Listen to a podcast, please open Podcast Republic app. Available on Google Play Store and Apple App Store.
🎙️ New episodes every Tuesday and Thursday
Welcome to the place where love stops performing and starts telling the truth.
I’m a couples counsellor who works with the real moments of relationships — the disconnection, the misunderstandings, and the deep longing to feel safe and chosen. Using an emotionally focused couples therapy lens, I break down attachment patterns, communication breakdowns, and the cycles that keep couples stuck.
This podcast is for people who care deeply and want to understand what’s actually happening beneath the arguments, silence, or distance — without quick fixes or clichés.
Whether you’re healing your relationship, reconnecting, or breaking generational patterns around love and attachment, this is a space to slow down and grow.
Alongside relationship and attachment education, the podcast also explores narcissistic and coercive relational dynamics, emotional safety, emotionally unsafe systems, and the difference between genuine therapeutic support and dependency or emotional manipulation.
Just Listen to Me was created to support individuals and couples navigating relationship pain and attachment wounds, while also providing therapists, counsellors, and helping professionals with attachment-informed conversations that deepen clinical thinking, reflective practice, and emotionally focused work.
You’re welcome here. Let’s build relationships that feel safe, real, and alive.
The stories and relationship dynamics shared in this podcast are always de-identified and adapted to protect privacy and confidentiality. Many examples are composites based on common patterns seen across therapeutic work.
Available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, iHeartRadio, and wherever you get your podcasts.
Disclaimer:
This podcast is provided for educational and informational purposes only. The content is not intended to diagnose, treat, or provide professional mental health care, counselling, or psychological support. The information shared should not be considered a substitute for individualised advice or support from a qualified mental health professional. If you are experiencing significant distress or have concerns about your mental health or safety, please seek appropriate professional support.
| Episode | Date |
|---|---|
|
When You Stop Chasing and They Start Pursuing
|
Sep 22, 2026 |
|
Maeve & Otis — When Love Isn’t Enough: Attachment Lessons from Sex Education
|
Sep 17, 2026 |
|
Matched, Ghosted, Triggered: Dating Apps & Attachment
|
Sep 15, 2026 |
|
Are You Working Harder Than Your Client?
|
Sep 10, 2026 |
|
When the Pursuer Finally Gives Up: The Cycle of Shame
|
Sep 08, 2026 |
|
The Affair Without Sex: Understanding Emotional Infidelity
|
Sep 03, 2026 |
|
When One Partner Won't Engage: Now What?
|
Aug 27, 2026 |
|
Reactive Withdrawers: When Withdrawal Looks Like Anger
|
Aug 25, 2026 |
|
Are Piper & Alex A Trauma Bond? Attachment Lessons from Orange Is the New Black
|
Aug 13, 2026 |
|
Pornography: When Fantasy Becomes an Attachment Substitute
|
Aug 11, 2026 |
|
Beneath the Surface: Jungian Psychology and Attachment
|
Aug 06, 2026 |
|
When the Pursuer Gives Up: Understanding Pursuer Burnout
|
Aug 04, 2026 |
|
What Makes Us Human? Attachment Lessons from Resident Alien
|
Jul 30, 2026 |
|
Why We Stay In Situationships: The Attachment Perspective
|
Jul 28, 2026 |
|
The Biggest Mistake Couples Therapists Make: Treating Content Instead of Process
|
Jul 23, 2026 |
|
Weaponised Generational Trauma: When Pain Prevents Change
|
Jul 21, 2026 |
|
Texting Anxiety in Relationships: The Real Issue
|
Jul 18, 2026 |
|
It's Your Fault: Why We Blame Our Partner in Our Relationship
|
Jul 15, 2026 |
|
Generational Trauma: When the Past Lives in Our Relationships
|
Jul 11, 2026 |
|
When Couples Therapy Isn't Safe: Recognising Coercive Control in the Therapy Room
|
Jul 08, 2026 |
|
Coercive Control: The Abuse That Doesn't Leave Bruises
|
Jul 03, 2026 |
|
Autism in Relationships: When Love Speaks Different Languages
|
Jul 01, 2026 |
|
When Addiction Enters the Relationship: Trust, Betrayal and Attachment Wounds
|
May 29, 2026 |
|
Why Love Feels Hard When the Nervous System Is Struggling
|
May 27, 2026 |
|
What Safe Therapy Actually Feels Like
|
May 22, 2026 |
|
Not All Therapy That Feels Powerful Is Emotionally Safe
|
May 19, 2026 |
|
Why Trauma Bonds Happen: Attachment, Trauma & The Nervous System
|
May 15, 2026 |
|
Trauma Bonds: When Love and Fear Become Entangled
|
May 13, 2026 |
|
Not All Therapists Are Safe
|
May 07, 2026 |
|
When ADHD Affects Love: Understanding the Imbalance
|
May 05, 2026 |
|
How to Choose a Couples Counsellor (And What Most People Miss)
|
May 01, 2026 |
|
When He Chases: The Hidden Pain of Male Pursuers
|
Apr 29, 2026 |
|
When Women Withdraw: The Pattern Nobody Talks About
|
Apr 24, 2026 |
|
You’re Not Too Much: The Truth About Pursuers in Relationships
|
Apr 22, 2026 |
|
Why They Pull Away (It’s Not What You Think)
|
Apr 16, 2026 |
|
The Pattern You Keep Repeating? It's Trying to Heal You
|
Apr 13, 2026 |
|
The Relationship Pattern You Can't Escape
|
Apr 11, 2026 |
|
The Pattern Making You Both Feel Alone in Your Relationship
|
Apr 07, 2026 |
|
Your Family System Is Sabotaging Your Relationships - Here's Why
|
Mar 11, 2026 |
|
Time Doesn't Heal This Relationship Injury
|
Mar 09, 2026 |
|
Sexual Rejection Has Nothing to Do With Attraction
|
Mar 04, 2026 |
|
Trauma or Abuse? Why the Difference Saves Your Relationship
|
Mar 03, 2026 |
|
The Family Pattern Destroying Your Relationships
|
Feb 27, 2026 |
|
Hypervigilance After Infidelity: The Nervous System Trap You're Stuck In
|
Feb 24, 2026 |
|
Attachment Wounds: The Pattern Underneath Your Pain
|
Feb 20, 2026 |
|
The Real Enemy Isn't Your Partner — It's This Pattern
|
Feb 18, 2026 |
|
Breaking the Negative Cycle That Took Over Your Relationship
|
Feb 16, 2026 |