In the process of dating, you’ll eventually be introduced to your potential in-laws. In-laws are a source of conflict for many marriages, and we want to help you start off on the right note! How can you manage honoring your in-laws when either they don’t seem to like you, or you don’t seem to like them?

We’ve all heard of Christian leaders who have used their power and influence to bring harm on people within their church. In this conversation, we talk with Katelyn Beaty about how we can avoid that from continuing to happen in the church. How can we maintain we’re all about Jesus instead of all about ourselves?

Check out her book here: https://amzn.to/3ZKV7x8

If you are sick of being stuck in sin, we have a new resource for you! JP has written a book helping you identify your vices so that you can replace them with life giving virtues. You don’t have to be bogged down by sin, you can find freedom.

Buy the book here: https://www.jonathanpokluda.com

In this episode, we talk about how Joshua Broome broke free from the p*rn industry and how God rewrote his story. If you are stuck in an addiction to p*rn, God can change your desires! If you're looking for a story of hope, you're going to love this episode.

In this episode, we sit down with Joshua Broome and hear about his experience in the p*rn industry. Joshua shares details of just how broken the industry is, and what it did to him. Before you consume p*rn, you need to know what industry you're keeping alive!

Everything you do flows from what's in your heart. If we want to live differently, we need to change what we are feeding our hearts. We aren't meant to follow our hearts but to inform them!

February can be a really hard month if you're single and don't want to be. In this episode, we talk about how to prepare for marriage, but also to get the most out of your singleness. You aren't just in a season of waiting, you can experience God's best now!

Whether you realize it or not, all of us have influence. In this episode we talk about how to use our influence well so that we make Jesus more famous, not ourselves!

In this week's episode we talk to author (and one of the most encouraging people we know), Carlos Whittaker. He gives us insight into what he's learned about how we're made to live. If you're looking for joy, don't miss this episode!

Christians have a wide variety of beliefs about alcohol. Is it something that should be totally avoided? Or should we embrace it? In this episode, we talk about how to view alcohol in a way that honors God and is best for you.

Our goal each year should be to look more like Jesus at the end of it. To help with that process, each year our staff gives up one thing and decides a word they want to live out. This helps give direction to a year of following Jesus!

Sometimes it’s hard to know if someone is truly following Jesus or if they just claim to be a Christian. In this episode we talk about the qualities you want to see in someone if you are to date them. Don’t get caught in a relationship that will pull you from Jesus!

Holiness can be seen as a burden that we can’t live up to. In this episode we talk about how holiness actually benefits your life. You can look more like Jesus in 2023!

For many of us, confession to anyone other than God feels like a scary idea. In this episode we talk about how confession to others is actually beneficial to you. If you want to take a new step on your faith, check out this episode!

Around the holidays you’ll likely spend lots of time with family, many of whom may not know Jesus. In this episode we talk about how and when to share your faith with your family. We want to help you start conversations that matter!

All of us have to work, but what if we feel like our work doesn't have eternal significance? In this episode we talk to Jordan Raynor about how every job can have a purpose for eternity. Whether you're a pastor or a barista, this episode will help you do your job with a mission in mind! But Jordan's new devotional "The Word Before Work" here: The Word Before Work: A Monday-Through-Friday Devotional to Help You Find Eternal Purpose in Your Daily Work - Kindle edition by Raynor, Jordan. Religion & Spirituality Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com.

Politics is likely either the first thing or the last thing you want to talk about with family. In this episode we discuss how to process politics through the lens of a believer. It’s important but it’s not ultimate!

While money isn’t evil, it is a root of all kinds of evil. In this episode we talk about the dangers of wanting to be rich. If money has your heart, God does not!

Many of us are running at such a fast pace that we’re desperate for rest. In this episode we talk about the things that will actually restore your soul. There’s a difference between self-care and soul care, it’s important to know the difference!

The world’s way of dating simply isn’t the best way to date. We’ve all been fed lies about what is the ideal dating relationship. In this episode Tovares Grey walks us through how his life experience has proven the promises of Scripture to be true! Buy his new book here:

https://www.amazon.com/Godly-Dating-101-Discovering-Relationships/dp/0785293019

What do we do when things are happening around us that we don’t agree with? Many of us have only known two options: loud and unloving disagreement, or apathy. In this episode we talk about how to be salt and light in a winsome way. We’re called to be both courageous and kind!

We all have varying degrees of hurts in our past, many of us just don’t know what to do with them. In this week’s episode, we talk to author Toni Collier about how God can restore and redeem hurts and trauma from our past. We may have pain, it just doesn’t have to stay permanent! To hear more, buy her new book “Brave Enough To Be Broken” here:

https://www.amazon.com/Brave-Enough-Be-Broken-Discover/dp/1400233356

One of the hardest parts about your young adult years can be finding genuine community. You may have friends you hang out with, all the while not feeling truly known by anyone. In this episode we talk about the ingredients of community and how you can help create it wherever you’re at!

One of the hardest things about dating is that there is just so much pressure. Everyone seems to have an opinion and it takes the fun out of the process. In this episode we talk about how rules can be hurtful because each person is different.

We know that we’re supposed to read the Bible, many of us just don’t actually know how to. In this episode we talk about how to study the Scriptures and how to apply it to your life. If you want to love to read the Bible, this episode is for you!

One of the lies the enemy will try to get you to believe is that you aren’t good enough for God. When we sin, the worst thing you can do is stay where you are. God always wants you to come near and he’s eager to free you from shame.

Saying the thing you know you need to say can be really really hard. In this episode we talk about the importance of honesty and how to communicate the truth in love. If you’re looking for deeper, more authentic relationships this episode is for you!

We all have a soundtrack in our head of the things we tell ourselves. It’s vital for us to realize whether the soundtrack in our mind is giving us the truth or feeding us lies. In Jon’s new book he helps us remove and replace lies with the truth! Order his new book here:

https://acuff.me/playlist/

In this week’s episode we talk to legendary Christian artist, Matthew West. We discuss what he’s learned about God’s character through some of the hardest moments of his life. We also talk about the balance of performing for a living, while never wanting your life with Jesus to feel like a “performance”. Grab Matthew’s new book “The God Who Stays” here: https://www.amazon.com/God-Who-Stays-Looks-Different/dp/0785291628

The more you follow Jesus, the easier it can be to feel like you have it figured out. I mean what does it really matter if we miss a day or two (or a week) in the Bible or prayer? In this episode we talk about the necessity of time with Jesus and what it can look like. It’s essential for both for the new follower of Jesus and for the one who has known Him their whole life!

