Feelings I'd Rather Not

By Tash

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Category: Mental Health

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Episodes: 35

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Feelings I'd Rather Not Podcast explores the everyday patterns, triggers, and quiet uncomfortable truths that shape our mental health. From personal and professional experience, with a Masters in Psychology, Mental Health & Well-Being, Tash blends psychology with real-life reflection. We unpack topics that require discomfort; self-sabotage, emotional regulation, people-pleasing, boundaries, and inner criticism. Through simple tools and guided self-inquiry, listeners learn how to understand their reactions, build emotional awareness, strengthen self-trust and confront those uncomfortable realisations within ourselves and our lives. Whether you love psychology, are curious about your own mind or are on a road to self-discovery and acceptance, this podcast offers a grounded space to feel seen, gain insight, and reflect on things you may never have paused to consider. The Feelings You'd Rather Not are the reflections we avoid, the patterns we repeat, and the truths that change everything.


Episode Date
Your emotions only need to make sense to you (stop seeking validation & start self-trust)
Mar 04, 2026
Is it 'brutal honesty' or just being rude? (emotional intelligence & healthy communication)
Mar 01, 2026
What to do when they don't see an issue with their behaviour
Feb 25, 2026
The comfort of the victim mindset (why it's so hard to let go)
Feb 22, 2026
Why holding people accountable can cost you relationships
Feb 18, 2026
Why cringing feels terrible (and what it says about you)
Feb 15, 2026
Am I emotionally dismissive? Signs you might be without realising it
Feb 11, 2026
Why you get defensive (and how it's ruining your relationships)
Feb 08, 2026
Why we self-sabotage peace and keep choosing chaos
Feb 04, 2026
Performative empathy: When ‘caring’ is just emotional avoidance
Feb 01, 2026
Why you feel competitive with your friends (even when you love them)
Jan 21, 2026
Why you let yourself down but fear letting others down (the psychology of people pleasing)
Jan 18, 2026
Why you feel safer imagining than in reality (maladaptive daydreaming) | avoidance, escapism
Jan 14, 2026
How to make the right decisions when you don’t trust yourself || self-trust, confidence, intuition
Jan 11, 2026
How to stop comparing yourself to others (and what it's costing you)
Dec 31, 2025
Looking good vs. being good: Why needing to appear kind causes harm || accountability, self-Image, people-pleasing
Dec 28, 2025
Why you can’t stop thinking about someone you hate || rumination, negativity bias & letting go
Dec 24, 2025
Self-sacrifice isn’t noble: Why people-pleasing destroys self-respect || Self-abandonment, self-worth, validation-seeking
Dec 21, 2025
Why crying feels unsafe: The psychology of emotional suppression || Fear of vulnerability, Childhood conditioning
Dec 17, 2025
How to recognise normalised dysfunction: Signs you're accepting toxic behaviour without realising it
Dec 14, 2025
How to stop overanalysing everything: Why you spiral & how to stop || overthinking, rumination, anxiety, hypervigilence
Dec 10, 2025
Normal emotion or mental health decline? How to tell the difference || Emotional Discomfort & Regulation, Recovery & Relapse
Dec 07, 2025
Listen to this when you feel ugly || self-worth, beauty standards, body image, inner critic
Dec 03, 2025
The burnout epidemic: why daily living feels exhausting in 2025 || comparison, fatigue, stress
Nov 30, 2025
Stop being afraid of conflict: tell them what you really feel || resentment, emotional maturity, trust, communication
Nov 23, 2025
why therapy feels scary || emotional avoidance, mental health stigma, vulnerability and change
Nov 16, 2025
stop getting offended, literally nothing is personal || ego, detachment, projection, insecurities
Nov 09, 2025
unconscious shame and the fear of being seen || self-sabotage, vulnerability, social anxiety
Nov 02, 2025
why we always want what we don't have || psychology of desire, fear of missing out, consumerism, life satisfaction
Oct 26, 2025
the downside of always trying to be good: moral perfectionism || anxiety, self-worth, purity culture, guilt, self-doubt, hyper-accountability
Oct 19, 2025
the weight you need to lose is not on your body || history of fatphobia, self-hate, projection, weight bias, self-compassion
Oct 13, 2025
how a fear of disapproval becomes toxic || childhood experiences, bullying trauma, authenticity, self-abandonment, control through niceness
Oct 06, 2025
cognitive dissonance is affecting your everyday life || healthy habits, better relationships, self reflection, introspection
Sep 29, 2025
healthy selfishness vs. unhealthy selfishness || priorities, boundaries, improve relationships, self love
Sep 22, 2025
self-trust is the most important thing you will learn || external validation, decision making, improve relationships, self love and validation
Sep 15, 2025