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Hosted by gay sex and relationship therapist and published author Tom Bruett, this show dives deep into what it really means to be in relationship with yourself and others as a gay, queer, or trans person today. Each episode features candid conversations with leading experts in psychology, sex therapy, wellness, culture, and LGBTQIA2S+ lived experience. Together, we explore the complexities of queer love, intimacy, identity, and connection - without shame, without scripts, and without pretending we have it all figured out. If you’re craving smarter, braver, more honest conversations about what it means to build and sustain authentic queer relationships, you’re in the right place.
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The Hidden Ways We Escape Stress, Shame & Anxiety | Interview with David Olem
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Oct 08, 2026 |
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Addiction, Trauma & the Path to Recovery in the Queer Community | Interview with Araya Baker
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Oct 01, 2026 |
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Are You Your Own Worst Critic? Self-Love for Gay Men | Interview with James Guay, LMFT
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Sep 24, 2026 |
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Gay Men, Tantra & the Power of Touch | Interview with DaddyGuru
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Sep 17, 2026 |
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Why We NEED Better Gay Sex Education | Interview with Aidan Wharton
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Sep 11, 2026 |
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Chronic Pain and LGBTQ+ Health: What We Need to Know | Interview with Ian A. Lane, PhD, RN
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Aug 27, 2026 |
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Gay Shame, Loneliness & Finding Real Community | Interview with Brian Spitulnik
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Aug 20, 2026 |
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Sexual Bypassing: Are Your Labels Keeping You Stuck? | Interview with Dr Chris Donaghue
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Aug 13, 2026 |
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Why Great Therapy Includes Conversations About Sex | Interview with Martha Kauppi
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Aug 06, 2026 |
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Why So Many Gay Men Struggle with Intimacy, Shame & Spirituality | Interview with Darren Main
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Jul 30, 2026 |
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Non-Monogamy, Polyamory & Open Relationships Explained | Interview with Andrew Reidenbach
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Jul 23, 2026 |
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Why You're Losing Erections (and how to FIX it) | Interview with Shay Doran
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Jul 16, 2026 |
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The Truth About Prostate Health, ED & Masculinity | Interview with Dr. Arthur Burnett
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Jul 09, 2026 |
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When Sex Feels Out of Control, What’s Really Happening? | Interview with Michael A. Vigorito
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Jun 25, 2026 |
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Anxious Attachment: Why We Chase Love That Hurts & How to Heal | Interview with Chris Rackliffe
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Jun 18, 2026 |
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LGBTQ+ Aging, Sex & Desire: What Nobody Talks About | Interview with Joseph Winn
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Jun 11, 2026 |
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What Queer People NEED to Know About HIV Today | Interview with Araya Baker
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Jun 03, 2026 |
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Why So Many Bi Men Stay Closeted | Interview with Robert Cohen
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May 28, 2026 |
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Kink, Shame & The Truth About “Sides” | Interview with Dr. Joe Kort
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May 21, 2026 |
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Why Intimacy Can Feel Impossible for Queer Men | Interview with Andrew Katsinas
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May 14, 2026 |
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How Religious Trauma Shapes Queer Dating & Mental Health | Interview with Kit Morgan
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May 07, 2026 |
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What Nobody Tells You About Gay Dating with a Disability | Interview with Andrew Gurza
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Apr 30, 2026 |
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Why the Mother-Son Relationship is Different for Gay Men | Interview with Rick Miller
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Apr 28, 2026 |
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What If Nobody Is Actually Straight? (A Therapist Explains) | interview with Paula D. Atkinson
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Apr 16, 2026 |
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Bisexuality, Masculinity and Thriving as a Queer Middle Eastern Man - interview David F Khalili
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Apr 09, 2026 |
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Surviving the AIDS Crisis & Healing Through Art - an interview with Mickie Kennedy
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Apr 02, 2026 |
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ADHD and Autism in Gay Relationships - interview with Dr. Miguel Toribio-Mateas
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Mar 20, 2026 |
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Why Gay Dating Feels So Hard Now - interview with Ed Bell
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Mar 13, 2026 |
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Somatic & Cultural Healing: Why Liberation Starts in the Body - an interview with Dr. Roger Kuhn
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Mar 06, 2026 |
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Sexual Embodiment and Fantasy for Gay Men - Interview with Finn Deerhart
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Feb 27, 2026 |
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The Truth About Kink, BDSM & Leather in the Gay Community - Interview with Dr. Ty David Lerman
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Feb 20, 2026 |
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Overcoming Loneliness as a Gay Man - Interview with Cator Sparks
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Feb 16, 2026 |
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Money and Queer Relationships - Interview with Nick Wolny
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Feb 13, 2026 |
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Meth and Sex (Chemsex) A Dangerous Combination -Interview with Dallas Bragg
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Feb 09, 2026 |
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Fitness After 40 for Gay Men - Interview with Zach Taylor
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Feb 06, 2026 |
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Gay Conversion Therapy: A Survivor's Story - Interview with Dr. Luke Wilson
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Feb 03, 2026 |
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Queer Cinema, Community and Connection - Interview with Andy Scahill
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Jan 30, 2026 |
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Beyond Monogamy in Gay Relationships - Interview with Brian G. Murphy
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Jan 29, 2026 |
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Community, Heated Rivalry and Holistic Growth for Gay Men - Interview with Keegan Hirst
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Jan 27, 2026 |
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Sex, Authenticity, and Queer Joy - an Interview with Dr. Matthew Brinkley
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Jan 16, 2026 |
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The Sex Gay Men Are Really Craving - Interview with Vance Hedman
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Jan 09, 2026 |
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Making Friends as a GAY Man at a Retreat - Interview with Owen Schiller of Easton Mountain Retreats
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Jan 02, 2026 |
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Before you become a therapist, watch this - Interview with Dustin Oliver, MHC-LP, MA
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Dec 21, 2025 |
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Healing through Twerking and Art - Interview with Jayden Aubryn
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Dec 19, 2025 |
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How body shaming and body dysmorphia affect the gay community - Interview with Daniel O'Shaughnessy
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Dec 19, 2025 |