Your young adult years are filled with decisions that feel overwhelming. Everything from who should I marry, to where should I live, to what should I pursue as a career. Sometimes making a decision just feels crippling. In this episode we talk through fear of commitment and how to be more decisive!

Nate Hilgenkamp:
We know that Jesus calls us to forgive, but sometimes forgiveness can be really really hard. In this episode we talk through the process of forgiveness and how you can begin to take steps forward. We also talk through appropriate boundaries after forgiveness has taken place.

The songs you listen to and the shows you watch affect you more than you realize. That’s why it’s so important for us to pay attention to what we pay attention to. In this episode we talk about what you should or shouldn’t consume in regards to media.

Our greatest disappointments in life come from our miss expectations. The problem for many young adults is that their life doesn't go how they expected. In this episode we talk about the life you should want to live, and how to find contentment in any circumstance.

What should you do when the people around you only seem to make you worse? Is it ok to ever cut off a relationship? In this episode we help you make hard decisions and enter into hard conversations. If you’re looking for how to handle a tough friendship this episode is for you!

We’ve heard a lot of you ask about things like manifestation and crystals. In this episode we talk about what they are, and if believers in Jesus should participate. If you’ve ever wondered if these things have power, check out this episode!

In this episode we tackle one of the most asked questions on dating. How important is physical attraction? If you’re looking for a spouse we talk about the role of attraction in marriage and how important it should be in your search!

Since the pandemic have you been feeling more irritable? Tired? Angry? It’s because we’ve all been through a lot! In this episode, we talk to author John Eldredge about how to build up our reserves so we can become more resilient. To get his new book follow this link:

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B09N8XS7Y4/ref=dbs_a_def_awm_bibl_vppi_i0

If God is good, why should I fear him? In this episode we talk about why Scripture says we should fear Him, and why it’s actually for our good. If you e ever struggled with this question, this episode is for you!

We live in a culture where absolute truth is absolutely evaporating. It is widely accepted that everyone has their own truth based on their life experiences. In this episode we talk about what Scripture has to say and how we can know what really is true.

Andy Crouch is an author and commentator on our culture through the lens of a Jesus follower. He specifically has written a game changing book called “The Tech Wise Family”, and we’re confident this book will have a similar impact. In this episode we talk about the importance of community and how technology has changed our relationships. To order Andy’s new book, click here:

https://www.amazon.com/Life-Were-Looking-Relationship-Technological/dp/059323734X/ref=asc_df_059323734X_nodl?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=533224334354&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=12889298266385288890&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=m&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9027505&hvtargid=pla-1467486165035&psc=1&dplnkId=586e9918-a9c6-4587-9596-9eee6dc80e6e

Is God mad at you every time you sin? Many of us feel like God puts up with us rather than actually loving us. In this episode we do our best to clarify who God is and what his intentions are towards you!

How can you tell if you are hearing from God or if it’s just a voice in your head? Is he telling you who to date and you just can’t hear him? Is he telling you where to live but you’re ignoring him? If you’re looking to discern the voice of God in your life, check out this episode!

What’s the right thing to do once you’ve been cheated on? Should you extend grace or immediately break things off? We talk through what it means to be cheated on, and how you can best respond. If you’ve been cheated on, or are looking to help a friend in this situation, this podcast will be helpful for you!

In this week’s episode we talk to Scott Harrison, author and founder of charity: water. Scott is an amazing example of how Jesus can take your mess and turn it into a ministry. He went from nightclub promoter, to the founder of one of the most well known charities in America. To hear more, check out this episode or buy Scott’s book at this link:

https://www.amazon.com/Thirst-Story-Redemption-Compassion-Mission/dp/1524762849/ref=asc_df_1524762849/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=312143020546&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=4836135109016590742&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=m&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=1026867&hvtargid=pla-526985540295&psc=1

In this episode we talk to New York Times Best Selling author, Lisa Bevere about how her perception of God has changed over the course of her life. We discuss how our perception of God affects how we live our lives. We also talk about how to hear from God. To pick up her new book “Fiercely Loved” follow this link:

https://www.amazon.com/Fiercely-Loved-Gods-Thoughts-about/dp/0800741706

We asked our audience at BeSo Live what topic they wanted to hear and this is what the voted on for session 2! In this episode we talk about how to break the cycle of sin in your family. If you’re looking to start fresh from hurts/sins in your family’s past, check out this episode!

Many of you follow JP's Friday Q&A on Instagram but our BeSo Live participants got to ask him questions in person! In this episode, JP covers a wide range of topics and answers the questions that young adults are asking. We hope you enjoyed this as much as we did!

This week’s episode was our first recording from Becoming Something Live in Waco, TX. We let the audience decide what they wanted to hear and they chose contentment. In this episode we cover what it means to be content in your young adult years. If you’re struggling in your career, finances, singleness, or anything else this episode is for you!

One of the most uncomfortable conversations in a dating relationship is when your significant other asks about your past. In this episode we help you think through what to say and how to say it. We also try to help you figure out what you should know from your boyfriend or girlfriend before you marry them. We hope this will help you!

Do you know that Jesus said not all sins can be forgiven? There is one sin that actually cannot be forgiven. In this episode we help you figure out if you’ve committed it. Check out this episode for an in depth explanation!

Don't like your job? You're not alone! Many of us have a job, but don't know why we do it other than to get a paycheck. In this episode we talk about why we work, and how to find purpose in your work. You've got a job to do, so let us help you enjoy it!

When it comes to work, your attitude is everything. In this episode we do our best to give you a biblical perspective on work. You’ve got a purpose whether you’re scooping ice cream or preaching to thousands!

One of the most frequent questions on JP’s Friday Q&A is about masturbation. Is it a sin? And if so, what’s the big deal about it? Why does masturbation affect your relationships? And how can you stop? We cover all of that and more in this week’s episode!

