It's Not Me, It's You

By Vanessa Castillo and Matthew Castillo

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Episodes: 17

Description

Love is messy. Dating is chaotic. And sometimes, it’s not you... it’s definitely them. Or is it? Join sibling duo Vanessa and Matthew Castillo (11 years apart but equally chaotic) as they dive into the wild world of relationships, fireside chat style. From ghosting and cringe-worthy situationships to long-term love and red flags we all ignore. Expect real talk, unfiltered laughs, and hard truths. Whether you’re single, cuffed, or somewhere in between, you’ll leave every episode feeling a little less alone, and a lot more entertained. Come for the laughs, stay for the relatable chaos. ♥️ 💔

Episode Date
From Horoscope to Horrorscope: Is He Cooking or Cooked?
Apr 15, 2026
Red flags, Green flags & Everything in between
Mar 11, 2026
The "fun parts" of dating...
Jan 12, 2026
The darkness of dating apps: Trust, but verify.
Jan 05, 2026
Be the Water, Not the Rock: Love, Fear & Finding Your Flow.
Dec 10, 2025
Protect Your Sauce: The Truth About Self Awareness, Energy & Relationship Types
Dec 04, 2025
Gamer Girl Cracks the Code on Relationships
Oct 04, 2025
Chef Tavos & His Secret Sauce On Love
Sep 17, 2025
Little Brother & Lover Boy: A Born Romantics Guide On Relationships
Aug 31, 2025
Authenticity Is Sexy: Dating, The Roster & Self-Alignment
Aug 27, 2025
Hardboiled & Hopeful: Single in 2025
Aug 03, 2025
No More Lateral Moves: Your Dominatrix Guide to Housewifing
Jul 21, 2025
Getting Ghosted, Accountability, & Simple Communication
Jul 13, 2025
She Moved for Love. Now She’s Moving Different.
Jul 07, 2025
This One’s for the Group Chat: The Hoe Phase Exit Interview w/ LouieKillz
Jun 30, 2025
Battlefield of Love: Rookie vs. Vet 🎙️💔 ♥️
Jun 21, 2025
It's Not Me, It's... Our First Episode
Jun 13, 2025