The Allender Center Podcast

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The Allender Center Podcast features Dr. Dan Allender and his team engaging topics on healing and restoration through the unique intersection of theology and psychology. Through questions submitted by listeners, stories, interviews, and conversations, we engage the deep places of heartache and hope that are rarely addressed so candidly in our culture today. Join us to gain refreshing insight into understanding your story, handling relational struggles, recovering from trauma and abuse, and more. The mission of The Allender Center is to help people tell their stories with awareness and integrity, and to train them to listen to the stories of others with care, artistry, and skill so that they may foster redemption and healing in their lives. The Allender Center is a pioneering organization committed to boldly engaging the impact of trauma and abuse, providing healing and teaching to individuals, couples, and communities, and training professionals to listen and enter into stories in a way that facilitates transformation and hope. For information on all our programs and live events, visit theallendercenter.org

Episode Date
Bearing Witness to Stories of Sexual Abuse and Racial Trauma
Mar 22, 2024
The Cost of Engaging Stories of Sexual Abuse
Mar 15, 2024
Racial Trauma: The Blessing & Cost of Resilience
Mar 08, 2024
The Foundations of Narrative Focused Trauma Care
Mar 01, 2024
The Heart of Narrative Focused Trauma Care
Feb 23, 2024
Qualities of a Good Friendship
Feb 16, 2024
The Sweetness of Discipline
Feb 10, 2024
Leadership, Uncertainty, and Hope with Dr. J. Derek McNeil
Feb 02, 2024
Engaging Stories of Spiritual Abuse
Jan 26, 2024
Identifying Systems of Spiritual Abuse
Jan 19, 2024
Containment and Attunement
Jan 12, 2024
“The Anxiety Opportunity” in the New Year with Curtis Chang
Jan 05, 2024
Reflections on the Year with Dan and Becky Allender
Dec 29, 2023
The Sensuality of the Table with Lauren Peiser
Dec 22, 2023
“The Paradise King” with Blaine Eldredge
Dec 15, 2023
Bonus Episode: The Healing Power of Understanding Your Story with Adam Young, Cathy Loerzel, and Dan Allender
Dec 11, 2023
Gifts of Delight and Wonder
Dec 08, 2023
Engaging Memory and Holiday Nostalgia
Dec 01, 2023
Food Insecurity with Diane Summers
Nov 17, 2023
Adult ADHD with Dr. Pam Davis
Nov 10, 2023
What is Effective Trauma Care?
Nov 03, 2023
Humility & Repair
Oct 27, 2023
“Strong Like Water” with Aundi Kolber
Oct 20, 2023
The Tension of Telling the Truth
Oct 13, 2023
Why We Don’t Tell the Truth
Oct 06, 2023
“Holy Runaways” with Matthias Roberts
Sep 29, 2023
Celebrating 500 Episodes: Listener Questions
Sep 22, 2023
Church After Mars Hill with Joel Kiekintveld
Sep 15, 2023
The Importance of Discourse With Dr. J. Derek McNeil
Sep 08, 2023
Neurotheology, Part 2: The Formation of Hope with Curt Thompson, MD
Sep 01, 2023
Neurotheology, Part 1: The Origins of Shame with Curt Thompson, MD
Aug 25, 2023
Understanding Gaslighting
Aug 18, 2023
3 Steps for Trauma Triage
Aug 11, 2023
Connecting Through Prayer with Jill Dyer
Aug 04, 2023
Epistemology: How We Know with Esther Lightcap Meek
Jul 28, 2023
“Everybody Come Alive” with Marcie Alvis Walker
Jul 21, 2023
The Eternality of Parenting
Jul 14, 2023
Returning to Unresolvable Conflicts
Jul 07, 2023
Creating Safety in Relationships
Jun 30, 2023
The Spirituality of Rest
Jun 23, 2023
The Spirituality of Song with Lowland Hum
Jun 16, 2023
The Spirituality of Craft with Melissa and Jordan Dowell
Jun 09, 2023
Stories of Our Bodies
Jun 02, 2023
Stories of Shame
May 26, 2023
“The Anxiety Opportunity” with Curtis Chang
May 19, 2023
The Transformative Journey of Pilgrimage with Brad & Rita Berglund
May 13, 2023
Processing Trauma Through Poiesis
May 05, 2023
Moving Through Grief
Apr 28, 2023
Friendship Cycles, Part 2
Apr 21, 2023
Friendship Cycles, Part 1
Apr 14, 2023
Defusing Triggers
Apr 08, 2023
Exposing the Schemes of Evil
Apr 01, 2023
Connecting Dots: Making Sense of Our Stories
Mar 25, 2023
Healing to Lead, Part 2
Mar 18, 2023
Healing to Lead, Part 1
Mar 11, 2023
Welcome Back, Rachael!