So often in the church world, we form our own Christian bubbles where we don’t have to talk with anyone we disagree with. In this episode, we talk with the founder of The New Evangelicals who recently publicly disagreed with one of our previous podcasts. We reached out to him to have a conversation to show how we can talk through our disagreements.

Our conversation went a little longer than normal so we trimmed this episode for time. To listen to the full un-edited version visit our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCz85jke2lw0mZrI4e7vjg3g

You may not even realize it, but you act as your own brand manager. What that means is you’re in charge of what other people think about you! For many of us, this is crippling because we care deeply about what other people think of us. In this episode we talk about how you can be freed from your need to be perceived a certain way!

One of JP’s all time favorite quotes is, “If dependence is the goal, then weakness is the advantage.” On this week’s episode we talk about why dependence is the goal of our faith and what it practically looks like to be dependent. Don’t let your self-reliance get in the way of a growing faith!

In this week's episode we talk to Jennie Allen, New York Times bestselling author and founder of IF:Gathering, about our need for community. So many of feeling lonely and without community. In Jennie's new book "Find Your People", she explains why community is so important and how you can find your own. This was such a helpful conversation! To order "Find Your People", follow this link: https://www.amazon.com/Find-Your-People-Building-Community/dp/0593193385/ref=asc_df_0593193385/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=532476049386&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=761845783548781472&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=1026867&hvtargid=pla-1459058127287&psc=1

The way we date isn’t working. People are getting married later and getting divorced more often. In this episode we talk about some improvements we can make to the way we date that will impact the health of our relationships. If you’re looking for dating help, look no further!

In this week's episode we talk about the margin in our lives and the busyness of our schedule. We often hide behind our busyness while putting our faith on pause. To hear how that might impact your life, take a listen to this episode!

“Deconstruction” is a buzzword in many Christian circles and we’re here to tell you the potential opportunities and dangers that can be found in deconstruction. If you’re going through a season of doubt or questioning, check out this podcast for a helpful resource!

Helpful resources mentioned in this weeks episode:

becomingsomething.com
gotquestions.org
carm.org
probe.org
bibleproject.org

In this week's episode we talk about the mathematics of following Jesus. What does that mean you ask? Every year, JP subtracts something from his life so that it might add to his faith. To hear how that might impact your life, take a listen to this episode!

Every single day of your life there is a battle for your mind, and we want to make sure you win it. The narrative that the media and social media gives you is rarely the good or godly narrative. In this episode, we do our best to equip you with the tools needed to keep yourself from conforming to the thoughts of this world.

This week we talk to Kyle Idleman who is the Senior Pastor at Southeast Christian Church. We talk with him about what it actually means to influence people. He just released a brand new book called "One at a Time". Pick up the book here: https://www.amazon.com/One-Time-Unexpected-Wants-Change-ebook/dp/B09B2PLJRZ

In this week's episode we compile a lot of listener's questions on sex and give you our answers! If you're looking for an honest conversation on what to expect with sex, check out this episode!

In this week's episode we talk to the one and only Jackie Hill Perry about the topic of holiness. She wrote a brand new book on this topic and we had a great conversation about the character of God, the importance of Scripture, and how holiness is a better way to live. Get her book "Holier Than Thou" here: https://www.amazon.com/Holier-Than-Thou-Holiness-Helps/dp/1535975717/ref=asc_df_1535975717/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=509467422400&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=1380342126140334084&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=1026867&hvtargid=pla-1249227234888&psc=1

This episode comes out the week of Christmas, and for many listeners Christmas means lots and lots of family time. We address what that time should look like when family time typically means conflict. We discuss forgiveness, boundaries, and making the most of time with family.

In this week's episode we talk about whether or not Christians can or should drink alcohol. Is it a sin to be tipsy? Is it a sin to drink around non-Christians? Find out the answers on this episode! (disclaimer: we exchanged gifts at the beginning. If you are just looking for the content on this topic skip ahead to 15:30)

In this episode we talk about how eternity changes your today. If you're a believer in Jesus, you know you're going to Heaven, but what difference does that make on your life right now? Listen to find out!

If you're a guy who is single or dating, we're here to help you lookout for RED FLAGS from any girl you might be interested in. We talk about traits in girls that should make you pause (or even break up). Girls...check out this episode to know the type of woman godly guys are looking for!

If you're a girl who is single or dating, we're here to help you lookout for RED FLAGS from any guy you might be interested in. We talk about traits in guys that should make you pause (or even break up). Guys...check out this episode to know the type of man godly women are looking for!

We're joined by author and podcaster, Jamie Ivey, this week to talk all things identity. We discuss how to get over comparison, how to know your gifts, and how to actually like your gifts. You're going to love hearing from the gift that is Jamie Ivey! You can listen to her podcast "The Happy Hour with Jamie Ivey" or order her books here: https://www.jamieivey.com

Faith is a word that is thrown around in Christian circles, but what does it really mean? What does it mean to have faith? What does it take to grow your faith? And what does faith look like in real life? We answer all of those questions and more on this episode!

Whether it's choosing to leave a job, date a girl, move cities, we'll face a lot of decisions as young adults. In this episode we help you create a plan to help make your decisions better! Check out this episode to protect your decisions from YOU!

In this episode we talk about talking to God. Why should we pray? What does prayer accomplish? We ask all those questions and more to Derwin Gray, who just wrote a fantastic book on prayer called "God, do you hear me?". Pick up the book here: https://www.amazon.com/God-Do-You-Hear-Me/dp/B09HSTP7QS/ref=sr_1_2?dchild=1&keywords=Derwin+gray&qid=1634764557&qsid=147-7132712-8088650&sr=8-2&sres=1535995734%2C1400230489%2C1535995718%2CB00DTX1T1E%2C1535994894%2CB01FGL3ZQI%2CB00QL9LFAS%2CB08ZMBCM7R%2C1535994908%2CB0170ZFFOI%2CB07N96XQ78%2C108775920X%2C0802419755%2C1400221765%2C1400216559%2C1587434709&srpt=ABIS_BOOK

On this weeks episode we cover A LOT of ground on the topic of singleness and dating. Lisa Anderson, who is the director of Boundless at Focus on the Family, joins us to help answer questions y'all have been sending our way. To buy Lisa's book "The Dating Manifesto" click here: https://family.christianbook.com/dating-manifesto-drama-pursuing-marriage-purpose/lisa-anderson/9781434708878/pd/708872?p=1159433&event=ORC

In this episode we talk all things envy and jealousy. How can you combat the desire to have what other people have? How can you learn to celebrate other's successes rather than resent them for it? We address all of that and more on this week's episode!

