feel Like Your Person: The Longing Beneath the Hurt
Jun 17, 2026
#72 The Brilliance of Blended States: Nervous System Flexibility & Creativity
Jun 10, 2026
#71 Clarity Rooted in the Nervous System: How Safety Helps You See Again
Jun 03, 2026
#70 Regulation Is Not Calm: The Truth About Nervous System Wellness
May 27, 2026
#69 The Space to Come Back: How Relational Safety Changes Family Conflict
May 20, 2026
#68 The Empathy Trap in Relationships: How Understanding Your Partner Can Keep You Both Stuck
May 13, 2026
#67 Showing Up Imperfectly: When Perfectionism Looks Like Overachieving
May 06, 2026
#66 Showing Up Imperfectly: One Way This Perfectionist Is Learning to Trust Herself
Apr 29, 2026
#65 The Empathy Trap: When Feeling Understood Doesn’t Create Change
Apr 22, 2026
#64 The Conscious Crash: How Doing the Work Changes the Struggle
Apr 15, 2026
#63 Relational Safety and Repair: Moving from Dysregulation to Connection
Apr 08, 2026
#62 Repair in Real Life: What We’ve Learned About Creating Relational Safety and Reconnecting
Apr 01, 2026
#61 Repair in Relationships: How to Do It (and Why It Can Feel So Hard)
Mar 25, 2026
#60 Rupture and Repair: Why What Happens After Conflict Matters Most
Mar 18, 2026
#59 “I Didn’t Mean To”: Intention, Impact, and Repair in Relationships
Mar 11, 2026
#58 Communication for Connection Part 3: A Real-Life Imago Dialogue
Mar 04, 2026
#57 Communication for Connection Part 2: How the Imago Intentional Dialogue Changed My Relationship
Feb 25, 2026
#56 Communication for Connection Part 1: The Imago Intentional Dialogue Process
Feb 18, 2026
#55 Know Your Worth, Know Your Impact: How Embracing Your Relational Power Shapes Social Change
Feb 11, 2026
#54 What It Means to Be Relational: Safety, Connection, and the World We Can Create Together
Feb 04, 2026
#53 Introducing My Husband: From Behind the Scenes to Sharing the Mic
Jan 28, 2026
#52 Becoming Someone I Can Trust: ADHD, Depression, and One Year of Nervous System Healing
Jan 21, 2026
#51 When Depression Was the Clue: ADHD Misdiagnosed as Bipolar Disorder
Jan 14, 2026
#50 This New Year, Stop Striving for a New You: Choosing the Pace That Lets the Real You Bloom
Jan 07, 2026
#49 A Conscious Christmas Story: Choosing Connection When the Holidays Got Me Down
Dec 31, 2025
#48 Let It Begin With Me: Embodying Peace Through Nervous System Regulation
Dec 24, 2025
#47 Writing New Stories: How My Brain Healed After Holiday Depression and Beyond
Dec 17, 2025
#46 Grief, Gratitude & ADHD: What’s Been Coming Up for Me This Holiday Season
Dec 10, 2025
#45 Ketamine Isn’t the Fix—It’s the Opening: How Intentional Integration Turned Insight Into Healing
Dec 03, 2025
#44 From Cautiously Curious to Confident: What I Learned Before Starting Ketamine Therapy
Nov 26, 2025
#43 Signals of Safety: Real Stories of Nervous System Self- and Co-Regulation
Nov 19, 2025
#42 My Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP) Journey: From Self-Hatred To Self-Care
Nov 12, 2025
#41 Becoming Who You Already Are: Identity, Growth, and Celebrating Along the Way
Nov 05, 2025
#40 Relearning Safety: Working With Your Nervous System to Create Habits of Rest
Oct 29, 2025
#39 Finding Safety in Stillness: How Trauma Shapes the Nervous System and Rest
Oct 22, 2025