Mar 04, 2023
Memory and Story
Feb 25, 2023
Betrayal in Marriage
Feb 18, 2023
Attachment Stories in Marriage
Feb 11, 2023
Family of Origin with Dr. Dan Allender and Adam Young
Feb 04, 2023
Parenting the Parent
Jan 28, 2023
Unresolvable Conflict
Jan 21, 2023
Act Justly, Love Mercy, Walk Humbly
Jan 14, 2023
Intentions for the New Year
Jan 07, 2023
Meditation on the Year
Dec 31, 2022
The Disruption of the Incarnation
Dec 24, 2022
How the Incarnation Invites Creativity
Dec 16, 2022
Sharing in the Creativity of Christmas with Sue Cunningham
Dec 10, 2022
The Presence of the Incarnation with Alexander John Shaia
Dec 03, 2022
The Nature of Disappointment
Nov 26, 2022
Holiday Madness
Nov 19, 2022
Listener Questions: Engaging Past Trauma and Our Families of Origin
Nov 12, 2022
"Exit the Cave" with Blaine Hogan
Nov 05, 2022
Engaging Triggers in Marriage
Oct 29, 2022
Does Time Heal All Wounds?
Oct 22, 2022
Becoming a Sage
Oct 15, 2022
The Beauty of Intersectionality
Oct 08, 2022
The Narratives of Marginalization
Oct 01, 2022
Systems of Separation
Sep 24, 2022
Nuanced Identities
Sep 17, 2022
The Violence of Marginalization
Sep 10, 2022
Desire and Disappointment
Sep 03, 2022
Resilient Spirit: A Conversation with John Eldredge
Aug 27, 2022
Rushing for Relief: A Conversation with John Eldredge
Aug 20, 2022
Anchoring Rituals, Part 2 with Dr. Chelle Stearns and Matthias Roberts
Aug 13, 2022
Anchoring Rituals, Part 1 with Dr. Chelle Stearns and Matthias Roberts
Aug 06, 2022
Replay and Rest: Imagination and Hope
Aug 05, 2022
Replay and Rest: The Cost of Rest
Jul 23, 2022
Replay and Rest: Self Care with Practical Grounding Techniques
Jul 16, 2022
Rachael’s Maternity Leave
Jul 09, 2022
How Did We Get Here? With Pete Wehner
Jul 02, 2022
How Did We Get Here? With Pete Wehner
Jul 02, 2022
“This Here Flesh” with Cole Arthur Riley, Part Two
Jun 25, 2022
“This Here Flesh” with Cole Arthur Riley, Part One
Jun 18, 2022
Story Engagement with Kalee Vandergrift-Porter
Jun 11, 2022
Story Engagement with Jeanette White
Jun 04, 2022
Why Story?
