How to Propose a Man to Be Your Boyfriend – A Biblical Approach Based on Naomi’s Strategy (Ruth chapter 3 verses 1 to 9 “Welcome to Dating Relationships Divinely, where we uncover godly wisdom for love, dating, and marriage. Have you ever wondered if it’s okay for a woman to take the first step in expressing her feelings to a man she admires? Many believe a man should always initiate, but what if the Bible offers a different perspective?” Should a Woman Propose to a Man? “In today’s world, relationships are evolving, and women often ask—‘Is it okay for a woman to express interest in a man biblically?’ The answer is YES—when done with wisdom, respect, and faith.” Ruth chapter 3 verse 9 – "Spread your garment over me, for you are a redeemer." Do you believe a woman can take the first step in a relationship? Comment ‘YES’ or ‘NO’ and let’s discuss! Naomi’s Strategy – A Biblical Blueprint for Proposing “Naomi, Ruth’s mother-in-law, gave her wise advice on how to approach Boaz for a serious, godly relationship. Here are four key steps women can apply when expressing interest in a man.” 1. Prepare Yourself First – Ruth chapter 3 verse 3 Naomi instructed Ruth: "Wash yourself, anoint yourself, and put on your best clothes." Modern Application: Work on your spiritual, emotional, and personal growth before entering a relationship. 2. Be Strategic – Ruth chapter 3 verse 4 Naomi advised Ruth to wait for the right moment to speak to Boaz. Modern Application: Timing is key—observe if he is ready for a relationship and choose a comfortable setting for the conversation. 3. Be Bold but Respectful – Ruth chapter 3 verses 7 to 9 Ruth approached Boaz humbly, asking him to "spread his garment over her," symbolizing protection and commitment. Modern Application: Express your feelings directly and gracefully while valuing the man’s leadership and godliness. 4. Trust God’s Plan – Ruth chapter 3 verses 10 to 11 Boaz appreciated Ruth’s approach and saw her as a virtuous woman. Modern Application: A God-fearing man will respond with honor and respect when approached prayerfully and wisely. Which of these steps do you think is most important? Comment below! Other Biblical Examples of Women Expressing Interest “Naomi’s strategy wasn’t the only time a woman played an active role in a biblical love story. Let’s look at a few more examples!” 1. Rebekah & Isaac – Genesis chapter 24 verses 58 to 67 Rebekah willingly accepted Isaac’s hand in marriage and left her home in faith. Lesson: If a woman senses a godly man is interested, she should be open and responsive to a committed relationship. 2. Esther & King Ahasuerus – Esther chapter 5 verses 1 to 3 Esther boldly approached the king, but she did so with wisdom, timing, and preparation. Lesson: Women can make their desires known in a wise and respectful manner. 3. The Proverbs 31 Woman – Proverbs chapter 31 verses 10 to 31 She was described as industrious, wise, and a blessing to her husband. Lesson: A woman should bring value and godly character into a relationship before proposing. Which biblical love story inspires you the most? Drop your answer in the comments! How to Propose a Man to Be Your Boyfriend “Now that we’ve seen biblical examples, let’s talk about how you can apply these principles in a real-life proposal to ask a man to be your boyfriend.” Step-by-Step Guide to Proposing to a Man: 1. Pray First 🙏 2. Choose the Right Moment & Setting 🕰️ 3. Express Your Interest Clearly & Gently 💬 4. Highlight What You Admire About Him 💖 5. Allow Him Time to Respond ⏳ 6. Trust God's Will, Whether He Says Yes or No 🕊️ Proverbs chapter 16 verse 9 – "A man's heart plans his way, but the Lord directs his steps." What’s the most important quality you’d look for in a godly boyfriend? Let’s chat in the comments! “Taking the first step in a relationship can be scary, but when done with prayer, wisdom, and respect, it can lead to a beautiful, God-ordained love story.” Proverbs chapter 3 verses 5 to 6 – "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding." "Lord, thank You for guiding us in our relationships. Help us to trust You, be bold yet wise, and always seek partners who honor You. Amen." WATCH NEXT: “How to Know If He’s the One – Biblical Signs of a Godly Husband” Like, Subscribe & Share! “Until next time, trust God’s plan for your love life!”