In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the importance of leading by example and provides SIX strategies to help garner influence with others. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. We have to be humble
2. Must accept the weight of leadership
3. Evaluate your own performance
4. Leadership requires an “us” mentality
5. Continual improvement
6. Effective communication

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler takes on your questions from Instagram. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Episode intro⠀

(3:20) When you have a lot on your plate, how do you keep your sanity and your family in tact?

(8:20) Will I ever see you again on the mats in Maine?

(9:20) Is there a book you would recommend, along with the Bible, to help with your walk as a Christian?

(10:25) How is sobriety and how can I support your journey?

(13:30) How do you think people build community when people tend to keep opposing views as far away as possible?

(19:00) How do you start a t-shirt printing business without using amazon or bulk ordering?

(23:40) How are you dealing with losing your marriage at this early stage?

(32:50) How do I allow myself grace when trying to start something new?

(40:00) Do you ever find it hard to find motivation? Do you ever want to quit doing your podcast?

(42:00) How did you get your son into lifting?

(46:00) How do you cope with the “I’m to old to start over” thoughts?

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“I’m babysitting my kids,” is likely something a lot of you fathers have used as an excuse or reason not to do something else. I know I certainly have. But we don’t really babysit, do we. Babysitting our children implies they aren’t our inherent responsibility and that, obviously, is not the case.

My guest today, Nate Feathers, makes the case against “babysitting our children,” and, instead, shows fathers a better way to approach the relationship between father and son or daughter. Today, we talk about kids mimicking our behavior, the changes in culture with regards to fatherhood, how to bond effectively with newborns, toddlers, and teens, learning to let go of your children, how to keep the relationship (and sex life) with your wife thriving, and why it’s not accurate to assume that you’re ever “babysitting” your children.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Fathers can be disciplined AND kind
• The biological connection between mothers and children
• How fathers can bond with newborn babies
• Skin to skin contact with your kids
• Women take what we give them and make it better
• Enjoying your kids through the years
• Most guys should provide less structure, not more
• Focus on the moment, with your kids and with your wife
• Advice for single fathers

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses how the key to finding joy and happiness is being present in the moment and offers FIVE strategies to put this into action. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

• Learn to be as efficient and effective as possible in other areas of life
• Learn how to set boundaries
• Eliminate distractions
• Don’t let thoughts bounce around in your head (write it down)
• Pruning and weeding our lives

Bonus tip: Let go of the hidden agenda

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Instagram. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Episode intro⠀

(10:40) How do you get through letting the woman you love and the mother of your children go?

(25:15) Would you say God is in favor of divorce? And if not, how did you feel, getting a divorce, knowing that it was going against God’s wishes?

(32:10) Is it normal to feel guilty when trying to level up and reach for your dreams?

(40:40) how do you help a loved one who feels like they are letting you down, when you feel like they are doing the best they can in the grand scheme of things?

(42:20) How do you handle when your beset isn’t good enough?

(47:30) How would you deal with an overbearing mother-in-law, particularly regarding the kids?

(51:40) How, as a man, do you deal with feeling inadequate?

(54:50) How do you get involved with a new community when moving to a new city and you don’t know anyone?

(57:00) In what places is stoicism necessary and in what places should men be more open?

(1:05:20) How can young sons with weak, tyrant fathers reconcile that relationship?

(1:08:10) How can you filter out what we read and watch?

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The mid-life crisis. It’s something we’ve all heard about. Many men have likely experienced it. Typically, the midlife crisis is associated with driving around a sports car from your childhood and trying to land women 10-15 years your younger. But the midlife crisis is a bit more nuanced than that and doesn’t require looking or acting like a d-bag to navigate it. In fact, if handled correctly, men’s middle years can be some of the most powerful and transformative years of his life.

Today, I’m joined by Greg Scheinman to talk about how to make that happen. We talk about overcoming trauma and victimization, what he calls “over-indexing” in certain aspects of your life, six “f’s” of life to focus on, the power of purpose, process, and payoff, and how to successfully navigate the midlife crisis.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Is the word “trauma” overused?
• Determine what you need to be doing
• The 6 F’s: Family, fitness, finance, food, fashion, fun
• Causes of the midlife crisis
• What can you do to turn things around?
• You have to have an action plan
• We need to schedule our fun
• Lead your family by example
• Defining the line of what is acceptable in society
• “Authenticity” is not an excuse to be a jerk
• Finding the positive in the midlife “crisis”

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the importance of actually measuring your progress toward goals. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

• Achieving success without using systems and measurement is non-duplicatable
• Progress toward some goals is hard to track, but we can still design metrics
• Men are delusional: we think we are better and more productive than we are - If we are not tracking, we will continue to delude ourselves

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Episode intro⠀

(10:30) Is it important to understand what hope is and where it comes from? What is your source of hope?

(18:00) What steps would you take when entering a step-father role for an 8-year-old girl?

(26:00) How do you balance being disciplined with your Battle Plan when you are on a trip for the holidays?

(33:30) How can we understand the difference between motivation and discipline?

(36:40) How do I deal with regrets of lost time? I feel like I have wasted my 20s.

(43:20) Is self-respect internal or a learned trait?

(51:50) What is your advice for when we need to choose between two difficult decisions in life?

(54:20) How can I help my wife when she is feeling disconnected and stressed?

(1:01:30) How do I lead up the chain of command when my superior seems clueless and disinterested in what is going on in my area of responsibility?

(1:05:00) I feel like I am doing all the right things but my heart is still broken. How do I begin to find joy and happiness?

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Running a business and leading a family can be such a challenging aspect of life. Both require so much time and attention and although similar in a lot of ways, the way you lead professionally is not always translatable into leading personally.

My guest today is Steve Chou, the author of The Family First Entrepreneur. Today, Steve and I talk about not being a stranger to your kids, practical strategies for avoiding burnout and unnecessary stress, whether you should stay at your current employment or “burn the boats” when starting a side business, and how side-hustles boost confidence! A lot of these things I wish I would have learned a whole lot sooner.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• The line between helping your kids and making them figure things out
• Building a business while not sacrificing the relationship with loved ones
• Being driven by ego vs being driven by service
• Knowing your purpose
• Ignorance contributing to Asian hate
• Everyone should have a side hustle
• Staying focused on one thing at a time
• Different approaches to outsourcing
• Weighing business opportunities against family time
• Getting your kids involved with the business
• Opportunities and drawbacks with AI

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses three factors that contribute to the isolation  that many men feel and offers five strategies that will help you overcome this loneliness. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

Factors that contribute to isolation as men

1. The myth of the “lone wolf”
2. The world has become overly feminized
3. People believe there is a lack of other high caliber men

Strategies to help men overcome loneliness

1. Be an initiator
2. Do the right activities
3. Always save one spot
4. Always be in the networking mindset
5. Be hyper consistent

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Instagram. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Episode kick-off⠀

(13:45) How can I encourage my wife to be more intentional and strategic with her actions when dealing with a challenging situation at work?

(25:30) Do you have any experience with or have you interviewed anyone regarding mindfulness meditations?

(26:50) Are you and Brecken going to continue recording the Man in the Making podcast?

(29:50) What do you do when a group outgrows its weakest member?

(38:00) If you could pay for three skills, what would they be and why?

(49:00) Would you recommend getting married and why?

(51:40) How do I deal with emotions or opinions that I cant understand or pinpoint?

(1:05:50) How impactful do you feel that therapy has been?

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All of us have heard from men who wonder if it’s too late to start in life. Many of them believe they may have missed the one shot they had to make something of themselves, or they’ve “wasted” too much of their lives. My guest today, Founder of Not Dead Yet, Matthew Vincent, makes the case that it’s never too late to start as long as there is air in your lungs and blood pumping through your heart.

Today, we have an extremely fascinating discussion on so many different topics including several we don’t see eye to eye on. Specifically, we talk about the scarcity vs. abundant mindset, the value of hate and love, the dangers in the “hedonic treadmill,” connecting with others as a powerful motive for overcoming destructive behavior, and the immense liberty found in becoming completely aware of yourself.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Hating yourself vs. loving yourself
• We don’t pick our starting point
• Pleasure vs. fulfillment and the hedonic treadmill
• Appreciating the ability to choose our passions
• People are the solution and the problem
• Shared responsibility in understanding communication
• Using and understanding psychedelics
• Knowing how to use substances as tools to serve you
• Need to program time to relax
• Body dysmorphia and transgenderism
• We need to be able to question things
• We are responsible for what we expose ourselves to
• We need to be intentional with how we spend our energy

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses why men should be seeking courage rather than confidence and how the pursuit of courage will lead to confidence when going after our goals.  Ryan also offers five steps men can implement to become more courageous. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. Make a plan
2. Make a bigger deal out of things that you should
3. Don’t tie your worth to the outcome of your actions
4. Surround yourself with courageous people
5. Practice being courageous

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Show kick-off⠀

(8:00) What is your advice to men top finally take that first step toward conquering the thing that challenges them most?

(20:20) How do I deal with the regrets of wasted time?

(25:00) Do you think the Order of Man and Iron Council is the best way for men to interact and learn from each other?

(30:20) How did you manage working long hours when you were building your side business, while not neglecting fitness and your family?

(38:00) Do you plan to address the specific problems that led to your divorce?

(47:00) Why does nothing I ever do seem like enough?

(53:30) How do you stay consistent with your vision?

(56:20) What should I consider when preparing for a potential strike at my company?

(58:40) What is your current belt color in Jiu-Jitsu?

(59:00) What role do you think religion and faith have in raising children?

(1:01:20) What is the relationship between God’s sovereignty and a man’s responsibility?

(1:06:00) How has going through a divorce changed the way you view other areas in your life?

(1:10:40) How do you not let feelings of resentment and betrayal influence your communication with your ex-wife?

(1:16:40) How are you dealing with the grief of losing your marriage during this time?

(1:18:50) what advice would you give someone who is struggling with self-confidence and what others’ perception of him is?

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I think we can all agree that dating isn’t what it used to be even 20 years ago. With the rise of hook-up culture, extreme feminism, woke ideology, and a general increase in degeneracy today, it can feel impossible at times to find the right woman, let alone start a relationship with her.

My guest today is David Meessen, a dating coach for men, who has helped hundreds of men overcome confidence issues, improve communication, and attract high-value women. Today, David and I talk about the rise in resentment towards women (and how that doesn’t help your cause), why your intent is more important than your tactics when approaching women, how to become verbally agile, showing proof of who you are over your promises, why needs not being met is the single greatest factor in emotional insecurity, and whether it’s better to win over her brain or her heart.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Why dating has gotten MORE difficult
• Why are many guys afraid to approach beautiful women?
• Most men care too much and hinder their own self-expression
• You can’t just talk to the best looking women
• Dating advice for introverts
• The scientific difference between introverts and extroverts
• We need to be diligent and patient when choosing our partner
• You have to be able to disagree with attractive women
• The importance of finding someone who is aligned with your most important values
• Knowing when it is better to separate
• Some women want a kiss on the first date
• Men need to communicate their personality effectively on the first date
• Determine incompatibility as quickly as possible
• Dating is not a “negotiation”

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FIVE reasons why every man should consider starting a business and some things you should consider when deciding what kind of business to start.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. Hedge against risk with current career
2. Make more money
3. Tax benefits
4. Fulfilment
5. Skill development

Things to consider when looking to start a business:

1. Look to your strengths:
2. • If someone is asking for your advice at something, it’s probably a strength
   • What are you doing when time goes the fastest (Zone of Genius)
   • What would you be doing if money weren’t a concern?
3. Talk to people about what they are doing for a business
4. You have to sell something
5. Implement the feedback

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Show kick-off⠀

(6:50) Do you have any insights and tips for speaking more smoothly and naturally when podcasting?

(13:20) What practical ways do you find balance, when you are planning, to make sure responsibilities and self growth steps are accounted for while still finding enough buffer time for yourself to avoid burn out?

(16:00) When is leisure/relaxation acceptable?

(33:25) Is there anything you gentleman do that helps you in the morning to stick on task to your schedule or challenge yourself?

(46:15) How do you start to objectively judge and correct your flaws when your inability to do so in the past is the reason it's an issue that hasn't improved?

(56:40) What tips or thoughts would you have on smoothing things out and creating more consistency when my ex-wife and I have different approaches to raising our children?

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Failure, setbacks, f-ups, and mess ups are all part of life. It’s just part of the human condition. When most people fail, they choose to stay there. But in failure, there is a redemption story in the works…if you’re willing to make it happen.

My guest today is intimately familiar with failing and getting back in the fight – both literally and figuratively. His name is George Foreman and everyone is likely familiar with him from being heavyweight champion of the world (twice) to his infamous George Foreman Grill. You may not know the rest of the story. Today, George and I talk about the comeback story, his near-death experience and how it changed him, serving in your community and giving others hope, and making the most of second chances.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Feeling empty despite success
• Finding contentment by finding God
• A change of identity
• Just be present
• From street fighter to Olympic boxer
• Overcoming anger

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses why Satan wants us to be miserable and FIVE strategies men can implement to prepare for this opposition and overcome it.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. Realize what’s happening
2. Replace negative activities
3. Surround yourself with men who stand against it
4. Evaluate your day
5. Try again
6. Have a plan

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Show kick-off⠀

(6:25) What are some ways to practice delayed gratifications?

(20:20) What keeps you going from day to day when your routine toward improvement becomes monotonous?

(27:10) Is it ever appropriate to call someone else out in public for being rude to others?

(36:00) What experience do you have with fasting? What benefits have you noticed?

(42:00) What is the best way to deliver unsolicited feedback in the work setting?

(48:40) How do I deal with coworkers having difficult or unruly conversations over chat?

(51:00) What are ways to overcome the fear of failure or the unknown after you get over the initial excitement of getting started?

(59:30) What are some tools lot maintain calm or composure when your children or spouse wife say or do something that irritates you?

(1:04:10) What are some steps to finding homeschool-friendly states with lots of freedom?

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We’ve all heard of Stoicism. But do we really know what it means, how to implement in our lives, and whether or not it conflicts with other doctrine we may ascribe to – mainly Christianity.

My guest today, Brady Pesola, and I strive to answer those questions as we discuss the four cardinal virtues of Stoicism – wisdom, courage, justice, and temperance. We also unpack what Stoicism really means (and, contrary to popular belief, it is not the suppression of emotions), how philosophy is the “love of wisdom,” why anxiety is not inherently bad, the power in knowing that others are allowed to feel the way they do, and, ultimately, going to bed a better man than you woke up.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• The concept of accountability
• Accountability with your spouse
• Anxious vs. avoidant
• Doing the right thing
• Stoicism and christianity
• Put your mind in “reason”
• Intellectual intent
• Sometimes we misread situations
• The importance of context
• Reason and faith
• Overcoming the dumb things we say
• Stoicism and the Bible
• Listening to the philosophy of others

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the importance of being intentional with the sources of influence we allow into our lives and how allowing the wrong things to “poison the well” can have long-lasting, negative consequences.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. Don’t get wrapped up in the noise and nonsense
2. Turn off sources of negativity
3. There is a difference between your emotions and your behavior

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Show kick-off⠀

(5:30) How do you overcome complacency?

(18:30) What are some techniques to gain new client who currently uses a competitor to provide a service?