May 28, 2022
The Origins of Dr. Dan Allender’s Work
May 21, 2022
Healing from Spiritual Abuse
May 14, 2022
Revisiting Spiritual Abuse
May 07, 2022
Care and Mercy for Post-Traumatic Stress
Apr 30, 2022
The Impacts of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder
Apr 23, 2022
What the Resurrection Brings
Apr 16, 2022
Experiencing Wholeheartedness
Apr 09, 2022
Becoming More Wholehearted
Apr 02, 2022
The Vulnerability of Christ
Mar 26, 2022
The Connection Between Supremacy and Sexual Abuse
Mar 19, 2022
Pornography & Our Stories of Desire (Part of the Sexual Abuse series)
Mar 12, 2022
Transforming Stories with the Enneagram
Mar 05, 2022
Lessons Learned in Parenting Adult Children
Feb 26, 2022
Relating To Parents As We Age
Feb 18, 2022
Addressing Our Trauma Stories Within Marriage
Feb 12, 2022
Deconstructing Our False Edens
Feb 06, 2022
Engaging Story in Lifelong Relationships
Jan 29, 2022
Self Care with Practical Grounding Techniques
Jan 22, 2022
Navigating Transitions One Step at a Time
Jan 15, 2022
Rituals & Rhythms for Intentionality
Jan 08, 2022
Rituals & Rhythms for a New Year
Jan 01, 2022
Mary’s Song: A Christmas Reading
Dec 25, 2021
The Gift of Connectedness
Dec 18, 2021
The Revolution in Mary’s Magnificat
Dec 11, 2021
Collective Healing: 10 Year Celebration
Dec 04, 2021
Grief & Gratitude in Partnerships and Parenting
Nov 27, 2021
Grief & Gratitude with Family of Origin
Nov 20, 2021
Relationship Between Grief & Gratitude
Nov 13, 2021
Remembering Formational Stories: 10 Year Celebration
Nov 06, 2021
When Hiding Keeps Us From Authenticity
Oct 29, 2021
Sabotage, Self-Contempt & Reenactment
Oct 23, 2021
Scapegoating, Projection, and Envy
Oct 16, 2021
When Rage Keeps us from Community
Oct 09, 2021
Friends from the Beginning: 10 Year Celebration
Oct 01, 2021
Healing from Spiritual and Sexual Abuse
Sep 25, 2021
Connections Between Spiritual and Sexual Abuse
Sep 18, 2021
The Making of Redeeming Heartache
Sep 11, 2021
Stories from 10 Years of The Allender Center
Sep 03, 2021
Engaging Our Stories with Adam Young
Aug 27, 2021
Engaging Our Stories with Sue Cunningham
Aug 20, 2021
Engaging Our Stories with Gwen St. John
Aug 14, 2021
Fly Fishing, Play, and Restoration
Aug 06, 2021
Curiosity and Hospitality
Jul 30, 2021
Providing Hospitality: A Conversation with Becky Allender
Jul 23, 2021
What Is Hospitality? A Conversation with Dr. Tremper Longman III
Jul 17, 2021
Trauma-Informed Parenting with Abby Wong-Heffter
Jul 09, 2021
Trauma-Informed Care with Abby Wong-Heffter
Jul 03, 2021
Food, Kindness, and Our Bodies
Jun 26, 2021
Engaging Food & Body
Jun 19, 2021
Flourishing and Anticipation
Jun 12, 2021
A Different Kind of Flourishing
Jun 05, 2021
Defining Spiritual Abuse
May 29, 2021
Collective Grief
May 22, 2021
Encountering Grief: Jeanette White
May 14, 2021
Encountering Grief: Mary Ellen Owen
May 08, 2021
Revisiting Our Stories, Part Two
May 01, 2021
Revisiting Our Stories, Part One
Apr 24, 2021
Stop Asian Hate: Christian Responses to Anti-Asian Racism – Real Talk from Impact Movement
Apr 17, 2021
Stop Asian Hate: Christian Responses to Anti-Asian Racism – Real Talk from Impact Movement
Apr 17, 2021
The Resurrection Story
Apr 09, 2021
Disruption and Defiance in the Resurrection
Apr 02, 2021
Mental Health: How to Help Kids in a Pandemic
Mar 26, 2021
Play, Anxiety, and Resilience: How to help kids in a pandemic
Mar 19, 2021
Practicing Kindness: Trauma and the Body
