Dateable()AF
By Rachel Howell & Dr. Sarah Kyle
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Nov 17, 2025
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The Dateable AF podcast is hosted by Dr. Sarah Kyle and Rachel Howell.
Please check out our website https://www.dateableaf.com/
Dateable AF is a relationship podcast that goes deeper than dating advice. Hosted by a therapist and a researcher, the show breaks down the emotional patterns behind connection, conflict, identity, and growth. We skip platitudes and focus on what actually helps people relate more honestly, securely, and sustainably.
Hosted by two longtime friends, this show dives into the wild, wonderful, and often WTF world of all kinds of relationships—with honesty, humor, and zero shame. Expect smart takes, relatable stories, and the occasional U-Haul reference.
Producer: Jordan Cannon & Shelly Silvey Grabe
Theme Song: Cade Kyle
A huge thanks to our sponsors and trailblazers at Shody Media LLC.
Disclaimer: Podcasts featured on Shody Media are independently owned and operated by their respective hosts. All views, opinions, and statements expressed are solely those of the individual creators and guest do not reflect the views of Shody Media. Shody Media assumes no responsibility or liability for podcast content.
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S3E14: “Someday You’ll Be Amazing”: The Trap of Falling in Love With Someone’s Potential
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Apr 16, 2026 |
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S3E13: “Insight Isn’t Self-Attack”: When Self-Awareness Turns Into Self-Criticism
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Apr 09, 2026 |
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S3E12: “Awkward Won’t Kill You” Learning to Tolerate Discomfort
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Apr 02, 2026 |
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S3E11: “Great Chat… About You”: When People Don’t Ask Questions
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Mar 26, 2026 |
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S3E10: Trust Comes Back When Behavior Changes
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Mar 19, 2026 |
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S3E9: Owning It vs. Explaining It: What Accountability Looks Like in Real Life
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Mar 12, 2026 |
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S3E8 “Nothing’s Wrong… So Why Am I Unhappy?”: When Safety Becomes Stagnation
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Mar 05, 2026 |
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S3E7: “It’s Easier If I Just Do It”: Why You’re Always the One Who Adjusts
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Feb 26, 2026 |
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S3E6: Why Your Relationship Changed When You Did: When growth creates distance between partners
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Feb 19, 2026 |
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S3E5: Fear of Being Seen vs. Fear of Being Left: Why You Abandon Yourself Before Anyone Else Can
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Feb 12, 2026 |
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S3E4: You’re Not Bad at Communication. You’re Tolerating Too Much: When Talking Doesn’t Fix the Problem
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Feb 05, 2026 |
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S3E3: Shame and defensiveness in relationships: Why You Feel Accused When No One Is Accusing You
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Jan 29, 2026 |
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S3E2: “Are You Regulated or Just Really Good at Not Feeling?”
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Jan 22, 2026 |
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S3E1: Come Closer… Not Like That - Why Intimacy Feels Riskier Than Loneliness
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Jan 15, 2026 |
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Mistletoe & Minefields: Navigating the Holidays with Your Partner
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Dec 18, 2025 |
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S2E16: Control Issues in Cute Outfits: Why we try to manage our emotions by managing our partner’s behavior (and how to stop).
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Dec 11, 2025 |
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S2E15: Fight Right: How to Argue Without Burning the House Down
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Dec 04, 2025 |
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S2E14: “Gaydar 2.0: How We Actually Know Who’s Queer These Days”
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Nov 27, 2025 |
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Revisit- Lesbian Dating on the Apps: Where Hope and Sanity go to Die!