(28:20) Do you believe psychology plays a big role in economics?

(38:40) How does one show themself grace?

(49:20) How do I have better focus on a task or goal and not overthink?

(55:20) How can I best support my son when his mother (my ex-wife) is not being supportive of his activities and interests?

(1:07:00) How do you explain to people stoicism and being religious simultaneously?

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With the proliferation of political and cultural ideologies increasingly permeating many of our favorite companies and brands, it’s becoming difficult to justify spending our hard-earned dollars on companies that do not align with our values and actively work against them.

But you know as well as I do, boycotting only goes so far and, as soon as the excitement and fervor against these companies wear off, most people go back to spending their money on Budweiser, Disney, Gillette, and Netflix to name a few. My guests today, Nicky Billou and Wayne Allyn Root make the case that not only should people boycott these organizations but create alternatives to compete with these companies and hit them where it hurts – their wallet. Today, we talk about racism and the flawed idea of “reverse racism,” something they call, the “Freedom Scale,” for evaluating organizations that align with conservative values, the line between liberalism and leftism, and the power of parallel economies.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• “Reverse racism” is just “racism”
• We can no longer not stand up
• Are we just preaching to the choir
• Understanding the concept of a “national divorce”
• Liberal democrat cities are falling apart
• Building a parallel economy
• Chinese interference in elections
• Breaking down the “Freedom Scale”
• Companies caving to liberal pressure

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses five strategies for overcoming challenging situations and shares how he is currently implementing this system to work through his own challenges.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. Accept reality
2. Don’t become immersed in the situation
3. Lengthen the time horizon
4. Surround yourself with people who offer grace and guidance
5. Understand emotions, but don’t let them control you

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Show kick-off⠀

(3:40) What can we do to combat the rise of “Peter Pans” (i.e., men who are acting like boys and don’t want to grow up)

(19:30) How do I reconcile maintaining the relationship with my mentor and not necessarily taking all of their advice?

(33:40)) How are you dealing with the “here and now?” What methods are you using on the daily basis to stay on the path?

(44:10) How do you draw the line between comforting a loved one after a loss or setback and rewarding less than ideal results?

(51:30 Do you have any advice or direction for guys looking for intentional/professional help - therapy or life coach?

(1:00:40) What is the best way to handle ultimatums in relationships?

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We all have standards but for most of us, our standards aren’t where they should be and/or they’re not the type of standards that will lead us toward becoming the type of men we have desire to be. And, yet, each and every day, we operate by these standards most of which is subconscious.

My guest today is an incredible performance coach and while that term gets tossed around a lot these days, Ben Newman is the real deal. In fact, he coaches many Fortune 500 companies, is one of the top 50 public speakers in the world, and has helped lead many college and professional athletes to multiple championships.

Today, Ben and I talk about why it’s important you know you’re setting an example to people, how to find what he calls, your “burn,” grabbing your future and bringing it into today, why “your why” is not enough, how to avoid being seduced by success, and, ultimately, how to elevate your standard.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Why do we make excuses?
• We tend to overlook the simple things
• Be your best one day at a time
• The importance of coaching
• You have to do the work if you want to see change
• The way you do one thing is the way you do everything
• Be prepared to attack the process
• Don’t be seduced by success
• Identifying the right standards
• Become disciplined, even when you cheat

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses what the Iron Council is all about and what men should look for when building or finding a band of brothers.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. Systems
2. Like-minded men
3. Be around men of courage

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Show kick-off

(8:00) How do you get back on your feet after being betrayed by your ex-wife?

(17:30) How do you talk to your kids about suicide?

(25:00) Do you have any recommendations for father-son experiences before my son gets married?

(27:00) How do you stay motivated when it feels like everything around you is falling apart?

(32:00) How do you handle being burned by your church?

(40:00) How do you keep the faith and stay the course that God intends for us when it feels like the deck is stacked against us?

(42:58) What are some tips on how to find your way and add clarity to your vision?

(49:15) How do you repair the relationship with your father when you are the one who wants to repair the relationship but he isn’t willing to?

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Every single one of us has genius inside of us – some lying dormant for years and even decades. And, with our greatest potential trapped deep beneath the surface of our day-to-day lives, we live as Thoreau famously said, “quiet lives of desperation.” I know from personal experience how difficult and deflating that can be.

My guest today, former rocket scientist and law professor, Ozan Varol, is on the podcast today to talk about how to unlock and awaken the genius buried deep within ourselves. We also talk about the power of going what he refers to as “off-menu,” finding more awe in our lives, the death or our former selves and the birth of a new man, why we all need to exercise a bit more skeptical curiosity, and how to become extraordinary men.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Leaving a tenured position in academia
• If you don’t like the available options, create a new one
• Know when its time to change course
• Most people don’t know what they want
• What served us well in the past won’t necessarily serve us well in the future
• Don’t get stuck in the self-reflection process
• Learning from failures
• Don’t compare your beginning to someone else’s end
• The importance of your inner journey
• Identifying what makes you unique

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the importance of resilience, in all circumstances, and provides FOUR steps to help men become more resilient.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. Accept our role and calling as men (to protect, provide, and preside)
2. Realize that people are watching us
3. “Respond” instead of “react”
4. Recognize that “struggle” is subjective

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Show kick-off⠀

(10:40) How can I stop “friending” women because its my comfort zone

(16:00) In seasons of challenge, what mindset shifts have happened for you?

(27:40) I am talking to a girl and I found out that she masturbates. Should I continue to pursue her?

(35:50) How can I help someone with an addiction like alcohol, drugs, or pornography without just telling them that “it’s going to be ok?”

(43:10) What is your advice for a kid’s educational pursuits in light of the recent AI revolution?

(48:38) What are some ideas to get parents and students interested in competing in martial arts competitions?

(57:30) What is the difference between calling a friend forward to be “better” or just minding your own business?

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You already know everything you need to know to achieve your wildest dreams, or at least get on the path to making them a reality. The only question that remains is whether or not you’ll do it. And, that’s a question that has been plaguing millions of men for a very long time – “Will I do what is required to achieve my desires?”

My guest today, former NBA player and current NBA mindset coach, David Nurse, has made a life out of teaching elite-level athletes, execs, and high-achievers how to move from knowing to doing. Today, David and I talk about hidden roadblocks that keep us from success, the 9 different action archetypes and how to move past what keeps you back, the formula for your own success mission, finding intrinsic value in the work you do, why he considers, “the masses to be the asses,” how to use negative thoughts to your advantage, and the life-changing power of taking action.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Where to start on the path to taking action
• We live in an excuse laden society
• Uncertainty is an opportunity
• Find your niche to stand out
• Focus on the process, not the result
• How does one become “driven”
• Being content AND ambitious
• Alignment with God
• We take care of the things we value
• Being comfortable in your own skin

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down the definition of a “real man” and discusses the 3 key areas where men should focus.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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Definition of a man: A real man is an adult male who who is on the path to effectively protect, provide, and preside.

To Protect: A man protects his family, his possessions, and his community

1. Be on the path to health
2. Be on the path to defend

To Provide: Provide for basic needs, but also to provide emotional support and be emotionally stable

1. Be on the path to building skill sets
2. Keep emotions in check

To Preside: Have a vision and communicate that vision

1. Lead by example
2. Get back on the path when you falter

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Show kick-off⠀

(12:10) How has your relationship with your own ego changed in sobriety?

(17:10) Have you ever thought of creating a similar program to the IC for businesses to implement to increase employee satisfaction and productivity?

(26:15) When someone close to you is being negatively impacted by their own ego, what’s the best way to get them back on track?

(33:20) Have either one of you got dizzy after a intense day of BJJ?

(37:40) I see building trust and rapport like a house of cards. When one simple slip seems to crash the whole thing. How do you get the will to start building that house again rather than walking away from the table?

(44:18) What are your daily non-negotiables and how do you handle being flexible with them when outside circumstances are impacting your ability to execute on them?

(48:20) How would you recommend someone keep moving forward in all areas of their life when one quadrant of life has seasons which require 90 - 100% of their attention?

(51:50) What is the most powerful shift in mindset you guys have experienced/embraced in your lives and how has that played out in your lives? Can you offer recommendations on how others could implement these mindsets?

(56:50) What is your take on 3 banks folding in the past week?

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It’s been said that there isn’t a whole lot of new information under the sun, just new ways of saying it. I don’t know if that’s necessarily true but one thing I know is that my guest today shares some of the most practical and life-transforming messages out there. And, he does it in a way that cuts through the noise and nonsense of modern times.

His name is Dewayne Noel and he is the founder of Dry Creek Wrangler School. Today, Dewayne and I talk about the power of genuineness, building yourself into a person you like, not hate, why the “right to be wrong” is so powerful and liberating, dealing with insecurities, operating in reality, the concept of “cowboy energy,” and other timeless wisdom in disturbing times.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Why a simple, timeless message resonates so strongly
• Sometimes you have to change how you are sharing the message in order to be effective
• Change starts with us
• We have to get to the point where we like ourselves
• Cost/benefit analysis of relationships in our life
• Loyalty is not a one-way street
• Staying loyal to the “idea” of a relationship can be destructive
• The market determines what is valuable
• Rodeo energy vs. cowboy energy

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares 5 strategies that we can use, as men, to recognize and processes our emotions in a healthy and effective way.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. Don’t stifle your emotions
2. Understand your emotions by externalizing them (e.g., journalling, talking to people)
3. Express yourself in a healthy way
4. Allow your emotions to serve you
5. Ask how your emotions are serving you

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man, and the Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Show kick-off⠀

(7:50) Can you provide some time on how to deal with my wife getting too invested in her friends?

(14:20) How do you make a judgment call between stability and gratitude for what you have vs the concern you're settling or playing small?

(25:40) Do you have any advice for someone who has become a caretaker for their spouse due to cancer?

(33:10) What would you personally recommend in dealing with a narcissist father?

(40:40) I am torn between having a “man to man” conversation with my new pastor or biting my tongue, out of respect, after he said some insulting things about our church and congregation, where my family has deep roots.

(46:00) How do you deal with fighting and picking and bickering between your kids?

(55:50) What is/was your stance with the whole mask thing in churches during Covid?

(1:04:20) How do we tackle cognitive dissonance?

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Is the American Dream alive or dead? It’s a question that begs asking but more importantly, how can we each, individually carve out our own piece of it if possible?

These are all questions my guest today, Chris Elise, and I address. Chris was born in France and has since become an American citizen following his dreams as a young boy. Today, we talk about channeling anger for productive outcomes, how to develop a personal renewal of faith, why you need to be cautious of betraying yourself, not getting yourself stuck in a bubble, investing in brotherhood, and pursuing your version of the American Dream.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• What is the American Dream?
• The media pushing a racist narrative across the country
• We are more similar than different
• Being involved in change, but not getting caught up in it
• Walking away from on argument
• Finding healthy outlets
• The importance and power of brotherhood
• Transitioning from photographing the NBA to the PBR
• Differences between NBA and PBR culture

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares 5 tips to help you be more intentional with the words you use to become a more effective communicator.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. Know what our intent is with our language (and know our audience)
2. Think about the information you consume
3. Slow down your pace
4. Take inventory of your previous communication
5. Expand your vocabulary

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Show kick-off⠀

(5:00) I am currently working in the family business but I do not enjoy it or see a future there. Should I switch industries for an uncertain job and possibly have to move in with my wife’s parents, or should I look for another company and start something on the side where I can use my skills?

(11:00) What questions should you ask yourself to determine if you are ready to propose to your girlfriend and move toward marriage?

(16:40) How important is it for you to have a partner that challenges you?

(25:00) How to encourage our wives to work on their mindset around anxiety and depression without giving the impression that we think there is something wrong with them?

(41:00) How do you assess how you are performing in certain areas that are hard to measure?

(49:20) I was looking for a woman who is career oriented but found a great girl who has different goals. Am I sacrificing my standard by going out with this girl or is it ok to compromise on this?

(54:20) Do you have any book recommendations for a season of transition that isn’t to “heavy” reading?

(58:00) Any recommendations for setting boundaries when working from home and trying to be an engaged and involved father?

(1:01:40) Is there a happy medium for sacrificing current comfort for future satisfaction?

(1:07:20) How should I deal with rumors in the workplace that aren’t true?

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As men, we’re hardwired to look for problems we see with the environment around us. Unfortunately, too few of us are willing to take the next step and do something about the issues we identify.

My guest today is not that kind of man. His name is Ian Wendt and he’s taking a stand against some of the most polarizing social issues of the day. Today, Ian and I talk about overcoming the opinions of others, when to compromise and when not to, how excellence is the ultimate rebellion, how a man ought to show up in his community, and, ultimately, becoming a man of conviction.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Why talk about cultural and societal issues
• Who is trying to divide us?
• The ultimate agenda of evil is to take away freedom
• I’ll respect your freedom, you respect mine
• Have we compromised too much?
• Many people feel the same way but are afraid to speak up
• Our abundance is our challenge
• Don’t give people power over you
• How men can influence culture
• Stack little wins every day

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses why men tend to have an easier time focusing on success in business rather than family and how we can implement some of these “business” systems into our family routine.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. Mission statement
2. Meetings
3. Goals
4. Dedicated time
5. Delegation and roles

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(10:40) Is there a way to retain information from podcasts and audio books when I do most of my listening while I am driving and cannot take notes in the moment? Or should I just accept it as entertainment?

(18:00) How do you track how you spend your time, what you are eating, etc.?

(23:40) When my girlfriend informed me that she was pregnant, I reacted poorly. After calming down, I tried to discuss the plan for moving forward but she had already decided to move on from the relationship. I was open to continuing the relationship, but at a minimum want to have a relationship with my son and she is making it very difficult. What is the best way to proceed?

(35:00) What key components have you identified to begin a business? What should you do to be successful?

(43:20) Are you still attending the Baptist church and what difference have you noticed between the Baptist and Mormon church?

(49:20) How much does your faith influence your everyday life and has it grown stronger since you’ve given up alcohol?

(52:40) How do you lead your family spiritually?

(1:01:40) What are some good questions we can ask ourselves to be more effective with journaling?

(1:07:00) After your wife has lost respect for you, can you get it back and how?

Pornography is something that negatively impacts millions of men on a daily basis. And, yet, so few of us know what really goes on behind the scenes of the adult entertainment industry. We hear whisperings of the shadiness and degeneracy, but it continues to permeate just about every fabric of society.

My guest today is Joshua Broome. He is a former adult film star and even named porn star of the year. He spent 6 years in the industry, before fleeing to find himself, warn others about the dangers of pornography, and the message of Christ. Today, we talk about the manipulation that takes place in the porn industry, overcoming the tremendous guilt from poor decisions, how obedience and discipline create freedom, owning your past, lust versus love, and eliminating “contaminants” from our lives.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• People are realizing how destructive pornography is
• Lack of appropriate consent in the porn industry
• Racism and hypocrisy among those who protect the porn industry
• There is always another choice
• Push away people who provide accountability
• Most mens first exposure to porn is accidental
• How to approach conversations about porn with your kids
• How to put a porn addiction in the past
• Strategies for overcoming struggles
• We need to lead someone, and be led by someone

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares the 8 steps that he followed on the path to sobriety.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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1. The pain must be so great that you feel the need to change
2. You have to confess (with discretion)
3. Accountability
4. Create friction and flow
5. Fill the void
6. Do deep work on yourself to get to the root of the behavior
7. Plan for relapse
8. Celebrate and attach wins to healthy behavior

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Show kick-off⠀

(10:40) How can I talk to others about my own struggles with alcohol without referring to myself as an alcoholic and wrapping my identity around that label?

