Rewired Sober: The Next Chapter

By Kate Vitela

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Welcome to Rewired Sober: The Next Chapter—a podcast about what happens after survival. I'm Kate Vitela, a psychiatric nurse with more than twenty-five years of nursing experience, speaker, and lifelong student of human behavior. For years, this podcast focused on alcohol, addiction science, and recovery. Those conversations changed lives—including my own—but something became increasingly clear. The longer I worked with women, the less we talked about alcohol. We talked about burnout. Identity. Midlife. Relationships. Confidence. Beauty. Careers. Boundaries. Self-worth. Style. The invisible expectations placed on women. The stories we inherited. And the courage it takes to become ourselves. That's what this next chapter is about. Here, we'll explore the psychology of identity, the neuroscience of behavior change, fashion and personal style, beauty, aging, feminism, emotional health, self-concept, and what it really means to evolve throughout our lives. You'll hear conversations with psychologists, stylists, artists, authors, neuroscientists, entrepreneurs, nurses, and women who have reinvented themselves more than once. We'll ask better questions than "How do I fix myself?" Instead, we'll ask, "Who am I becoming?" and "What kind of life am I creating?" Sobriety will always be part of my story. Getting sober in 2018 fundamentally changed the trajectory of my life, my nursing career, and my understanding of the human mind. Recovery taught me emotional literacy, humility, curiosity, and resilience. It will always shape the way I see the world, but it is no longer the only lens through which I want to explore it. Because recovery isn't the destination. It's the foundation. Whether you're rebuilding after addiction, navigating midlife, questioning your career, redefining your style, learning to trust yourself again, or simply fascinated by why humans do what we do, you're in the right place. Around here, you'll find conversations about: Psychology and neuroscience Women's mental health and emotional well-being Identity, self-concept, and personal reinvention Fashion, personal style, and beauty as forms of self-expression Midlife, confidence, and aging with intention Feminism, culture, and the pressures women navigate Behavior change, habits, and resilience Creativity, curiosity, and lifelong learning Sobriety and recovery as part of a much bigger story This isn't a podcast about becoming perfect. It's about becoming more fully yourself. So whether you've been here since episode one or you're just finding us now, thank you for being part of this community. The goal was never simply to stop drinking. The goal was always to build a life that feels honest, meaningful, creative, beautiful, and completely your own. Welcome to the next chapter.

Episode Date
EP: 87 Why Rewired Sober Is Evolving & Expanding the Conversation. Womanhood, Style, Identity, Fashion, Midlife, and So Much More.
Aug 18, 2026
EP 86: Can You Heal in The Places That Broke You? Rewriting Our Story. Giving Our Brain New Evidence.
Aug 11, 2026
EP: 85 Alcohol Hijacked My Brain (And How I Got It Back)
Aug 04, 2026
EP: 84 Quit Breaking Promises to Yourself: The Science of Self-Trust
Jul 28, 2026
EP: 83 How to Help Someone You Love Who Drinks Too Much (Without Losing Yourself)
Jul 21, 2026
EP: 82 The Dopamine Myth: Why Anticipation is the Real Party Drug.
Jul 14, 2026
EP: 81: Inside the Making of TOX: A Film About Beauty Obsession & the Cost of Perfection Starring Kerri Lynn Miller
Jul 07, 2026
EP: 80: Self-Objectification, AI, and the Lost Art of Being Human
Jun 30, 2026
EP: 79: Neurodivergent in Recovery: Autism, GLP-1s, and Being Misunderstood in 12-Step Rooms with Rebecca Rush
Jun 23, 2026
EP: 78: Why Smart Women Struggle to Quit Drinking
Jun 16, 2026
EP: 77 It's Unfair I Have to Be Sober #FML.