In this week's episode, we're joined by David Marvin who is the author of the new book "We're All Freaking Out (and why we don't need to)". We have a discussion on anxiety and its' impact on our generation. If you want to pick up a copy of David's book click here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08PYJSTLZ/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1

In this week's episode we talk about how authoritative the Bible should be in our walk with Jesus. Can we trust it? How can we interpret something written thousands of years ago? We answer those questions and more!

The most questions we get from y'all are BY FAR on the topic of dating. We took a few of them and packed them into this podcast. We cover things like DTR's, expectations, dating the wrong person, and more.

This week we talk about the role of the megachurch in the modern church landscape. We've seen many megachurches fall because of leadership that isn't submitted to Jesus. Does that mean megachurches are bad? What makes a church biblical? We talk about all of this and more on this week's episode!

In this week's episode we talk about how feelings and faith interact. Can we trust our feelings? Should we make decisions based off of our feelings? We talk about all of that and more!

In this week's episode we talk about the rise of cynicism within Christianity and if it is at odds with the gospel. How can we be optimistic when things in the world look so grim?

In the Great Commission, Jesus gave us the command to go and make disciples. In this episode we talk about what that practically looks like. What does it mean to make disciples? What does it mean to be discipled? If you want to grow in your faith and help others grow in their faith, check out this episode!

Are you feeling lukewarm in your faith but don't want to be? This episode is for you! Here we describe the characteristics of a lukewarm faith and how to get out of it. We also talk about how to challenge believers in our life who seem to be lukewarm in their walk with Christ.

Whether you've moved to a new city and are looking for a church or are unsatisfied with your current church, we are here to help! In this episode we talk about the characteristics of a healthy church and the things you should keep in mind as you are looking. We also talk about whether streaming services online can count as your church.

Our world is quick to take sides and call names, all the while without actually taking time to listen. In this episode we talk about the term "gaslighting" and how we see it take place in our culture. We also discuss how Christians can respond differently to areas of disagreement.

Shane and Shane!!! We're joined by two legends who talk with us about how they got into leading worship, the meaning of their new album, and why Shane and Shane sing Scripture. Check out their new album, "Psalms, Hymns, and Spiritual Songs" wherever you listen to music!

The workplace is a very different place than it used to be just a decade ago. Working from home and casual workspaces are far more prevalent than ever. In this episode we talk about why professionalism still matters, even in different working environments. JP talks through why professionalism can honor God and love others well. If you have a job, or ever plan to have a job, check out this episode!

In this episode we promise to help make your wedding the most EPIC and INSTAGRAMABLE wedding of the year! Ok...maybe not. But we do try to help you prepare a wedding that will honor God and encourage those around you. We talk everything from budget, to invite list, to what we'd do over for our own weddings. Before you say "I do", check out this episode!

Breakups are never fun, but we are here to try to make it easier on everyone. In this episode we talk about what you need to say during a breakup, and how to know when you should or shouldn't get back together with your ex. This episode will help you when you need it most!

Are we playing harps on a cloud? Will there be golf? Is Heaven in outer space? We talk about all these questions and more on this episode as we discuss what Heaven will be like!

Sometimes you just feel like you've hit a wall when it comes to school, your job, or even a relationship. In this episode, JP talks about how to prevent burnout, and what to do if you're experiencing it. Check out this episode for some fresh perspective on why you do what you do!

In this episode we are joined by special guest to discuss how to follow Jesus in the workplace. John Houston has used his work as a homebuilder as a ministry. We talk about what it looks like to be used by God no matter your choice of career. As Christians we're all in ministry, it just depends on where we do it!

In this episode we discuss the role that fun has in our relationship with Jesus. Many of us have grown up thinking that following Jesus will actually keep us from fun. All we know is a list of rules that tell us to not drink, smoke, or have sex. Is there more to Christianity than that? Check out this episode as we talk about whether living with Jesus makes our life more fun.

In this episode we talk about why we need to be talking about Jesus. For many of us, we feel uncomfortable about sharing our faith and don't even know where to begin. JP gives us step by step instructions on how to ask about faith, how to share your faith, and what to do when it doesn't go well.

Have you ever heard the phrase, "Pride comes before the fall"? Well, it's true! (And biblical: Proverbs 16:18). In this episode we talk about the dangers of pride and how to catch it before it overtakes you. We also discuss how to have humility and why it makes you (and everyone around you!) better.

In this episode we talk with Debra Fileta, who is a licensed professional counselor, about struggling with mental health as a follower of Jesus. We discuss things like how to know when you need help, and steps you can take to find healing. If you or someone you knows struggles with mental health, this episode will be a helpful resource for you!

We all know the commandment "Honor Your Father and Mother", but does that ever expire? What does it look like to honor your parents when you step into adulthood? What if you have really difficult parents? We cover all of that and more on this episode. (And with a surprise appearance from contest winner, Briggs Webster!)

If you're in community with other believers, you'll often be asked to give advice on what to do in a certain situation. In this episode we talk about what it takes to be able to give wise, biblical counsel to those in your life. If you want to grow as a friend, make sure to listen to this episode!

Who goes to Heaven? It's one of the most important questions you'll ever ask! In this episode we talk about how we are saved, and how we can have assurance in our salvation. This podcast is one you'll want to share!

Nate is about to be a Dad and asks JP for some help! So in this episode JP talks about how parenting has helped him understand the love of his Heavenly Father. JP also gives a realistic picture of parenting and why it helps make us more like Jesus. If you are a parent, want to be a parent, or even don't want to be a parent, check out this episode!