(15:00) How do we maintain our masculine frame with our wives, while still being humble and kind?

(33:30) Do you have advice for starting over in a career and being the best I can be? As well as advice for moving my family across the country?

(39:00) Are there things you would advocate not sharing with your spouse or partner?

(45:20) Describe the difference between today’s Ryan and the Ryan from 6 months ago.

(51:00) What do you do when your managers don’t communicate with you until there is a problem and every idea that you pitch them is always answered with a no?

(1:00:00) What are some ways to come up with a business name?

(1:04:40) How do you not take things personally? For example, when an employee leaves my company. And how can I make sure that more employees don’t leave?

(1:12:30) A lot of times guys are looking for a woman who is “like a bro.” Is this a sign of immaturity and what are those men missing out on?

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All of us have dreams and ambitions but too few of us are willing to act towards those desires. And, even if we are, it’s easy to get derailed, distracted, and side-tracked.

My guest today is one of my favorite authors on the planet. His name is Steven Pressfield. He’s the author of The War of Art, Gates of Fire, The Legend of Bagger Vance, and his newest book, a memoir about his life filled with ups and downs, Govt Cheese.

Today, we talk about infusing soul into our work (including a rebuke of AI technology, ChatGPT), the drive to “make the kill,” good versus bad shame, noble obstacles, why being stuck is often a good sign, and putting your ass where your heart wants to be.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Other people resonate when we share our own stories
• Is ChatGPT and Artificial Intelligence evil?
• Pushing through challenges
• Writing provides peace of mind and satisfaction
• Reverence for the writing process
• Receiving inspiration from another force
• God vs. the Muse vs. the Universe
• We need to develop the “skills of the instrument”
• Developing the skill to finish what you start
• Harnessing shame to achieve results
• How to overcome “feeling stuck”
• The answer is always action

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares SIX steps to ensure that you are being “vulnerable” in an appropriate and effective way, through taking ACTION.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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Evaluate two things before you share a vulnerability: a) who are you telling and b) why are you telling them

1. Be objective in identifying your weaknesses
2. Get to the root of the issue
3. Have an emotionally charged reason for improvement
4. Talk with people who have gone through the same issues
5. Build in systems and support
6. Have a recovery strategy

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(3:40) What are your thoughts on overcoming the shame cycle that you can experience when struggling with a habit you want to kick or a limiting belief you hold?

(15:30) Not a question but a best practice that has been impactful for bring my wife closer to me: If your spouse is a 'Words of Affirmation' partner (5 Love Languages), buy some small cards & write notes about why you love and appreciate them & hide them around the house for her to find at a later time. This has been a wonderful way for me to express my love to my wife and a nice surprise for her when she stumbles upon them.

(19:30) How do you get support and feedback from your tribe of men on deep private issues in your relationship while respecting the privacy of your girlfriend/wife and not exposing her personal stuff?

(28:00) I've read extreme ownership and the follow up book is on my book list, but what are some leadership courses or programs that you would recommend?

(33:30) How do you maintain your frame with your spouse, but at the same time, being humble and patient and kind.

(45:40) If you choose to put a man in your circle and he makes a mistake, is it your responsibility to hear him out?

(52:00) What would you say is your biggest insecurity or insecurities that you’re working on?

(58:50) How do you get over a breakup where you sacrificed everything for that person?

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Anger issues are something a lot of us, as men, deal with – more than would like to admit. And, while most of us are pretty good at disguising our anger, frustration, and resentment, all too often, it’s lying just under the surface ready to expose itself to some unexpecting victim – usually the ones we love most.

I’m joined by my friend, Connor Beaton, author of his newest book Men’s Work: A Practical Guide to Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, and Find Freedom. Today, we discuss what he calls “dysregulated” or erratic behavior and how to reign it in, overcoming the shadow of our fathers, the danger of self-abusive relationships, and why and how we need to become acquainted with our anger.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• How to get the most out of yourself
• We are often the ones standing in our own way
• Understanding your anger
• Its ok to take care of yourself
• We don’t need to try to solve people’s problems
• Building a healthy relationship with Anger
• What is hidden in the father will be revealed in the son
• You can’t be a rock when you are searching for the approval of others
• Men must develop the skill of self-validation
• The role of God and faith
• Four steps for working through anger

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares three simple steps to ensure that the legacy we pass on to our sons and daughters is a legacy that we desire and can be proud of.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. Work on the relationship you have with your father
2. Work on yourself
3. Work with your children

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Order of Man Facebook group and Iron Council. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(0:00) Episode Intro

(13:00) How do we save our young men and can you paint the picture of the world we live in if we don’t?

(27:20) How do you sift through the huge pile of self help for men and dial in what works best for you?

(32:00) What are some ways to stay motivated and maintain discipline?

(37:50) what tactics do you use to maintain a healthy mindset?

(41:00) Name something from your youth that is not well known but still affects you today. How does it play into your daily life?

(42:40) what is the best way to be a leader when starting at a new company?

(50:00) How do you define good income in today’s economy?

(55:40) How important is it to have men in your corner when you are going through hardship?

(59:20) How can I bring what I teach to my school health classes to more kids?

(1:03:40) How do you convince your family to create a plan for when things get bad?

(1:08:20) How do you get your heart to catch up to your head?

(1:12:00) How do you reconcile the dichotomy of having people you look up to and seeing them deal with their own struggles? 

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Our mind is the most powerful thing we can control. And, yet, if you’re anything like me, you don’t spend nearly enough time training the mind to produce the results you desire. In fact, if things don’t seem to be working well in my life, I tend to be a man who just goes even harder hoping I can drive right through the problems I’m dealing with.

Instead, my guest today, Michael Hyatt, makes the case that the stories and narratives (often subconscious) in our minds actually dictate much of the results we experience. So, today, we dive deep into how to retrain the mind to draft stories that serve us rather than hurt us, the value of listening to the “narrator” of your life, why we should all really listen to the language we’re using, how to interrogate the stories of your life, and create a new, fundamental sense of identity.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• The story we tell ourselves impacts the results we achieve
• Separating facts from the meaning we assign
• How to determine if your stories are serving you
• Understanding the “narrator” in your head
• Correlation doesn’t equal causation
• Mindset can change your physiological response
• Lead ourselves well before we can lead others well
• The impact of labeling ourselves
• Strategies for changing your thinking

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mindyourmindsetbook.com

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares a five-part framework for how you can implement systems and processes to supplement discipline and motivation to help you produce the results you desire.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. Get crystal clear about what you want (Spiritual, mental, emotional health; Relationships; Physical health; Financial)
2. Reverse engineer the process
3. Flow and friction
4. Reward your behavior, not the result
5. Critique your performance and track everything

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(4:30) How can we have standards but no expectations?

(12:40) What kind of rights of passage can I do with my daughters? 

(17:30) I work out 5-6 times a week, drink plenty of water throughout the day, and am very intentional about what I eat. Additionally I get about 7 hours of sleep a night on average. Caffeine intake isn’t insanely high, but I do drink a cup of coffee in the morning and in the afternoon after lunch. That said, I still tend to get pretty tired throughout the day. Any tips on maintaining better energy levels? Maybe some things that work well for you?

(20:40) I have had mentors for most of my life, but occasionally I unplug and get off track a bit. How can I stay plugged in and on the right path?

(30:00) Between Jiu-Jitsu, weight training, and cardio, I am always sore. Will this pain every go away or is this just the cost of trying to get/stay in shape?

(36:00) What is the one thing, or several things, that have surprised you most about your sobriety?

(42:40) Have you seen or heard of some other sources around the internet that promote to help young men?

(52:00) As a single man 28 years old man with no kids and never married what would be your advice on how to prepare for a family and the right woman?

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We all want to lead. But not all of us can do so. Not right now but that doesn’t mean we aren’t capable of  becoming the leader we desire to be. My guest today is Brett Bartholomew, a word-class performance coach and he is going to share exactly how we can begin to lead in our families, businesses, and communities more effectively.

Today, we talk about six driving factors of individuals, the four main communication styles and how to use the effectively, how power, influence, and manipulation can be wielded for good, the use of “referent power,” and how leaders play chess, not checkers.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Commitment and compliance
• Tailoring your communication and messaging
• Building teams with different personality types
• The baseline of communication is misunderstanding
• Some people are just interested in making you the enemy
• Impression management is a form of communication
• Messages have to be repeated
• Selective and strategic self-disclosure

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares a four-part framework to help you establish, monitor, and achieve your goals.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. Don’t start with goals - start with your vision
2. Start looking at your objectives (focus on four key areas: calibration, connections, condition, contribution)
3. Establish your daily tactics
4. Set your checkpoints

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(1:00) I have perfectionist tendencies. Even as I write this I have erased it three times and 30 times in my head. I know what I need to do but if the circumstances are not perfect I don’t do it. Any suggestions on how to change this?

(19:20) What is the best tip or tool you have for building good habits?

(24:40) For training jiu jitsu, would you recommend doing barbell training or kettlebell training?

(29:00) What tactics do you both use and suggest other men use to discern between truth from error in your life?

(44:00) Do you agree with the statement “your wife is the CEO of your household and you’re the CFO”?

(49:00) How can you maintain forward momentum in a family unit when your spouse refuses to focus on the family and put her career above us?

(1:00:50) How do I start finding a dream/goal when I’m having a really hard time finding a purpose?

(1:11:00) What are a few things that you wish you would have known as a young father AND what advice would you give a younger version of yourself as a young dad?

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As young boys, the world is quite literally our playground. It seems so full of questions waiting to be answered and mysterious places to discover and explore. It’s in our nature to run, jump, play and unlock the secrets that call to us. Then, as we become men, we lose a lot of the natural curiosity and desire to traverse the world around us. The world around us often become more like a jail cell than the playground we remember of our youth.

My guest today is a man who has not lost a bit of the curiosity and excitement of his youth. If anything, he has cultivated it. His name is Danny Bolton. Today, you’re going to hear how to recapture that magic. We talk about how hesitation hurts us, a man’s need to play, creating an enemy to fight against, the analogy of the wolf, sheep, and sheep herder, the power of being ready for anything, and how to tap back into our primal nature.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Taking the life of an animal in the most humane and efficient way possible
• Letting out your “animal” side
• How to get started expressing your wild side
• Some stress is great, but we stress about too much
• Do we need to have some type of “enemy” to confront
• We tend to choose the path of least resistance
• Considering risk in the decision making process
• Underestimating risk in the moment
• Pressure of performing/shooting around other people

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses SIX keys to effectively navigating work/life integration.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. There is no change of “hats”
2. Get your family involved in business - Be involved with your family
3. Explain what you are doing at work on a daily basis
4. Create healthy boundaries
5. Stick to your commitments
6. Build a business (create a side hustle)

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos take on the hottest questions of the week. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(5:40) Do you have a faith based goal for 2023? If so how are you choosing to measure this in order to manage it and show progress in an area that sometimes is based more off of feeling or, when tangibly measured, can seem like action without faith?

(19:05) What are your thoughts on compassion fatigue, and what to do to revitalize my passion for mentoring others?

(32:38) I have been seeing someone for 3 months now and we've said we want to be official but she has some bad bf history that is keeping her from doing so (her words). We've had a conversation about it and she has communicated that she's still concerned that i may have some red flags she hasn't seen yet and wont take the next step. It seems the longer she doesn't find something the more certain she is they exist. Most of what she has said she wants seem like what you develop over a year or more relationship.  I have been patient as I have dealt with similar stuff myself but I am struggling to not feel the consistent "no not yet" as a form of rejection. its getting to the point that Im losing interest despite her being a wonderful woman with great communication. What can I/we do to work through this before I completely walk away?

(41:10) How do y’all balance the mindsets of competing with yesterday’s version of yourself and competing with others? Do y’all think that these mindsets are at odds with one another or complimentary?

(50:00) How do you disengage from all social media, when most of your friends and family live out of state, and you buy and sell things on FB marketplace all the time?

(55:15) I’m dating a girl, she told me there is another guy she has been dating longer she is might be getting serious with. I told her I didn't really care about her and what other guys are doing - that I am going to keep asking her out as long as I'm single, interested, and she is available. What's your suggestion for keeping my mind off the competition and focused on us?

(1:03:05) I would like to hear more on raising daughters. My oldest is a girl, nearly 11, and my wife and I struggle with how to handle her exposure to things that she isn’t ready for yet. We homeschool her and she is very bright but we’ve caught her on websites that she shouldn’t be on and she has been calling things sexist etc. she doesn’t fully grasp what some of these things mean but I am starting to have deeper conversations with her and my wife on a regular basis. Any other tips would be great!

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Every single day, we’re faced with choices that will either help or hinder us and move us closer to our goals and desires or further away. What we decide in those moments will determine our ultimate results. And, if we’re not satisfied with our current reality, it’s safe to assume that we made choices that did not serve us well.

Today I’m joined by former NFL Super Bowl Champion and Results Coach, Setema Gali to talk about these choices. We also cover the power of decisiveness, making certain that our priorities don’t merely get the leftovers, the level of commitment required to thrive and win, the positive benefits of guilt and shame, the dangers of false humility, and the trap of self-martyrdom and victimization.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Setting the standard for your kids
• Need to balance discipline with letting your kids be kids
• The importance of establishing clear agreements with your family
• Family values
• Building champs instead of chumps
• We can experience emotion without it becoming our identity
• What we focus on most is who we become
• Conflicting thoughts about money and morals
• Our commitment alters everything
• We’re not victims, we get to choose
• Empower yourself by taking responsibility

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares the challenges he faced through his struggle with alcoholism and lessons he has learned during last five months of sobriety.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. You reach rock bottom when you stop digging
2. I have a lot of emotions inside that I was not aware of
3. I was really good at hiding it
4. I realize that I am pretty incredible (what could I do with an extra 3 or 4 hours in a day?)
5. Alcohol does not make me a better person, or a better anything
6. People appreciate transparent leadership
7. Trust is easy to destroy and much harder to rebuild
8. Your course of action will change when the pain of the current reality that you put yourself in is greater than the struggle of change
9. I’ve allowed the spirit of God back in my life

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council - the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(0:00) Show kick-off⠀

(7:00) What is your greatest achievement of 2022 and what did you fail to achieve?

(26:00) Do you believe that perfection is unattainable as a martial artist?

(33:20) What advice would you give for someone trying to rebuild financially after a rough year in 2022?

(38:20) What is one thing that guys should be paying attention to in 2023, but are most likely not?

(40:00) Do you have any advice on when to say no versus when to enjoy the moment with loved ones?

(45:50) What are you going to do to make the Iron Council better in 2023?

(47:30) Were there any moments in 2022 where you were reactive and wish you had been proactive? What lessons did you learn from the experience?

(53:50) As the OOM has grown, has it become what you had envisioned or has that vision evolved?