Jun 09, 2026
EP 76: Shame Down the Drain: NYC, Julia Fox, Fashion & Cool Sober Friends
Jun 02, 2026
EP. 75 Sober Feminist Punks: Creativity & Self-Expression as a Way Home in Recovery With Susi Milne
May 26, 2026
EP 74 Trying to Quit Drinking But Feeling Stuck? - You Might Be Using a Strategy That Shuts Your Brain Down
May 19, 2026
EP 73: The Words You Speak Are Wiring Your Identity- Stop Introducing Yourself By Your Wound
May 12, 2026
EP 72: Its Giving Recovery On The Runway: Sobriety, Fashion, and a Bolder Life (Hint: Announcement Incoming)
May 05, 2026
EP 71: Sacred Rage: The Truth About Anger, Women & Sobriety
Apr 28, 2026
EP: 70: Playing Follow The Leader: Red Flags of Cult Mentality in Sobriety, Friendships & Business
Apr 21, 2026
EP 69: Diving In To The Black Hole Of Pain & Numbness: Nervous System Regulation With Amyee Oen
Apr 14, 2026
EP: 68 Good Girl No More: What I’m Shedding and Why I’m Embracing My Angry Feminist Era
Apr 07, 2026
EP 67: Navigating Early Sobriety: The Brutally Honest Truth (With Alot of F Bombs)
Mar 31, 2026
EP 66: When the Caregiver Breaks: Nurses, Addiction, and the System Meant to Help- With Stephanie Kelley on Nursing, Motherhood, and Resilience.
Mar 24, 2026
EP 65: Women’s Recovery & Workaholism: Healing the Whole Woman with Dawn Nickel from SHE RECOVERS
Mar 17, 2026
EP: 64 The Double Standard: How Women Are Gaslit About Alcohol, Stigma, and Recovery
Mar 10, 2026
EP: 63 Deprogramming AA: From Helpful to Dogmatic — And What Happens When You Question the Cult Mentality.
Mar 03, 2026
EP 62: You Don't Manifest What You Want- You Manifest Who You Are with Simmy the Miracle Maker
Feb 24, 2026
EP 61: Performative Wellness: Burnout, Self-Care, and Coming Back to the Basics with Dr. Jen Costanza
Feb 17, 2026
EP 60: Celebrating 8 Years Sober at New York Fashion Week: Self-Trust, Style, and Finally Being Myself
Feb 10, 2026
EP 59: Reclaiming Soul Work: Healing Religious Wounding Through Feminist Theology
Feb 03, 2026
Bonus Episode: Pro Tip for Early Sobriety During a U.S. Geopolitical Dumpster Fire: This Is Not A Time to Abandon Yourself
Jan 28, 2026
EP 58: Ditching the Dogma: The Recovery Industrial Complex, Harm Reduction, and Reclaiming Agency with Tara Grace
Jan 27, 2026
EP 57: Questioning The Disease Model of Addiction: Is It Denial or Discernment?
Jan 20, 2026
EP 56: From Dry January to Real Change with Casey Mcquire Davidson
Jan 13, 2026
EP 55: The Devil We Know: Why Sobriety Feels Uncomfortable Before It Feels Free
Jan 06, 2026
EP 54: The Beautiful Girl Trap: Pop Culture, Drunkorexia & The Weaponized Shame
Dec 30, 2025
EP 53: Why Overachievers Drink: You’re Not Addicted to Alcohol — You’re Addicted to Avoiding Pain
Dec 23, 2025
EP 52: The Patriarchy, and Women’s Erasure: Why Sobriety Needs Intersectional Feminism
Dec 16, 2025
EP 51: Managing ADHD in Long-Term Sobriety: One Woman’s Story with Amy Liz Harrison
Dec 09, 2025
EP 50: ADHD, Midlife, and the Female Brain: Why We Overthink, Why We Drink, and Why We’re Finally Waking Up
Dec 02, 2025
EP 49: Codependency & Alcohol: Understanding the Fear, Control, and Recovery Cycle with Dr. Sarah Michaud
Nov 25, 2025
EP 48: A Teacher's Lesson Plan: Boundaries First, Burnout Last with Jennifer Mathieu
Nov 18, 2025
EP 47: PTSD, Moral Injury, Cognitive Dissonance & Drinking with Phillip Vitela
Nov 11, 2025
EP 46. The Truth About Boredom in Sobriety: It’s Not What You Think
Nov 04, 2025
EP 45: Why I Don't Call Myself An Alcoholic Anymore
Oct 28, 2025
EP 44. Being a "Functional" Drinker & Hiding Behind it with Rachel Mack Martin
Oct 21, 2025
EP43. Family Dynamics & The Domino Effect of Sobriety
Oct 14, 2025