What is the line between justice and grace? Is cancel culture biblical? What does reconciliation look like with someone who has hurt you? We talk about those questions and more on this episode!

In this episode we talk about what grit means, and why so many young adults don't have it. Grit is the key to growth in any area of you life. Because of this, we want you to have a gritty faith! To figure out how to have grit, check out this episode!

Food can be such an enjoyable part of life, but that isn't everyone's experience. Some people struggle with eating too much, while others struggle with eating too little. In this episode we talk about things like eating disorders and what it means to glorify God when we eat.

In this episode we talk with author and podcast host, Kait Warman, on how to handle a breakup. When can breakups be good for you? How do you know you are over your ex? We talk about all of that and more on this episode!

Being a young adult can feel like a fragile season of life. When things don't go our way, we are prone to believe lies about our identity and our purpose. In this episode we are joined by Paul Angone who will speak some truth into the lives of young adults.

If you want to buy his book "25 Lies Twentysomethings Need to Stop Believing" click here: https://www.amazon.com/Lies-Twentysomethings-Need-Stop-Believing/dp/1540900703

When JP announced the release of his book "Outdated" he also announced an "arranged marriage" contest. We talk about what that means and why community is so necessary in dating relationships. If you're looking to re-thinking dating, check out this episode!

Outdated releases on March 2nd, and in this episode JP gives us some of the best secrets that he's learned on dating. After being in ministry for over a decade and observing thousands of relationships, JP shares biblical advice on how to date better. If you want to hear a few sneak peaks from his book, check out this episode!

Order Outdated on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/Outdated-Find-Lasts-Dating-Changed/dp/080109495X

Should Christians try online dating? What are the pros and cons to all of the new apps available for dating? We talk about that and more on this episode!

Buy JP's book "Outdated" here: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/080109495X?pf_rd_r=TZAC33T3Z9REFM14GTF9&pf_rd_p=5ae2c7f8-e0c6-4f35-9071-dc3240e894a8&pd_rd_r=b558e5cf-f579-463e-82ec-157e08073057&pd_rd_w=dBPsa&pd_rd_wg=IoAOj&ref_=pd_gw_unk

How can you know when you're ready to date? You may be coming off of a breakup or out of a season of singleness and wondering when you are ready. We're here to help! JP gives you 5 questions to ask yourself to know when you're ready to date again.

Buy JP's book "Outdated" here: https://www.amazon.com/Outdated-Find-Lasts-Dating-Changed/dp/080109495X/ref=sr_1_2?crid=HQFW5ZYY102V&dchild=1&keywords=outdated+jonathan+pokluda&qid=1613070052&sprefix=outdated%2Caps%2C190&sr=8-2

Are you stuck in sin? If not you, surely someone you know who is. John Elmore leads one of the largest recovery ministries in the nation and he drops some WISDOM on this podcast! If you're looking for freedom, John will help lead you to the place where you can find it.

Buy his book "Freedom Starts Today" here: https://www.amazon.com/Freedom-Starts-Today-Overcoming-Addictions/dp/1540900622

We frequently get e-mails from listeners about the topic of video games. Oftentimes, it's girlfriends asking if their boyfriend plays too much. In this episode we talk about if video games are ok to play, and some ideas with how to spend your time more wisely!

Modesty is a word that is often thrown around in church, but a lot of us don't know what it means or why it matters. In this episode we talk about the meaning of modesty and what it looks like for us today.

When it feels like everyone else is dating, it can be difficult to remain content when you are single. In this episode we talk about what to do when you don't enjoy being single, but are. If singleness (or the idea of it) is difficult for you, check out this episode!

How much stuff is too much? How do I know if I struggle with materialism? What are the dangers of materialism? We cover those questions and more on this week's episode!

We are SURE that none of you accomplished your resolutions for 2020. With that crazy year behind us, we're excited for what's in store for 2021. In this episode we talk about our resolutions for this year and what yours should be!

In dating, you're trying to find "the one". This magical person that you were destined to marry since they moment you were born. In this episode we talk about that idea, and if it lines up with Scripture. If you're looking for a husband/wife, we want to help you!

This week we talk about the topic of Spiritual Gifts. Does everyone have them? What are they? How do we use them? We tackle those questions and more on this episode!

On JP's Friday Q&A on Instagram, one of the most frequent questions he's been getting is how to break a soul tie. We use this episode to go more in depth on this topic and discuss if it's even a real thing. We'll also help you know the steps to take to recover from a past relationship.

In this episode we talk to a podcast superstar! Tara-Leigh Cobble has helped thousands of people fall in love with the Bible, and she has released a book called "The Bible Recap" to help you do the same. If you want to grow in your understanding and appreciation of Scripture, this podcast is for you!

Long distance isn't fun, but sometimes it's necessary in a relationship. In this episode we talk about how to grow your relationship even when you're not together. We also discuss potential dangers of long distance, and how to wrestle through not trusting your boyfriend/girlfriend. If you're in a long distance relationship (or might be!) this episode is for you!

What role does our faith play in our own mental health? Does struggling with mental health mean you're not a "good Christian"? We tackle these topics and more on this episode!

In a culture of comparison it's easy to struggle with insecurity. It can seem like everyone is more talented, has more friends, and has more fun. But in this podcast we give you tools to help you fight this battle and find freedom from insecurity!

Many of us struggle finding time to pray, staying attentive in prayer, and even knowing what to say when we pray. We talk about all of that and more in this episode. If you want to grow in your prayer life check this episode out!

Ken Costa, in the words of JP, might be the most successful person you'll ever listen to. He's done a tremendous amount in the business world, but has also chosen to invest much of his life into ministry. Check out this episode to hear how he and JP met (there were tears involved!), and what Ken is learning about the future of the Church.

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Some Christians are having a hard time this year figuring out which candidate should get their vote. In this episode JP and Nate discuss some of the hot button issues and attempt to give you a framework for how you should think about voting. Before you vote, check out this episode!

Is it ok to be just friends with the opposite sex? Should you hang out 1 on 1 with someone who isn't your girlfriend/boyfriend? Those questions and more on this episode of Becoming Something!

