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Did your divorce feel like it didn't just break your marriage — it broke you?
Like somewhere between the pain, the paperwork, and the nights you couldn't sleep... the woman you used to be quietly disappeared.
Your confidence walked out the door. Your sense of value went with it.
And deep down, you started wondering if real love was simply no longer meant for you.
If that's where you are — you are exactly where you need to be.
I'm Patty Martin-Guerra, and I'm not speaking from the outside looking in. I'm speaking as someone who sat in that same darkness.
I know what it's like to carry the quiet shame of a failed marriage.
To feel paralyzed by the thought of starting over.
To lie awake asking God whether you were too old, too wounded, too far gone for Him to write anything beautiful with what was left of your story.
But here's what I found on the other side of all of that:
Wholeness was always waiting for you. It still is.
Dating After Divorce for Christian Women Over 40 is where the real, unglamorous, necessary work actually happens.
We go deep on healing the invisible scars your marriage left behind.
We name the cycles that kept pulling you backward.
We rebuild, piece by piece, your identity, your worth, and your trust in God's plan for your love life — so that when the right person arrives, you're not just available.
You're whole. You're grounded. You're ready.
Each week I'll bring you the honest conversations nobody else is brave enough to have — the truths your closest friends can't quite articulate, your pastor tends to sidestep, and no search engine will ever hand you.
Because you weren't meant to simply outlast your divorce.
You were meant to flourish after it.
🗓️ New episodes every Tuesday. Subscribe now and let's take this journey together.
Your story isn't over, sweet friend. The next chapter? It's only just beginning.
Ready to stop guessing and start dating with confidence?
You deserve a love that honors you — and it's time to believe that's possible.
Join our community and take the next step:
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56| Here Is Why You Give More Than You Need To
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Jun 09, 2026 |
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55| Stop Pretending You Are Fine — The Real Truth About Emotional Recovery After Divorce
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May 26, 2026 |
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54| What The Bible Says About Starting Over After Divorce
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May 19, 2026 |
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53| Building Confidence After Divorce for Women Over 40 Starts Right Here
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May 13, 2026 |
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52| Is Healing After Divorce Taking Too Long? This Might Be The Reason Why
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May 05, 2026 |
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51| Co-Parenting After Divorce: How to Protect Your Peace
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Apr 28, 2026 |
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50| Why You Haven't Found Love Yet After Divorce (And What's Really in the Way)
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Apr 21, 2026 |
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49| How to Trust God After a Painful Divorce When Prayer Feels Like Silence
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Apr 14, 2026 |
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48| Stop Living in Survival Mode — How to Create a Peaceful Life After Divorce
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Apr 07, 2026 |
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47| How to Care for Your Mind and Your Body with Jamie Love
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Apr 02, 2026 |
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46| How to Rebuild Your Finances After Divorce When You Feel Like You Are Starting From Zero
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Mar 31, 2026 |
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Rising After Divorce Podcast Trailer
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Mar 28, 2026 |
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45| How to Heal Emotionally After Divorce Without Losing Yourself in the Process
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Mar 24, 2026 |
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44| Healing From the Womb: Understanding How Prenatal Stress Shaped You
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Mar 17, 2026 |
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43| Why Communication is Hard After Divorce: Communication Tips for Divorced Women
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Mar 10, 2026 |
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42| 3 Common Mistakes That Are Keeping You Single
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Mar 04, 2026 |
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41| Sings You're Repeating Trauma in Your Relationships and How to Break the Pattern
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Feb 24, 2026 |
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40| Being Selective Isn't Bad, It's Biblical
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Feb 16, 2026 |
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39| Valentine's Day as a Single Woman: How to Thrive While Single on Valentine's Day
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Feb 10, 2026 |
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38| Here Is Why You Need To Pray For Your Future Husband
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Feb 05, 2026 |
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37| How To Turn Your Divorce Into Your BIGGEST Dating Advantage
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Feb 03, 2026 |
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36| Don't Settle Out of Fear: Waiting for God's Best
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Jan 27, 2026 |
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35| How to Unblock Your Blessings
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Jan 20, 2026 |
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34| Stop Over-Explaining Yourself: What James 5:12 Teaches About Boundaries
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Jan 13, 2026 |
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33| Stop Hiding Your Body & Trying to Control Everything - Part 4 The Wound of Humiliation & Injustice
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Jan 06, 2026 |
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32| Rewriting Your Love Story in 2026 - Let Me Show You How
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Dec 30, 2025 |
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31| Why You Can't Trust Good Men - Part 3 The Wound of Betrayal
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Dec 27, 2025 |
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30| Stop Shape-Shifting Into Who He Wants - Part 2: The Wound of Rejection
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Dec 16, 2025 |
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29| Your Childhood Trauma Is Ruining Your Love Life - Part 1 The Wound of Abandonment
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Dec 10, 2025 |
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28 | How to Spot a Narcissist Before Your Heart Gets Involved
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Dec 02, 2025 |
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27| Your Person Exists - What To Do In The Waiting Season
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Nov 25, 2025 |
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26 | I Can't Remember Certain Details of My First Year After Divorced - And I Felt So Ashamed
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Nov 20, 2025 |
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25 | Why You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men: And How to Finally Break the Pattern
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Nov 18, 2025 |
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24| You Have It All But Still Feel Empty - From Loneliness to the Companionship You Deserve
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Nov 11, 2025 |
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23| What Single Moms Should Know When Dating
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Nov 04, 2025 |
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22| Stop Comparing Yourself
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Oct 28, 2025 |
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21| This Kills The Attraction When Starting to Date
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Oct 21, 2025 |
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20| How To Overcome Fear & Anxiety
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Oct 14, 2025 |
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19| Discover How Your Past Traumas Affect Your Love Life, and Heal Them
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Oct 07, 2025 |
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18| My Ex Has Not Apologize For What He Did...
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Sep 30, 2025 |
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17| Unashaming Divorce - Regaining Your Worth
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Sep 23, 2025 |
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16| The Mirror Effect In Christian Dating
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Sep 16, 2025 |
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15| Are You Guarding Your Heart or Hardening It? - Find Out
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Sep 09, 2025 |
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14| Are You Ready To Date? 5 Questions To Discover The Truth
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Sep 02, 2025 |
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13| Types of Grief After Heartbreak - Is It Healthy To Keep Mutual Friends?
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Aug 26, 2025 |
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12| How To Become An Irresistible Woman
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Aug 19, 2025 |
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11 | When Loneliness Makes You Go Back To Your Ex
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Aug 12, 2025 |
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10| The Temptation of Being Friends With Benefits
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Aug 05, 2025 |
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9| From Broken To Beautiful - God Restores but He Is Waiting To Hear From You
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Jul 29, 2025 |
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8| God's Timing vs. Your Loneliness
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Jul 22, 2025 |
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7| Pros/Cons Of Multidating
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Jul 15, 2025 |
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6| Stop Making These Mistakes
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Jul 08, 2025 |
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5| How To Write The Perfect Dating App Bio
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Jul 02, 2025 |
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3| Manipulation Is Not Love, Don't Let Him Fool You
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Jun 17, 2025 |
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4| He Is Still Married...
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Jun 17, 2025 |
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2| Unrealistic Expectations Keep You From Blessings
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Jun 10, 2025 |
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1| 3 Key Points That Led Me To Find My Husband
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Jun 03, 2025 |