The Paradigm Shifts Podcast Network
By Kaila New York
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Welcome to The Paradigm Shifts Podcast Network—Where Transformation Begins!
Hi, I’m Kaila New York, and this is your space for unlocking new perspectives, embracing self-discovery, and navigating life with clarity and confidence. Through my network of podcasts, I provide insight, guidance, and real conversations on relationships, self-love, parenting, communication, and understanding the universe we live in.
I apply powerful paradigm-shifting techniques that I’ve learned and developed—methods that have
Thank you for being here, for tuning in, and for allowing me to be part of your journey
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Know When a Relationship Is No Longer Worth the Price
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Oct 12, 2026 |
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The Parent Who Stayed Isn't Always Your Safe Space
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Oct 12, 2026 |
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When Other People's Words Become Your Doubt
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Oct 11, 2026 |
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Power Is Never Given. It's Taken.
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Oct 10, 2026 |
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Stop Telling Everybody Your Business: Build First, Talk Later
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Oct 09, 2026 |
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WHEN HELP TURNS INTO ENTITLEMENT
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Oct 07, 2026 |
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I wasn’t planning to post this reading, but it was too good not to share.
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Oct 06, 2026 |
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I’m learning how to let the people I love be not okay.
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Oct 04, 2026 |
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What happens when you grow up believing that your ability to be okay depends on whether everyone around you is okay?
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Oct 04, 2026 |
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Their Lack of Effort Was Never a Sign to Give More
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Oct 01, 2026 |
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I Don’t Want a Receiving Era. I Want Reciprocity.
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Oct 01, 2026 |
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Reprogramming Family: Choosing Who Gets to Stay
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Oct 01, 2026 |
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I’m Here Too: Love, Reciprocity, and Finding the Right Person
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Sep 30, 2026 |
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How to Lose a Scorpio’s Trust Without Ever Lying to Them
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Sep 29, 2026 |
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Divine Timing Sucks: When the Work Is Done but the Waiting Isn’t
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Sep 27, 2026 |
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How to Put Yourself First Without Neglecting Everyone Else
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Sep 27, 2026 |
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When It Stops Being a Coincidence
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Sep 25, 2026 |
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How to Address a Pattern Without Attacking Someone’s Character
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Sep 24, 2026 |
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Be Careful Who Counsels You: Victim Mindset vs. Victor Mindset
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Sep 23, 2026 |
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Stop Talking About Black Women’s Hair
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Sep 21, 2026 |
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Stop Giving Trust on Credit
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Sep 19, 2026 |
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When Someone Has Never Experienced Real, They May Question You Until Time Proves You Are
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Sep 18, 2026 |
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The Version of You Who Got Hurt Is Still Talking. Do You Know When It’s Them?
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Sep 17, 2026 |
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WHY Are You So Drained After Working With People?
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Sep 17, 2026 |
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HOW I Learned Energy Clearing Works for Me
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Sep 16, 2026 |
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Have You Ever Felt an Old Injury Flare Up Around Certain Energy?
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Sep 16, 2026 |
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Talking to Me or Talking at Me? Knowing When to Stay Out of the Conversation
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Sep 15, 2026 |
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Everybody Has a Mission. Get Yours.
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Sep 14, 2026 |
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The Levels of Scorpio: Scorpion, Eagle, Phoenix and Dove
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Sep 13, 2026 |
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You’re in the Relationship Too
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Sep 10, 2026 |
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5 Things I Wish Someone Had Told Me About People
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Sep 09, 2026 |
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What Happens When You’ve Changed, but Your New Life Hasn’t Arrived Yet?
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Sep 07, 2026 |
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Letting Go Means You Stop Trying to Fix What’s Already Leaving
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Sep 06, 2026 |
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Listen to the Transmission, Not the Messenger
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Sep 06, 2026 |
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What If It Doesn’t Work Out? Keep Going Anyway.
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Sep 05, 2026 |
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I Lost My Shit Today
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Sep 03, 2026 |
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My Body Literally Went on Strike
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Sep 03, 2026 |
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You Don’t Have to Be Perfect
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Sep 01, 2026 |
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When the Mask Slips, Believe What You’re Seeing
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Aug 30, 2026 |
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Maybe You Were Never “Too Sensitive.” Maybe You Were Team Mission Critical.