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Let’s kick off the New Year with a discussion on physical health. It seems like such a popular subject around this time of year with New Year’s Resolutions so hopefully we can get you pointed in the right direction and keep on the path for the entirety of 2023.

Today, I’m joined by my personal fitness coach, Johnny Loreti to talk about the myth of over-training, key metrics to track in developing strength and overall health, the power of resistance training and progressive overload, differences between simply “working out” and “training,” and fitness as the foundation of success.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• It’s ok to “auto regulate” but don’t use it as an excuse to be lazy
• How to incorporate progressive overload
• Finding enjoyment in the gym
• It’s ok to be motivated by something silly, if it works
• The differences and training goals
• Sometimes hard work can compensate for inefficiency
• How to get started with fitness in the new year
• The importance of the aesthetic side effect of fitness
• The difference between “working out” and “training”

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FIVE of the top lessons learned in 2022.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. Remain vigilant in all things
2. I have an addictive personality
3. Have a heart of service
4. Get better at enlisting the health of other people
5. Work on processing deep emotional baggage

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council - the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(7:20) Can you provide tips for transitioning from a peer to a supervisor/foreman in a construction job?

(13:20) Can you share some insights for how to keep men accountable as we move into the new year?

(31:40) How long does the Iron Council “Forge” approval process take?

(32:50) How do we keep a positive mindset in the world that we currently live in?

(40:00) How do you hold on to your faith in God when horrible things happen in your life?

(54:00) What is your favorite move in jiu-jitsu and what are you working on right now?

(1:01:20) What are some ways to teach your kids that Christmas is about more than just the presents?

(1:04:00) How do I start having a dream or goal?

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It’s easy to get caught up in complaining without moving into the next logical step – solutions. Let’s be honest, there is a lot to complain about in today’s cultural and political climate. But unless we’re willing to do something about the injustices we see in society, complaining is nothing more than empty gestures and platitudes. It was Plato who said, “The price good men pay for indifference to public affairs is to be ruled by evil men.”

Today, I’m joined by former Navy SEAL and cultural podcast host, Shawn Ryan. We talk about why politics and entertainment seem to be more about creating controversy than anything else, the hypocrisy in elected officials on both sides of the aisle, the impending danger of an open US border and Chinese globalization, raising kids in positivity, and why instead of simply complaining, we must be willing and able to do something about it.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Outrage culture
• Hypocrisy coming out of the conservative side
• Switching party as a publicity stunt
• The race to win artificial intelligence
• Contributing to the solution
• The biggest problem our country is facing
• The country needs someone to bring it together
• The possibility of getting involved in politics
• People need to take responsibility for raising their own kids
• Don’t just complain, do something

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FIVE keys to recapturing control of your emotions and why that is so important.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. Realize that you have inherent worth because you are a human
2. You are responsible for your own emotions
3. Confidence is earned
4. Begin to objectify your emotions
5. Dial in your physical health

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council - the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(8:30) What is your favorite Christmas tradition? Why is it valuable to have traditions in your life?

(16:00) What are your plans and projections for 2023?

(18:20) What do you teach your son when he comes home with his first busted lip?

(22:00) Do you ever get inspired for a podcast topic from a comment that is made in the Facebook group?

(24:00) How do we rectify philosophy and rational thought with the new age idea of fulfillment?

(32:00) Any tips on how to keep myself from stressing out too much when dealing with medical uncertainties regarding my son?

(39:30) After being hurt by previous social/church groups, who disbanded during COVID, I no longer want to participate in these types of groups. We have moved to a new location and my wife wants me to get involved in or start new groups.  How should I deal with this?

(49:00) How do I create resilience in my 3-year-old daughter?

(56:00) Did you battle imposter syndrome on your journey to success?

(1:08:50) What advice should I give my son when he only seems to care about working, drinking and camping? Should I care or just let him take care of his own life?

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Men, as you’re thinking about your New Year’s Resolutions, it’s easy to become trapped in day-dreaming . So many men look forward to what they want to accomplish but rarely do they calculate the plan to achieve their objectives and, most importantly, take the actions necessary.

Today, I am joined by former Army Ranger and founder of Bare Performance Nutrition, Nick Bare. We discuss removing ego from the equation, looking at life as a series of “sprints,” managing expectations with important people in your life, keeping yourself from becoming resentful and callused towards others, and the power of “forward thinking and backward planning.”

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Men bond over working hard
• Getting started now
• The importance of having a vision for your business, family, and life
• The importance of delegation in a growing business
• Finding your identity outside of your business
• Backward planning your legacy
• Getting buy-in from your wife when you are “sprinting” in the business
• Why fitness is non-negotiable
• Considering how your goals can impact others
• Building mass and running
• Is there a time when enough is enough

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FIVE tactics that you can implement right now to start down the path toward self improvement.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. Exercise
2. Find a hobby
3. Journal
4. Organization
5. Have other men in your corner

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler takes on questions from the Iron Council - the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement - and the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(3:00) What are your thoughts on men using emojis?

(5:20) Can you speak about why some men are seeing marriage as a less attractive lifestyle option?

(10:20) How has homeschooling changed for your son, Brecken, as he has entered his teenage years?

(12:50) What are some milestones and “rite of passage” moments men can implement for teenage boys?

(18:00) What practical tactics do you use to fight demons that you may face?

(22:30) Have you competed in a BJJ tournament or do you plan to compete at some point?

(23:15) How do you maintain a religious practice when most people in my life are not believers and ridicule my Catholic faith?

(29:30) How does one communicate about a problematic action that is directly affecting the person and oneself?

(36:50) What are your thoughts on “spiritual bypassing?”

(42:00) What are your thoughts on hiring friends and family?

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I think it’s safe to assume that if you’re listening to this podcast, you’re a man who is interested in becoming a more capable man. Unfortunately, the men who have come before us have, in a lot of ways, made it possible for us not to have to step up the way we as men ought to – as “savage servants.”

Today, I am joined by Nick Koumalatsos – a former member of Marine Reconnaissance – to talk about what it means to be a “Savage Servant.” We also discuss physical fitness as the foundation of what it means to be a man, why we must fabricate struggle, positive programming, and personal growth through humility.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• We don’t have to make the mistakes of our parents
• Gaining vision for your life at a young age
• Balance between a giving your kids a better life and fabricating challenges
• Sons generally look like their father
• Positive programming with your sons
• We need to put effort into our kids
• Moving past judgment of others
• Humility is being a savage servant
• If you prepare, you are less likely to need it
• Our foundational anchor is physical fitness and health

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler takes on topics from the Order of Man Facebook Group, including handling failure and responding when things don’t go your way.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

• How to build a workout habit when working a job with varying hours
• How to deal with family during the holidays
• How to handle failure and when things don’t go your way
• • Manage expectations - life is going to throw you curveballs
  • Get your mind right
  • Get around people that live the life that you’re after
  • Understand that it will take time

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen respond to the top questions from the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(9:00) How present does a father need to be in order to be impactful?

(18:30) How do I balance stress of being a father, working a very time-consuming job, and pursing my passion of getting into politics?

(22:00) Can you recommend some resources to help me grow in self-confidence?

(25:20) What have you learned about how stress management and time management correlate in business and life?

(32:00) How do I know I am making the right move for my family when I am making a decision that will improve the situation for my immediate family, but will also distance my wife from her extended family, which is very important to her?

(44:30) What was the biggest challenge, outside of alcohol, to get you to 4 months of sobriety?

(52:40) How do we help friends and family in their struggles with alcohol or sobriety?

(1:05:00) Do you find it difficult to give yourself grace?

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Finding our sense of worth as men can be an extremely daunting task. We’re often led to believe that if we say just the right things, do all the things we should be doing, and achieve the success society has deemed appropriate, we’ll find what we’re looking for.

Unfortunately, many of us are left with a sense of emptiness in spite of our worldly success. My guest today is my good friend Granger Smith. Today, we tackle a conversation we really haven’t had on the podcast as we talk about self-worth, the danger in the “love yourself” message, why cultural Christianity doesn’t cut it, feeling like a fraud, and ultimately finding faith and hope in God.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Do things that are intrinsically meaningful
• Determining when enough is enough
• How to take the power away from critics
• The problem with superficial, cultural Christianity
• We are only worthy through God
• Why does suffering exist?
• We need challenges and hardship to refine us
• Sometimes “self-help” isn’t enough
• Always moving forward
• We need to stop thinking about ourselves first

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FOUR strategies to help you overcome the tendency to self-sabotage.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

Why do we self-sabotage?

1. We tend to choose the path of least resistance
2. We have a lot of insecurities as men

How do we self-sabotage?

1. We rest on our laurels
2. We consciously or subconsciously undermine our efforts

How do we KILL self-sabotage?

1. We have to make mindset shifts
2. Use goal planning as a starting point
3. Sometimes you just have to throw a wrench in the system
4. Spend time around people and programs that get you to think about life differently

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen respond to the top questions of the week. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Show kick-off⠀

(1:30) Bloom where you’ve been planted or go forth and change the world?

(8:00) Do you have any thoughts on finding and retaining good team members for my construction business?

(14:20) What are you guys focusing on in Jiu Jitsu right now?

(23:40) Do you think you still start putting on a father-daughter event?

(23:30) How important is it to have a morning and nightly routine? Would you share what you do for your routines?

(30:00) What criteria do you have for getting involved with a church?

(33:00) What can we do to start making tough people as soon as possible?

(37:00) What are some ideas for a side hustle while I am a full-time seminary student?

(41:52) How can you take time to relax and focus on family in between the grinds of work and life?

(45:40) Do you have any tips for me and my daughter as we prepare to start a podcast together?

(48:20) How do you deal with having one son who has chosen an activity that you are also interested in, while another son has not shown interest in anything yet, without showing favoritism?

(52:20) My family does a monthly call to stay in touch but it is growing stale.  How do I start trying to change it so that it can be more valuable than it is now?

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Marriage is one of the most challenging yet rewarding pursuits for a man. Unfortunately, very few of us have ever been taught how to successfully navigate the dynamics between men and women. And, all too often, it leads to headache, heartbreak, and divorce.

Today, I’m joined by marriage expert Keith Yackey to talk about these dynamics and how to successfully build a long and thriving marriage. We talk about the ROI (return of intimacy) in marriage, how a man gains his power back after giving it away, the “mommy matrix,” why seeking her validation will backfire, and the 5 dials of a powerhouse marriage.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Thriving in business vs thriving in marriage
• Five dials that help men measure effectiveness
• Women want you to be a good parent
• Women want you to be her partner
• Women want you to be a producer
• Women want you to have fun
• Women want you to do what you say you’re going to do, when you say you’re going to do it
• Become the guy that any woman would be thrilled to be with

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FIVE strategies to build and strengthen your friendships with other men.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. Know what you want
2. Improve yourself
3. Go where these men are
4. Add value to other men
5. Continue to nurture the relationship

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(0:00) Show kick-off⠀

(3:15) When everything feels like it's falling apart and you feel like giving up, how do you push through it?

(13:30) How can you build confidence in yourself after taking a major blow, such as an unwanted divorce?

(18:00) After shooting the biggest whitetail buck of my life, how do I maintain my sense of pride and stay modest about what I’ve accomplished and not let the jealously of people make me feel guilty?

(22:00) Why don’t more men share mental health struggles and provide support for each other versus leaving each to fight a battle on their own?

(26:10) How do you overcome complacency?

(27:40) Is there a pathway you or Kipp recommend for working toward quitting my job? What some considerations, other than money, that I should be aware of?

(32:30) In your opinion, is journaling worth it? 

(37:00) How are you helping your children to be gritty when their lives are actually significantly more comfortable than your life was growing up?

(40:20) How do we balance striving for excellence without being crippled by the ideal or perfect? Any tips for overcoming the obstacle of perfection so we can improve? Or is this a false dichotomy? Is there a way to pursue perfection without falling into inaction?

(50:20) How to combat intense social anxiety?

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Fear is something that all of us have to deal with. Yet, too many men allow their fears to cripple them from what otherwise could be an incredibly meaningful life. Today, I’m joined by former Navy SEAL, Eddie Penney to talk about why fear drives too many of our life decisions.

We discuss hitting rock bottom and crawling out, the compound effect of small and simple tasks that lead to big results, the distinction between “fault” and “responsibility,” the power of therapy, overcoming means of sedation, and living life unafraid.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Cutting out alcohol
• Exploring the “value” in vulnerability
• Therapy as a proactive measure
• Accepting and coping with PTSD
• Letting your kids see your weaknesses
• Its ok to change your mind and your opinion
• The journey to faith
• Everyone could do their small part
• Hitting rock bottom

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses a 3-part framework that men can use to overcome anger.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. Get to the root of why we are angry (who, what, when, where, why, how)

• Who are you angry with?
• What is happening when you are angry?
• What time of day is it happening?
• What is my environment like?
• How do you express your anger?

2. Learn to deal with anger in healthy ways

• Journal
• Margin (take a breather)
• Exercise

3. Learn to express yourself in a healthy way

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen respond to questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Show kick-off⠀

(4:00) What is your opinion on the use of crossbows during archery season?

(8:20) What are some activities I can give a group of boys to scratch the primal itch without being destructive or dangerous?

(13:30) Where do I draw the line between extreme ownership and letting go, as management has continued to add responsibilities to my plate with the departure of other staff?

(22:30) In your separation with the wife, did you encounter a lot of negative comments and lack of support from your friends?

(27:00) In a difficult circumstance, how do you prepare to be uncomfortable but not struggling?

(37:10) With today’s economy and interest rates, what are your thoughts on buying a house right now and refinancing after rates go down or waiting for things to turn around?

(40:20) How do you build in margin in a service-based business?

5050 From a faith perspective, when at a crossroads or facing a tough decision, ow do you know you are acting out God’s plan?

(1:00:24) What are some strategies for dealing with groups or activities that brought you joy in the past but now you are finding them monotonous or less engaging?

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Serious pornography addiction is something millions and millions of men are currently dealing with. Many of these men know their addiction has gotten out of hand and yet they cannot seem to find a way to break the shackles of pornography.

My guest today has worked with thousands of men over the last 4 years to finally overcome their destructive addiction once and for all. His name is Sathiya Sam and today we talk about the three greatest obstacles to overcoming addiction, how viewing pornography is often a symptom of a deeper problem, why safety, intimacy, and significance lie at the root of this addiction, why traditional methods of overcoming pornography don’t work, and 3 pillars every man needs to establish if he hopes to finally free himself from porn.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• The barrier to entry to watch porn is much lower today
• Behavior changes that indicate an addiction
• How unmet needs can lead to viewing pornography
• Usually the side effects of masturbation are more negative than positive
• Negatively rewiring the brain through watching porn
• The downside of counting streaks
• Ability to focus and sit in silence is a super power in todays society
• The importance of having a trusted person
• Using journaling and reflection to understand your thoughts and feelings
• Confession to yourself and others is an important step

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FOUR mindsets that will help men lead more effectively.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. Overcome the ease of modernity
2. Don’t be a superhero
3. Lead before the title
4. Render yourself obsolete

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Joining me back on the podcast today for this bonus episodes and one of my favorite guests of all-time is Tim Tebow. We talk a lot about what plagues so many men and keeps them from progressing – guilt, shame, and remorse for past actions.