Mar 12, 2021
Trauma and the Body in Pandemic
Mar 04, 2021
Connection in Relationships
Feb 26, 2021
Conflict in Relationships
Feb 20, 2021
Keeping Sabbath
Feb 13, 2021
Sabbath, Explained
Feb 06, 2021
Racial Reconciliation with Dr. Brenda Salter McNeil and Wendell Moss
Jan 29, 2021
Listener Questions about Narcissism with Chuck DeGroat
Jan 22, 2021
Narcissism and the Church with Chuck DeGroat
Jan 15, 2021
Engaging and Navigating Regret
Jan 08, 2021
Holding Hope for a New Year
Jan 01, 2021
How to Remember a Year
Dec 25, 2020
Living into the Tension of Advent: Rev. Michael S. Chen
Dec 18, 2020
Living into the Tension of Advent: Cole Arthur Riley
Dec 11, 2020
Living into the Tension of Advent: Dr. J. Derek McNeil and Kate Davis
Dec 04, 2020
Holding the Tension of Grief, Gratitude, and Grace
Nov 25, 2020
Engaging Grief and Gratitude
Nov 20, 2020
Contempt and Kindness in the Kingdom of God
Nov 13, 2020
Engaging Fear and Uncertainty in the Kingdom of God
Nov 06, 2020
Calling & Character: King and Queen Archetype
Oct 30, 2020
Calling & Character: Prophet Archetype
Oct 24, 2020
Calling & Character: Priest Archetype
Oct 16, 2020
Calling & Character: Priest, Prophet, King
Oct 09, 2020
How Are You Doing? Checking in with Dan and Rachael
Oct 02, 2020
Relationships between Married Couples and Single People
Sep 25, 2020
Rituals to Redeem Your Marriage
Sep 18, 2020
Engaging Triggers in Marriage
Sep 11, 2020
The Reality of Marriage in COVID-19
Sep 05, 2020
Developing a Theology of Abuse with Dr. Chelle Stearns
Aug 28, 2020
The Particulars of Spiritual Abuse: Dissociation and Healing
Aug 21, 2020
The Particulars of Spiritual Abuse: Mind Control and Loyalty
Aug 14, 2020
Curiosity & Commitment: Qualities of a Well-Lived Story
Aug 07, 2020
Courage: Qualities of a Well-Lived Story
Jul 31, 2020
Kindness: Qualities of a Well-Lived Story
Jul 24, 2020
Qualities of a Well-Lived Story
Jul 17, 2020
A Conversation with Sarah Bessey
Jul 10, 2020
Pause: Looking Ahead to the Summer
Jul 03, 2020
Listener Questions: Trauma and Relationships
Jun 26, 2020
Listener Questions: Bad Theology
Jun 19, 2020
Partnerships in Racial Justice Work
Jun 12, 2020
Racial Trauma and White Supremacy
Jun 06, 2020
Connection in Marriage During a Pandemic
May 29, 2020
Parenting in the Midst of a Pandemic
May 22, 2020
Routine and Rituals in Covid-19, Part Two
May 15, 2020
Routine and Rituals in Covid-19, Part One
May 08, 2020
Food and Body, Part Three
May 01, 2020
Food and Body, Part Two
Apr 24, 2020
Food and Body, Part One
Apr 17, 2020
Holding the Tension of Holy Saturday
Apr 10, 2020
Preparing for Holy Week
Apr 03, 2020
Love and Courage in a Global Pandemic, Part Three
Mar 27, 2020
What Does it Mean to Submit to Authority?
Mar 20, 2020
Love and Courage in a Global Pandemic, Part Two
Mar 19, 2020
Love and Courage in a Global Pandemic, Part One
Mar 17, 2020
Trust and Submission to Authority
Mar 13, 2020
Complexity in Authority
Mar 06, 2020
Attachment and Relationships, Part Three
Feb 28, 2020
Attachment and Relationships, Part Two
Feb 22, 2020
Attachment and Relationships, Part One
Feb 14, 2020
Reconnection in Marriage with Dr. Dan Allender and Dr. Steve Call (re-release)
Feb 12, 2020
What Women Wish Women Knew about Women’s Sexuality
Feb 07, 2020
What Women Wish Men Knew about Women’s Sexuality
Jan 31, 2020
A Time of Transition, Part Two
Jan 25, 2020
A Time of Transition, Part One
Jan 17, 2020
Ending and Beginning: Regret