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Aug 29, 2026 |
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How to Stop Setting Unrealistic Expectations for Yourself
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Aug 29, 2026 |
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Dear Men: Understanding Women and Building Better Relationships
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Aug 25, 2026 |
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You Can Be Right and Still Handle It Wrong
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Aug 25, 2026 |
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The Radar: Trusting Your Intuition Without Fighting Every Battle
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Aug 23, 2026 |
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Do the Damn Thing
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Aug 23, 2026 |
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Find the Age That Haunts You
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Aug 23, 2026 |
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The Relationship Pattern I Couldn’t See Until I Saw Myself
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Aug 23, 2026 |
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MORE UNWRITTEN NYC RULES YOU NEED TO KNOW 😭😂
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Aug 22, 2026 |
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THE UNWRITTEN RULES OF NEW YORK CITY 😭😂
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Aug 22, 2026 |
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I Was Wrong About My Son: Bad Days, High Standards, and Seeing the Full Picture
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Aug 21, 2026 |
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Building the Right Care Team Around Your Child
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Aug 18, 2026 |
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Being Pretty Does Not Mean I’m Soft
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Aug 18, 2026 |
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Nobody Prepares You for Parenting Adult Children
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Aug 17, 2026 |
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If You Don’t Want Advice, Stop Telling People Your Business
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Aug 16, 2026 |
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Nobody Tells You What Happens After You Lose the Weight
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Aug 14, 2026 |
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Knowing When to Walk Away From an Argument
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Aug 14, 2026 |
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Why Some Compliments Just Don’t Land the Same
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Aug 13, 2026 |
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“If They Don’t Live the Role, They Lose the Title”
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Aug 11, 2026 |
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Legacy Building Is a Long and Lonely Season
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Aug 09, 2026 |
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Navigating Services for Your Child: What Parents Need to Know
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Aug 08, 2026 |
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The Agency Works for You
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Aug 08, 2026 |
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The Energy in This House: Sun Sign Edition
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Aug 08, 2026 |
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The Energy in This House: Rising Sign Edition
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Aug 08, 2026 |
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The Golden Ticket
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Aug 07, 2026 |
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Couples, Help Me Test the “What Do You Need From Me?” Theory
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Aug 06, 2026 |
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Watch What You Say About Protected People
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Aug 05, 2026 |
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The Loneliness of Becoming Who You’re Meant to Be
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Aug 03, 2026 |
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If You Treat Them Like a Baby, They’ll Act Like a Child
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Aug 02, 2026 |
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You Can’t Be Lucky if You’re Always Growling
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Aug 01, 2026 |
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There Is a Way to Everything You Want
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Aug 01, 2026 |
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Build the Bridge, Don’t Merge the Empires
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Jul 31, 2026 |
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Parent on Their Purpose
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Jul 30, 2026 |
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The Art of Allowing
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Jul 29, 2026 |
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If you act like the dude, they will treat you like one
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Jul 28, 2026 |
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When You Push Away the Person Who Brings You Light
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Jul 26, 2026 |
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Allow Him to Serve and Show Appreciation
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Jul 25, 2026 |
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Give Men Their Flowers: What Makes a Man Attractive
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Jul 25, 2026 |
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HAPPY PARENT APPRECIATION DAY!
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Jul 25, 2026 |
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People Pleasing vs. Pleasing People
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Jul 25, 2026 |
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You Can’t Trap a Scorpio
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Jul 24, 2026 |
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Trust Has to Be Earned
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Jul 23, 2026 |
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When Helping Becomes Interfering
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Jul 23, 2026 |
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Boundaries Teach People How to Treat You
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Jul 22, 2026 |
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How to Answer Confidentiality Questions in an Interview
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Jul 21, 2026 |
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The Questions That Win Interviews
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Jul 21, 2026 |
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Interview Like a Pro: Don’t Ramble, Don’t Hold Back
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Jul 21, 2026 |
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When You Feel What They’re Feeling
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Jul 19, 2026 |
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Did You Get the Message?