We all have goals and aspirations in life, but what should be our most important one? In this episode, JP breaks down why our highest aspiration in life should be to be holy. Find out why by taking a listen!

As Christians we know that the Holy Spirit is supposed to be important, but what does He really do? Does the Holy Spirit only help with things like miracles and speaking in tongues, or can we access Him on a daily basis as well? If you've ever wondered these questions, this episode is for you!

In this episode we talk with influencer Jeanine Amapola. She gives us the Christian perspective of how to follow Jesus, while also trying to influence people. Jeanine shares that she's found that joy comes from Jesus, not from everything this world has to offer. Check out this episode to hear her story!

Young adults were lonely. And that was before 2020 happened! What can young adults do when they feel stuck in a season of loneliness. Listen to this episode to find out!

To drink, or not to drink? In this episode we break down when Christians can and cannot drink. If you've got questions about alcohol, this podcast is for you!

Our country is as divided as we've ever seen it. In such a hostile culture, what can Christians do to pursue unity? In this episode we talk about our role as peace makers and how to confront conflict head on!

When you're trying to follow God before marriage it can feel like He is keeping you from something. In this episode we talk physical boundaries: what they are and why God made them. If you're single, dating, or engaged, this episode is for you!

Kathy is officially on maternity leave, so JP and Nate start their nationwide search to find her replacement. They interview people from Canada, to New York, to Michigan. See how the search played out!

There are only two routes in a dating relationship: you either get married, or you break up. In this episode we answer the most common questions sent in to us about breakups. If you're dating someone and you're on fence (or just looking for the person you shouldn't breakup with), this episode is a must listen!

Everybody seems to have an opinion these days about everything! What happens when we disagree? If you want to grow in your ability to have a disagreement, check out this episode!

The Enneagram is one of the hottest topics in Christianity. Does it line up with Scripture? Can it help us follow Jesus? Listen to this episode to find out!

This week we give you an update on JP's life and the importance of his relationship with Jesus. If you are going through a season of grief, or helping someone through their own season of grief, this podcast is for you.

In this weeks episode we talk about all things stewardship. Even though stewardship is a lame word, it's also a biblical one. If we want to be godly stewards of our lives, we first have to know what it means!

You say thousands of words every day...are you using them well? In this episode we talk about sarcasm, jokes, and intentional conversations. If you want to get better with your words, don't miss this episode!

We all know we should, but not many of us actually do! In this episode we want to help you become a person of prayer. If you struggle with making time to pray or knowing what to pray for, you won't want to miss this episode!

On this week's episode we talk about how to live an authentic life. We want to keep you from a life of regret and shame, and authenticity is one of the steps to get there. If you want to live in freedom, check out this episode!

How in the world does JP have so much Scripture memorized? In this episode, we pick his brain and see if he has any tips on how to internalize Scripture. If you're looking to grow in your understanding of the Bible, don't miss this episode!

In this week's episode, we talk about talking behind people's backs! We discuss what the the problem is with it and how we can change. Don't miss this podcast!

Costi Hinn, the nephew of famous televangelist Benny Hinn, comes on the pod to share his history with the prosperity gospel. Costi also appeared on the documentary "American Gospel" and shares his thoughts on the current state of the Church in America.

How has COVID changed the church? In this episode we talk about whether or not church attendance has shifted forever, and whether or not you need to be a member in a local body. Don't miss this episode!

What will our interactions with technology be like after COVID-19 has passed us? Should we utilize the way that tech/social media has helped our lives, or should we have some resistance?

In this episode, we catch up with a Bachelor legend! Ben Higgins joins us to discuss his journey of faith, how he's using his platform, and the importance of coffee. Take a listen!

We call Bryan Carter who is the Senior Pastor of Concord Church in Dallas, Texas. Bryan has held that role for 15 years and also sits on the board of a number of high impact organizations. Take a listen!

Propaganda is an author, spoken word artist, and deep thinker. We get to hear about what he's up to, and how he's processing our current reality. Give it a listen!

Brad Jones is one of the pastors at Passion City Church in Atlanta, GA. Brad has been on the forefront of the Passion movement, and we get to hear about how their church is mobilizing in this season!

We catch up with the legendary Michael Todd! He just released a new book called "Relationship Goals" and he gives a sneak peak of what he's written. Don't miss this episode!

In this episode we talk to Dallas Jenkins who is the director of the hit series called "The Chosen". This series details the life of Jesus and it will be a game changer for your faith! Take a listen to hear the behind the scenes story of how it came to be.

In this episode of Becoming Something, JP interviews Clayton King, author and founder of Clayton King Ministries. They talk all things dating and also discuss why Clayton is so excited about his new book, Reborn. Take a listen!

In this season it's so easy for us to become apathetic. Since we've got nowhere to go and nothing to do, we can fall into watching Netflix for hours. In this episode we discuss how to discipline yourself for godliness and give you the second part of our conversation with Micah Tyler!

Micah Tyler is one of the leading artists within Christian music. His songs have millions of plays on Spotify and can be heard on the radio all across the country. We ask him about his journey and what he's learned along his (very unusual!) path.

Scott Drew is the longtime head coach of the Baylor Bears basketball team. He led them to a number 1 ranking this past year and we ask him how he's coping with their season being cut short. You'll be encouraged by his optimism!

Sean Lowe is a former contestant on The Bachelor who was famously known for his love for Jesus. We ask him what advice he has for singles in this season, what Chris Harrison is really like, and more!

Tara-Leigh Cobble is the founder of D-Group and writer and host of The Bible Recap Podcast. She has helped thousands of people grow in their love for Scripture, and we get to hear how it all happened!

Jason Castro is a former contestant on American Idol (4th place finish!). He's also a believer in Jesus and we catch up on how he's processing this season of life.

Matt Chandler is the lead pastor of The Village Church and the president of the Acts 29 network. Matt is the author of The Explicit Gospel and is one of the most listened to pastors in America.

Christian Huff and his wife Sadie Robertson Huff are young adults leading other young adults to Jesus. They just completed their 2020 College Tour where they shared the gospel at campuses all across the United States.

Clayton King is the teaching pastor at NewSpring Church and the president of Clayton King Ministries. His new book "Reborn" releases on May 5th!

