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You're a successful woman who's got a lot of things going right in your life (dream job, cozy home, amazing friends)...but relationships are a different story. On Becoming Secure, we talk all things dating, healing anxious, avoidant, & disorganized attachment styles, and healthy relationships - so you can feel as amazing in relationships as you do in every other area of your life 💕
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Why therapy hasn't healed your anxious attachment
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Jun 21, 2026 |
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Are you actually a fearful avoidant and not anxiously attached?
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May 25, 2026 |
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The guys I'm into aren't into me, and I'm not attracted to the guys who ARE into me
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May 12, 2026 |
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Do men actually want commitment?
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May 02, 2026 |
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How to Get Over Your Situationship - for good!
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Apr 25, 2026 |
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[Situationships] My 5 dating non-negotiables to avoid situationships
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Apr 17, 2026 |
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[Situationships] I told him I wanted a relationship, so why did nothing change?
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Apr 07, 2026 |
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[Situationships] Why are situationships such a mindf*ck?!
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Apr 07, 2026 |
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The #1 thing keeping you from healthy love
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Mar 19, 2026 |
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Should you date a guy who’s not *technically* divorced yet?
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Mar 07, 2026 |
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Are you asking for too much? Or settling for too little?
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Jan 24, 2026 |
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Dating Mistakes Anxious Attachers Make w/ Guest Valerie Rubin
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Dec 19, 2025 |
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Sh*t Women Say to Justify Red Flags
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Dec 08, 2025 |
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Frustrated that he wasted your time?
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Dec 07, 2025 |
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Subtle Ways You Self Abandon in Dating
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Dec 06, 2025 |
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How to Stop Attaching So Quickly
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Nov 22, 2025 |
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Your anxiety isn't the problem! (How to Love Your Anxiety)
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Nov 14, 2025 |
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How to tell if it's your anxiety or your intuition
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Nov 03, 2025 |
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How to stop feeling insecure around guys you like
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Oct 18, 2025 |
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What to do when he moves on quickly
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Sep 24, 2025 |
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Why your friendships are unreciprocated
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Sep 02, 2025 |
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How to ask "what are you looking for" without sounding too intense
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Sep 02, 2025 |
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Why wouldn't he fight for the relationship? (dismissive avoidants)
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Aug 25, 2025 |
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Rachel's Story [1-1 Client Interview]
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Aug 17, 2025 |
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How to Let Go of Someone Who's Almost the One
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Aug 04, 2025 |
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Why You Miss Lovebombing
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Jul 06, 2025 |
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Are You Vetting Wrong? 4 Mistakes That Keep You Attracting Unavailable Men
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Jun 18, 2025 |
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Why Finding Emotionally Available Men Is NOT a Numbers Game
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Jun 16, 2025 |
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Why You're Self Aware But Still Attract Emotionally Unavailable Men
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Jun 04, 2025 |
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Where Are All the Good Men?
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May 24, 2025 |
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How to Trust Again After Being Blindsided
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May 15, 2025 |
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Don't Make This Mistake When Moving Towards Secure
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May 11, 2025 |
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Chelsea's Art of Secure Dating Success Story!
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May 08, 2025 |
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My Story from Fearful Avoidant to Secure
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Apr 20, 2025 |
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How to Stop Ignoring Red Flags
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Mar 06, 2025 |
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How to Avoid Situationships
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Mar 05, 2025 |
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How to stop attracting guys who pull away suddenly
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Feb 26, 2025 |
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What does healthy love really look like? (Interview with my client, Janet)
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Feb 19, 2025 |
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Why your connection with him feels so "special"
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Jan 31, 2025 |
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Why you're not attracted to healthy men (and how to change that)
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Jan 22, 2025 |
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Don't Miss This Sneaky Red Flag
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Jan 14, 2025 |
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Relationship Anxiety: When is it time to end the relationship? (Client story)
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Dec 28, 2024 |
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Relationship Anxiety: What to do when you get the ick
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Dec 17, 2024 |
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Relationship Anxiety: Will healthy guys always feel boring?
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Dec 11, 2024 |
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Relationship Anxiety: Why am I now avoidant in a healthy relationship?
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Dec 10, 2024 |