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Jul 19, 2026 |
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Not Every Download Is Meant to Be Shared
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Jul 19, 2026 |
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Stop Giving Access to People Who Aren’t Happy to See You
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Jul 19, 2026 |
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One Face, Different Access
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Jul 19, 2026 |
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I Finally Said It Out Loud: I Was Abused
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Jul 16, 2026 |
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It’s Okay to Cry Before You Kick Its Ass
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Jul 16, 2026 |
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Stop Communicating Backwards: Lead With What You Need
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Jul 16, 2026 |
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Why You Keep Expecting Everything to Fall Apart
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Jul 14, 2026 |
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Stop Rushing Your Decisions; You Need Pivot Time
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Jul 14, 2026 |
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Control What You Can and Let the Rest Go
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Jul 12, 2026 |
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Know When You’re Being Played, Baited, or Managed
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Jul 12, 2026 |
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If They Broke It, They Should Fix It
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Jul 12, 2026 |
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Who Are You Really in a Chess Game With?
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Jul 11, 2026 |
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Who Are You Really Playing Chess With?
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Jul 11, 2026 |
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Why You're Still Stuck, The Healing Hasn't Reached the Right Version of You
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Jul 11, 2026 |
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Becoming The Assistant: Skills That Make You Stand Out
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Jul 10, 2026 |
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Stop Taking On People’s Projections
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Jul 09, 2026 |
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Muscle Testing for Empaths: Is This Feeling Even Yours?
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Jul 07, 2026 |
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How to Muscle Test: A Beginner’s Guide to Talking to Your Body
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Jul 07, 2026 |
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Help others but focus on yourself
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Jul 06, 2026 |
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Give People What They Actually Need
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Jul 05, 2026 |
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Faith can cover you, but healing makes you free.
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Jul 05, 2026 |
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Did you get what you asked for, or are you too focused on what is still missing?
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Jul 02, 2026 |
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Parenting: Letting Go to Empower
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Jun 30, 2026 |
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Stop Taking Everything Personally: How to Recognize Constructive Criticism and Grow
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Jun 28, 2026 |
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Everything Doesn't Need a Response
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Jun 27, 2026 |
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The Most Powerful Woman I’ve Ever Watched Handle Conflict
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Jun 27, 2026 |
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FEAR CAN SIT... JUST DON'T LET IT DRIVE.
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Jun 26, 2026 |
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Everyone wants to find their person... but what happens after you do?
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Jun 25, 2026 |
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Executive Assistants: STOP Copying & Pasting ChatGPT Emails 😭
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Jun 25, 2026 |
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Stop Being Nice. Start Being Good.
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Jun 25, 2026 |
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When Your Spirit Team Says No (Even When You Really Wanted It)
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Jun 23, 2026 |
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The “Let Me Shut Up” Experiment: Are You Loved or Just Useful?
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Jun 23, 2026 |
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Men Don’t Hear Worry the Way Women Do
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Jun 19, 2026 |
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Understanding the Power of Surrender vs. Conceding: A Guide to Personal Growth
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Jun 18, 2026 |
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You Can’t Reject Control and Miss the Hint Too
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Jun 18, 2026 |
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Being an Executive Assistant is not just about calendars
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Jun 16, 2026 |
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Why I Left: They Didn’t Want to Grow
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Jun 11, 2026 |
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When an Argument Feels Like Abandonment
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Jun 11, 2026 |
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Navigating Unresolved Conflict
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Jun 11, 2026 |
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I Thought I Was Healed… Then I Got Triggered
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Jun 11, 2026 |
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Argue With a Purpose
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Jun 09, 2026 |
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Argue With a Purpose: How to Disagree Without Losing Yourself
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Jun 09, 2026 |
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This episode is for the people who see it before everyone else sees it.
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Jun 09, 2026 |
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Why are you still relying on somebody you already know is unreliable?
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Jun 09, 2026 |
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When Love Turns Into Enabling
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Jun 09, 2026 |
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When You’re Full, It’s Time to Pour Out
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Jun 08, 2026 |
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Spirit Speaks: Opposition Doesn’t Mean Stop
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Jun 05, 2026 |
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How I Learned to Weaponize My Fear
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Jun 05, 2026 |
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I’m Their Friend, Not Their Little Friend
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Jun 04, 2026 |
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Stop Being Late and Calling It a Personality Trait
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Jun 04, 2026 |
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Do You Like Who You Are When No One’s Watching?
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Jun 02, 2026 |
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Stop Looking Back: You’re Slowing Down What’s Coming
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Jun 02, 2026 |
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Stop Arguing With People Who Aren’t Listening
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Jun 01, 2026 |
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I’m Not the Standard — I Am My Own Standard
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May 31, 2026 |
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Women Need Helpmates Too
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May 28, 2026 |
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Receiving Is the Hard Part
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May 26, 2026 |
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Stop Outsourcing Your Healing
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May 25, 2026 |
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Bungee Aerobics at OM Factory NYC: Cute Online, Unsafe in Real Life?
