Rising After Divorce | Emotional Healing, Reclaiming, Starting Over, Trusting God

By pattymartinlifecoach - Christian Women Coach - Relationship Coach -Podcast Host

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Did your divorce feel like it didn't just break your marriage — it broke you?

Like somewhere between the pain, the paperwork, and the nights you couldn't sleep... the woman you used to be quietly disappeared.

Your confidence walked out the door. Your sense of value went with it.

And deep down, you started wondering if real love was simply no longer meant for you.

If that's where you are — you are exactly where you need to be.

I'm Patty Martin-Guerra, and I'm not speaking from the outside looking in. I'm speaking as someone who sat in that same darkness.

I know what it's like to carry the quiet shame of a failed marriage.

To feel paralyzed by the thought of starting over.

To lie awake asking God whether you were too old, too wounded, too far gone for Him to write anything beautiful with what was left of your story.

But here's what I found on the other side of all of that:

Wholeness was always waiting for you. It still is.

Dating After Divorce for Christian Women Over 40 is where the real, unglamorous, necessary work actually happens.

We go deep on healing the invisible scars your marriage left behind.

We name the cycles that kept pulling you backward.

We rebuild, piece by piece, your identity, your worth, and your trust in God's plan for your love life — so that when the right person arrives, you're not just available.

You're whole. You're grounded. You're ready.

Each week I'll bring you the honest conversations nobody else is brave enough to have — the truths your closest friends can't quite articulate, your pastor tends to sidestep, and no search engine will ever hand you.

Because you weren't meant to simply outlast your divorce.

You were meant to flourish after it.

🗓️ New episodes every Tuesday. Subscribe now and let's take this journey together.

Your story isn't over, sweet friend. The next chapter? It's only just beginning. 

Ready to stop guessing and start dating with confidence?

You deserve a love that honors you — and it's time to believe that's possible.

Join our community and take the next step:

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Episode Date
56| Here Is Why You Give More Than You Need To
Jun 09, 2026
55| Stop Pretending You Are Fine — The Real Truth About Emotional Recovery After Divorce
May 26, 2026
54| What The Bible Says About Starting Over After Divorce
May 19, 2026
53| Building Confidence After Divorce for Women Over 40 Starts Right Here
May 13, 2026
52| Is Healing After Divorce Taking Too Long? This Might Be The Reason Why
May 05, 2026
51| Co-Parenting After Divorce: How to Protect Your Peace
Apr 28, 2026
50| Why You Haven't Found Love Yet After Divorce (And What's Really in the Way)
Apr 21, 2026
49| How to Trust God After a Painful Divorce When Prayer Feels Like Silence
Apr 14, 2026
48| Stop Living in Survival Mode — How to Create a Peaceful Life After Divorce
Apr 07, 2026
47| How to Care for Your Mind and Your Body with Jamie Love
Apr 02, 2026
46| How to Rebuild Your Finances After Divorce When You Feel Like You Are Starting From Zero
Mar 31, 2026
Rising After Divorce Podcast Trailer
Mar 28, 2026
45| How to Heal Emotionally After Divorce Without Losing Yourself in the Process
Mar 24, 2026
44| Healing From the Womb: Understanding How Prenatal Stress Shaped You
Mar 17, 2026
43| Why Communication is Hard After Divorce: Communication Tips for Divorced Women
Mar 10, 2026
42| 3 Common Mistakes That Are Keeping You Single
Mar 04, 2026
41| Sings You're Repeating Trauma in Your Relationships and How to Break the Pattern
Feb 24, 2026
40| Being Selective Isn't Bad, It's Biblical
Feb 16, 2026
39| Valentine's Day as a Single Woman: How to Thrive While Single on Valentine's Day
Feb 10, 2026
38| Here Is Why You Need To Pray For Your Future Husband
Feb 05, 2026
37| How To Turn Your Divorce Into Your BIGGEST Dating Advantage
Feb 03, 2026
36| Don't Settle Out of Fear: Waiting for God's Best
Jan 27, 2026
35| How to Unblock Your Blessings
Jan 20, 2026
34| Stop Over-Explaining Yourself: What James 5:12 Teaches About Boundaries
Jan 13, 2026
33| Stop Hiding Your Body & Trying to Control Everything - Part 4 The Wound of Humiliation & Injustice
Jan 06, 2026
32| Rewriting Your Love Story in 2026 - Let Me Show You How
Dec 30, 2025
31| Why You Can't Trust Good Men - Part 3 The Wound of Betrayal
Dec 27, 2025
30| Stop Shape-Shifting Into Who He Wants - Part 2: The Wound of Rejection
Dec 16, 2025
29| Your Childhood Trauma Is Ruining Your Love Life - Part 1 The Wound of Abandonment
Dec 10, 2025
28 | How to Spot a Narcissist Before Your Heart Gets Involved
Dec 02, 2025
27| Your Person Exists - What To Do In The Waiting Season
Nov 25, 2025
26 | I Can't Remember Certain Details of My First Year After Divorced - And I Felt So Ashamed
Nov 20, 2025
25 | Why You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men: And How to Finally Break the Pattern
Nov 18, 2025
24| You Have It All But Still Feel Empty - From Loneliness to the Companionship You Deserve
Nov 11, 2025
23| What Single Moms Should Know When Dating
Nov 04, 2025
22| Stop Comparing Yourself
Oct 28, 2025
21| This Kills The Attraction When Starting to Date
Oct 21, 2025
20| How To Overcome Fear & Anxiety
Oct 14, 2025
19| Discover How Your Past Traumas Affect Your Love Life, and Heal Them
Oct 07, 2025
18| My Ex Has Not Apologize For What He Did...
Sep 30, 2025
17| Unashaming Divorce - Regaining Your Worth
Sep 23, 2025
16| The Mirror Effect In Christian Dating
Sep 16, 2025
15| Are You Guarding Your Heart or Hardening It? - Find Out
Sep 09, 2025
14| Are You Ready To Date? 5 Questions To Discover The Truth
Sep 02, 2025
13| Types of Grief After Heartbreak - Is It Healthy To Keep Mutual Friends?
Aug 26, 2025
12| How To Become An Irresistible Woman
Aug 19, 2025
11 | When Loneliness Makes You Go Back To Your Ex
Aug 12, 2025
10| The Temptation of Being Friends With Benefits
Aug 05, 2025
9| From Broken To Beautiful - God Restores but He Is Waiting To Hear From You
Jul 29, 2025
8| God's Timing vs. Your Loneliness
Jul 22, 2025
7| Pros/Cons Of Multidating
Jul 15, 2025
6| Stop Making These Mistakes
Jul 08, 2025
5| How To Write The Perfect Dating App Bio
Jul 02, 2025
3| Manipulation Is Not Love, Don't Let Him Fool You
Jun 17, 2025
4| He Is Still Married...
Jun 17, 2025
2| Unrealistic Expectations Keep You From Blessings
Jun 10, 2025
1| 3 Key Points That Led Me To Find My Husband
Jun 03, 2025