We also cover how healthy competition drives productive performance, not losing focus of the mission in pursuit of the mission, what responsibility really means and how to exercise it, and finding your own sense of worth, value, and significance.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Channeling your competitive drive
• Reconciling between making money and helping others
• Responsibility means “able to respond”
• How to find your sense of worth
• The importance of having purpose in your life
• The power of “interruptible” moments
• Encouraging others with small acts and words

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Shawn Villalovos respond to questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group and Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(5:45) When starting your business, how big was your vision for how large it would become? Were you immediately focused on the big picture (office’s all over the country) or more focused on creating an excellent single office with processes that were scalable?

(16:40) As a leader, what is the best way to tell an employee that they need to get their shit together?

(23:00 What boundaries do you suggest a spouse should put in place after infidelity?

(31:00) With the holidays approaching, what should realistic expectations be for spending time with family? What is a healthy amount of time to give to others?

(39:40) What are some recommendations for how a city boy can become proficient in archery and get out and hunt?

(51:30) My girlfriend just left me…should I have a vision that is more focused on myself or should I keep my vision focused on family and others?

(56:26) What is your best way to confront your competition in a challenge when you notice that they are competing out of integrity?

(1:02:30) What is your position on self-awareness assessments, such as the Clifton Strengths assessment?

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Psychological safety. It’s not something that we think a whole lot about even though we talk a lot about a man’s innate desire to protect those he’s closest to. But when it comes to the mental and emotional security of our loved ones, we often fall short.

My guest today is my good friend Larry Hagner who is the founder of the Dad Edge and Dad Edge Podcast. Today, Larry and I talk about powerful communication strategies with our wife and kids, how crucial climate is when it comes to communicating effectively, how curiosity serves as a powerful lubricant for improving our conversations, and how to effectively create psychological safety for our loved ones to open up to us.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Men know what we need to do, but need to learn the tactics to do it
• 80% of men want to create a better marriage
• Developing emotional maturity in the home
• How do you know how you are coming across to your kids?
• Different kids, different personalities
• The power of genuine curiosity
• Receiving feedback from your wife does not make you a doormat

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler explains why it is important to put forth effort without expectations getting in the way, and provides four steps to help you stay on track and avoid these faulty expectations.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

Why it is important:

1. There are unforeseen events in life
2. Other people have a say in the matter
3. Often we have faulty timelines

How to keep yourself in the game:

1. Lengthen out the timeline for the things you want to achieve
2. Focus on the process, not the objective
3. Take a look at the past (see how far you’ve come)
4. Invest in yourself (hire coaches and mentors)

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos respond to questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(10:00) As we near the end of 2022, what is your theme going into 2023 that you will base your Battle Plans off of? What is one big goal you have for next year that everything will work towards?

(25:30) What are some important manly virtues?

(40:00) What's YOUR biggest takeaway from Fight Club?

(47:00) What’s the biggest thing you’ve let go of that significantly improved your life?

(59:00) Can you provide some tips on balancing children/family schedules with your own routines and “self care” or health schedules.

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Failures, victories, challenges, setbacks, ups and downs, and everything in between. They’re all part of life. It’s how we frame the rollercoaster of events and what we do about them that make us men.

Today, I’m joined by longtime friend, serial entrepreneur, hunter, husband, and father, Rick Trimmer to talk about some of his biggest challenges and how he’s learned to overcome the adversity to create an incredible life for himself and family. We cover the path of least resistance and the path of most resistance, overcoming failure and losing everything, doing the right thing because it’s the right thing to do, and putting one foot in front of the other every day.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Why men have trouble going deep into relationships
• The power of genuine curiosity
• You need to keep pushing through challenging times
• Achieving your goals doesn’t happen overnight
• Getting through life minute by minute
• Sometimes its appropriate to feel ashamed
• Helping other men learn from your mistakes
• Finding purpose in the absence of religion
• Being a “stay at home dad”
• Showing gratitude to those who support you

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares a FIVE part framework to help men respond to failure and quickly get back in the game.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. When things go wrong, stop the behavior and stop flailing around
2. Orient yourself toward what you want
3. Change your priorities and adapt your behaviors
4. Enlist the resources you need
5. Take calculated, precise, consistent action

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen respond to questions live from the 3rd annual Order of Man Maine Event, held earlier this month. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(2:00) How much passion do you need in your quarterly battle plan vision?

(6:12) How does a man build authority and influence as an employee, with no formal leadership position?

(12:44) How do you get your parents to “want” to be the type of grandparents who are engaged with your kids?

(18:46) How do I transition from the fast-paced activities of my business each day to a mode that is appropriate for family time at home in the evening?

(29:40) What is the vision for Order of Man for the next few years?

(38:10) When do you know that you’ve put enough effort in to helping someone and you now need to step back and let them figure things out themselves?

(44:20) How do I execute my duties as a son, with a mother dealing with dementia, without letting it impact my ability to show up for my wife and daughter?

(54:00) What are some practical ways that men can work to initiate our sons and boys in the community to become real men?

(58:40) How do you know how far to step and what doors to go through when multiple opportunities are presented?

(1:07:20) What is your advice for men who feel they have no substance underneath their superficial traits or titles?

(1:15:00) What are some strategies for overcoming anger issues? Specifically when it is directed at family members?

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With as much craziness and violence we see in public these days, it’s crucial that we as men learn how to effectively protect and defend ourselves and those we love. Fortunately, with a little intentionality and planning it’s not all that difficult to keep ourselves and others safe.

Today, I’m joined by Former Navy SEAL, FBI Agent, and Federal Air Marshall, Jonathan Gilliam to talk about how to do just that. We cover the concept of preparation versus paranoia, the default of awareness, when to get involved in situations and when not to, the “crawl, walk, run” theory, and recognizing and neutralizing threats before they occur.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• The difference between paranoia and preparation
• The danger of complacency
• Know God before you can achieve anything
• Groupthink is rampant and out of control
• Evil thoughts are often emotional and not logical

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, a replay from October 2021, Ryan Michler discusses why men should move from a “What If?” mindset to a “Let’s Find Out” mindset.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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• What opportunities have you already missed by playing safe?
• Your situation is no different than the people you see as successful
• The worse case scenario is usually not as bad as you fear
• Don’t just play ‘not to lose’    

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement.  Tune in NEXT WEEK for a special Ask Me Anything that was recorded during this year’s Maine Event. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(2:30) What are some things that you did or wish you have done to prepare yourself for fatherhood?

(4:50) What books do you recommend for a man going through a separation with his wife, but both are hoping to reconcile?

(14:50) Can you share some thoughts on how to get through a loss of a family member?

(19:40) What are your top ways to invest in your company to generate more cash flow?

(23:00) Do you have any recommendations to help me get through the initial shock of realizing that I have a long way to go, on the path to personal improvement, so I can continue doing what I know I need to do?

(27:00) What are some markers that you use to know when it is time to part ways with an organization?

(32:30) What are your thoughts on how the Maine Event and your recent moose hunt went?

(34:00) What do you do to stay organized in business and in life?

(36:30) What is your plan to beat your kids next year at Tug of War? What does that workout plan look like? Are you ok emotionally after that loss?

(39:00) What is the best way to increase net worth?

(41:50) How do I coach team members to change their mindset and embrace a culture of adaptability?

(46:00) Have you ever considered creating or selling a challenge coin for the Order of Man or Iron Council?

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Hunting is not only something that provides a challenge and sustains life for many of us, as it has for countless generations.  But it also provides unique and powerful opportunities to build bonds between those with whom we share these experiences.  Last week, I had the opportunity to share such an experience with my son, Brecken, as we set out on a moose hunt in the wilderness of northern Maine.

On today’s episode, Brecken and I share the story of how we harvested a beautiful bull moose in an epic hunt, filled with disappointments, missed shots, but ultimately success…and how the greatest success of all had nothing to do with hunting.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Drawing the lucky moose tag
• Getting settled into camp
• The moose habitat in Maine
• Early opportunities in the hunt
• Success on the last day
• Team effort to bring down the beast
• The highlight of the trip had nothing to do with hunting

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FIVE steps that men can implement to break away from the lone wolf mentality and use resources and relationships to become a force multiplier.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

1. Drop your ego
2. Empower others
3. Render yourself obsolete
4. Observe people’s strengths
5. Create systems in your life

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(3:10) What advice do you have for people writing their first vision statement/ battle planner? How do we tap into that inner version of ourselves to find out what our true motivators are?

(20:00) How should you structure the responsibilities between husband and wife? 

(32:00) What is the best way to recruit new members for the Iron Council?

(37:30) What is the best way to organize a local meet up?

(39:10) Can you share your thoughts on both the Legacy and Maine Event?

(54:30) Is it important for leadership to have open and timely dialogue with team members? What's an effective way to do this when your team is 100+ members?

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With as much information available to us this day and age, it’s hard to decipher which information to consume and which we should be listening to in the first place. Everywhere we turn, we’re inundated with sensational headlines designed to capture our eyeballs, not necessarily keep us informed.

Today, I’m joined by TV and Radio host and political commentator on Fox News, Brian Kilmeade. We cover a wide range of topics including the shifting of the Overton Window in media, the course correction America needs, how to determine which information is worth pursuing, what role the American citizen plays in this, the overdose of information we’re all dealing with.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Predictions for who is running in the next presidential election
• The evolving role of a newscaster
• The shifting Overton window regarding gender issues
• The United States is a self-correcting country
• Deciding what issues to address
• Building a team and establishing loyalty
• Gathering information from diverse sources
• Balancing independence and tradition with your kids

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down the key themes of his new book, The Masculinity Manifesto, and discusses why these concepts are so important to all of us as men.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

• What makes a man a man?
• Mindsets of masculine leadership
• Harnessing masculinity for productive outcomes
• Living like a man

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(2:30) Are there plans to translate the podcast to other languages?

(5:40) How do my wife and I get on the same page with parenting techniques?

(14:20) What are your thoughts on purchasing and financing a vehicle?

(21:00) For battle planning, what quadrant do you focus on to build your business and career?

(33:30) Besides marriage and kids, what were the most meaningful moments of your life?

(37:00) Are your thoughts on daycare the same as public school?

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It seems like it’s political month around here but with the mid-terms coming up, I think it’s important that we discuss some of these crucial political topics that impact us, our families, and our communities so much.

I’m joined today by former Navy SEAL and Congressional Candidate, Eli Crane, to talk about why it's crucial men have at least some interest in politics, how courage in you breeds courage in others, the collapse of some of our most predominant social institutions, the concept of ideological subversion, and the need for principle over power in our elected officials.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Responding to the needs of the nation
• How much can one person do?
• Motivated by principle vs. motivated by power
• The importance of staying engaged
• The military becoming a social experiment
• Complacency in voting
• The power vacuum will always be filled
• Every one of us can do something

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the importance of finding a healthy outlet and FOUR factors we should consider when choosing the best option.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

1. Must be stimulating to you
2. Should be physical
3. Should be convenient
4. Needs to be challenging

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(6:00) What’s your thoughts on the current FBI raids on conservative/Christian men?

(7:40) How do you know when you should leave a steady pay check for your own business?

(12:00) What would be some tactics we could use to expand or move beyond this box (constructed of our previous experiences) if the current situation that we find ourselves in, while not ideal, has put us in a better position than anything we have yet to experience?

(25:00) How can I help my kids overcome new fears, which have surfaced after separating from my wife?

(30:40) How do you build a group of men around you that goes deeper than surface level?

(36:00) What, if any, resources do you suggest for talking to son about sex?

(41:00) Have you considered expanding the Order of Man into any other areas? E.g. OoM shooting ranges, OoM BJJ Academies, OoM Hunting Classes, or anything else along those lines.

(44:50) How do I balance being a present father, fiancé and working, while also trying to take care of myself in order to take better care of my family?

(48:40) How does this quote from John, relate to what you offered those who attended the Legacy event?

Eldredge says “Boyhood Above all else, is a time of being the beloved son, the apple of your father’s eye. A time of affirmation. For though I maintain my premise laid out in Wild at Heart—that every man shares the same core Question, which is “Do I have what it takes?”— Before and beneath that Question in a man’s search for validation lies a deeper need—to know that he is prized, delighted in, that he is the beloved son.”

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Anytime you mention the word, “politics,” you know you’re in for a charged and polarizing conversation but it’s crucial we talk more about politics and the policy that comes with it because it impacts every facet of our lives.

My guest today, Congressman Dan Crenshaw, joins me to talk about the key issues impacting culture and society today including a healthy approach to reaching across the aisle, why it’s important for conservatives to have a voice in what we typically view as liberal issues, not only the far left but the far right – something he calls, “woke conservatism,” the importance of humility and open-mindedness, and distinguishing between politics and policy.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Prioritizing in politics
• The downside of rank contrarianism
• Pursuing rational environmentalism
• Red flag laws and gun control
• Men’s tendency to gravitate toward negative information
• Lack of critical thinking and humility in America
• Negative consequences of playing around with politics
• We don’t need another AOC
• Victimhood is seen as an attribute in society

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, a replay from September 2021, Ryan Michler discusses how to find opportunity through hardship.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

1. Start thinking about the long term - what/who are you going to create?
2. What do you need in order to make it a reality - who do you need to become?
3. Start formulating plan - what is your strategy for getting there?
4. Get to work. 

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(1:30) Is there a balance between sharing your goals and telling everyone your business?

(6:30) Do you see a greater demand for Christians to be emboldened and stand for Christian values?

(16:00) How can I combat burnout as a new dad, going to school and working overnight?

(34:00) What martial art would you recommend for someone with vertigo?

(37:00) What are some business lessons you wish you could tell your “year one” self?

(44:40) What challenges have you seen once you’ve found success?

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All of us want to be happy and successful and, yet, for many of us it seems so far away or so hard, if not impossible, to obtain. But my guest today, the one and only Ed Mylett, makes the case in his newest book, The Power of One More, that what we ultimately desire is not all that far away at all but perhaps just one more decision, step, conversation, or action away.

Today, Ed and I talk about how to develop that mindset, why being “rich” does not necessarily equal having money, the difference between confidence and arrogance, why it’s crucial we identify our value systems, the power of equanimity, pursuing progress, and taking inventory of our lives.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Its easy for men to get discouraged
• Arrogance vs healthy confidence
• Don’t attach your identify to the external
• Knowing the line between serving others and serving yourself
• Can anger serve us?
• Learning how to channel your emotions
• An awareness of a challenge helps it lose its power over you
• The ultimate confirmation does not come from a human being
• Pursuing progress, not perfection
• Reframe what it means to miss things with your kids
• Sometimes you need to be “creatively present”

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the importance of surrounding yourself with supportive men and what to look for when forming these relationships.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

1. They should be successful (in the areas where you want to be successful)
2. They need to have a shared value or belief system
3. They must be open to discussing these ideas
4. There has to be some process or system in place
5. They must be willing to be honest and bold with you

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(1:50) How do you have a serious conversation with someone who has a tendency to run from them?

(12:50) What advice and insight would you give to a soon-to-be father? Is there anything you would have done differently?

(18:10) How do you regulate how much time you spend in conversation with others?

(24:20) What advice do you have for guiding teens through social media when they have pressure from their friends?

(29:30) Do you have any tips for how I can navigate my first year in a new job with a new company that lacks structure and systems?