Jan 10, 2020
Ending and Beginning: Regret
Jan 03, 2020
Implications of the Incarnation: Becoming the Word Flesh
Dec 27, 2019
Implications of the Incarnation: Flesh: The Word Became
Dec 20, 2019
Implications of the Incarnation: The Word Made Flesh
Dec 13, 2019
Gratitude and Repentance, Part Three
Dec 06, 2019
Gratitude and Repentance, Part Two
Nov 26, 2019
Gratitude and Repentance, Part One
Nov 22, 2019
Complexities in Leadership, Part Two
Nov 15, 2019
Complexities in Leadership, Part One
Nov 08, 2019
What Men wish Women Knew about Sexuality
Nov 01, 2019
What Men Wish Men Knew About Sexuality
Oct 25, 2019
Becoming an Anti-Racist, Part Two
Oct 18, 2019
Becoming an Anti-Racist, Part One
Oct 11, 2019
Planning and Remembering Weddings, Part Two
Oct 04, 2019
Planning and Remembering Weddings, Part One
Sep 27, 2019
Facing Failure, Part 3
Sep 20, 2019
Facing Failure, Part 2
Sep 13, 2019
Facing Failure, Part 1
Sep 06, 2019
Aging, Part Three
Aug 30, 2019
Aging, Part Two
Aug 24, 2019
Aging, Part One
Aug 17, 2019
Scapegoating, Part Three
Aug 09, 2019
Scapegoating, Part Two
Aug 02, 2019
Hope in Trauma with Abby Wong-Heffter
Jul 31, 2019
Scapegoating, Part One
Jul 26, 2019
A Summer of Play, Part Four
Jul 19, 2019
A Summer of Play, Part Three
Jul 12, 2019
A Summer of Play, Part Two
Jul 05, 2019
A Summer of Play, Part One
Jun 28, 2019
Imagination and Hope in Psalm 131
Jun 21, 2019
Calm and Quiet in Psalm 131
Jun 14, 2019
Entitlement and Pride in Psalm 131
Jun 07, 2019
Defiance and Healing from Spiritual Abuse
May 24, 2019
Dissociation and Shame in Spiritual Abuse
May 17, 2019
Suspicion and Loyalty in Spiritual Abuse
May 10, 2019
Mind Control and Dogmatism in Spiritual Abuse
May 03, 2019
Caring for Leaders in Erotic Entanglement, Part Two
Apr 26, 2019
Caring for Leaders in Erotic Entanglement, Part One
Apr 19, 2019
Caring for Leaders, Part Two
Apr 12, 2019
Caring for Leaders, Part One
Apr 05, 2019
Not Doing Well, Part Three
Mar 29, 2019
Not Doing Well, Part Two
Mar 22, 2019
Not Doing Well, Part One
Mar 15, 2019
Family of Origin: Redeeming Triangulation
Mar 08, 2019
Family of Origin: Triangulation
Mar 01, 2019
Family of Origin: Patterns and Particularities
Feb 22, 2019
Family of Origin: Attachment and Epigenetics
Feb 15, 2019
Reconnection in Marriage, Part Two
Feb 08, 2019
Reconnection in Marriage, Part One
Feb 01, 2019
Delight, Discernment, and Decision-making, Part Three
Jan 25, 2019
Delight, Discernment, and Decision-Making, Part Two
Jan 18, 2019
Reconnection in Marriage, Part Two
Jan 11, 2019
Delight, Discernment, and Decision-Making, Part One
Jan 11, 2019
Starting a Year with Intention and Care
Jan 04, 2019
Looking Back on the Year
Dec 28, 2018
Home for the Holidays, Part Three
Dec 21, 2018
Home for the Holidays, Part Two
Dec 14, 2018
Home for the Holidays, Part One
Dec 07, 2018
Stumbling Toward Wholeness, Part Two
Nov 30, 2018
Stumbling Toward Wholeness, Part One
Nov 23, 2018
Defiant Joy with Stasi Eldredge, Part Two
Nov 16, 2018
Defiant Joy with Stasi Eldredge, Part One
Nov 09, 2018
Trauma and Memory in The Tale, Part Two
Nov 02, 2018
Trauma and Memory in The Tale, Part One
Oct 26, 2018
Four Years of The Allender Center Podcast
Oct 19, 2018
Sexual Brokenness and Healing, Part Three
Oct 12, 2018
Sexual Brokenness and Healing, Part Two
Oct 05, 2018
Sexual Brokenness and Healing, Part One
Sep 28, 2018
Trauma, Race, and Masculinity with Wendell Moss, Part Two