Ep 42. Sobriety, Divorce, and Self-Love with Kathryn Sabella
Oct 07, 2025
EP 41. Stop Asking for Permission & Start Shifting: Suzanne Warye from "The Sober Mom Life"
Sep 30, 2025
EP 40. Trying Sobriety On for Size: From Sober Curious to Sober—and Rediscovering NYC with Melissa McGovern
Sep 23, 2025
EP 39. Making sobriety "The New Cool" - When One Mom called her Own Bluff with Kim Bellas
Sep 16, 2025
EP 38. Book Club Gold with a Gulp of Truth: Jessica Guerrieri on Writing What We’re All Too Afraid to Say
Sep 09, 2025
EP 37: How We Rewire Sober: The Mindset + The Mechanics of Kate's 8 (Part 2)
Sep 02, 2025
EP 36: How We Rewire Sober: The Mindset + The Mechanics of Kate's 8 (Part 1)
Aug 26, 2025
EP 35. Michelle Folan - Menopause, Mindless drinking, and Taking your Power Back in Midlife
Aug 19, 2025
EP 34. Procrastination in Recovery: Why We Stall and How To Start Moving
Aug 12, 2025
EP 33: The Rewrite: Andrea Kaplan’s Sobriety Story (with a Little Help from Kate)
Aug 05, 2025
EP 32: Why You Crave Booze, Then Hate It: The Opponent Process Theory Explained
Jul 29, 2025
EP 31: How Storytelling Rewires Our Brain Through Recovery
Jul 22, 2025
EP 30: Recovery Begins With Connection - with Leah Fulton-Eng
Jul 15, 2025
EP 29: Unsexy in the City Until The Sober You Meets Patricia Field
Jul 08, 2025
EP 28: From Numbing to Knowing - Tammy Pozerycki Shares Her Sobriety Story
Jul 01, 2025
EP 27. Welcome to REWIRED SOBER
Jun 24, 2025
EP 26. Sobriety, Simplicity & Letting Sh*t Go with Beate Pilgreen
Jun 17, 2025
EP 25. Style Is Not a Makeover—It’s a Mirror with Solita C. Roberts
Jun 10, 2025
EP 24. "Finding My Voice" with Celeste Yvonne
Jun 03, 2025
EP 23. NLP & The Power of Reframing with Marsha Vanwynsberghe
May 27, 2025
EP 22. What Do Sober Couples Do For Fun?
May 20, 2025
Ep 21. Introducing The Gut Check: A Private Course for Self-Inquiry
May 13, 2025
EP 20. How to Love Yourself No Matter F*cking What with Artist Catherine Just
May 06, 2025
EP 19. Get Sober, Get a Life, Get Dressed
Apr 29, 2025
EP 18. Kate's Husband Phillip is Back - Sharing His Sobriety Story
Apr 22, 2025
Ep 17. Staying Sober When Your Partner Still Drinks
Apr 15, 2025
EP 16: My Journey Through Disordered Eating
Apr 08, 2025
EP 15. Loving an Addict: A Husband's Perspective
Apr 01, 2025
EP 14. Rewired for Recovery: Dr. Robb Kelly on Beating Addiction for Good
Mar 25, 2025
EP 13. Sober in the City: Celebrating 7 Years in NYC
Mar 18, 2025
EP 12. Gratitude: A Love-Hate Relationship and Reframing It as Rebellion
Mar 11, 2025
Bonus Episode: What it Takes to Be A Sober Gangster with Kate Vitela on the Own Your Choices Own Your Life Podcast
Mar 07, 2025
EP 11. This One’s for Jenny: A Deeper Dive into Sisterhood and Jenny’s Story
Mar 04, 2025
EP 10. Sisterhood Rising with Sarah Morgando, RN
Feb 25, 2025
EP 9. The Sober Curator: Fashion, Sobriety, and Adventures with Alysse Bryson
Feb 18, 2025
Ep 8. Addiction Expert Veronica Valli: Navigating the Sober Social Media Landscape
Feb 11, 2025
Ep 7. Post-Acute Withdrawal: The Hidden Challenge of Sobriety
Feb 04, 2025
EP 6. Kate’s Faucets of Freedom: WHAC Your Way to Recovery
Jan 28, 2025
EP 5. Kate Unpacks the Road to Recovery Meetings, Surrender and Finding a Path of Her Own
Jan 21, 2025
EP 4. Kate sits down with Jessica Landon to Discuss Eleven Years of Sobriety
Jan 14, 2025
EP 1. Kate’s Story Part 1 "Body Image, Booze, and the ‘Pick Me’ Trap"
Jan 07, 2025
EP 2. Kate’s Story Part 2 "Rock Bottom, Redemption, and Getting “Selected"
Jan 07, 2025
EP 3. Resilience: Embracing the Suck
Jan 07, 2025
Rewired Sober: The Next Chapter: Conversations on Style, Identity, Midlife & The Art of Evolving
Jan 06, 2025