(42:00) What can I do to have an impact on the young men in my family?

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I think most of us believe there is a reason we’re here on this planet. But I personally know how hard it can be to uncover and discover the reason that is. It seems daunting considering how easily we can become consumed with trivial matters and the distractions of modern culture and society.

But my guest today, Eric Thomas (AKA, The Hip Hop Preacher), has been helping millions of people around the world ignite their power and purpose. Today, ET and I talk about overcoming the “passive boy,” becoming more of who you are – not a clone of someone else, why you don’t need the world to approve to succeed, the battle between the “two you’s,” and finding immense opportunity in crisis.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Criticism often reflects one’s own insecurity
• Getting what we want isn’t necessarily getting what we need
• Learning from others rather than being them
• Know what self-actualization means to you
• Having a relationship with God
• You need both God and money
• Taking personal responsibility for your life

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Belief in oneself is a powerful component but often neglected. In today’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, a replay from May 2021, Ryan Michler explains where belief comes from, how to develop belief, the importance of believing in yourself, why men are needed, and more. 

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

- Where belief comes from

- How to develop belief 

- Believing in yourself

- Why men are needed

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Drew Kachurak take on your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(5:30) What state were you in when you started in the Iron Council and where are you now?

(12:00) What would you do regain the passion for something you’ve lost due to your own greed, selfishness or laziness?

(20:30) What factor have you seen that makes the difference between someone succeeding with their goals, battle plan, etc. and them failing?

(29:30) What strategies do you use when you feel overwhelmed with more to do than you have time?

(32:20) My friend has been thinking about starting a business idea for a few years. This business is like a second side to the business that I run right now. Would it be inappropriate if I begin doing this business because I have the funds and time to do it, while he doesn’t? Or would I be stepping on his toes and negatively affecting our friendship by doing this?

(36:30) What are some ways to make the most of being a stay-at-home dad and overcoming the stigma that goes with it?

(39:00) What do you do if you are struggling to move on from a crisis, even after the danger has passed?

(45:00) If you could only have one piece of equipment to work out with, what would it be?

(45:50) How do you safely handle conflict at work, online, or at home?

(50:00) While working to expand my business/brand, I can’t always be there holding hands. What is your first move with creating an environment to have employees that generate revenue when you or one of your managers is not around to keep that momentum and that expectation high?

(58:50) How do you talk about Toxic Masculinity when other people believe it’s a real thing?

(1:08:30) How do you deal with a mother-in-law who is very opinionated about everything in your wife’s life? Do you set boundaries or do you let your wife set the boundaries?

(1:10:00) What is the resolution for raising a child who has been spoiled?

(1:14:30) How can I better communicate my feelings, ideas, wants, and information?

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Most of us would like to believe that in a moment we are called to make a stand on our principles, we would do it without hesitation. But can we say for certain we would act in accordance with what we believe when confronted with the risk of social alienation, ostracization from our friends and family, potential loss of a job, and the financial insecurity that comes with it?

That’s exactly what my guest, NBA star Jonathan Isaac, had to deal with when he decided to stand for the National Anthem when all of his teammates took a knee during the height of the Black Lives Matter movement and the George Floyd case. Today, we talk about his decision to do so, why people place labels on and attempt to dehumanize others, facing your fears by walking with Christ, the power of social media and group think, and becoming bold as lions.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Choosing to make a stand
• Loving each other the way that God loves us
• Highly emotional situations require restraint
• Hypocrisy in the faith
• Racism is cured by a change in someones heart
• The message often gets lost in a protest
• When God’s plan doesn’t align with our plan
• Staying in your lane while being authentic to yourself

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the important of recognizing when we need to let go…and some techniques for making it happen.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

1. Recognize that we don’t have as much control as we think we do
2. Often the need to control is rooted in lack of self-worth and self-confidence
3. Remember to check in on your brothers

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen takes on your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(2:00) What is the meaning of life?

(4:30) When does the “Order of Woman” start up?

(5:00) What techniques or advice do you have to let things go and not be so stressed about little things?

(11:30) What part does corporate ecology play in restructuring one's life toward better goals? What is the most essential underlying principle in building that ecology?

(16:00) For men on the fence about joining the Iron Council, would you give them a breakdown? Would you not want us sharing anything in particular prior to a man taking action and joining?

(18:30) What are some things you might consider when looking at a career change into public service, such as becoming a fire fighter or police officer?

(21:00) I’d like to know your experience with battling mediocrity when you are on an upward trajectory and those you love around you are content being average despite your outstanding example. When it’s not easy to walk away because it’s someone that you love and want the best for.

(29:20) Can you provide some tips or suggestions on how to make yourself more valuable in the marketplace so you can level up and make more money when your don’t have much skills or education to lean back on, nor any money to pay for a course or guru to learn something new?

(33:00) What do you think is the biggest problem our country is facing?

(38:05) Can you please provide some techniques you use to project a positive energy (especially when you are cranking on tasks around the house)? How do you catch yourself if you are projecting frustration/stress?

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Last week, at Origin Immersion Camp, I had the opportunity to sit down with my good friend, former Navy SEAL, and director of experiential leadership training programs for Echelon Front, JP Dinnell. We didn’t have a lot of time but we got into some subjects that him and I have never discussed before and I know you’re going to get a ton of value from

We talk about the relationship between trust and influence, allowing the people you lead to come up with solutions to their own problems, why you need to avoid creating dependency from others and how to do that, the concept of working, “up and out,” teaching how to think vs. what to think, and how to pray and work with intent.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Leading others means giving them ownership
• Teaching people how to think, not what to think
• Rendering yourself obsolete
• Submitting yourself fully to God
• Using discipline to overcome problems

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the importance of checking in on the men in your life.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

1. Take an inventory of the important people in your life.
2. Ask how things are going.
3. Don’t accept “ok” for an answer if you know that’s not true.

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(8:20) When should I consider expanding beyond BJJ into Muay Thai or Boxing? And which would be the best to start with?

(11:40) What two questions would you ask to get the most information about who a person is?

(20:20) If you could interview any person, dead or alive, who would it be?

(21:30) From a financial perspective, is it better to buy a home now or rent in the current economy?

(24:00) Can you talk about the financial considerations to be aware of when raising kids?

(28:50) What principles and concepts can be applied to improve at BJJ?

(38:40) What are some examples of tactics for connection and calibration? How are they measured?

(45:00) I am really into Muay Thai, what am I missing by not training BJJ?

(50:00) How do you get back into BJJ after an injury has kept you away for months?

(56:20) How do I balance between self-discipline and being too hard on myself when I don’t follow through on my expectations?

(1:06:00) Have you seen people be successful raising kids from a second marriage when both parents have kids from a previous marriage?

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I’ve spent a ton of time over the past several weeks really contemplating my performance and how I’m showing up both personally and professionally for my family, friends, and those of you who tune into what we’re doing here with Order of Man. It’s been a lot of time of self-reflection and, as challenging as it can be and has been in the past, it’s been therapeutic and helped me get back on the path I want to travel.

And, speaking of therapeutic, my guest today is John Kim, AKA The Angry Therapist. Today, we talk about the differences between liking and loving yourself and which is better to strive for, why we have to be careful of stamping ourselves as failures, how to uncover false beliefs burned in our subconscious, the power of identifying our value systems, and how to move away from the “pseudo self” to the “solid self.”

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Men respond, boys react
• The value in believing in something greater than yourself
• Relationships require a lot of work
• Differing perspectives on “my truth”
• How we can keep from hitting rock bottom
• Being authentic vs. being a jerk
• Defining the meaning of success
• Outlining common “false beliefs” about ourselves
• Defining your sense of worth

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the actions men should take on a daily basis to balance what is important.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

1. Know your objective and priority
2. Evaluate (Ask yourself, “Does this feel right?”)

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(3:00) When is the appropriate time to call someone out on their bullshit?

(15:30) What is the best way to help and encourage the wife into healthy eating habits and consistently working out?

(23:40) How do you overcome discouragement?

(36:30) How do you take notes when listening to something without losing track of what's being said/presented?

(44:30) When trying to set specific goals in the battle planning process, what is a good example for when there's not something quantifiable about the goal like improving your relationship with your wife or God?

(55:00) How do you implement new priorities in your life? What is the best way to evaluate progress in these areas?

(1:03:00) How do you overcome the discouragement that has dominated your life for decades?

(1:04:20) How do men show up as strong fathers when battling with their own childhood trauma and/or Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder?

(1:18:00) Is it worth pursing an MBA for financial/career gains when my goal is to start my own business and be out of the corporate world in the next 10 years?

(1:21:00) What are your thoughts on Krav Maga?

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One of the greatest challenges we face as men is finding a like-minded band of brothers we can rely on when needed and we can serve as they need us. In the ease of modernity, we’ve been led to believe we can and have to go at life alone. That just isn’t the case.

My guest today is the President of F3 Nation, whom a lot of you are familiar with. His name is Frank Schwartz and he goes by the nickname, “Dark Helmet.” Today, Frank and I talk about the power of fitness, fellowship, and faith in a man’s life, overcoming the feeling of dissatisfaction, becoming a high-impact man, our desperation for love and recognition (yes, even in men), and the positive benefits of engaging in dangerous, dirty, and difficult pursuits.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Helping men find their mission
• Providing structure to men through fitness
• Strengthening the relationship with yourself, others, and your creator
• What the church is supposed to feel like
• Leading in a decentralized organization
• The importance of strong yet simple culture
• What our world presents as true is often wrong

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses SIX strategies to help men move away from seeking validation from others and focusing on pursuing validation internally.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

1. Carve out time and recognize your flaws
2. Formulate a detailed plan
3. Just do it - execute the plan
4. Congratulate yourself
5. Commit to consistency
6. Serve other people

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(2:33) How much more than the “cost of living per year” should a family strive to earn?

(12:15) How do you define emotional intelligence and how would you increase it?

(19:00) How do I encourage my wife to have a hard conversation with her family without stepping in and creating unwanted tension between myself and her parents?

(23:30) What things do you think people are overspending on and what are some things that people should cut out of their life to save money?

(26:20) When will you guys attend one of Tim Kennedy’s Sheepdog Response courses?

(29:00) How much should a man enable the influence of other men over his children without relinquishing sovereignty?

(36:30) What does intimacy mean to you?

(42:00) What would you do as a high-performer when family and friends around you aren’t performing to their potential?

(50:00) What is the best way to deal with lying from our kids?

(59:00) Have either of you dealt with the “falling out of love” phase in a marriage? How have you handled it?

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You know as well as I do all the cultural dangers ourselves, families, and communities are presented with. And, as much as we’d like to pin it on some politician or outside factor beyond our control, the bigger issue is that the greatest threat is ourselves and our unwillingness to face the challenges that we see.

My guest today is Kirk Cameron. He is an actor and is most well-known for his character, Mike Seaver on the 80’s hit sitcom, Growing Pains. Today, Kirk and I talk about what he dubs the “moral meat grinder,” why direction is more important that perfection, the power of divine intervention and guidance, the deconstruction of society, and how to become a man of faith and character.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Being an anomaly in Hollywood
• Finding God and taking a different path
• We have good reason to have great faith in God
• Selecting the right projects
• Moving from defense to offense in culture
• One person partnered with God can change history
• Embracing the unknown risk
• We need to be conduits that bring heaven to earth
• We are listening to messages from people who shouldn’t matter to us
• Leaning into your purpose

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, a replay from May 2021, Ryan Michler shares 7 strategies to help when life has you down. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  

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Strategy #1: Get your ass out of bed

Strategy #2: Put the right information in your mind

Strategy #3: Get around good people

Strategy #4: Get exercise your body

Strategy #5: Make yourself the project

Strategy #6: Commit to a cause

Strategy #7: Serve other people

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(3:00) How do I evaluate if my church denomination is teaching the truth? If I disagree with some tenets, should I keep looking until I find the “right” church?

(11:20) When dealing with loss that has taken me off the path, how do I get some traction again when all I want to do is self medicate with food?

(30:20) With regard to Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, do you find your game and skill develops faster if you’re focusing on a particular aspect of your training (be it a particular position, or submission) for the session? Or do you find a more broad, “lets just roll & see what happens” approach to work better for you?

(40:40) Is it possible to be the husband and father I want to be while being absent often because of my military service?

(44:00) Can you provide some advice to help people accept where they are right now? How can they find the next step?

(49:00) How have you personally observed learning about Jesus can help you grow in manliness?

(52:00) How can I overcome being a procrastinator?

When do you know when it’s time to say “enough” when (59:30) it comes to personal goals and success?

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We’ve all begun to see the writing on the wall as it pertains to the loss in American manufacturing and the damage to the American supply chain. Continually, we have experienced losing jobs, harder to find items from toilet paper and baby formula to increasing concerns over Taiwan’s domination over the semiconductor market, and increasing costs for everyday goods and services.

My guest today is a man who is doing something about it. His name is Pete Roberts and he is the founder of OriginUSA which has dedicated itself to making all of their goods and products in America by Americans. Today, we talk about ever-changing market dynamics and how to stay ahead of the curve, why it’s crucial we honor our past manufacturing heritage, building what Pete calls, a “blockchain of manufacturing,” the power of the “blue collar mindset,” and fully unlocking American Potential.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Understanding market dynamics
• People are realizing that they need to harden up
• Dealing with overwhelm and distraction
• Building up block chain manufacturing
• We need to be prepared for China
• We have to be savage about bringing back manufacturing and knowledge
• Predicting the non-tangibles in the market
• Scraping the good from the past and applying it to the future
• Doing things for internal validation

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FIVE strategies to help men get back on the path when the inevitable challenges arise.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

1. Acknowledge that something is wrong
2. Get better at saying no
3. Protect your time and your schedule
4. Have systems in place and get better at delegation
5. Take care of your sleep, nutrition, and exercise

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from across the internet.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(32:20) Can you provide more information on the concept of undermining your wife?

(40:40) What is the best way that we can create a space for open communication with our family, wife, business, etc? How do you help someone who struggles with communication?

(50:40) What would be your approach to a church men’s group that isn’t working out?

(59:30) What is the best way to deal with toxic people? How do you tell the difference between someone who is joking and someone who is being disrespectful?

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I think whether you’re willing to acknowledge it or not, we are most definitely facing a crisis of our young men. From incarceration and suicide rates, to substance abuse issues, to failing and lagging societal metrics, it’s safe (and, extremely tragic) to say that our boys are fighting an uphill battle.

My guest today is Dr. Warren Farrell, the author of The Boy Crisis and many other books written to explore society from the lens of both women and men. Today, we talk about the dangers of lacking structure and purpose, how the “dad-style” vs. the “mom-style” of parenting actually creates awareness and empathy, how dopamine secretion and other physiological responses assist boys and men in doing the right thing, and the dangers and destructive results of “dad-deprivation.”

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Having the skillsets to be able to confront and to be compassionate
• Discussing the best way to measure success
• Teaching children to be empathetic
• Why social skills are so important for boys
• Fathers are critical in teaching postponed gratification
• How boys benefit from a mother’s involvement
• Is it possible to “have it all” in career and parenting success
• How single moms can get male involvement

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FIVE strategies to help fathers more effectively parent our daughters.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

1. We have to exemplify manliness
2. Surround her with feminine women
3. Teach her self-defense and situational awareness
4. Help her to be independent
5. Show her that she has value

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on this week’s top questions from Instagram.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(12:30) How do you continue to find the motivation to be the man you need to be after setbacks?