Sep 21, 2018
Trauma, Race, and Masculinity with Wendell Moss, Part One
Sep 15, 2018
Intriguing Scriptures, Part Four: Dr. Craig Detweiler
Sep 07, 2018
Intriguing Scriptures, Part Three: Dr. Derek McNeil
Aug 31, 2018
Intriguing Scriptures, Part Two: Dr. Angela Parker
Aug 24, 2018
Intriguing Scriptures, Part One: Dr. Chelle Stearns
Aug 17, 2018
Parenting Adult Children, Part Two
Aug 10, 2018
Parenting Adult Children, Part One
Aug 03, 2018
An Epidemic of Loneliness, Part Three
Jul 27, 2018
An Epidemic of Loneliness, Part Two
Jul 20, 2018
An Epidemic of Loneliness, Part One
Jul 13, 2018
Spiritual Formation with Nancy Kane, Part Two
Jul 06, 2018
Spiritual Formation with Nancy Kane, Part One
Jun 29, 2018
Summer Hospitality, Part Two
Jun 22, 2018
Summer Hospitality, Part One
Jun 15, 2018
Summer Reading: Just Mercy
Jun 08, 2018
Summer Reading: Survivor Cafe
Jun 01, 2018
A Theology of Abuse with Dr. Chelle Stearns, Part Two
May 25, 2018
A Theology of Abuse with Dr. Chelle Stearns, Part One
May 18, 2018
Telling Stories with Dr. Craig Detweiler, Part Two
May 11, 2018
Telling Stories with Dr. Craig Detweiler, Part One
May 04, 2018
Wisdom with Dr. Tremper Longman, Part Three
Apr 27, 2018
Wisdom with Dr. Tremper Longman, Part Two
Apr 20, 2018
Wisdom with Dr. Tremper Longman, Part One
Apr 13, 2018
Trauma and Healing in Black Panther, Part Two
Apr 06, 2018
Trauma and Healing in Black Panther, Part One
Mar 30, 2018
Listener Feedback: Spiritual Abuse
Mar 23, 2018
Spiritual Abuse, Part Three
Mar 16, 2018
Spiritual Abuse, Part Two
Mar 09, 2018
Spiritual Abuse, Part One
Mar 02, 2018
Story Sage, Part Three
Feb 23, 2018
Story Sage, Part Two
Feb 16, 2018
Story Sage, Part One
Feb 09, 2018
Dan and Becky Allender: Hiding No More, Part Two
Feb 02, 2018
Dan and Becky Allender: Hiding No More, Part One
Jan 26, 2018
Hospitality in Music: An Interview with Lowland Hum, Part Two
Jan 19, 2018
Hospitality in Music: An Interview with Lowland Hum
Jan 12, 2018
Writing a New Story in 2018
Jan 05, 2018
Ending the Year with Intention
Dec 29, 2017
Deeper Levels of Disruption: Advent, Part Three
Dec 15, 2017
Advent, Part Two: Dazed and Confused
Dec 08, 2017
Advent, Part One: Conflict around Christmas
Dec 01, 2017
Opening Up to Receive and Give
Nov 24, 2017
Race and Trauma, Part Three
Nov 17, 2017
Race and Trauma, Part Two
Nov 10, 2017
Race and Trauma, Part One
Nov 03, 2017
Dealing with Difficult People, Part Three
Oct 27, 2017
Dealing with Difficult People, Part Two
Oct 20, 2017
Dealing with Difficult People, Part One
Oct 13, 2017
Processing by Active Participation: Healing the Wounded Heart, Part 2
Oct 06, 2017
The Power of Community: Healing the Wounded Heart, Part 1
Sep 29, 2017
Story Writing: Revealing What You Could Not See (Part 4 on Story)
Sep 23, 2017
Story Themes: How Particulars Form Threads (Part 3 on Story)
Sep 16, 2017
Irritation or Intrigue: You Choose (Part 2 on Story)
Sep 09, 2017
Catastrophic Stories: In Response to Houston
Sep 02, 2017
Reflection and Transition: A Summer Reprise
Aug 26, 2017
Beautiful Scars: A Conversation with Lauren Bethell, Part Four
Aug 19, 2017
Beautiful Scars: A Conversation with Lauren Bethell, Part Three
Aug 12, 2017
Beautiful Scars: A Conversation with Lauren Bethell, Part Two
Aug 05, 2017
Beautiful Scars: A Conversation with Lauren Bethell, Part One
Jul 29, 2017
Finding Treasure in the Dirt, Part Three
Jul 22, 2017
Finding Treasure in the Dirt, Part Two