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May 23, 2026 |
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Stop outsourcing
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May 19, 2026 |
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Owning your mistakes
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Feb 18, 2026 |
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Embracing Fear: The Key to Unlocking Your True Potential
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Feb 18, 2026 |
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How to come into union with yourself
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Feb 17, 2026 |
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Regulating your nervous system
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Feb 15, 2026 |
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Return to Me
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Feb 13, 2026 |
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Fix your crown!
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Nov 14, 2025 |
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How Healed People Make Decisions
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Nov 14, 2025 |
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Integrating your shadow
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Oct 16, 2025 |
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We are on Success Road - Trust Yourself
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Oct 16, 2025 |
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Love Languages
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Oct 13, 2025 |
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You Are the Bag — What Are You Carrying? 🧠✨ Stop Letting Heavy Energy Slow You Down
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Oct 13, 2025 |
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Unleash Your Inner Warrior: Battle Strategies with Kaila New York
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Sep 01, 2025 |
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Don't apologize for being you, Apologize for this instead.
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Aug 25, 2025 |
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I know it’s a lesson, but my body still wants to swing.
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Jul 03, 2025 |
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You Are In Charge of the Schedule. Period.
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Jul 03, 2025 |
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You Don’t Have Bosses, You Have Clients | The EA Coach with Kaila New York
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Jul 03, 2025 |
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It Wasn’t Them, It Was the Pattern
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Jun 30, 2025 |
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Me vs. Me: The War Room Within
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Jun 29, 2025 |
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When Life Shakes, Stand Taller: All Things Work for Your Good
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Jun 28, 2025 |
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Men, You Were Never Meant to Do This Alone | We Are Built to Help You Build
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Jun 24, 2025 |
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When They Show You Who They Want to Be — Believe Them | Communication & Compromise
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Jun 22, 2025 |
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How to Stay Healed After an Energy Clearing
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Jun 22, 2025 |
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Keep Walking. Keep Believing. Keep Becoming.
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Jun 12, 2025 |
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Understanding a Scorpio's Silence
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Jun 11, 2025 |
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You Heal, Not Carry: Give People Back Their Energy
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Jun 10, 2025 |
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Stop being so hard on yourself.
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Jun 04, 2025 |
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🎙️When a Scorpio goes quiet... it’s not what you think 👀🦂
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Jun 04, 2025 |
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Communication & Compromise: Be Good to the People Who Love You
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Apr 03, 2025 |
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Unlocking Love: How to Speak Their Language & Deepen Your Bond
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Apr 03, 2025 |
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Mercury Retrograde Leaves Aries & Dives Into Pisces – What It Means for You
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Mar 30, 2025 |
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All You Can Eat Sushi with Any & Matty: Fitness Meets Foodie Vibes 🍣💪🏾
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Mar 20, 2025 |
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Final Episode: The Poconos Collection – A Trip to Remember
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Mar 19, 2025 |
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Episode 6: The Last Day & Family Trip Review
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Mar 19, 2025 |
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Episode 5: Last Night by the Fire – S’mores, Stories & Good Vibes
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Mar 19, 2025 |
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Episode 4: My Solo Hike & Meeting Henry the Stick
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Mar 19, 2025 |
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Episode 3: Snow Tubing at Camelback – Speed, Thrills & Chills!
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Mar 19, 2025 |
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Episode 1: Escape to the Poconos – A Magical Reset
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Mar 19, 2025 |
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Aerial Loft Adventures with Silks and Pole Dancing Fun!
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Mar 17, 2025 |
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Enjoying the Journey: Embracing Life’s Flow
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Mar 17, 2025 |
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Story of Me: Finding Safety in My Own Happiness
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Mar 17, 2025 |
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The Art of Listening: Why Every Response Isn’t Necessary
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Mar 16, 2025 |
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Zodiac Signs & Life Lessons: The People Around You Are Your Teachers
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Mar 16, 2025 |
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Strategic Survival: Navigating Narcissists & Building Your Empire
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Mar 16, 2025 |
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Love, Fitness & Partnership: Any & Matty’s Journey
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Mar 15, 2025 |
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The Spirit Speaks: Spirit’s Challenge: Who Wounded You?
