giving (un)bothered

By Alana Banks and Jelka Lepever

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Two (un)bothered best friends navigating LGBTQ+ dating, friendships, and adulting in your 20s. Tune in for candid, unfiltered conversations on dating disasters, relationship advice, the ups and downs of friendships, and the rollercoaster of adulting. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or figuring it all out, join us each week for hilarious stories, relatable struggles, and the chaos of life in your 20s. Get ready for the real, messy, and entertaining moments that make adulting way more fun.

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Episode Date
sapphic toxic traits, dating icks & one-night stands
May 13, 2026
lesbian history, queer media & coming out with Roxy Bourdillon
Apr 29, 2026
having a straight girl kink (with 2D2M) - part 2
Apr 15, 2026
s*x tapes, finding your identity & IKAG cancelled (with 2D2M) - part 1
Apr 01, 2026
sapphic signs you like her more than a friend
Mar 18, 2026
Just a "Phase" : heated rivalry, s*x bucket list, wlw dirty talk
Mar 04, 2026
sapphic dating wrapped & etsy witch soulmate reading
Dec 24, 2025
the L word debrief : loving Bette Porter is a red flag
Dec 10, 2025
surviving long distance relationships : facetime dates, communication & staying independent
Nov 26, 2025
lesbian s*x for dummies: labels in the bedroom (with Katie from Labeless)
Nov 12, 2025
truth or drink: sapphic age gaps & getting caught having s*x
Oct 29, 2025
gold star lesbians, baby gays & heartbreak advice
Oct 15, 2025
lesbian hot takes : why do lesbians sleep with their friends?
Oct 01, 2025
sapphic red flags : how to get over your first crush
Jul 30, 2025
let’s get naked: sexting, strapping & bedroom icks
Jul 23, 2025
navigating long distance relationships (with Kelsey & Becky)
Jul 16, 2025
we got ghosted by the same girl?! WLW dating horror stories (with Amy Pozzilli)
Jul 09, 2025
building a happy queer marriage (with Megan Elliott-Hewson)
Jul 02, 2025
Hinge's love expert Moe Ari Brown on queer dating trends, label fatigue & identity pressure
Jun 25, 2025
truth or drink: rebounds, exes & kinks
Jun 18, 2025
anxious vs avoidant attachment: how to become secure
Jun 11, 2025
WLW intimacy Q&A: debunking myths & inclusive sex ed
Jun 04, 2025
I’m best friends with my ex-girlfriend (with Abisha)
May 28, 2025
sapphic dating mistakes
May 21, 2025
how to tell if you’re into women (Q&A)
May 14, 2025
sapphic breakups : how to heal from a heartbreak
May 07, 2025
kicked out of Uber for being gay (with Aaron & Ryan)
Apr 30, 2025
how to date women : sapphic edition
Apr 23, 2025
being queer is woke? (with Aaron & Ryan)
Apr 16, 2025
let’s get naked :
U-Hauling, role-play & cheating
Apr 09, 2025
Queer Friendships, Internalised Homophobia & Fighting for Women’s Rights (with Zan Moon)
Apr 02, 2025
escaping the male gaze : after coming out
Mar 26, 2025
lesbian stereotypes : signs she’s into women
Mar 19, 2025
sapphic sex : strap-ons & scissoring
Mar 12, 2025
navigating your 20s: people pleasing and post break-up glow ups
Mar 05, 2025
LGBT+ Mental Health : OCD, Anxiety & Depression
Feb 26, 2025
I’m not cheating, I’m networking (with Chloe Barker)
Feb 19, 2025
let's get naked: foot fetishes, virginity stories & sex life struggles
Feb 12, 2025
sapphic signals: is she friendly or flirting?
Feb 05, 2025
Hinge icks: threesomes, thirst traps & short-term relationships
Jan 29, 2025
why is trump obsessed with what's in our pants?
Jan 22, 2025
let’s get naked : sex parties, orgasms & open relationships
Jan 15, 2025
did I ruin the relationship?
Jan 08, 2025
2024 was a hot mess, but we’re still trying
Jan 01, 2025
2024 dating unwrapped : who said dating women is easier?
Dec 26, 2024
let's get naked
Dec 18, 2024
attachment styles and texting: how they impact your romantic connections
Dec 11, 2024
Nail gun to my head & sleeping with the boss
Dec 04, 2024
Weird icks & turn ons
Nov 27, 2024
Commitment in the age of casual swipes
Nov 21, 2024
Part 2: Our sexuality stories
Nov 14, 2024
Part 1: Our sexuality stories
Nov 08, 2024
Bewitched or bothered?
Oct 30, 2024
Dating disasters and everything in-between
Oct 22, 2024
Likes and lies; social media's toxicity
Oct 15, 2024
Dating; red flags and green flags
Oct 08, 2024
Our last 3 brain cells
Oct 01, 2024
Who said 3's a crowd?
Sep 24, 2024
teaser: giving (un)bothered
Sep 19, 2024