Jul 15, 2017
Finding Treasure in the Dirt, Part One
Jul 08, 2017
Grief, Emotions, and Essential Oils, Part Two
Jul 01, 2017
Grief, Emotions, and Essential Oils, Part One
Jun 24, 2017
Hitting the Road
Jun 17, 2017
Training for a Church That’s Not Here Yet, Part Two
Jun 10, 2017
Training for a Church That’s Not Here Yet, Part One
Jun 03, 2017
The Marriage Quadrants, Part Six
May 27, 2017
The Marriage Quadrants, Part Five
May 20, 2017
The Marriage Quadrant, Part Four
May 13, 2017
The Marriage Quadrants, Part Three
May 06, 2017
The Marriage Quadrants, Part Two
Apr 29, 2017
The Marriage Quadrants, Part One
Apr 22, 2017
Grieving the Death of a Parent, Part Two
Apr 15, 2017
Grieving the Death of a Parent, Part One
Apr 08, 2017
Spiritual Warfare, Part Four
Apr 01, 2017
Spiritual Warfare, Part Three
Mar 25, 2017
Spiritual Warfare, Part Two
Mar 18, 2017
Spiritual Warfare, Part One
Mar 11, 2017
Ambivalence and Our Wounded Hearts, Part Two
Mar 04, 2017
Ambivalence and Our Wounded Hearts, Part One
Feb 25, 2017
The Grief of Miscarriage, Part Four
Feb 18, 2017
The Grief of Miscarriage, Part Three
Feb 11, 2017
The Grief of Miscarriage, Part Two
Feb 04, 2017
The Grief of Miscarriage, Part One
Jan 28, 2017
Sabbath, Part Two: 40 Years of Marriage
Jan 21, 2017
Sabbath, Part One: A Taste of the Kingdom
Jan 14, 2017
Beginning a New Year
Jan 07, 2017
Ending a Year
Dec 31, 2016
Advent, Part 4: Celebrating
Dec 24, 2016
Advent, Part 3: Welcoming
Dec 17, 2016
Advent, Part 2: Preparing
Dec 10, 2016
Advent, Part 1: Anticipating
Dec 03, 2016
Gratitude
Nov 26, 2016
Trauma and the Body with Heather Mirous, Part Three
Nov 19, 2016
Trauma and the Body with Heather Mirous, Part Two
Nov 12, 2016
Trauma and the Body with Heather Mirous, Part One
Nov 05, 2016
Celebrating 100 Episodes: Dissociation in Marriage
Oct 29, 2016
Celebrating 100 Episodes
Oct 22, 2016
What a Therapist Looks for in a Client, Part Two
Oct 15, 2016
What a Therapist Looks for in a Client, Part One
Oct 08, 2016
How to Pick a Therapist, Part Two
Oct 01, 2016
How to Pick a Therapist, Part One
Sep 24, 2016
Healing the Wounded Heart: A New Offering
Sep 17, 2016
The Four J’s: Jonah the Self-righteous Prophet
Sep 10, 2016
The Four J’s: Joseph the Humbled King
Sep 03, 2016
The Four J’s: Jeremiah the Mad Prophet
Aug 27, 2016
The Coach and the Therapist: A Conversation with Rick Maguire, Part Two
Aug 20, 2016
Beautiful Risks: A Conversation with Rick Maguire, Part One
Aug 13, 2016
The Four J’s: Jacob the Trickster
Aug 06, 2016
The Four J’s: An Introduction to Character
Jul 30, 2016
The Trauma of Microaggressions: The Spectrum of Trauma, Part Three
Jul 23, 2016
Trauma and Desire: The Spectrum of Trauma, Part Two
Jul 16, 2016
The Spectrum of Trauma, Part One
Jul 09, 2016
Authenticity and Humility: The Binds of Leadership, Part 3
Jul 02, 2016
Hope and Envy: The Binds of Leadership, Part 2
Jun 25, 2016
The Binds of Leadership: A Conversation with Rachael Clinton
Jun 18, 2016
Join the Work of Multiplying Transformation
Jun 11, 2016
Listening in Lament: An Interview with Dr. Keith Anderson
Jun 04, 2016
Mysticism and Pragmatism: An Interview with Dr. Keith Anderson
May 28, 2016
Spirituality of Listening: An Interview with Dr. Keith Anderson
May 21, 2016
Wisdom in Relationships
May 16, 2016
Wisdom and the Inner Ring
May 07, 2016
Wisdom and Foolishness
Apr 30, 2016
Wisdom, Part One
Apr 23, 2016
A Story Worth Living, Part Two
Apr 16, 2016