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Mar 15, 2025 |
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The Astrology Life: Double Retrograde Chaos: Mercury’s Wild Ride from Aries to Pisces
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Mar 11, 2025 |
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The Perks of Knowing Me: A Casual Hangout
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Mar 07, 2025 |
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Dear Men - Step your game up gentlemen. - Recorded 4/8/2023
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Feb 13, 2025 |
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How to serve others by serving Yourself First.
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Feb 13, 2025 |
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Control Your Spiritual Faucet
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Feb 13, 2025 |
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Story of Me: Being Single Is Different- Recorded 4/24/23
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Feb 13, 2025 |
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Is fear and excitement the same feeling
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Feb 13, 2025 |
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Spirit Speaks - Channeled Episode
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Feb 13, 2025 |
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Don't Waste Your Sadness
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Feb 13, 2025 |
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Who says you can't be sad??
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Feb 13, 2025 |
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The Spirit Speaks: Reverse Healing: Letting Your Inner Child Heal the Adult You
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Feb 13, 2025 |
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Story of Me: Why Am I Still Single? Unpacking the Mystery 😆 Recorded 12/10/24
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Feb 13, 2025 |
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Trusting the Clock: Divine Timing and the Struggle with Doubt
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Feb 13, 2025 |
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(Recorded 4/10/23) Healing the Void: My Journey with the Abandonment Wound
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Feb 13, 2025 |
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Owning Your Voice: Saying What You Need Isn’t Complaining.
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Feb 13, 2025 |
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The Parenting Life: Be your kids' friend 🧡
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Feb 13, 2025 |
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The Parenting Life: A Mother's Sacrifice
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Feb 13, 2025 |
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You're Nobody's Victim
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Feb 13, 2025 |
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Empire Level- Clearing the Residue
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Feb 13, 2025 |
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Today's Reading (Timeless) - Gateway of Light Activation Oracle
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Feb 13, 2025 |
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Why People Love-Bomb Others
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Feb 13, 2025 |
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Channeled Message: Why you keep dreaming about your ex or old house.
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Feb 12, 2025 |
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Story of Me: Why I Became A Therapist
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Feb 12, 2025 |
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Focus on your star player (YOU!)
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Feb 12, 2025 |
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Be your own inner compass
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Feb 12, 2025 |
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Write your own story
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Feb 12, 2025 |
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Stop witholding from your partner
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Feb 12, 2025 |
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The Story Of Me: Love vs. Obligation
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Feb 12, 2025 |
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The misuse of the word mirroring: You are using the wrong word.
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Feb 12, 2025 |
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Story of Me: Being Chosen isn't what you think it is.
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Feb 12, 2025 |
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Story of Me: (Recorded May 2020) The Day I Realized I Had To Let Go
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Feb 12, 2025 |
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Mercury Retrograde Explained: Recorded June 15, 2020
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Feb 12, 2025 |
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Divorce Chronicles: Letting go of what was and embracing the new.
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Feb 12, 2025 |
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Audit your circle
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Feb 12, 2025 |
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Dear Men: Fighting with women usually doesn't end well for anyone.
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Feb 12, 2025 |
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Dear Men: I'm here to help you understand her needs and desires.
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Feb 12, 2025 |
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The Story of Me: (Recorded May 2020) My 3 Month Pandemic Rant
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Feb 12, 2025 |
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The Story Of Me: My life as a child.
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Feb 12, 2025 |
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Empire Level: Get out the elevator 🛗
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Feb 12, 2025 |
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Loving people as individuals
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Feb 12, 2025 |
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Part 1 The Abandonment Wound (Recorded 4.12.2023
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Feb 12, 2025 |
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Part 2 The Abandonment Wound (Recorded 4.12.2023
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Feb 12, 2025 |
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This is how I do it: Using Movies as Spiritual Guidance 🎬✨
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Feb 12, 2025 |
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This is how I do it: Unlocking Energy – Using Any Chain as a Pendulum
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Feb 12, 2025 |
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Communication & Compromise – Choosing Understanding Over Anger
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Feb 12, 2025 |
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Divorce Chronicles: Everyone Serves Their Purpose (Recorded 2/2/2023)
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Jan 20, 2025 |
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Welcome to the Paradigm Shifts
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Mar 08, 2023 |