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Feelings I'd Rather Not Podcast explores the everyday patterns, triggers, and quiet uncomfortable truths that shape our mental health. From personal and professional experience, with a Masters in Psychology, Mental Health & Well-Being, Tash blends psychology with real-life reflection. We unpack topics that require discomfort; self-sabotage, emotional regulation, people-pleasing, boundaries, and inner criticism. Through simple tools and guided self-inquiry, listeners learn how to understand their reactions, build emotional awareness, strengthen self-trust and confront those uncomfortable realisations within ourselves and our lives. Whether you love psychology, are curious about your own mind or are on a road to self-discovery and acceptance, this podcast offers a grounded space to feel seen, gain insight, and reflect on things you may never have paused to consider. The Feelings You'd Rather Not are the reflections we avoid, the patterns we repeat, and the truths that change everything.
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Your emotions only need to make sense to you (stop seeking validation & start self-trust)
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Mar 04, 2026 |
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Is it 'brutal honesty' or just being rude? (emotional intelligence & healthy communication)
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Mar 01, 2026 |
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What to do when they don't see an issue with their behaviour
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Feb 25, 2026 |
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The comfort of the victim mindset (why it's so hard to let go)
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Feb 22, 2026 |
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Why holding people accountable can cost you relationships
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Feb 18, 2026 |
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Why cringing feels terrible (and what it says about you)
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Feb 15, 2026 |
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Am I emotionally dismissive? Signs you might be without realising it
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Feb 11, 2026 |
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Why you get defensive (and how it's ruining your relationships)
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Feb 08, 2026 |
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Why we self-sabotage peace and keep choosing chaos
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Feb 04, 2026 |
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Performative empathy: When ‘caring’ is just emotional avoidance
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Feb 01, 2026 |
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Why you feel competitive with your friends (even when you love them)
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Jan 21, 2026 |
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Why you let yourself down but fear letting others down (the psychology of people pleasing)
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Jan 18, 2026 |
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Why you feel safer imagining than in reality (maladaptive daydreaming) | avoidance, escapism
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Jan 14, 2026 |
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How to make the right decisions when you don’t trust yourself || self-trust, confidence, intuition
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Jan 11, 2026 |
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How to stop comparing yourself to others (and what it's costing you)
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Dec 31, 2025 |
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Looking good vs. being good: Why needing to appear kind causes harm || accountability, self-Image, people-pleasing
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Dec 28, 2025 |
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Why you can’t stop thinking about someone you hate || rumination, negativity bias & letting go
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Dec 24, 2025 |
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Self-sacrifice isn’t noble: Why people-pleasing destroys self-respect || Self-abandonment, self-worth, validation-seeking
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Dec 21, 2025 |
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Why crying feels unsafe: The psychology of emotional suppression || Fear of vulnerability, Childhood conditioning
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Dec 17, 2025 |
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How to recognise normalised dysfunction: Signs you're accepting toxic behaviour without realising it
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Dec 14, 2025 |
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How to stop overanalysing everything: Why you spiral & how to stop || overthinking, rumination, anxiety, hypervigilence
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Dec 10, 2025 |
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Normal emotion or mental health decline? How to tell the difference || Emotional Discomfort & Regulation, Recovery & Relapse
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Dec 07, 2025 |
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Listen to this when you feel ugly || self-worth, beauty standards, body image, inner critic
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Dec 03, 2025 |
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The burnout epidemic: why daily living feels exhausting in 2025 || comparison, fatigue, stress
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Nov 30, 2025 |
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Stop being afraid of conflict: tell them what you really feel || resentment, emotional maturity, trust, communication
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Nov 23, 2025 |
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why therapy feels scary || emotional avoidance, mental health stigma, vulnerability and change
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Nov 16, 2025 |
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stop getting offended, literally nothing is personal || ego, detachment, projection, insecurities
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Nov 09, 2025 |
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unconscious shame and the fear of being seen || self-sabotage, vulnerability, social anxiety
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Nov 02, 2025 |
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why we always want what we don't have || psychology of desire, fear of missing out, consumerism, life satisfaction
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Oct 26, 2025 |
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the downside of always trying to be good: moral perfectionism || anxiety, self-worth, purity culture, guilt, self-doubt, hyper-accountability
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Oct 19, 2025 |
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the weight you need to lose is not on your body || history of fatphobia, self-hate, projection, weight bias, self-compassion
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Oct 13, 2025 |
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how a fear of disapproval becomes toxic || childhood experiences, bullying trauma, authenticity, self-abandonment, control through niceness
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Oct 06, 2025 |
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cognitive dissonance is affecting your everyday life || healthy habits, better relationships, self reflection, introspection
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Sep 29, 2025 |
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healthy selfishness vs. unhealthy selfishness || priorities, boundaries, improve relationships, self love
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Sep 22, 2025 |
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self-trust is the most important thing you will learn || external validation, decision making, improve relationships, self love and validation
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Sep 15, 2025 |