A Story Worth Living
Apr 09, 2016
Dan Allender and Tremper Longman on the Nature of Friendship, Part Two
Apr 02, 2016
Dan Allender and Tremper Longman on the Nature of Friendship, Part One
Mar 26, 2016
Training Wounded Healers, Part Three
Mar 19, 2016
Training Wounded Healers, Part Two
Mar 12, 2016
Training Wounded Healers, Part One
Mar 05, 2016
Healing the Wounded Heart, Part Three
Feb 27, 2016
Healing the Wounded Heart, Part Two
Feb 22, 2016
Healing the Wounded Heart, Part One
Feb 13, 2016
Restoration of the Heart, Part Two
Feb 06, 2016
Restoration of the Heart, Part One
Jan 30, 2016
Listener Questions, Part Three
Jan 23, 2016
Listener Questions, Part Two
Jan 16, 2016
Listener Questions, Part One
Jan 09, 2016
Beginning the Year Well
Jan 02, 2016
Ending the Year Well
Dec 26, 2015
Home for the Holidays, Part 3
Dec 19, 2015
Home for the Holidays, Part 2
Dec 12, 2015
Home for the Holidays
Dec 05, 2015
Grandparenting
Nov 28, 2015
Grace Is in the World
Nov 21, 2015
Marriage: Becoming One Flesh, Part 1
Nov 14, 2015
Marriage: Becoming One Flesh, Part 1
Nov 07, 2015
Marriage: Cleaving and Soul Connecting, Part 2
Oct 31, 2015
Marriage: Cleaving and Soul Connecting
Oct 25, 2015
Marriage: The Trials of Leaving, Part 2
Oct 17, 2015
Marriage: The Trials of Leaving
Oct 10, 2015
Restoration of the Heart: A Conversation with John Eldredge
Oct 03, 2015
Design of Desire: The Delight of Desire
Sep 27, 2015
Design of Desire: God’s Engagement with Desire
Sep 19, 2015
Design of Desire: Creational Desires
Sep 12, 2015
Design of Desire: The Struggle with Desire
Sep 05, 2015
Play, Part Four
Aug 22, 2015
Play, Part Three
Aug 15, 2015
Play, Part Two
Aug 08, 2015
Play, Part One
Aug 01, 2015
Play, Story, and Motorcycles: A Conversation with John Eldredge
Jul 25, 2015
High School Reunion, Part 2
Jul 18, 2015
An Interview with John Cunningham, Part 2
Jul 11, 2015
An Interview with John Cunningham, Part 1
Jul 04, 2015
High School Reunion
Jun 27, 2015
An Interview with Susan Cunningham
Jun 20, 2015
Questions of engaging my story.
Jun 13, 2015
What if I fear my story?
Jun 06, 2015
How do I trust my memory?
May 30, 2015
No one's story is normal
May 23, 2015
When endings don't go well
May 16, 2015
Ending Well
May 09, 2015
Sabotage - Endings
May 02, 2015
Endings
Apr 25, 2015
Owning our work
Apr 19, 2015
Carrying Trauma - part 2
Apr 11, 2015
Carrying Trauma - part 1
Apr 04, 2015
Trauma Care in Galatians 6 - Restoring
Mar 28, 2015
Vicarious Trauma and the Church
Mar 21, 2015
Trauma, marriage, and the church
Mar 14, 2015
Trauma and the church
Mar 07, 2015
Naming and reflecting the beauty of God in our stories
Feb 28, 2015
Naming our wounds
Feb 21, 2015
Learning to bless our stories
Feb 14, 2015
The cost of rest
Feb 08, 2015
Sabbatical & Sabbath
Jan 30, 2015
The first step in helping others
Jan 16, 2015
Our past and the role of attachment
Jan 02, 2015
Advent Joy: Rejoice & Lament
Dec 19, 2014
Engaging Our Story of Harm and Abuse.
Dec 12, 2014
Defining Trauma and Abuse
Dec 05, 2014
History of Harm
Nov 28, 2014
Why is sex important to God?
Nov 21, 2014
An Honest Conversation.
Nov 14, 2014
Writing "God Loves Sex"
Nov 07, 2014
How does my relationship with my family of origin impact my marriage?
Oct 31, 2014
How does past sexual experiences impact my marriage?
Oct 24, 2014
How can my spouse and I do better at resolving ongoing conflict?
Oct 17, 2014
How can I build greater intimacy with my spouse?
Oct 10, 2014