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Nov 20, 2025 |
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Dateable AF- Revisit Avoiding the Situationship Spiral
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Nov 13, 2025 |
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S2E13: The Plus-One Problem: When your partner hates your friends—or your friends hate your partner—and what to do about it
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Nov 06, 2025 |
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AFterparty for S2E12: Sealed with a Mess: Why Kissing Can Be Magic… or a Total Red Flag
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Nov 04, 2025 |
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S2E12: “Sealed with a Mess: Why Kissing Can Be Magic… or a Total Red Flag”
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Oct 30, 2025 |
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AFterparty for S2E10 and S2E11: Boundaries and Open Relationships
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Oct 28, 2025 |
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S2E11: Open For Business: A Discussion of Ethical Non-Monogamy
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Oct 23, 2025 |
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Adjacent to New Shody Media Podcast Cord of Connection Host- Danielle Cobb
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Oct 18, 2025 |
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Ladies of Left Field- with Hot Girl Headlines - Recap of Texas/ou Weekend
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Oct 18, 2025 |
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Kim & Friends meet Julia Haeffele "I Excercise, I am not Exercise"
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Oct 18, 2025 |
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The Conspiracy Farm: What did Confucius actually say? "You Lack Rituals!"
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Oct 18, 2025 |
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Mom's Favorite with Cassidy and Kim- Tales from a Former L&D Nurse: Part 2- The Pitt
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Oct 18, 2025 |
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Pammy Out Loud- How not to become your parents with Cass Grange
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Oct 18, 2025 |
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Shody Media Saturday Showcase
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Oct 18, 2025 |
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S2:E 10 "That's not a boundary babe" (That's emotional micromanagement. Let's fix it.)
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Oct 17, 2025 |
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Introducing Shody Media's Newest Podcast - Cord of Connection with Danielle Cobb
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Oct 17, 2025 |
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AFterparty for S2E9: El Camino Energy: Is It a Car or a Truck? (Being Bisexual in a Binary World) (1)
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Oct 14, 2025 |
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Adjacent meet Mile High Club Member Suzann Grabe
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Oct 11, 2025 |
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Ladies of Left Field- Hot Girl Headlines
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Oct 11, 2025 |
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Kim & Friends- Kim shares what it is like raising a daughter
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Oct 11, 2025 |
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Las Comadres Amigos de Las Comadres
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Oct 11, 2025 |
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The Conspiracy Farm
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Oct 11, 2025 |
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Pammy Out Loud- Zero Proof Experience with Susie Streelman
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Oct 11, 2025 |
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Mom's Favorite with Cassidy and Kim- Kim sits down with Melissa Nolan to discuss Pans/Pandas
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Oct 11, 2025 |
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Shody Media Saturday Showcase
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Oct 11, 2025 |
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S2E9: El Camino Energy: Is It a Car or a Truck? (Being Bisexual in a Binary World)
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Oct 09, 2025 |
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Dateable AFterparty S2E8: No RSVP Required: Coming Out Late in Life
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Oct 07, 2025 |
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The Conspiracy Farm- Revelations of the Apocalypse Vol 6
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Oct 04, 2025 |
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Pammy Out Loud
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Oct 04, 2025 |
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Mom's Favorite with Cassidy & Kim
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Oct 04, 2025 |
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Ladies of Left Field- Hot Girl Headlines
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Oct 04, 2025 |
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Las Comadres- Pancake Day
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Oct 04, 2025 |
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Kim & Friends meet Sarah!
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Oct 04, 2025 |
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Adjacent to Ella Wilsey
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Oct 04, 2025 |
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Shody Media's Saturday Showcase
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Oct 04, 2025 |
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S2E8: No RSVP Required: Coming Out Late in Life: The Party Doesn’t Start Until You Arrive
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Oct 02, 2025 |
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Dateable AF- Revisit Pacing in Dating! UHaul- YKIYK
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Sep 25, 2025 |
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S2E7: “The Grass Isn’t Greener—It’s Just Filtered”: How Social Media Comparison Poisons Love Lives (and What to Do About It)
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Sep 18, 2025 |
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AFterparty for S2E6: “Sorry, Not Sorry”: Why half-hearted apologies make things worse
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Sep 16, 2025 |
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S2E6: “Sorry, Not Sorry”: Why half-hearted apologies make things worse
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Sep 11, 2025 |
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S2E5: Love Languages or Lost in Translation? Why your partner's way of showing love might feel like a foreign language
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Sep 04, 2025 |
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S2E4: “Cougar Town or Daddy Issues? Dating Across Generations”
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Aug 28, 2025 |
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Live Event From 1972! Let's Get Dateable! Oh What A Night!