(27:00) As you go about your day, when you are encountering God, are there moments that you are overcome with love and gratitude for the life that you are living thanks to Him?

(34:00) What has been the biggest struggle you have encountered in fatherhood?

(38:40) What is the most painful thing that you hear parents complaining about regarding their children?

(42:10) How do we address the issue of nihilism that we run into while searching for meaning?

(53:30) Do you have any injury prevention tips for training jiu-jitsu for the first time?

(59:00) What are your thoughts on the mechanics (i.e., structure) of accountability?

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So many of us talk a big game when it comes to helping future generations of boys become the men their families, friends, and communities need them to be. And, yet, so few are willing to do much about it other than cleverly-crafted platitudes.

My guest today is different. His name is King Randall and he is a man that is actually doing something about leading in his community and helping the young men who don’t have the same opportunities that many of us did. Today, we talk about what it takes to build a prep school for boys, the motto and mission of, “Let us Make Men,” how he got over asking for money and what it looks like to build a 501c3 organization, the pros and cons of being young, and how it’s character that makes the man.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Focusing on consistency and transparency
• Receiving pushback from the start
• Advantages and disadvantages of building an organization at a young age
• Teaching kids how to use social media as a business tool, not entertainment
• Private funding vs. government funding
• Training boys in non-traditional skills and sports

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses how being out of integrity is keeping you from reaching your goals and provides FIVE keys to help you close the integrity gap.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. Consistency is key
2. Have people in your corner
3. Celebrate incremental wins
4. Start serving other people
5. Evolve

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from Instagram.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(25:00) What are you both most excited about? (Not including the Order of Man)

(28:10) How did you manage your time and tasks when your kids were younger?

(33:30) Should I quit my full time job to start farming with my family and do something I really enjoy, or take the safe and easy road with an 8-hour a day job and good benefits? How do I find the courage to take the leap?

(42:30) How do I show my ex that I want “us” and I am better in a way that is confident and aggressive, but respectful and not needy?

(51:00) How do you think the modern church is failing as it pertains to serving the needs of men?

(55:20) In the context of marriage, how do you deal with “false ownership” from your wife?

(1:00:00) How do you get better at listening to your own intuition?

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As men, we all look around and see the problems that exist in society. But very few of us are willing to objectively look at what’s going on in our culture relative to the lesson we should have learned from examples throughout history. Couple that with our inability and/or lack of desire to improve our own situations and circumstances and it makes a recipe for disaster.

My guest today is my close personal friend, Andy Frisella, and today we talk about his shift away from the MFCEO podcast to the RealAF podcast, why we need to be cognizant of the convenience vs. efficiency, learning to push the envelope, the obligation to evolve, and how you can adopt the “get better until you die,” mentality.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Building efficiencies in your life
• Keep your struggles and challenges in context
• Balancing quality of life with making more money
• We are being indoctrinated to settle for less
• Shifting from MFCEO to the Real AF podcast
• We are starting to outsmart the false media narratives
• America is designed to be a free society
• We can change the culture in one year

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the importance of the father/son relationship and breaks down four characteristics that men should focus on the strengthen this relationship.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. Sanctity
2. Service
3. Sacrifice
4. Solidarity

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Shawn Villalovos take on questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(4:30) How do you deal with toxic or overbearing grandparents when dealing with your kids?

(19:40) What traits does a man need to develop in order for the people he encounters to feel like he has the “it” factor?

(36:00) Do you suggest I journal to improve in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu?

(49:00) How do you build generational wealth?

(1:05:00) What tips do you have for sticking to a healthy diet?

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I think most of us would agree that society is increasingly moving toward towards the “entitled mentality.” Everywhere we turn people gripe about what they want, why they’re entitled to it, and why, “life isn’t fair.”

My guest today takes exception with that mentality and, has proven throughout his life that, despite his challenges, is willing to purse and earn what he desires. His name is Darren Woodson. He’s a former NFL football player, ESPN Analyst, and successful real estate investor. Today, Darren and I talk about establishing a healthy identity, re-inventing yourself, resisting the victimhood mentality, the joy found in giving, hubris and humility, and a whole lot more.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Keeping yourself moving
• Making the most of the time you have
• Hard transition from playing football to ESPN
• Becoming resilient and avoiding the victim role
• Seeing identity in a positive light
• We need critical people on our side
• Applying lessons from the football field to life and business
• Finding accountability outside of the NFL
• Passing lessons to the next generation
• Get your kids involved in making a difference

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler provides FIVE practices that you can take right now and every day to reinvent yourself.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. Try to become that man that you needed in the past
2. Be the kind of man that others need you to be
3. Look for the guys in your life who are doing these things already
4. Do what these men do
5. Critique yourself

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on questions from the Iron Council and across social media.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(11:40) What steps have you taken to ensure that true men would be available to demonstrate the values you want your children to see and learn from if you were to pass away?

(18:50) How would you respond if a man showed up to father/son event at your property with a transgender “son”?

(22:00) How can men have productive conversations around difficult and polarizing topics, such as the recent “Roe vs. Wade” decision?

(34:00) How do I show up in my relationship, where we have been separated for six months, when my wife is cold and distant?

(41:00) What are three ways to make money while from a podcast?

(44:40) What is the next big issue that you’d like the Supreme Court to address?

(52:40) What is the hardest part about Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu training?

(59:50) How do I get over social anxiety when starting at a new church and wanting to connect with people?

(1:02:30) What criteria has to be met before you consider yourself wealthy?

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Most of what we see and hear about on the socials regarding being a man is being a savage, a lion, a killer, etc. And, while I don’t dismiss the importance of embodying those traits and characteristics, equally important is how to lead with value and serve others.

My guest today, former Navy SEAL and CIA Operative, Ray “Cash” Care and I talk about how to embody both the savage and the servant. We cover overcoming past pain and trauma, outward explosions vs. inward implosions, the difference between problem makers and problem solvers, getting past self-sabotage, and so much more.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Creating a society of stronger men
• Growing in spite of past adversity
• Dealing with the haters
• You can’t save those who don’t want to be saved
• Protecting your family is an act of service
• Investing in yourself and your family

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares FIVE lessons learned from his recent hunting trip in Hawaii and explains how you can apply them in both hunting and life.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. You have to carve out time for yourself
2. Surround yourself with like-minded, value-driven men
3. Manage expectations
4. Check your equipment
5. You must be persistent

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Drew Kachurak take on questions from the Iron Council and across social media.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(4:00) How do you support your wife in times when she is depressed or overwhelmed by life?

(7:30) Is all the development we do in the Iron Council really just us choosing our own resistance and turning pro in the 4 quadrants?

(12:00) How do I get my wife and kids on board with living a more minimalist lifestyle?

(18:00) In what order should “preparedness” be conducted?

(23:00) As a man, when your wife/significant other criticizes you or a decision you’ve made, how do you determine when you should push back and explain or defend yourself or just accept it and move on?

(29:00) How do you identify your unique selling proposition?

(33:00) How do you handle a strong willed teenager that pushes the limits and seems to have no regard for your authority?

(39:40) What advice do you have for someone who wants to be able to defend his family and is interested in purchasing a handgun, but his wife is not on board?

(44:00) What is a good way to repair your reputation in an industry that you left and want to go back to? 

(51:40) At what point do I (as “big brother") have a conversation with a guy who is clearly taking advantage of a family member?

(57:20) Do you find yourself often forgetting BJJ techniques that you learn?

(59:20) What are some tips for helping someone deal with grief?

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You know that I’ve been a long-time outspoken advocate for pulling your kids from government education to home-based education but I also understand how many barriers are in place to doing so. From mindsets, skillsets, and financial resources, it can be daunting to even consider educating your kids within the walls of your home.

Today, my guest Matt Beaudreau, and I talk about how to make it a reality. We cover the resources you need to homeschool your children, alternative paths outside of government and home-based education, common myths to pulling your kids from school, the difference between being educated and being schooled, the game of college, school-choice for parents, and so much more.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Difference between being “educated” and being “schooled”
• Destroying the homeschool “socialization” myth
• Lack of nuance in the public school system
• Most public school teachers have good intentions
• How do you get out of the public school system?
• Are we qualified to teach our own kids?
• The origins of compulsory schooling
• Exploring the alternatives to public scoring

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down 10 tactics you should employ to engage in respectful and worthwhile discussions.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. Maintain a humble attitude
2. Keep your biases in check
3. Me mindful of how your emotions affect you
4. Be just with offing views
5. Stay on topic
6. Be civil
7. Help your discussion partner save face
8. Do away with rhetorical attacks
9. Demand that the other person civil as well
10. Be understanding
11. Dont fold
12. Be willing to walk away

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos take on questions from the Iron Council and across social media.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(4:40) What more can we do to help get this country back where it needs to be?

(15:40) How do you deal with people who are negative and dragging you down?

(26:00) When you get to the point in your life that you have exceeded every goal you have set currently, what’s next? What is the best way to set the next level? What steps in planning your next BP would you suggest?

(43:40) Information is thrown at us from thousands of sources, how do you vet the source to gauge its credibility?

(55:30) What is your every day carry?

(56:00) What advice can you give to those who feel powerless to change their life for the better despite searching faith and temporal solutions?

(1:04:00) Over the last year I've been on a journey of personal development, part of which has led me to the Order of Man. I can see some of the same stresses I was facing in my wife now, how can I help inspire her to start on that journey for herself?

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Back by popular demand, my wife Miss Trish, joins me on the podcast to chop it up and answer some of your most pressing questions. Today, we talk about homeschool challenges, the benefit of husbands and wives taking time for themselves, overcoming guilt for self-development, being cautious in undermining each other, dating losers, how to best get to sex, and so much more.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Making sacrifices for homeschooling
• What to do when your wife steps out
• How do you manage kid responsibilities at home with Dad having an “actual” job and Mom handling the other responsibilities
• Strategies for reaching consensus when there is a disagreement
• When should a woman walk away from a boyfriend who won’t grow up
• Surviving a two year old
• Whats it like being married to an amazing wife?
• Tips to keep intimacy alive
• Intimacy and a man “taking what he wants”

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses how men can establish influence, credibility, and authority in every important area of life.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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1. Influence: Your ability to modify people’s thought patterns, beliefs, or actions
2. Credibility: Established through mastery and consistency
3. Authority: Only comes after you have influence and credibility and you must be in the appropriate position.

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from Instagram.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(3:00) Are you looking for people to read advance copies of your book?

(4:00) What homeschooling curriculum does your family use?

(11:30) How do I take the next step to get engaged to my girlfriend?

(20:40) How do you go about prospecting for new business clients and how do you go about closing a sale?

(35:00) How have you dealt with anger issues in the past and what resources would you recommend?

(47:20) Do you see a lack of strong men in the church? How should the church address this issue?

(55:40) How does one navigate a relationship with his father, who has not lived up to what it means to be a man but is trying to change?

(1:04:00) How do you stay in a job that you don’t enjoy, without letting it impact your mental health, until you are able to move into a different job or business?

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What does it mean to earn your stripes? It means that you have to go through the fire of challenge and adversity to thrive and win. That’s exactly what my guest, Tim Kennedy, has done all of his life. From serving as an Army Ranger to fighting in the UFC, and running multiple incredibly successful businesses, it’s fair to say that Tim Kennedy has officially earn his stripes but all the scars that come with it.

Today, Tim and I talk about a broad array of topics in a short amount of time. We talk about time management, identifying and living out your priorities, dealing with foul-ups, comparing yourself to other people, and his latest book, Scars and Stripes.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• You are the problem, time is not the problem
• Managing a busy schedule with wife and children
• Influencing your kids while you still can
• Our country needs school choice
• The government wants everyone to be dependent on them
• Big tech in bed with government
• People are starving for “real”

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down TEN steps and actions men can take to contribute to the growth of boys into strong men.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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1. Be an example first
2. Be present
3. Use firm but fair communication
4. Be humble
5. Be proud of the right things
6. Get involved in the schools
7. Coach youth sports
8. Get involved in community programs
9. Get involved in your church
10. Run for elected office

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle questions from the Order of Man’s exclusive brotherhood, the Iron Council.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(13:30) How do you perform AARs on reading a book?

(17:00) Who has influenced you the most? And do they still?

(29:30) What are your thoughts on the podcast with Cam Hanes? Specifically his thoughts on not knowing what’s next.

(40:00) I’d like to be more involved in my community. Where is a good place to start?

(44:00) What is the most common temptation that causes men to break integrity? How do you get back on track?

(59:00) Would it help your marriage if you were more intentional about listening to your wife even when it seems like she is trying to start an argument?

(1:04:40) What is a good testosterone booster to keep the libido going?

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The rugged life isn’t something most of us are accustomed to. In fact, most men around the world would shatter at the slightest sign of inconvenience, let alone going without power for a week, not having access to food for 24 hours, or fuel prices rising to historic and unprecedented prices.

So, how do we, as men, ensure we’ll be able to care of ourselves and others? By embracing the Rugged Life my guest, former Navy SEAL and New York Times Bestselling Author, Clint Emerson, and I discuss. Today, we talk about the threat of a Russian or (more likely) Chinese invasion, how our entire lives hinge on the factor of personal responsibility, the power of incremental improvement, and how to harness and embrace the rugged lifestyle.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• We need to have a back up plan
• Insulate yourself with skills and preparation
• Options give you time, time gives you options
• Being healthy is a great way to thrive things things go bad
• We need to become less dependent on China
• The root of our problems is lack of personal responsibility.

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses how capitalism, at its core, is a very manly societal construct.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. Capitalism promotes the idea of rights and responsibilities
2. Capitalism promotes innovation
3. Capitalism operates on merit
4. Capitalism promotes ownership of personal property

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(8:40) How can we conquer our own biases and other people’s biases at the same time?

(15:30) What are the most important principles for choosing where to live?

(20:20) Is your idea of masculinity defined by capitalism and should it be?

(27:00) How do you find the balance between listening to other people who may know more than you and maintaining your convictions with what you know to be true?

(34:30) Should the church do more to support home education over public schooling?

(37:00) How do you figure out your path when you feel like you’ve lost your way?

(46:40) How do you deal with an unsupportive Mother in Law?

(49:00) How can I maintain a positive environment for my kids when their mom feels like being a part-time parent?

(56:10) What is a good tactic to teach kids to be aggressive in sports? How do you teach kids to not be afraid of the ball?

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Life is suffering. At least, it’s full of suffering. Unfortunately, too many men avoid voluntary suffering and, instead, choose the path of least resistance. But that path leads to a life of complacency and mediocrity.

My guest today is a man who runs (literally) towards suffering and hardship, not to make life harder than it needs to be but to prepare himself for what will inevitably come. His name is Cam Hanes. He’s a bowhunter first, an ultra-endurance athlete, and an incredibly motivating human being. Today, we talk about the purpose of suffering, making the decision to make yourself into something more, why working harder than others will always produces results, finding mentorship and friendship, dealing with negativity from others, his new book Endure, and why every man ought to embrace the mantra, “Train Hard, Hunt Easy.”