#38 The Art of Slowing Down: Practical Ways to Rest and Renew
Oct 15, 2025
#37 The Ventral Narrator: A Grounding Voice for Nervous System Regulation
Oct 08, 2025
#36 Beyond Sleep: Expanding What Rest Means So We Can Have Daily Practices That Renew
Oct 01, 2025
#35 The Politics of Rest: Power, Privilege, and the Pause
Sep 24, 2025
#34 From Busy Bee to Safely Still: The Importance of Redefining Our Relationship with Rest
Sep 17, 2025
#33 Mosh Pit Magic: The Brilliance of Nervous System Healing
Sep 10, 2025
#32 From Gratitude to Growth: How Appreciation Can Transform Relationship
Sep 03, 2025
#31 From Car Conflict to Regulated Road Trips: A Nervous System Approach to Creating a Smooth Ride
Aug 27, 2025
#30 When Life Keeps "Lifing": Choosing Conscious Connection Over Chaos
Aug 21, 2025
#29 The Flood of Healing: A Conscious Story of Grief's Evolution
Aug 13, 2025
#28 When Past Behavior Doesn't Define Your Future: A Conscious Partnership Story
Aug 06, 2025
#27 Conscious Connected Partners In Real Life: The Mirrors That Shape Us
Jul 30, 2025
#26 Sex as Nervous System Co-Regulation: Depression in the Bedroom
Jul 23, 2025
#25 Staying Out of the Stories: Transform Relationship Conflicts Using this Top Skill
Jul 16, 2025
#24 Beyond Blame: Creating Partnership When You Feel Constantly Disappointed
Jul 09, 2025
#23 Break the Cycle: Uncover Hidden Relationship Dynamics
Jul 02, 2025
#22 Depression in the Bed, Partnership on the Path
Jun 25, 2025
#21 Conscious Partnership: Taking Steps Together Towards the Relationship You Desire and Deserve
Jun 18, 2025
#20 The Partnership Problem: When Your Relationship Feels Like a One-Person Job
Jun 11, 2025
#19 Step Towards Hope and Safety: Creating Your Path Out of Depression
Jun 04, 2025
#18 Step Towards Your Senses, Movement, Rest & Play: Creating Your Path Out of Depression
May 28, 2025
#17 Step Towards Connection and Breath: Creating Your Path Out of Depression
May 21, 2025
#16 Take a Step: How to Work With the Biology of Depression and Disconnection to Create Real Change
May 14, 2025
#15 When Helping Your Partner Hurts You Both: A Nervous System Approach to Support
May 07, 2025
#14 Tuning Into Your Nervous System: Relationship Guidance Through Body Wisdom
Apr 30, 2025
#13 Can You Love Yourself Deeply and Still Stay? The Question That Could Change Everything
Apr 23, 2025
#12 Your Problems Aren't The Problem: Why Understanding Your Relationship's Strengths Are Key to Change
Apr 16, 2025
#11 Familiar Love vs. Conscious Love: How the Unconscious Can Guide Our Relationship Choices
Apr 09, 2025
#10 Navigating the Hard Choice: Clearing the Path to the Next Step in Your Relationship Decision
Apr 02, 2025
#9 Holding Hope: When Your Relationship Feels Broken
Mar 26, 2025
#8 Should I Stay or Should I Go? 7 Questions for Making a Conscious Decision About Break-Up, Separation or Divorce
Mar 19, 2025
#7 (Depressed) Boy Meets (Depressed) Girl
Mar 12, 2025
#6 The Nervous System: The Missing Piece to Creating Greater Connection
Mar 05, 2025
#5 Understanding Depression Through the Nervous System
Feb 26, 2025
#4 Beyond Diagnosis, Understanding Depression
Feb 19, 2025
#3 What to Expect, Part 2
Feb 12, 2025
#2 What to Expect, Part 1
Feb 05, 2025
#1 Struggle is So Last Year
Jan 29, 2025
When Depression is in your bed Trailer
Nov 21, 2024