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Aug 26, 2025 |
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S2E3: “Am I Losing Myself or Just Growing Up?”: Identity shifts in long-term relationships and finding your way back to you
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Aug 21, 2025 |
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Afterparty Season 2 Episodes 1 & 2
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Aug 19, 2025 |
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S2E2: “Jealous? Me? Never. (Okay Maybe a Little.)”
The messy truth about jealousy—even in the most secure relationships
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Aug 14, 2025 |
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Bonus Track: S2E1 Dateable()AF-terparty: We've Got a Big Announcement!
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Aug 11, 2025 |
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S2E1: “It’s Never Just About the Dishes”: Why couples fight about the dumbest things (and what’s really going on underneath)
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Aug 07, 2025 |
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Episode 16: “I’m Not Clingy, You’re Just Distant: Dating with Different Attachment Styles”
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Jul 31, 2025 |
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Episode 15: Is She a Fun Drunk or a Red Flag?
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Jul 24, 2025 |
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Bonus Track: E14 Dateable()AF-terparty: Responding to Listeners Questions and Comments about Lesbian Bed Death
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Jul 22, 2025 |
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Episode 14: Lesbian Bed Death: "Myth, Reality or Just Bad Scheduling"
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Jul 17, 2025 |
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Bonus Track: E13 Dateable()AF-terparty: Responding to Listeners Questions and Comments about "All She Said is "Hey" and You're Planning the Wedding"
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Jul 15, 2025 |
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Episode 13: "All She Said Was ‘Hey’… and Now You’re Planning the Wedding"
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Jul 10, 2025 |
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Bonus Track: E12 Dateable()AF-terparty: Questions and comments about "Okay but why are you still texting her?"
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Jul 07, 2025 |
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Episode 12: Okay, But Why Are You Still Texting Her?
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Jul 03, 2025 |
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Episode 11: She was perfect... But I was Bored- A Love Letter to Chemistry
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Jun 26, 2025 |
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Bonus Track: E10: Dateable()AF-terparty: Listeners Questions and Comments
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Jun 24, 2025 |
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Episode 10: Champagne Taste vs. Lone Star Budget: Dating Across Class Lines
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Jun 19, 2025 |
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Bonus Track: E9 Dateable()AF-terparty:Answering Listeners Question
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Jun 19, 2025 |
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Episode 9: Is That a Purse or a Red Flag?: Interview with Michelle Casanova
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Jun 12, 2025 |
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Bonus Track: E8 Dateable()AF-terparty: Questions and comments about Exes, Besties and Blurred Lines
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Jun 10, 2025 |
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Episode 8: She’s ‘Just a Friend’... Or Is She? Exes, Besties, and Blurred Lines
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Jun 05, 2025 |
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Bonus Track: E7 Dateable()AF-terparty: Questions and Comments about Situationships
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Jun 02, 2025 |
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Episode 7: Avoiding the Situationship Spiral: When It’s Time to Define Things
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May 29, 2025 |
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Episode 6: First Date Vibes: The Good, The Bad and the "What was that?"
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May 22, 2025 |
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Episode 5: Flirting For People Who Hate Flirting
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May 15, 2025 |
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Episode 4: The Queer Dating Pool: Is it really that small?
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May 08, 2025 |
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Episode 3: Lesbian Dating on the Apps: Where hope and sanity go to die!
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May 01, 2025 |
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Episode 2: UHaul or Hell No?
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Apr 30, 2025 |
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Episode 1: Meet Rachel Howell & Dr. Sarah Kyle
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Apr 30, 2025 |
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Dateable()AF Promo- Coming Soon
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Apr 30, 2025 |