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Welcome to Selfish Parenting - where we flip the script on everything society tells you about being a "good parent."
I'm Chance Hinder-Lane (@hindirlane), and I'm here to tell you that what society calls selfish, we call sustainable parenting.
Tired of the guilt? Done with the burnout culture? Ready to stop people-pleasing your way through parenthood? You're in the right place.
This isn't your typical parenting podcast filled with shoulds and shouldn'ts. We're here to give you permission to: Hire help without guilt Prioritize your career AND your kids
Say no to activities that drain you Invest in your mental health and identity Maintain adult relationships and interests Spend money on yourself Set boundaries that actually work
Every episode, we dive deep into the "selfish" behaviors that research shows actually make you a better parent. From working mothers to stay-at-home parents demanding respect, from therapy to solo vacations - we're covering it all with science, sass, and zero shame.
Because here's the truth: Taking care of yourself IS taking care of your family.
New episodes drop every Monday at 7am Follow @hindirlane for daily doses of sustainable parenting content
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11. The Government Doesn't Care About Mothers… So We Built Our Own Village
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Mar 30, 2026 |
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10. Spanking IS Child Abuse
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Mar 10, 2026 |
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9. Tradwife or Trapped Wife? | How Stay-at-Home Moms Can Protect Themselves with Trish A. White
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Feb 23, 2026 |
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8. 45% of Women Will Be Single by 2030 | How to Know If You’re Actually Ready for Marriage and Motherhood
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Feb 09, 2026 |
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7. You’re Not a Single Married Mother | What Real Partnership, Labor & Boundaries Look Like with Colette Louis
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Jan 26, 2026 |
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6. Having Kids IS Selfish (And That’s Okay) | Why Being Child-Free Is Sometimes the Selfless Choice
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Jan 12, 2026 |
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5. Why Am I Like This? | How Healing Your Past Changes Your Future with Kobe Campbell, LCMHC
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Dec 31, 2025 |
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4. The Truth About “Broken Homes” | A Domestic Violence Survivor’s Story feat. Wadzanai Karanja
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Dec 15, 2025 |
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3. The “Right Choice” Myth | Why Both Working & Stay-at-Home Mothers Matter
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Dec 01, 2025 |
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2. More Than a Paycheck: What a Modern Provider Actually Looks Like feat. Julien Lane
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Nov 17, 2025 |
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1. Permission to Be Selfish: The Framework
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Nov 03, 2025 |
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Welcome to Selfish Parenting with Chancè Hindir-Lane
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Nov 01, 2025 |