Adam Tarnow is the Director at Watermark Community Church. Adam is a leading thinker on communication in the Church. We had him on to discuss how COVID-19 is changing the landscape for churches across the country.

Shane Barnard is one of the Shanes from Shane & Shane. Churches all across the country have benefited from Shane Barnard's music for nearly two decades. We caught him as he was writing a brand new song!

Tedashii is one of the leading Christian rappers in America. His music has millions of listens on Spotify and has impacted a generation. We check in on what Tedashii is up to!

Jamie Ivey is the host of The Happy Hour podcast and the author of multiple books. She and her husband Aaron Ivey live in Austin, Texas. We check in on how she's doing in this season!

In this week's episode we talk about how the internet has changed the dating game. Is DM'ing someone ok? What about ghosting? We address those issues and more!

Todd Wagner is the Senior Pastor of Watermark Community Church in Dallas, Texas and author of "Come and See". Check out what he had to say!

Jennie Allen is the founder of IF: Gathering, author of "Get Out of Your Head", and host of the "Made for This" podcast. Check out what Jennie had to say about our current situation!

Preach McSneaks is the man behind the instagram account "Preachers N Sneakers". He talks about materialism, criticism, and cynicism. Check out our conversation!

Annie F. Downs is the host of the "That Sounds Fun" podcast and author of multiple books. We call her as she's in the middle of her own quarantine!

David Marvin is the leader of The Porch, the young adults ministry out of Watermark Community Church in Dallas, Texas. The Porch is a weekly gathering of thousands of young adults all across the country. Check out David's thoughts on anxiety in quarantine!

Shane & Shane need no introduction. They have been writing and leading songs for The Church for nearly 20 years. Jefferson Bethke is the author of "To Hell With The Hustle" and co-host of "The Real Life Podcast". Check out how these leaders are handling today's situation!

Ben Stuart is the pastor of Passion City Church, Washington D.C. Timothy Ateek is the Executive Director of Breakaway Ministries at Texas A&M. Breakaway is one of the largest weekly gatherings of college students in the country. Check out how they are thinking through life in quarantine!

In this week's episode we're talking all about how to reach the next generation. As people in their 20-30's are leaving the church, we want to change that. JP just released a new book called "Welcoming the Future Church", and we discuss how to impact young adults with the gospel.

Do you feel stuck in singleness or your dating relationship? We're here to help you feel unstuck in whatever situation you're currently in. God has a purpose for every season of your life!

When you're looking for who to date, how important is physical attraction and chemistry? On this episode, we help you find the answers to that question!

When is the last time you thought about what you think about? Many times our thoughts can lead us to a place we don't want to be. This week we are talking about how to remove unhelpful thoughts and replace them with God honoring ones!

"Be strong and courageous" is a theme throughout the Bible, the only question is, how do we do that?? In this episode we talk about how to become more courageous so you can do whatever God has called you to accomplish.

We've all done things that we regret, but does shame have to follow us our whole lives? On this week's episode we talk about how to overcome shame and where we can find freedom from our past.

One of the most important questions for you to answer in your young adult years is "What's my purpose?" If you don't feel like you've got clarity, we're here to help! Check out what the Bible has to say about why you exist and why your life has purpose.

We're talking about money, money, money! How much should we save? How much should we spend? How much should we share? All of those questions are answered on this week's episode!

Most of us just have too many things on our schedules. We're busy and tired and we don't know what to do. Well, we're here to help! Check out this podcast for wisdom on how to simplify your life!

As you get older, you tend to grow less and less optimistic. In this episode, we talk about why that is, and whether or not cynicism is compatible with Christianity. If you feel surrounded by negativity, then check out this episode!

Are you a Christian? Your immediate reaction is probably yes. But some of us have learned the wrong definition of what it means to be a Christian. Check out this episode and we pray it helps you follow Jesus!

In this week's episode, we're talking all about New Year's Resolutions! We discuss what resolutions you should make, why our resolutions fail, and how to maintain discipline. We hope this podcast helps your 2020!

Christmastime is one of the hardest times of the year to be grateful! We're bombarded with so many things we think we need that we lose sight of everything we already have. In this episode we talk about how you can grow in your gratitude.

Many of us have heard the phrase "Choose Joy," but how is that even possible? In this week's episode, we talk about what joy is and where we can go to find it.

With the Christmas season fast approaching, many of us will be spending increasing amounts of time with family. We are here to help! In this episode, we talk about how to make family time more meaningful for you this season.

Many of us are running at a pace of life that simply isn't sustainable. We're always a little tired and always have a little too much on our to-do list. In this week's episode, we're here to help you get a hold of your life and slow things down.

In this week's episode we wanted you to learn the do's and don't's of dating and marriage from people who have been there and done that. JP and Monica spend time unpacking all that God has taught them throughout their years together. Don't miss their story!

In this bonus episode of Becoming Something, we're sharing a live Q&A done at our church. These questions were sent in by young adults who are trying to figure out how to date biblically. JP and Kathy share answers to questions that you're probably asking!

In this episode, we talk about the importance of reading the Bible on our faith. We'll equip you with what to read, when to read, and how to read it. Don't miss this episode!

In this week's episode, we talk about how to get out of a sin you've been struggling with for a long time. If you're tired of where you're at and want to take steps towards freedom, this podcast is for you!

In this week's episode, we address all the issues that come with comparison. We've all heard that comparison is the thief of joy, but how do we overcome it? Check out this episode for some Biblical wisdom on how to quit playing the comparison game!

In this week's episode, we talk about all things related to sex. Why do you have to wait until marriage? What does sex in marriage look like? What creates good sex? We even brought a special guest! Don't miss this episode!

In this week's episode we talk about how to biblically recover from heartbreak. We've all been there...and we all want to help you through this season in your life! If you need some encouragement today, check out this episode!

We hear it over and over again in young adult ministry...girls are frustrated with guys! Guys aren't asking girls out and in this podcast we try to figure out why that is. If you're a guy looking for advice or a girl looking to better understand, check out this episode!

On this week's episode of Becoming Something we admit that many people don't even know what they are looking for. Rather than dating aimlessly, let us help you date with a purpose! This episode will help you know if your bf/gf is the one, or if they've got some work to do! Don't date without listening to this podcast!