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

• Learning to navigate time on your own
• Being motivated to “find your limit”
• Dealing with doubts despite success
• Creating bonds through hardship
• Using your strengths to inspire people and gain credibility
• The easy path never leads to anything great
• Determining which opportunities to pursue
• Why stay at a “normal job” when you don’t have to
• Running shoe companies becoming too “woke”
• Finding motivation by having a chip on your shoulder
• Providing an American-made option for hunting gear with Origin

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down how focusing on small steps can lead to big results.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. Take one or two steps each day toward your objective
2. Measure success by hitting small targets, not by looking at the overall objective
3. When you hit the small targets, the ultimate objective will take care of itself
4. Don’t compare yourself to others

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen answer the hottest questions from the Iron Council.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(19:30) What are your biggest takeaways from the Man Uncaged event?

(31:40) As a single man, what kinds of things can you do to fill your time without spending too much money?

(36:00) What are a few ways that you’ve been able to add value to other professionals that has allowed you to gain access to their network?

(48:10)  How do you handle the emotions of missing your kids’ activities in order to do things for yourself?

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My guests today is friend, former Navy SEAL, and New York Times Bestselling author, Jack Carr. We take so many difference routes in this conversation and all of them worthy of discussion.

Of course, we cover his latest book in the James Reece Saga, In the Blood, but we also get into how to eliminate distractions and maintain focus, how to keep yourself from getting tripped up with obstacles on your path to success, leading properly through effective communication, how writing daily can serve as a therapeutic practice, and how to find the perfect flow for projects and life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

• Dealing with distractions
• Lessons from the writing process that relate to life
• Life will hit you hard, but keep things in perspective
• Turning mistakes into opportunities
• Challenges to the First Amendment
• There is a reason laws are written so broadly
• The financial side of writing
• The future of the James Reece series
• Ghost writing in fiction vs. non-fiction
• Terminal List coming to TV
• Its good to be forgiving of mistakes

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler provides FOUR simple strategies for how you can rebound and regain your honor after you screw up.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. Admit the fact that you screwed up
2. Apologize to the person/people you hurt
3. Adjust your behavior
4. Accept the outcome

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Shawn Villalovos discuss Shawn’s Mexican heritage and tackle your questions from the Iron Council.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(17:20) When releasing a book, how do you decide between looking for a publishing company vs. self-publishing?

(32:50) How do you balance weight training with Jiu-Jitsu?

(40:00) If you were unable to go to the gym and had to work out at home, with limited time, what areas would you focus on?

(52:20) What are your favorite vacation spots?

(57:40) How do you define ‘what is enough for you’?

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Life never presents us with a linear path to success. Often, the journey is marred with failures, obstacles, setbacks, challenges, and detours. It’s what we do in the face of the inevitable that determines the level of satisfaction and fulfillment in our lives.

My guest today is a Master Bladesmith (in fact, he was able to achieve that status younger than anyone else in history), and the founder of Josh Smith Knives and Montana Knife Company. Today, Josh and I talk about his personal journey from forging knives in his teens, to working as lineman thinking he was making the right move for his family, then back to where it all started as we works to build the next great knife company from the ground up. We cover paying attention to the little things, the mixed emotions of starting a company, developing a powerful team culture, and finding confidence when you don’t have any experience.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Knife making as a kid
• A little bit of early luck
• Its good to have influence from a variety of men
• Transitioning from hand made to “production” knives
• Pivoting to keep providing for the family
• Business can skyrocket when you go all in
• Factors for fast growth and success
• You have to act or you lose credibility
• Its great to be able to give back
• Being responsible when pursuing your dream
• A lot of men lack a vision for the future
• Support at home is extremely important
• You have to have confidence in yourself

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FOUR common myths about homeschool and why you should not let them stand in you way.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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1. You as a parent aren’t qualified to teach
2. The kids won’t be socialized
3. They won’t be exposed to new ideas
4. We don’t have the time or money to homeschool

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen dive into the week’s top questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(21:00) How did your kids handle the move to Maine? Do you have any thoughts and recommendations for someone making a similar move?

(29:00) What is a short story or poem that resonates with you?

(35:30) What are some tips for finding contentment or fulfillment in a job that doesn’t challenge you or push you, but pays the bills?

(45:40) How do you balance a masculine life with a spouse who makes 10x what I make?

(58:00) How does a father balance a career where he’s gone from home half the month? Is it better to find a job closer to home, or stick with the dream job?

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Back to visit again is repeat guest and friend, Ethan Suplee. He is an extraordinary actor. You’ve seen him in Remember the Titans, American History X,  Without a Paddle, and, of course, My Name is Earl. But he’s also an extraordinary man and has a ton of valuable wisdom to share as it relates to life, success, overcoming adversity, losing weight, getting in shape, and disciplining your life.

Today, we talk about all sorts of topics like masks and COVID, public school, making it in Hollywood and film, the value of hard work and value-driven decisions, mental and emotional health, the ease of modernity, and uncovering and unpacking the Truth.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Acting in movies vs. TV shows
• Examining truth in science
• Dishonesty in politics and the media
• Finding an acceptable level of risk
• When your choices affect others
• Nature vs nurture in raising kids
• Challenges in writing a memoir
• Living life on the edge vs playing it safe
• Finding satisfaction through hard work
• Where does self-identification stop
• The mob cannot determine what is best for everyone
• We need to have the right to “opt out”
• Selective outrage among Americans
• You benefit from the work you put in
• The deterioration of San Francisco and LA

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares FIVE actions you can take today to take your sex life to the next level.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. Lose weight and get in shape
2. Stop watching porn
3. Learn to communicate with her
4. Assert yourself
5. Continue to court her

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen dive into the week’s top questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(8:20) What does it mean to be a man?

(38:40) What is the difference between “performative” masculinity and being a good man?

(45:20) Once I have paid off all debt except the mortgage, should I start putting more money toward my mortgage or invest that money elsewhere?

(1:00:20) Do you think Oppositional Defiance Disorder is an appropriate diagnosis for my child or is she just being disrespectful and defiant?

(1:10:00) How do you lead your wife who seems perfectly content with how things are and has no desire to improve herself?

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Terry Crews joins me on the podcast today to talk about some very powerful topics focused on developing masculine power. I believe that you’d all agree that Terry embodies what we typically think of when we think about masculinity.

But today we dive deep into his true sense of power, his struggles with past anger issues and pornography, how to not only be physically strong but build mental and emotional strength, avoiding being baited in uncontrollable situations, what it means to “misuse masculinity,” and overcoming shame, insecurity, and fear.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Forgiveness is needed for true reconciliation
• You can either have success or revenge
• True power is the ability to control your own emotions
• Using motivation as revenge leaves scars
• You have to challenge your own thinking
• Hollywood doesn’t care if you lose your family
• Loving your family vs. controlling them
• Traits of masculinity
• Toxic masculinity is really just abuse of power
• Masculinity is about being a servant and providing
• Intimacy is more satisfying than just sex
• Being the “bigger man” vs. being a little bitch
• Power is exercising restraint
• An effective movement must start with reconciliation
• We are more alike than different

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down the FOUR great lies about femininity that pervade society today.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. Women have to be more like men in order to be strong women
2. Femininity is weak
3. Femininity is just about bringing children into the world
4. Femininity is no longer needed in society

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos respond to your top questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(8:30) As a social person, I often allow conversations to pull me off task. What are your strategies for staying focused on the task at hand to ensure my “to-do” list gets completed?

(15:40) I just got engaged yesterday! Tell us your proposal stories.

(23:00) What is your answer when someone says this movement, Order of Man, is all about toxic masculinity and nothing about family?

(30:30) How do I handle people who enjoy pointing out my flaws?

(33:00) Where does a man draw the line between sharing relevant personal mental health struggles and oversharing? 

(41:40) Do you have any advice for a husband and wife who are simultaneously starting their dream jobs and also maintaining our relationship with both ourselves and our four kids?

(50:40) What are some strategies to introduce the concept of ownership to people in my organization who desire to succeed, but are having trouble embracing this concept?

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You guys have heard me talk a lot about our role as protectors, providers, and presiders not only within the walls of our home but in our communities as well. Not only do we have the opportunity to give back to those in need, we have a moral obligation to do so, especially if we have the means to do it.

My guest today is a man who is doing exactly that. His name is Victor Fontanez (you may know him as Vic Blends) and he has made a name for himself through offering practical life advice for the young men he gives haircuts to as he serves his community in Atlanta. Vic is 22 years old but you’re going to hear so much incredible wisdom come from him. I was honestly taken back by how much this man inspired me to do and be better myself.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Don’t take your blessings for granted
• Do what you believe in and everything else will handle itself
• What to look for in people in your inner circle
• Always practice gratitude
• Differentiating between your plan and God’s plan
• Find your part and play it well
• Learning lessons in the barber shop
• Education and reform in the prison system
• The importance of having conversations to change perspective
• Being able to communicate your message effectively

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down the FOUR great lies about masculinity that pervade society today.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. Masculinity is toxic
2. Masculinity is virtuous
3. Masculinity is earned
4. Masculinity is no longer needed in society

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen are back together to respond to the week’s top questions from the Iron Council.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(8:00) What is your battle plan this quarter?

(18:30) How do you go about finding the right coach/mentor?

(26:00) Do you have any advice for someone transitioning to a new position at work focused on training and development?

(44:00) How do you choose or prioritize your goals and objectives?

(49:40) How do you communicate to your spouse that you want to be more successful in your life and business, when your wife expresses that she is perfectly content with how things are?

(57:40) How do I take full ownership of something when it’s not clear that it was ever supposed to be my responsibility?

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We live in the single greatest time in the history of the human species but that’s not to say we’re without our fair share of challenges and struggles. It seems to me that the path we’re on is leading us to a path of destruction and the pace of our demise seems to be rapidly increasing.

My guest, Dave Rubin, would agree and, although we don’t see eye to eye on everything we discuss today, I think it will serve as a reminder that we can – and should – learn to have these crucial conversations before it’s too late.

Today, we talk about the seeming futility of trying create positive change in the world, what “wokeism” is and how to root it out of our society, big tech and how it’s working in overdrive to subjugate us, capitalism vs. socialism, homosexuality and transgenderism, and, ultimately, how to thrive in our ever-increasing woke dystopia.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• We had largely “solved” racism before bad policy brought it back
• The “woke” revolution is eating its own
• Humor is a great release valve
• The strength of liberalism is also it’s weakness
• Having feminine characteristics doesn’t make someone a woman
• We all live outside of our ideals and values at times
• How do you reason with unreasonable people?
• Go to school to learn things that matter

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler outlines a FIVE-part framework for developing the “X-factor” in your own life.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. You have to know what you want
2. Start formulating a plan
3. Execute the plan
4. Don’t deviate from the path
5. Analyze your performance and repeat the process

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler is flying solo and tackling the top questions of the week.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

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(2:10) Why aren’t friends great choices to hold you accountable?

(6:10) How do you deal with wanting more for your kids than they want for themselves?

(10:00) Do you have any advice for a happy divorce?

(13:30) How do you establish healthy boundaries with a narcissistic mother?

(18:10) Can you try to get Tim Ballard on the podcast?

(19:30) How do you guide sons through difficult conversations about sex?

(26:10) What do you do on days when you don’t feel the motivation to perform at a high level?

(28:30) What would you suggest doing to gain better access to men of purpose who are worthy of being role models?

(33:20) When do you apply discipline vs. compassion and empathy as a single parent?

(38:20) What does the average “just getting by” man waste the most money on that the successful man does not?

(40:55) What steps could I take to help my wife in the event that I die suddenly?

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No doubt, you’ve heard of Bitcoin and Crypto but with the increasing popularity of digital currency, you may still have a lot of questions and skepticism about the validity of what exactly it is and if it’s worth paying attention to.

My guest today is Bitcoin expert and a duel degree MIT graduate, Michael Saylor. Today, him and I discuss what Bitcoin is and whether or not it’s a valid form of currency for the future. We also get into some higher-level discussions about what is the nature of money, value, and our individual property rights. We cover the concerns of inflation, government risk, whether or not digital currency is “real,” and the incorruptible nature of Bitcoin.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• An overview of property ownership
• Real estate doesn’t solve the problem for everyone
• Owning digital property
• Monetizing a utility
• The risk of crypto currency vs. traditional investments
• Legal and ethical limitations
• Bitcoin is the dominant digital property network
• The stability and security of Crypto and Bitcoin
• The risk of Crypto and Bitcoin
• How to get started with Crypto

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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler outlines FIVE points that will help you achieve ultimate freedom in your life.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

1. Faith
2. Finances
3. Fitness
4. Family & Friends
5. Future

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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen is flying solo and takes on the week’s top questions from Instagram.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 

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(1:30) Should I buy a house as a young single guy, or rent until I am married?

(3:00) Do you have any advice for working in a dysfunctional workplace?

(5:40) What are some signs that you should marry the person you are dating?

(7:30) What are some topics or agendas you try to hit every day in your family meetings?

(8:40) What is your best dad joke?

(11:15) Who do you look to for advice regarding how to press on? Do you have a mantra, scripture, or saying that you recite in times of weakness?

(14:40) How do I continue to work on building a strong relationship with my wife after we have our first child?

(17:30) How does a young man handle getting over a girl the right way when we have mutual friends?

(19:40) How do I improve my confidence in social settings?

(24:50) How do you quit drinking and what are some ways to deal with triggers?

(29:40) In what ways do you treat your daughter different than your son?

(33:00) What is a good way to start discovering your WHY?

(38:40) How much fear did you have before launching the podcast?

(40:25) How do I get up early so I have more time to be productive?

(42:20) What is your morning routine?

(45:00) What is your go-to BJJ take down for a larger opponent of equal skill?

(57:20) In a digital world, how does a man meet a woman?

(49:00) What are the most important things to focus on when raising a daughter?

(49:40) Is it better to play the long game and stay with a company that rewards tenure, or jump companies often in an effort to build income quicker?

(52:00) How do you escape side control?

(53:30) What are the best ways to learn new information?

(55:20) How can I improve with communicating with my wife and guiding her to be more receptive?

(1:00:25) What hardships have you faced in entrepreneurship and how have you overcome them?

(1:06:20) How can I be involved in the Order of Man movement?

(1:07:40) How can I build mental toughness in my 4-year-old son?

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If you’re anything like me, you know that deep down inside you’re meant to do something great in this life. It’s unfortunate, however, that so many men settle especially when it comes to a career they’re likely going to spend the overwhelming majority of their waking hours in.

That’s why I wanted to invite back Ken Coleman, author of From Paycheck to Purpose. Today, Ken and I talk about the concept of “stealing time from yourself” to launch a purpose project, tactical discipline during the pursuit, the 3 types of fear that keep men from going after meaningful work, and how to take yourself from day job to dream job.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Culture has made it seem silly for us to pursue our passion
• Pursue your talent, passion and mission
• You have to steal time from yourself
• Don’t sacrifice the “now” for the “next”
• Instead of hearing no, hear not here, not yet…
• Experiencing fear and doubt is a good sign
• You’ve got to filter failure
• Understanding three major sources of fear
• There is no success without suck
• Much of our strength comes from the struggle
• Surround yourself with the right people