In this week's episode, we tackle the ever popular idea of self-care. We take some time debunking culture's idea of self-care, and replace it with things that will actually fill us up. You won't want to miss this episode!

Anxiety is at the highest levels they've ever been among young adults. On this week's episode we talk about why that is, and how to find a fix for it. If you're needing to find some peace of mind, check out this episode!

In this weeks episode we talk about how to start a spiritual conversation with people who don't know, or don't care about Jesus. Evangelism can feel awkward, but JP has some tips that will make it feel normal! If you know someone who doesn't know Jesus, you need to listen to this episode!

On this week's episode we talk about the necessity of mentoring. Do you need a one on one relationship with someone older in order to grow in your faith? We talk about the benefits of mentoring, but also some surprising downsides!

Discipline is something that everybody wants, but it feels like nobody actually has. In this episode we talk about the importance of discipline and how to grow in your love for it. If you're still trying to succeed in your New Year's resolution, this is for you!

School is back in session! With classes starting back up, that means parties will be as well. On this week's episode we talk about what the Bible has to say about partying, alcohol, and how to have fun. Take a listen!

This week we looked at some of the common mistakes that people make in dating. We address what not to look for, what not to do, and how not to pursue. We hope this episode keeps you from making these same mistakes!

Everybody wants it...not everybody finds it. If you're looking for love, we hope this podcast will help you find it. Not some cheap knock-off. But the real thing. Check out this episode if you want to hear more!

In this week's episode we let y'all determine the topics! We answer a number of questions that you have asked us including: Can Christians have tattoos? Predestination or Free Will? Are Catholics Christians? Find the answers to those questions and more on this episode!

This week's episode is all about those four-letter words! JP talks about whether or not Christians can or can't cuss. Don't miss this episode all about ****!

On this week's episode we talk about 10 things that we wish we knew when we were 22. It's our hope that you learn from our mistakes so that you don't have to make the same ones!

On this week's episode we talk all about failure! Most of us are so afraid of failure, even though failure can be one of the greatest tools towards growth. JP talks about how to recover from failure and how it can become a part of your story!

What happens when you don't feel like following Jesus? When reading the Bible just feels like a chore? In this episode we give you some keys to help you break out of your dry season. If you are struggling with your faith right now, or you know someone who is, this episode is for you!

In this week's episode of Becoming Something we talk all about media consumption. From Netflix, to movies, to TV, to instagram, media is all around us. We try to help you set some guidelines of what you should and shouldn't watch. Forget about your Netflix binge and check out this episode!

On this episode we talk about church! As more and more people stop going to church, we try to answer why this might be. We believe that the church is essential for your growth as a Christian because you don't just go to church, you are The Church!

In this week's episode we talk about the importance of friendships and how you can deepen your relationships with those around you. We talk about how to have meaningful community no matter where you're at. If you're struggling to find community, take a listen to this episode!

In this week's podcast we take on a topic that is extremely timely in nature. Our culture is having serious debates about abortion and we think the Church needs to step up and lead in this dialogue. Check out this episode to see how Christians should respond to this issue!
CORRECTION: We sincerely apologize for an incorrect stat given in this episode on when the majority of abortions take place. The majority do not happen after 21 weeks.

In this week's episode of Becoming Something we're talking about people pleasing! When the opinion of other people is what we live for, we'll end up exhausted. We talk about the dangers of people pleasing, what it looks like, and how to free yourself from it. We pray it helps you!

The vast majority of people in life will go through a break-up and they aren't easy! There are tons of questions surrounding break-ups like: How do you break-up with your boyfriend or girlfriend? How do you recover from a break-up? How can you help a friend with their break-up? All of these questions and more are addressed in this week's episode!

On this episode we talk about some of the common problems young adults have when they enter the workplace. What do you do when you have a bad boss? How do you lead up? Is any job a ministry? We talk about all of these questions and more!

On this week's episode we discuss the problems that arise with an incorrect view of Body Image. We believe that a biblical view of your body will help you be healthier in all areas of you life! Even if you don't struggle with body image, we provide tips on how to serve others well in this area!

This week we discuss one of the topics that Jesus talked about the most...money! How should Christians handle money? How can we free ourselves from the love of money? Those questions and more are addressed on this week's episode of Becoming Something!

In this week's episode, we tackle one of the things we spend a lot of our time consuming. JP answers how social media has changed us, and how we can learn to not be overcome by it. Don't miss this episode!

In this episode of Becoming Something we talk about some of the common misconceptions about singleness. JP explains why singleness can actually be a gift, and how it can be one of the best seasons of your life. If you're single, know anyone who is single, or ever have been single, this episode is for you!

Have you ever been trying to make a decision and just wished God made things more clear? Us too! On this episode we try to help you figure out what God's will is for your life so you can be more confident in the decisions you have to make.

In this week's episode we talk about what it is that guys should be looking for in a girl. If you are single or dating, this podcast will be helpful! Girls, make sure to tune in to hear who you should be becoming!

In this episode of Becoming Something we discuss the important characteristics in a guy. If you are a girl, you need to listen to this episode! And if you're a guy, you REALLY need to listen to this episode!

On this episode of "Becoming Something" we talk about the rising amounts of stress in college students and young adults. Is there any way to avoid stress in our hyper-competitive and comparison obsessed world? Tune in to find out!

In this week's episode we ask JP what it looks like to daily grow in our love for Jesus. He says it's far more exciting than how we typically describe it. Check out this episode if you are looking to be challenged in your faith!

In this episode we address everyone's greatest fear...conflict! Even though conflict can be uncomfortable we believe it is a training ground for deeper relationships. Check out this episode for more!

On this week's episode of Becoming Something we talk about the dangers of porn and how to overcome it. Although it is one of the most pervasive problems in our generation, we believe that you can find freedom from this struggle!

A live Q&A on relationships with Jonathan Pokluda. This conversation took place at the Waco Hippodrome Theater on February 10. Since it was recorded in a unique setting, it will be helpful to turn up the volume during the interview!

A preview of what's to come with "Becoming Something."